Bie Ming pointed to the green tree on the right side of the castle: "The tree on the right is me."
Lin Lu frowned at first, after listening to Bie Ming's explanation, and then looking at the green trees of the castle in the sandbox, he suddenly became enlightened.It turned out that Bie Ming was not as fragile as she thought, and even stronger than all the depressed patients she had seen.
Mao Shishi asked: "The tree on the left is me?"
Bie Ming nodded: "It's you."
Mao Shishi was a little proud, and Jiang Erge's resentful face suddenly appeared in his mind.
I thought, okay, don't call this kid and still know how to be grateful.Knowing who took pains to take care of him during his saddest period, and knowing whom to repay in the future.
"The castle mold symbolizes vicissitudes and depression. I thought Bie Ming was hiding in the castle, just like you told me, huddled alone in a dark room." Lin Lu smiled relievedly at Mao Shixi, "Mao Shiyi Eleven, did you follow what I said, and successfully helped Bie Ming leave the room he had been relying on?"
Mao Shiyi was still narcissistic just now, he didn't catch the words thrown by Lin Lu all of a sudden, looked at the two trees in a daze and nodded with a half understanding.
He held Bie Ming's hand all the time, followed Lin Lu's words and said "hmmm", and then asked, "What does that mean? Why can't I see anything? Are you a god who can read minds?"
Lin Lu replied with a smile, this is the charm of psychology.
Then he analyzed it to him: "This work shows that Bie Ming has come out of the small world he has set for himself, and now he is standing with you, guarding the castle in a relatively large space.
Mao Shishi said: "Isn't this all right?"
Lin Lu shook his head: "How can it be so easy to completely cure depression? You see, the space you are in is still closed, surrounded by sea water, and there is no boat or any means of transportation to take you out of here, which shows that he is still right. There's a lot of fear and doubt in the bigger world out there."
"Doctor Lin," Bie Ming, who was standing behind, raised his hand quietly, and then put it down when Lin Lu looked at him, and finally asked a question that he hadn't understood for a long time, "You said I have Walked out of the castle, why should I keep the castle?"
Lin Lu gestured to him to stand in front of his Hakoniwa work: "It reflects your inner and unconscious world, so of course you have to ask yourself."
"I do not know."
"On the one hand, it's because you have just walked out of the dark room that has protected you for more than ten years, that is, the castle. Even if you have a friend who is enough for you to trust, you will still have nostalgia for that protective circle deep in your heart. This can reflect your inner ability to bear, and your sense of belief in this trust is still very fragile. If something happens to the outside world, you will most likely abandon your current progress and return to the castle."
Bie Ming was obviously taken aback when he heard such an explanation.Immediately, his eyes showed anxiety and uneasiness, and he turned his head to look at Mao Shiyi, as if he wanted to ask for his reasons.
Although he didn't want to admit what Lin Lu said, it was the truth.
He was injured at Mao Shiyi's place, and also at Jiang Erge's.Therefore, the purest and most whole-hearted trust in the bottom of his heart has never been able to be delivered so frankly and easily.He was afraid that he would be injured again, and even more afraid that he would have nowhere to hide after being injured, so he left himself a way out.
Mao Shishi is so smart, so he naturally thought of Bie Ming's worries, and he nodded to Bie Ming: "I understand."
Lin Lu was worried that these words of his would cause Bie Ming a psychological burden, so he comforted him: "Bie Ming, it's not a bad thing to leave a way out for yourself. People with weak hearts should know how to protect themselves from harm. You did a great job. "
Bie Ming lowered his head and looked at his toes, as if he had made a huge mistake.
Mao Shishi stepped forward and held Bie Ming in his arms from behind, with his left hand on the back of Bie Ming's hand held in front of his abdomen, and his right hand around his shoulder, with the palm under Bie Ming's left collarbone and shoulder socket He patted him lightly, and brought his mouth close to his ear to comfort him softly.
Out of his professional ethics, Lin Lu controlled his expression very well, and did not take out his mobile phone to take pictures of the two.
