The Weight of the Red Mansion Walks the Road of Life

Chapter 93

This matter can't be blamed on the bad attitude of the Lin family.

Parents in this world are thinking about the same goal through different routes. Most people always love their children. Let’s not talk about the son’s free future for the time being. The girl’s future is almost all tied to marriage.So when parents choose a son-in-law for their daughter, what should they look at?

Or those who are rushing to the future, thinking about setting up a noble family for their daughter to support their family, and the son-in-law must at least take advantage of a good background.Or if someone who cares about their children chooses someone with a promising future, then they have to be more careful, and carefully look at their character and talent, whether they can be able to be a family in the future and earn a bright future for their daughter.

Otherwise, there are some people who are doing well on their own and don't have too much ambition. They just want to find a comfortable life, find a family that is not as good as they are close to their own, and just want to let their daughter have everything. She doesn't have to worry about anything in the future, the people of her husband's family are proud to look up to her, and they dare not let her be wronged for the rest of their lives.

Of course, most people will still choose to find a balance between the two. It is rare to take only one end of the extreme, but at least one must be accounted for.

For example, Jia Min was from a good family back then and her own level was also good. If she really wanted to marry high, the position of the princess would also make it possible.However, Jia Daishan wanted to make his daughter's life easier, and because he liked Lin Ruhai's talent and learning, he felt that his background and future were not bad, and his daughter's status at that time was indeed much higher than that of the Lin family. Letting a daughter marry can never be wronged, that's why she chose such a son-in-law after thousands of choices.

Although Jia Daishan didn't have a good time and couldn't see his daughter's good life, the generous gift proved that at least Jia Daishan had a good vision.

Even when Jia Min's parents-in-law were still around, because of the harmonious family atmosphere and Jia Daishan's face, even if they had the advantage in status and etiquette, they didn't dare to bully their daughter-in-law too much.And later, when the Rongguo Mansion fell and Lin Ruhai gradually prospered in his official career, he was a loving and righteous man, and the husband and wife still got along very well. Except that Jia Min failed to give birth to a son, there was really nothing wrong with this marriage. Unsatisfactory, I don't know how many people are jealous.

Three of Jia Daishan's two sons and four daughters were born to his old wife, and he was so attentive to his daughter's marriage.And Jia Min has seen that only his daughter is left in his life, so it is impossible for him not to be dedicated. After careful selection, he is eager to find the best marriage for his daughter.

As for the precious jade that Mother Jia mentioned...

Leaving aside the relative relationship, such as Jia Zheng, a 50-year-old father who is only a fifth-rank father, and Baoyu is only his second son, the marriage is really not much better.After all, Baoyu didn't have the advantages of being a young man who raised people to become a scholar. Although Jia's mother praised him for how smart he was, his future was really unknown. Jia Min didn't have to let his daughter suffer for nothing.Even to say something disgusting, just judging from what Zi Xiaofu said, if Baoyu followed Jia Zheng's official skills, there is actually nothing to hope for, and people can't help but mutter...

If it's in someone else's house, it's considered a family with close relatives. Even if the future may be a bit unsatisfactory, it will at least take advantage of being close, and it's not impossible to consider one or two.It's just that the relationship between Lin and Jia's family is extremely close, but Jia Min and Mrs. Wang's aunt and sister-in-law have been at odds for more than ten years, and because of various reasons, it is basically impossible to describe it as bloody feud. Too much.How a woman lives in her husband's house depends at least half on whether her mother-in-law gets along well. Because a man always goes out during the day, whether the mother-in-law is kind or not is even more important than the husband's caring.

There is no hope in the future, the mother-in-law is mean and vicious, and Jia Min has no grudge against her daughter, so how could she deal with such an outrageous thing.

Even if they are close relatives, because they haven't seen each other for a long time, the relationship is limited after all. Although Jia Min is close to his mother, but Jia's mother will make troubles like this several times, no matter how deep the relationship is, there will always be a part of it that will be worn away. day.

Annoyed by the trouble, Jia Min is not a person who is so soft that he can be flattened and rounded by others and has no temper at all, so he will fight back immediately.

Now that Lin Ruhai has become an official in the capital, Jia Min naturally has to start his wife's diplomacy with people in Beijing, so it shouldn't be too easy to play tricks here.After all, Jia's mansion didn't have much contact with outsiders, only Jia's mother had some friendship with several princesses, and she didn't like to socialize with relatives and friends very much.

In this way, it is naturally impossible for the Jia Mansion to notice Jia Min's movements in the first place, and the left and right movements are actually not too big.

For example, when the wife of a certain family in the Ministry of Industry wants to have a banquet, she only needs to decline the invitation once, and say in her mouth, "Mrs. Said that I can't even eat well or sleep well after leaving every day. Although I married more than ten years ago, my old mother is always not young, but I am afraid that something will be wrong. That's why I can only reluctantly resign my wife's kindness. It's not because I deliberately refused, I just hope that after a while my mother recovers, I will rashly come to make amends." Something like that.

