The Weight of the Red Mansion Walks the Road of Life

Chapter 92

It is wrong for Baoyu to intrude on a girl's party, but if Baochai pushes the matter to Tanchun, she will inevitably be wronged.

When Baoyu was at home, he always regarded himself and his sisters as one, and didn't know what taboo was. He was the heart and soul of Jia's mother, and even in ordinary times, Mrs. Wang, the mother-in-law, would have to be blamed one or two times. Well, let alone Tanchun.

This is completely the daily life of the Jia family. At the moment, no one thinks there is anything wrong with this. Even though there are a few who understand the story here, it is impossible to say it out loud and offend me for nothing. The ancestors of the Jia family.

Or it can be said that in such an environment as the Jia family, Tanchun would not be able to say anything even if he sensed something inappropriate.This is definitely not related to the so-called future as Baochai guessed, it is all for the sake of living in Jia's family, and it can only be said to be helpless.

But other people are not roundworms in Tanchun's belly, but they don't know Tanchun's helplessness.Or it can also be said, why should outsiders forgive her faults because of her difficult life.

No matter what the purpose of Tanchun is, the fact that there is no taboo between men and women in Jia's inner house is not false, and it is bound to affect the reputation of Jia's daughter.Tanchun's reputation has long been dragged down.

Of course, Mother Jia is a fan of the authorities and only dotes on the child. She always thinks that Baoyu is just a baby ten years ago, and she has ignored the issue of taboos between men and women for many years, so she can't think of it now. People can't talk about it.For example, Mrs. Wang is certainly able to mention this matter, but her own biological girl left home early. Baoyu was really a baby when Yuanchun was in the boudoir, and later when she came back, she came from the palace again. With the reputation bonus, no one can say that there is something wrong with her rules.Moreover, the matter of men and women really has no effect on boys, and Yu Baoyu is even more harmless.The matter of left and right has nothing to do with her, and it is impossible to implicate her own flesh and blood. The rest of the people have nothing to do with her, so naturally they are too lazy to do so.

As for the other two daughter-in-laws, Li Wan and Wang Xifeng, who may have thought of this matter... the former has only a son and is a chaste woman herself, while the latter does not live with Baoyu, and her daughter is still young, waiting around for her sister. When she grows up, Baoyu should have married and had children long ago. There will always be rules at that time, and Wang Xifeng naturally doesn't bother to think about others.

In the final analysis, they are all their own children, and they are all from generations of innocent wealthy families. It is impossible for anyone to say that there is something dirty between their brothers and sisters. At most, it is occasionally used as an excuse. No one can really Take it to heart, but if it gets out, it will have a big impact on your reputation, especially for girls.

Anyway, in the eyes of the Lin family, this is evidence of the Jia family's irregularities.

But this has nothing to do with the Lin family, at most it just strengthened Jia Min's determination to separate her natal family from her daughter.

Although I hated Mrs. Wang, it was not enough to offend the Jia family to death—it would be fine to change to another family. It was just a matter of convenience, and it didn't take too much trouble, but it hindered the two families in the end. It is the identity of the in-laws. If the reputation of the Jia family is ruined, Jia Min, who is also the daughter of the Jia family, will have to be chewed. Hundred, but it is not appropriate.

----split line----

The Lin family decided not to cause trouble, but it was unexpected that the Jia family would not let it go.

Fortunately, the addition of Jia and Lin's two relatives was just wishful thinking of Jia's mother. She felt that she had become Baoyu's master, but she didn't think about talking to Mrs. Wang.

Although the theory of this marriage is definitely not possible, Mrs. Wang does not know that there is always a lot of right and wrong, which is not a bad thing.

Even though Mrs. Wang did not contribute to the troubles faced by the Lin family, it did not prevent the Lin family from still being troubled.

As elders, especially those who are very close and direct, if Jia's mother insists on being self-willed, the Lin family will always suffer in terms of etiquette.