Mao Shishi looked at Lin Lu: "What about the other side?"
Lin Lu's eyes quickly dodged for a moment, and then he followed the above words in an orderly manner.
She continued: "On the other hand, it points to the reason for Bie Ming's status quo that is suppressed and hidden in this castle. This is a secret he doesn't want to mention to the outside world. But now, Mao Shiyi, you already know, so he You are invited to guard this secret with him. It also shows that the pain of the past has affected him too deeply and deeply."
"That doesn't mean that the castle of Bie Ming will never disappear?"
Mao Shishi finally understood the meaning expressed by the whole work, but more puzzles emerged.
"Yes. Childhood is a very important period in a person's life. Like adolescence, their impact on people must be with them for life. But we can minimize their negative impact until it is included in the depths of memory."
As Lin Lu replied, he went to the cabinet next to him and took down the other two castle models, one pink was too big and the other sandy yellow was too small.
"Let's look at two, and then compare Bie Ming's castle. The color of Bie Ming's castle is more obvious on the sand, and it is very similar to the color of the ocean. The ocean is both gentle and violent, both tolerant and dangerous , but more is unknown.”
castle?blue?ocean?unknown?
"Huh???" Mao Shishi said he was in a daze.
"Humans can explore the ocean, but they can't see the whole picture, let alone understand the secrets hidden in the ocean in a short period of time. Here, the ocean represents Bie Ming's knot, his heart, his secrets, and his castle. It's open, and he needs you to understand bit by bit, not let him tell you. Do you understand?"
Mao Shishi hugged Bie Ming tighter, and said in a low voice, "I understand."
A tear fell from Bie Ming's eyes without warning, sticking to the back of the hand he held with Mao Shiyi, trembling and refusing to leave.
Lin Lu closed the information recorded in his hand, stood up and faced the two of them: "I have almost finished the analysis, do you have any questions, or is there anything else that I need to answer?"
Bie Ming shook his head.
Mao Shishi let go of Bie Ming, moved two steps to the side, stared straight at the model of the castle, and shook his head in the same way.
Lin Lu saw that both of them were in a dull state, so he asked them to sit down, and gave Bie Ming the fruit plate on his desk: "The world shown by Bie Ming is good or bad, but I haven't Do you want to treat you? Why are you so depressed?"
"Isn't this therapy?"
"Of course this is not therapy, but it can be considered healing. This is the first time you have come here, and we have chatted face-to-face. As a psychotherapist, the first thing to do is to get to know your patients deeply first, and then Only then can the right medicine be prescribed.”
The corners of Bie Ming's eyes were still wet, but there was no sadness in his eyes.
He raised his head and looked at Lin Lu, and asked, "Am I serious? Is it a cure? Or forget it, I know it will be like this, it's no different from when I was in high school."
Lin Lu sat next to Bie Ming, leaned slightly sideways, and was at Bie Ming's line of sight: "Of course not."
"Isn't it?"
Lin Lu smiled and said: "I haven't even started the treatment yet, you walked out of the 'castle' by yourself and almost recovered. If you say that you are too serious to be cured, then I really don't know. A teacher should be called incompetent."
She was worried that Bie Ming would not believe her words, so she pulled his wrist and came to the treatment box: "Look, there are already green trees in your world, and they show strong vitality that is not easy to destroy. And one of these two powerful symbols of life force is entirely yours."
"Then I..."
"As long as you follow me, follow Mao Shishi, there is no problem at all."
Bie Ming said: "Okay."
"Good boy." Lin Lu patted him on the shoulder and blurted out. After realizing that he had made a slip of the tongue, he quickly smiled and said, "Don't ming, the last step is to dismantle your own work and return this sandbox to its most primitive state. state. Then I ask you now, are you willing to dismantle it yourself?"
Bie Ming looked at Mao Shishi, then turned to look at his own castle, opened his mouth, and fell silent without hesitation.
