Declare war on depression, against day and night
Chapter 32 After all, I still have to be his mother
"Hiss..." Mao Shishi was so shocked that he gasped. He was about to refute, but he glanced at Bie Ming to make sure that he was still tidying up the sandbox and didn't pay attention to the two of them. He approached Lin Lu and lowered his voice. At the same time, he did not forget to grit his teeth, "Which eye of yours saw that I like him?"
Lin Lu pursed his lips, blinked his eyes, and behaved like an innocent little white rabbit: "Two eyes."
"It has grown dust over the years, it's time to dig it out and get a new pair." Mao Shishi rolled his eyes.
Lin Lu smiled and said nothing, and took a copy of fluvoxamine from the drawer on his desk to Mao Shiyi.
He told him in a serious tone: "Don't Ming recover too quickly, I'm worried that if something goes wrong for him, his inner emotions will rebound. This medicine is very powerful and can quickly reduce the negative thoughts of depressed patients. If you don't Ming If there are thoughts of suicide again, feed him and take medicine orally, between 100 and 200 a day, divided into two doses.”
"okay."
"If Bie Ming remains in this state, can he not take the medicine or not? The medicine for depression will have some side effects." Lin Lu looked at Bie Ming's back, "A person is paralyzed with the help of medicine. Naturally, he will not feel the happiness around him and the beauty of the world. It's like using alcohol to drown his sorrows."
Therefore, heart disease needs to be healed by heart medicine, and one of the heart medicines is sincerity and companionship.
Mao Shiyi folded his arms around his chest, sitting almost half-lying on the sofa in a grandpa-like posture, looking thoughtfully at Bie Ming who was originally going to clean up the molds in the box garden but was addicted to playing sand games.
Finally couldn't bear it anymore, poked Lin Lu with his elbow, and asked quietly: "Hey, how did you know that he is very dependent on me?"
Lin Lu almost burst out laughing.
Isn't this a typical mouth and body integrity?
Lin Lu has already made up a big drama in his mind: You are not telling me that Bie Ming is talking about it, you are blind and wrong, I don’t like Bie Ming, you have problems with your boss, and so on. up?Pretending not to care and secretly asking, how did you know that Bie Ming liked me so much?
There was a little pride in his tone.
"What?" Mao Shiyi sized Lin Lu up and down uncomfortably, "What are you laughing at? Do you know that there is a saying that the authorities are obsessed, but the bystanders are clear?"
Suffice it to say, it gets darker and darker!
Someone covered his mouth with his hands, shook his head with a suppressed smile, nodded firmly, and gave Mao Shishi a thumbs up.
Mao Shishi: "???"
After all, he is a professional psychotherapist. Lin Luqing coughed twice, sat up straight, and then resumed a more serious expression.
"Generally speaking, the most direct manifestation of an intimate relationship is that when you are sitting in a strange place, he will sit next to you, very attached and very quiet. ① Don't think when you want to leave , will be very nervous, but you see now, when he is sure that you will not leave and that you are behind him, he can seriously devote himself to one thing."
Mao Shishi shook his neck, in a good mood: "What else?"
Lin Lu cast a helpless glance at Mao Shiyi.
what?Looking at it like this, are you addicted to listening?
"You told me before that when he encountered some difficulties, he always waited for others to save him, and never thought about what he should do, right?"
"He's always like this." Mao Shixi tapped his temple with his index finger, and then took a deep breath, "Last time, he knocked over the rice soup, and the soup was all in his pajamas, and he just Let Tang go around, not knowing what to do, just looking at me. I thought, did he put his brains in his mother's stomach when he was born? Maybe he really thinks of me as his mother. Really It's Biao."
"This is actually a phenomenon that only babies have. They cry when they are hungry, cry when they are tired, and cry when they feel uncomfortable, and then wait for the adults they rely on to rescue them. Bie Ming is also a baby in another sense, but he knows how to cry It's useless because he has no one to rely on."
Lin Lu glanced at Mao Shishi, feeling that he was about to lose his temper, and hurriedly added a sentence with a strong desire for survival: "...I mean, before you. Um. Before you."
"In that sense, I still have to be his mother."
"No, no, listen to me," Lin Lu explained, "Because Bie Ming didn't get the attention he deserved when he was a child, and no one taught him how to treat people and how to deal with things, so your task is to grow up with him ’. Slowly teach him how to deal with problems on his own, and you will eventually find that his growth is amazing.”