Lin Ruhai is now in the household department, and he is in charge of money and food. No one in any department can leave the household department. Moreover, he is not very old now, and his future is not bad. Naturally, many people point to the Lin family thick.The Lin family used to be an official in the south of the Yangtze River, and they had no friendship with Beijing. This kind of communication is actually needed by both parties. Now, the wife is still unable to escape because of the chores of her mother's family. The story here is really worth chewing. I'm chewing my tongue.

Considering Jia Min's method, it can be said that it is not vicious.

Regarding the word filial piety, people always look at their sons and daughters-in-law more. If any family has to point to their daughters and sons-in-law who are filial in the morning and evening, although the daughter-in-law and the family can get a word of righteous praise, it is inevitable that the son-in-law The daughter-in-law was embarrassed.

It’s fine if it’s an extinct family without a son. Even if this matter is a little out of line, there are still people who are outside the law. Praise for mercy.But if the old man has an adult son and daughter-in-law under his knees, it will inevitably make people chew their tongues.After all, your daughter has been in her husband's family for so many years, and she is no longer a member of your family. If you only visit her once in a while, that's all.

Either the children and grandchildren are unfilial, or the elderly are unkind, or both, there is no other possibility.

For example, in the Jia Mansion, it is the former that makes people chew and chew.

It's also because Jia's mother is getting old, and the old Fengjun who has been sitting for many years has reached the point where people can't easily doubt her. Most people still only think about the good.What's more, the parents-in-law and elders of Jia Min's husband's family are long gone. Jia Min has been the head of the Lin family for many years, and she doesn't have any other elders who need to be filial. Provoking the dissatisfaction of others will not make people suspect that Jia's mother doesn't care about her daughter or something.

Jia Min got a good reputation of filial piety, and Jia's mother didn't suffer any damage. At most, the reputation of Jia Min's brothers and sisters-in-law was chewed again.

That's all for Jia Amnesty, he doesn't have a good reputation in the first place, and his wife is a step-sister from a low family background. The reputation of the husband and wife is nothing more than a "dandy" and an "incompetent" that makes people laugh.Many discerning people know that Jia Amnesty has never been favored by Jia's mother. Although there is no one to stand up for him on weekdays because there is no benefit to be gained, but in the end, even if they don't say anything that is fair and comfortable, at least no one is aware of it at the moment. What crime does Jia Amnesty have in this matter.Besides, Jia Amnesty doesn't want to be an official, he doesn't need a good reputation, and there's nothing to hinder if there are more rumors, unless Jia's mother goes to the palace and beats the drums to tell him that he has disobeyed and taken his title, otherwise there is really nothing to be afraid of.

And it may not be that no one knows that Jia She's life in Jia's mansion is difficult, and when someone spreads gossip, they can always say a sarcastic word that the mother is not loving and the son is not filial.

It was Jia Zheng who suffered the most.

Do you think Jia Min spoke to someone he picked at random?Jia Zheng didn't work in the Ministry of Industry. The news spread from the Ministry of Industry, the first to bear the brunt of the impact on him would not be small.

Everyone knows that Mother Jia has always loved her second son, Jia Zheng, and Erfang's grandson, Baoyu, if rumors spread that Erfang was unfilial...

Jia Zheng has nothing to commend him in terms of being an official or being talented. If he really wanted to focus on his strengths, besides being able to reincarnate, at most he would be filial piety, if he didn't even have this.

The so-called good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles, the world has always been more people who love to gossip and add insult to injury.Even if you sincerely praise someone, there will always be people who suspect that your words are insincere, but when you say something bad about someone, you are not afraid of people not doing their best, and your words are awesome, that's all.

Jia's family rarely went out to socialize on weekdays, and Jia Zheng was used to being a loner in the Ministry of Industry, so there was no news about Jia's family.

The Jia family got the news from the Wang family when the rumors spread all over the city.

In fact, the Wang family can't be said to be such warm-hearted people, but after all, Jia Zheng's wife is the daughter of the Wang family, and another Wang family daughter in the next generation became the eldest grandson's wife of the Rongguo Mansion. Just two, if the reputation is really bad, the Wang family will definitely suffer.

—— Mrs. Wang Ziteng's only direct daughter is not married yet.

Even because the two daughter-in-laws in the Rongguo Mansion, except Wang's daughter, couldn't be used as shields--Xing's background was filled in a house, and she had already been labeled as unusable, and Li's a chaste woman, her reputation cannot be discredited ——Once someone attributes the Jia family's affairs to Jia's wife, the Wang family will bear the brunt.

With the tip-off from the Wang family, the Rongguo Mansion finally got the news.

What Mrs. Wang thinks will not be expressed for the time being, only that after Jia Mu heard the news, she was about to pass away almost immediately.