"It's okay." Lin Lu comforted, "but I want to make it clear to you that even if you don't want to dismantle it, after you leave, I will do it myself and restore it to its original state. I need to let you know that I won't keep you A world made."
"I want to tear it apart myself."
"it is good."
Lin Lu retreated to Mao Shishi, silently observing Bie Ming's movements and the order in which he dismantled the models.Although Bie Ming's world is very simple, with only three models, the order in which he dismantled it can still reflect some problems.
Generally speaking, the earlier the removal, the more the patient thinks that the problem that bothers him needs to be solved urgently.
Bie Ming first put the castle back to its original place, then took the two green trees representing him and Mao Shiyi together in his hands, and put them back on the cabinet.In the end, the "isolated island" in the middle was gently smoothed to the surroundings, and the two lands separated by the "ocean" finally merged together.
Lin Lu thought, in fact, deep down in his heart, he still desires to reconcile with this world...
With a voice that Lin Lu could only hear clearly, Mao Shishi asked in a very low voice: "Is I really as important to Bie Ming as it is shown in that picture?"
Lin Lu said: "I don't know how you view the relationship with Bie Ming. But in my opinion, Bie Ming has established a very close relationship with you. I don't know if you have noticed that he is very dependent on you, like a child depends on you. Like their own mother. Many children will regard their mother as their only one.”
"He actually regarded me as his mother?!"
"I didn't mean that, I just made a metaphor."
The expression on Mao Shishi's face was a bit complicated. It could be seen that he was particularly disgusted with Lin Lu's metaphor: "Then what do you mean?"
"I mean he is very dependent on you. He was able to walk out of that castle entirely because of you." Lin Lu raised his eyebrows at Mao Shiyi, and the corners of his mouth raised a bit more gossip, " Hey, I'm serious, didn't you notice that Bie Ming was using his Hakoniwa work to express his love to you?"
Mao Shiyi frantically shook his head.
"What? It's so obvious that you didn't see it?" Lin Lu didn't know the truth this time, and frowned tightly, "Don't you like Bie Ming?"
Lin Lu frowned at first, after listening to Bie Ming's explanation, and then looking at the green trees of the castle in the sandbox, he suddenly became enlightened.It turned out that Bie Ming was not as fragile as she thought, and even stronger than all the depressed patients she had seen.
Mao Shishi asked: "The tree on the left is me?"
Bie Ming nodded: "It's you."
Mao Shishi was a little proud, and Jiang Erge's resentful face suddenly appeared in his mind.
I thought, okay, don't call this kid and still know how to be grateful.Knowing who took pains to take care of him during his saddest period, and knowing whom to repay in the future.
"The castle mold symbolizes vicissitudes and depression. I thought Bie Ming was hiding in the castle, just like you told me, huddled alone in a dark room." Lin Lu smiled relievedly at Mao Shixi, "Mao Shiyi Eleven, did you follow what I said, and successfully helped Bie Ming leave the room he had been relying on?"
Mao Shiyi was still narcissistic just now, he didn't catch the words thrown by Lin Lu all of a sudden, looked at the two trees in a daze and nodded with a half understanding.
He held Bie Ming's hand all the time, followed Lin Lu's words and said "hmmm", and then asked, "What does that mean? Why can't I see anything? Are you a god who can read minds?"
Lin Lu replied with a smile, this is the charm of psychology.
Then he analyzed it to him: "This work shows that Bie Ming has come out of the small world he has set for himself, and now he is standing with you, guarding the castle in a relatively large space.
Mao Shishi said: "Isn't this all right?"
Lin Lu shook his head: "How can it be so easy to completely cure depression? You see, the space you are in is still closed, surrounded by sea water, and there is no boat or any means of transportation to take you out of here, which shows that he is still right. There's a lot of fear and doubt in the bigger world out there."
"Doctor Lin," Bie Ming, who was standing behind, raised his hand quietly, and then put it down when Lin Lu looked at him, and finally asked a question that he hadn't understood for a long time, "You said I have Walked out of the castle, why should I keep the castle?"