Mao Shishi stood up impatiently, adjusted his sweater, and said to Lin Lu while putting on his down jacket, "In the end, I still have to be his mother."
Bie Ming is very sensitive, even if he is concentrating on playing with the sand, but as soon as there is movement behind him, he can immediately divert his energy from it.He walked back to Mao Shiyi and asked, "Are you leaving?"
"Well, let's go. Nothing to talk to her about."
Lin Lu also stood up, frowning slightly to express dissatisfaction: "Please don't talk to your attending physician in such a disdainful tone, let alone look down on your attending physician."
For the first time, Mao Shiyi questioned Lin Lu's IQ. He pulled Bie Ming in front of him, then held Bie Ming's shoulders with both hands and pushed Lin Lu in front of him, saying, "Let you dig out your eyeballs and exchange them for a pair of yours." Don’t listen. Look at your patient with wide eyes, and tell me again, whose attending physician are you?”
Lin Lu: "..."
It was the first time she saw such an arrogant family member of a patient.
"People say that having a girlfriend is equivalent to adopting a daughter. In my opinion, you recognize the identity of this 'mother'."
Mao Shishi let out a "hum" before going out, took Bie Ming's hand and walked away arrogantly.
Bie Ming really acted like a child, staring at this and that, never knowing why the two adults were arguing, and listening to them arguing for a long time, he didn't know the reason for the quarrel.
Probably, many medical disputes are due to the fact that the topics discussed by the patient's family and the attending physician are not on the same parallel line...
After entering the supermarket, Mao Shiyi still seemed to be angry, walking back and forth between the rows of shelves with a stinky face.Bie Ming followed behind his buttocks every step of the way. Several times he wanted to reach out to grab Mao Shiyi's clothes, but he put his hands down again and clutched his sleeves instead.
"What do you want to eat tonight?" Mao Shiyi wandered around for a long time and didn't know what to buy. He wanted to ask Bie Ming's opinion, but just as he turned his head, he suddenly smelled a faint fishy smell in the air. A wretched smile gradually appeared on his face, "How about we eat fish?"
Bie Ming was a little embarrassed: "Well...Actually..."
"actually?"
"Actually, Natsume said that he would make us sushi tonight."
Mao Shiyi curled his lips: "How can you be full with sushi? It's cold, small and unpalatable. It's not nutritious. You can't eat it. Besides, can your stomach stand those raw and cold foods? Let's go buy fish .”
Bie Ming was dragged by Mao Shiyi to the seafood area. He felt that Mao Shiyi had misunderstood Natsume and the food he was cooking, so he said, "Natsume said that it was rolled with a large piece of seaweed. One sushi can fill you up, and there is no raw or cold food in it. He also said he would make miso soup for us.”
After Mao Shiyi heard Bie Ming's words, even the freshest fish could not save him from his bad mood now.
He walked back and forth in front of Bie Ming anxiously, without even realizing it, he ate a jar of old vinegar, and even the words he said had a strong smell of vinegar: "Natsume said, Natsume said ...Did he give you ecstasy soup or trick you? Natsume who kept his mouth shut, why didn't you follow him?"
"Eleven?" Bie Ming's eyes flustered suddenly, and his hands hanging by his sides were tightly clasped together again, "Are you angry? I just want to try Japanese sushi. I've never had it. "
I seem to remember Lin Lu saying that we should take Bie Ming to experience new things, eat new things, and go to places we have never been to.
Mao Shishi felt a hard breath in his chest. Although he was unwilling, he still swallowed it.
He compromised: "Okay, let's go, don't buy it."
Bie Ming didn't see through Mao Shiyi's mind, and thought he was really angry, so he hurriedly stood in front of him, holding Mao Shiyi's arm tightly: "Don't eat, don't eat, what do I want to eat? Sushi from Japan. Don't be angry, shall we eat fish tonight? I like fish very much."
Mao Shishi couldn't help laughing, he patted the top of Bie Ming's head, and the bad temper in his chest disappeared.
"Fool."
Bie Ming: "Well..."
"What I mean is, let's go home and wait for others to serve us for dinner. Why do we have to cook for ourselves when there are others serving us, right?" Mao Shiyi took Bie Ming's shoulders and walked home with him, " I also want to try large sushi that can fill you up with one.”