Lin Lu gestured to him to stand in front of his Hakoniwa work: "It reflects your inner and unconscious world, so of course you have to ask yourself."
"I do not know."
"On the one hand, it's because you have just walked out of the dark room that has protected you for more than ten years, that is, the castle. Even if you have a friend who is enough for you to trust, you will still have nostalgia for that protective circle deep in your heart. This can reflect your inner ability to bear, and your sense of belief in this trust is still very fragile. If something happens to the outside world, you will most likely abandon your current progress and return to the castle."
Bie Ming was obviously taken aback when he heard such an explanation.Immediately, his eyes showed anxiety and uneasiness, and he turned his head to look at Mao Shiyi, as if he wanted to ask for his reasons.
Although he didn't want to admit what Lin Lu said, it was the truth.
He was injured at Mao Shiyi's place, and also at Jiang Erge's.Therefore, the purest and most whole-hearted trust in the bottom of his heart has never been able to be delivered so frankly and easily.He was afraid that he would be injured again, and even more afraid that he would have nowhere to hide after being injured, so he left himself a way out.
Mao Shishi is so smart, so he naturally thought of Bie Ming's worries, and he nodded to Bie Ming: "I understand."
Lin Lu was worried that these words of his would cause Bie Ming a psychological burden, so he comforted him: "Bie Ming, it's not a bad thing to leave a way out for yourself. People with weak hearts should know how to protect themselves from harm. You did a great job. "
Bie Ming lowered his head and looked at his toes, as if he had made a huge mistake.
Mao Shishi stepped forward and held Bie Ming in his arms from behind, with his left hand on the back of Bie Ming's hand held in front of his abdomen, and his right hand around his shoulder, with the palm under Bie Ming's left collarbone and shoulder socket He patted him lightly, and brought his mouth close to his ear to comfort him softly.
Out of his professional ethics, Lin Lu controlled his expression very well, and did not take out his mobile phone to take pictures of the two.
Mao Shishi looked at Lin Lu: "What about the other side?"
Lin Lu's eyes quickly dodged for a moment, and then he followed the above words in an orderly manner.
She continued: "On the other hand, it points to the reason for Bie Ming's status quo that is suppressed and hidden in this castle. This is a secret he doesn't want to mention to the outside world. But now, Mao Shiyi, you already know, so he You are invited to guard this secret with him. It also shows that the pain of the past has affected him too deeply and deeply."
"That doesn't mean that the castle of Bie Ming will never disappear?"
Mao Shishi finally understood the meaning expressed by the whole work, but more puzzles emerged.
"Yes. Childhood is a very important period in a person's life. Like adolescence, their impact on people must be with them for life. But we can minimize their negative impact until it is included in the depths of memory."
As Lin Lu replied, he went to the cabinet next to him and took down the other two castle models, one pink was too big and the other sandy yellow was too small.
"Let's look at two, and then compare Bie Ming's castle. The color of Bie Ming's castle is more obvious on the sand, and it is very similar to the color of the ocean. The ocean is both gentle and violent, both tolerant and dangerous , but more is unknown.”
castle?blue?ocean?unknown?
"Huh???" Mao Shishi said he was in a daze.
"Humans can explore the ocean, but they can't see the whole picture, let alone understand the secrets hidden in the ocean in a short period of time. Here, the ocean represents Bie Ming's knot, his heart, his secrets, and his castle. It's open, and he needs you to understand bit by bit, not let him tell you. Do you understand?"
Mao Shishi hugged Bie Ming tighter, and said in a low voice, "I understand."
A tear fell from Bie Ming's eyes without warning, sticking to the back of the hand he held with Mao Shiyi, trembling and refusing to leave.
Lin Lu closed the information recorded in his hand, stood up and faced the two of them: "I have almost finished the analysis, do you have any questions, or is there anything else that I need to answer?"
Bie Ming shook his head.
Mao Shishi let go of Bie Ming, moved two steps to the side, stared straight at the model of the castle, and shook his head in the same way.
Lin Lu saw that both of them were in a dull state, so he asked them to sit down, and gave Bie Ming the fruit plate on his desk: "The world shown by Bie Ming is good or bad, but I haven't Do you want to treat you? Why are you so depressed?"
"Isn't this therapy?"
"Of course this is not therapy, but it can be considered healing. This is the first time you have come here, and we have chatted face-to-face. As a psychotherapist, the first thing to do is to get to know your patients deeply first, and then Only then can the right medicine be prescribed.”
The corners of Bie Ming's eyes were still wet, but there was no sadness in his eyes.
He raised his head and looked at Lin Lu, and asked, "Am I serious? Is it a cure? Or forget it, I know it will be like this, it's no different from when I was in high school."
Lin Lu sat next to Bie Ming, leaned slightly sideways, and was at Bie Ming's line of sight: "Of course not."
"Isn't it?"
Lin Lu smiled and said: "I haven't even started the treatment yet, you walked out of the 'castle' by yourself and almost recovered. If you say that you are too serious to be cured, then I really don't know. A teacher should be called incompetent."
She was worried that Bie Ming would not believe her words, so she pulled his wrist and came to the treatment box: "Look, there are already green trees in your world, and they show strong vitality that is not easy to destroy. And one of these two powerful symbols of life force is entirely yours."
"Then I..."
"As long as you follow me, follow Mao Shishi, there is no problem at all."
Bie Ming said: "Okay."
"Good boy." Lin Lu patted him on the shoulder and blurted out. After realizing that he had made a slip of the tongue, he quickly smiled and said, "Don't ming, the last step is to dismantle your own work and return this sandbox to its most primitive state. state. Then I ask you now, are you willing to dismantle it yourself?"
Bie Ming looked at Mao Shishi, then turned to look at his own castle, opened his mouth, and fell silent without hesitation.
"It's okay." Lin Lu comforted, "but I want to make it clear to you that even if you don't want to dismantle it, after you leave, I will do it myself and restore it to its original state. I need to let you know that I won't keep you A world made."
"I want to tear it apart myself."
"it is good."
Lin Lu retreated to Mao Shishi, silently observing Bie Ming's movements and the order in which he dismantled the models.Although Bie Ming's world is very simple, with only three models, the order in which he dismantled it can still reflect some problems.
Generally speaking, the earlier the removal, the more the patient thinks that the problem that bothers him needs to be solved urgently.
Bie Ming first put the castle back to its original place, then took the two green trees representing him and Mao Shiyi together in his hands, and put them back on the cabinet.In the end, the "isolated island" in the middle was gently smoothed to the surroundings, and the two lands separated by the "ocean" finally merged together.
Lin Lu thought, in fact, deep down in his heart, he still desires to reconcile with this world...
With a voice that Lin Lu could only hear clearly, Mao Shishi asked in a very low voice: "Is I really as important to Bie Ming as it is shown in that picture?"
Lin Lu said: "I don't know how you view the relationship with Bie Ming. But in my opinion, Bie Ming has established a very close relationship with you. I don't know if you have noticed that he is very dependent on you, like a child depends on you. Like their own mother. Many children will regard their mother as their only one.”
"He actually regarded me as his mother?!"
"I didn't mean that, I just made a metaphor."
The expression on Mao Shishi's face was a bit complicated. It could be seen that he was particularly disgusted with Lin Lu's metaphor: "Then what do you mean?"
"I mean he is very dependent on you. He was able to walk out of that castle entirely because of you." Lin Lu raised his eyebrows at Mao Shiyi, and the corners of his mouth raised a bit more gossip, " Hey, I'm serious, didn't you notice that Bie Ming was using his Hakoniwa work to express his love to you?"
Mao Shiyi frantically shook his head.
"What? It's so obvious that you didn't see it?" Lin Lu didn't know the truth this time, and frowned tightly, "Don't you like Bie Ming?"
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