Bie Ming looked up at Mao Shiyi's profile, and asked seriously, "Really?"
"This is not an example." Mao Shishi gave him a condescending look.
"Ah."
Maybe it's because our current pace of life is too fast, so people come and go on the road.Every day, every day, hundreds of millions of people rub shoulders with hundreds of millions of people, and on this road of life, it is difficult for one person to accompany another person from one end of life to the other end of life.They often meet halfway, and finally take different paths.
Stressful societies make stronger groups.
This may be a good thing, it may be a bad thing.
Because being strong is a commendatory term full of positive meanings, but there is one thing, the stronger a person is, the less important it is to be accompanied.
A strong person will feel that when two or more people are together, they are no different from being alone. They eat, drink, hang out, laugh, and play games in the same way.It’s not impossible for me to do these things alone. I can smile at the mirror, at the short videos on my phone, and at Xiao Yueyue and Song Xiaobao on the show.
Whenever they meet someone like Mao Shiyi like Bie Ming, they will know that the word "companion" is not just "accompany" and "companion" separated.
For example now...
Just because Mao Shishi was by his side, when Bie Ming saw the monster that was usually terrified on the road, the fear in his heart was reduced to the minimum, and it was replaced by curiosity that wanted to take a few more glances.If he saw a monster with a hideous face and a terrifying shape, Bie Ming would hold Mao Shiyi's hand tightly while panicking.
What Bie Ming could see, Mao Shiyi could also see.
He will intimately block Bie Ming's sight, or directly cover Bie Ming's eyes with his hands.Bie Ming was tightly wrapped by the sense of security that Mao Shiyi brought him, and often at this time, the idea of looking at the monster again would arise in his heart.
It seems that as long as Mao Shiyi stands there and does nothing, all fears and problems will not become Bie Ming's troubles.
"Mao Shishi?" Bie Ming called him suddenly.
"Ok?"
Bie Ming pursed his lips at first, but after meeting Mao Shishi's eyes, he grinned shyly: "Tonight, can you tell me about the monsters on Fuchun Mountain?"
The author has something to say: ① This sentence was said to Huang Shengyi by a psychologist in "Mom is Superman", and it is used to describe Andy.Then I borrowed it directly.If you can't do this, please criticize me gently, and I will change it.
Lin Lu pursed his lips, blinked his eyes, and behaved like an innocent little white rabbit: "Two eyes."
"It has grown dust over the years, it's time to dig it out and get a new pair." Mao Shishi rolled his eyes.
Lin Lu smiled and said nothing, and took a copy of fluvoxamine from the drawer on his desk to Mao Shiyi.
He told him in a serious tone: "Don't Ming recover too quickly, I'm worried that if something goes wrong for him, his inner emotions will rebound. This medicine is very powerful and can quickly reduce the negative thoughts of depressed patients. If you don't Ming If there are thoughts of suicide again, feed him and take medicine orally, between 100 and 200 a day, divided into two doses.”
"okay."
"If Bie Ming remains in this state, can he not take the medicine or not? The medicine for depression will have some side effects." Lin Lu looked at Bie Ming's back, "A person is paralyzed with the help of medicine. Naturally, he will not feel the happiness around him and the beauty of the world. It's like using alcohol to drown his sorrows."
Therefore, heart disease needs to be healed by heart medicine, and one of the heart medicines is sincerity and companionship.
Mao Shiyi folded his arms around his chest, sitting almost half-lying on the sofa in a grandpa-like posture, looking thoughtfully at Bie Ming who was originally going to clean up the molds in the box garden but was addicted to playing sand games.
Finally couldn't bear it anymore, poked Lin Lu with his elbow, and asked quietly: "Hey, how did you know that he is very dependent on me?"
Lin Lu almost burst out laughing.
Isn't this a typical mouth and body integrity?
Lin Lu has already made up a big drama in his mind: You are not telling me that Bie Ming is talking about it, you are blind and wrong, I don’t like Bie Ming, you have problems with your boss, and so on. up?Pretending not to care and secretly asking, how did you know that Bie Ming liked me so much?
There was a little pride in his tone.
"What?" Mao Shiyi sized Lin Lu up and down uncomfortably, "What are you laughing at? Do you know that there is a saying that the authorities are obsessed, but the bystanders are clear?"
Suffice it to say, it gets darker and darker!
Someone covered his mouth with his hands, shook his head with a suppressed smile, nodded firmly, and gave Mao Shishi a thumbs up.
Mao Shishi: "???"
After all, he is a professional psychotherapist. Lin Luqing coughed twice, sat up straight, and then resumed a more serious expression.
"Generally speaking, the most direct manifestation of an intimate relationship is that when you are sitting in a strange place, he will sit next to you, very attached and very quiet. ① Don't think when you want to leave , will be very nervous, but you see now, when he is sure that you will not leave and that you are behind him, he can seriously devote himself to one thing."
Mao Shishi shook his neck, in a good mood: "What else?"
Lin Lu cast a helpless glance at Mao Shiyi.
what?Looking at it like this, are you addicted to listening?
"You told me before that when he encountered some difficulties, he always waited for others to save him, and never thought about what he should do, right?"
"He's always like this." Mao Shixi tapped his temple with his index finger, and then took a deep breath, "Last time, he knocked over the rice soup, and the soup was all in his pajamas, and he just Let Tang go around, not knowing what to do, just looking at me. I thought, did he put his brains in his mother's stomach when he was born? Maybe he really thinks of me as his mother. Really It's Biao."
"This is actually a phenomenon that only babies have. They cry when they are hungry, cry when they are tired, and cry when they feel uncomfortable, and then wait for the adults they rely on to rescue them. Bie Ming is also a baby in another sense, but he knows how to cry It's useless because he has no one to rely on."
Lin Lu glanced at Mao Shishi, feeling that he was about to lose his temper, and hurriedly added a sentence with a strong desire for survival: "...I mean, before you. Um. Before you."
"In that sense, I still have to be his mother."
"No, no, listen to me," Lin Lu explained, "Because Bie Ming didn't get the attention he deserved when he was a child, and no one taught him how to treat people and how to deal with things, so your task is to grow up with him ’. Slowly teach him how to deal with problems on his own, and you will eventually find that his growth is amazing.”
Mao Shishi stood up impatiently, adjusted his sweater, and said to Lin Lu while putting on his down jacket, "In the end, I still have to be his mother."
Bie Ming is very sensitive, even if he is concentrating on playing with the sand, but as soon as there is movement behind him, he can immediately divert his energy from it.He walked back to Mao Shiyi and asked, "Are you leaving?"
"Well, let's go. Nothing to talk to her about."
Lin Lu also stood up, frowning slightly to express dissatisfaction: "Please don't talk to your attending physician in such a disdainful tone, let alone look down on your attending physician."
For the first time, Mao Shiyi questioned Lin Lu's IQ. He pulled Bie Ming in front of him, then held Bie Ming's shoulders with both hands and pushed Lin Lu in front of him, saying, "Let you dig out your eyeballs and exchange them for a pair of yours." Don’t listen. Look at your patient with wide eyes, and tell me again, whose attending physician are you?”
Lin Lu: "..."
It was the first time she saw such an arrogant family member of a patient.
"People say that having a girlfriend is equivalent to adopting a daughter. In my opinion, you recognize the identity of this 'mother'."
Mao Shishi let out a "hum" before going out, took Bie Ming's hand and walked away arrogantly.
Bie Ming really acted like a child, staring at this and that, never knowing why the two adults were arguing, and listening to them arguing for a long time, he didn't know the reason for the quarrel.
Probably, many medical disputes are due to the fact that the topics discussed by the patient's family and the attending physician are not on the same parallel line...
After entering the supermarket, Mao Shiyi still seemed to be angry, walking back and forth between the rows of shelves with a stinky face.Bie Ming followed behind his buttocks every step of the way. Several times he wanted to reach out to grab Mao Shiyi's clothes, but he put his hands down again and clutched his sleeves instead.
"What do you want to eat tonight?" Mao Shiyi wandered around for a long time and didn't know what to buy. He wanted to ask Bie Ming's opinion, but just as he turned his head, he suddenly smelled a faint fishy smell in the air. A wretched smile gradually appeared on his face, "How about we eat fish?"
Bie Ming was a little embarrassed: "Well...Actually..."
"actually?"
"Actually, Natsume said that he would make us sushi tonight."
Mao Shiyi curled his lips: "How can you be full with sushi? It's cold, small and unpalatable. It's not nutritious. You can't eat it. Besides, can your stomach stand those raw and cold foods? Let's go buy fish .”
Bie Ming was dragged by Mao Shiyi to the seafood area. He felt that Mao Shiyi had misunderstood Natsume and the food he was cooking, so he said, "Natsume said that it was rolled with a large piece of seaweed. One sushi can fill you up, and there is no raw or cold food in it. He also said he would make miso soup for us.”
After Mao Shiyi heard Bie Ming's words, even the freshest fish could not save him from his bad mood now.
He walked back and forth in front of Bie Ming anxiously, without even realizing it, he ate a jar of old vinegar, and even the words he said had a strong smell of vinegar: "Natsume said, Natsume said ...Did he give you ecstasy soup or trick you? Natsume who kept his mouth shut, why didn't you follow him?"
"Eleven?" Bie Ming's eyes flustered suddenly, and his hands hanging by his sides were tightly clasped together again, "Are you angry? I just want to try Japanese sushi. I've never had it. "
I seem to remember Lin Lu saying that we should take Bie Ming to experience new things, eat new things, and go to places we have never been to.
Mao Shishi felt a hard breath in his chest. Although he was unwilling, he still swallowed it.
He compromised: "Okay, let's go, don't buy it."
Bie Ming didn't see through Mao Shiyi's mind, and thought he was really angry, so he hurriedly stood in front of him, holding Mao Shiyi's arm tightly: "Don't eat, don't eat, what do I want to eat? Sushi from Japan. Don't be angry, shall we eat fish tonight? I like fish very much."
Mao Shishi couldn't help laughing, he patted the top of Bie Ming's head, and the bad temper in his chest disappeared.
"Fool."
Bie Ming: "Well..."
"What I mean is, let's go home and wait for others to serve us for dinner. Why do we have to cook for ourselves when there are others serving us, right?" Mao Shiyi took Bie Ming's shoulders and walked home with him, " I also want to try large sushi that can fill you up with one.”
Bie Ming looked up at Mao Shiyi's profile, and asked seriously, "Really?"
"This is not an example." Mao Shishi gave him a condescending look.
"Ah."
Maybe it's because our current pace of life is too fast, so people come and go on the road.Every day, every day, hundreds of millions of people rub shoulders with hundreds of millions of people, and on this road of life, it is difficult for one person to accompany another person from one end of life to the other end of life.They often meet halfway, and finally take different paths.
Stressful societies make stronger groups.
This may be a good thing, it may be a bad thing.
Because being strong is a commendatory term full of positive meanings, but there is one thing, the stronger a person is, the less important it is to be accompanied.
A strong person will feel that when two or more people are together, they are no different from being alone. They eat, drink, hang out, laugh, and play games in the same way.It’s not impossible for me to do these things alone. I can smile at the mirror, at the short videos on my phone, and at Xiao Yueyue and Song Xiaobao on the show.
Whenever they meet someone like Mao Shiyi like Bie Ming, they will know that the word "companion" is not just "accompany" and "companion" separated.
For example now...
Just because Mao Shishi was by his side, when Bie Ming saw the monster that was usually terrified on the road, the fear in his heart was reduced to the minimum, and it was replaced by curiosity that wanted to take a few more glances.If he saw a monster with a hideous face and a terrifying shape, Bie Ming would hold Mao Shiyi's hand tightly while panicking.
What Bie Ming could see, Mao Shiyi could also see.
He will intimately block Bie Ming's sight, or directly cover Bie Ming's eyes with his hands.Bie Ming was tightly wrapped by the sense of security that Mao Shiyi brought him, and often at this time, the idea of looking at the monster again would arise in his heart.
It seems that as long as Mao Shiyi stands there and does nothing, all fears and problems will not become Bie Ming's troubles.
"Mao Shishi?" Bie Ming called him suddenly.
"Ok?"
Bie Ming pursed his lips at first, but after meeting Mao Shishi's eyes, he grinned shyly: "Tonight, can you tell me about the monsters on Fuchun Mountain?"
The author has something to say: ① This sentence was said to Huang Shengyi by a psychologist in "Mom is Superman", and it is used to describe Andy.Then I borrowed it directly.If you can't do this, please criticize me gently, and I will change it.
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