For example, Jia's mother said that she missed her daughter every day, and she would definitely let her bring her family to visit her, but Jia Min couldn't refuse, at least one of the few times she had to agree.

That's all from the beginning. Although Jia's mother took the initiative to provoke people, she was still thinking about her status as an elder. She only sent people to the Lin's house once or twice a week. If Jia Min wanted to shirk, she would only go once or twice a month. Yes, if it is right to be a mother and child, there is nothing wrong with filial piety.

After waiting for a while, Lin Ruhai was assigned to the household department as the left servant after being summoned by the sage.

Although Lin Ruhai claimed that he was already old and had no hope for his children, he was only in his forties. Lin Ruhai's father didn't live a long life, he died at the age of 50, and the average life expectancy in this age is not high. , but really speaking, among the officials, people like Lin Ruhai are young and promising.

There is a slang saying in the imperial examinations of the previous dynasty, which only says that there are thirty old Mingjing and fifty young scholars. Two or 300 people are selected for the exam across the country. If you can pass the exam at the age of 30, you are considered young and promising.Moreover, after the imperial examination, the number one scholar can only start from the fifth rank. Even if he enters the official position at the age of 30 and his official career is smooth, he can be promoted to a higher level every three years. At the age of 45, he can only start from the third rank, and he can be as smooth as this. It is also one in a million.

As for the Zuo Shilang of the household department - this is the second rank, and he is also a serious and powerful figure, so it can't be regarded as a promising future.

In stark contrast——Jia Zheng relied on his ancestral shadow and did not take the exam, and now fifty people are just Yuanwailang from the fifth rank. Lin Ruhai is several years younger than Jia Zheng, and his status in the officialdom is already high. It's a farewell, so Mother Jia can't help but be in a hurry, and it's in every way.

On the one hand, he was thinking about whether Lin Ruhai could help his brother-in-law, and on the other hand, he was also thinking about matching Baoyu with the eldest daughter of a second-rank official family, and Baochai just happened to be able to accompany him with a rich dowry when he entered the house. Many good things.

Thinking about it in so many ways, Mother Jia naturally became more ardent. Today she said that the family had a good snack, tomorrow she said that the family had a good bouquet of flowers, and later she said that she missed her daughter and granddaughter after a nap. Let Jia Min bring her daughter back, it's better to just live in Jia's house, thinking about keeping someone from time to time, even if the daughter always says that she is thinking about her son-in-law not wanting to stay overnight, she still wants to keep Baochai anyway And Baoyu pro-fragrance pro-fragrance.

Although Jia Min did not expect Mother Jia to be so enthusiastic about the completely impossible marriage of the two children, she always remembered that Mrs. Wang sent people to her house to kill her son, and she was unwilling to leave her daughter behind. Mrs. Wang lived in the same mansion, and she might not want her daughter to be close to her mother's family in her heart, so she never should have done this matter.

As for why Jia's mother cried because she was old and was full of thoughts, looking forward to the reunion and intimacy of the family, Jia Min just heard it and didn't take it to heart at all.

Don't look at what Jia's mother always likes to use to go back to Jinling or to force her children with unfilial words, but the current saying is that the married daughter is throwing water. Jia Min has been married for many years, and her serious elders are only her husband's family. It's just the in-laws, and even the ancestors don't sacrifice to their natal family.Although it is not impossible for Jia Mu to accuse Jia Min of being unfilial if it is true, but if this matter gets out, even Jia Min will be affected, but more people will only laugh at the Jia family. After all, Jia Mu is not without a son. The reason to expect filial piety from daughters——As for Baochai, there is no saying in the world that a granddaughter should be filial to her grandmother, even if it is an excuse for being criticized, it is outrageous, and the left and right families do not regard themselves as saints to find fault, let alone care about it.

If it is said that Jia Min only acted as a mother at the beginning to express her attitude to herself because of the second sister-in-law’s affairs——Ms. In line with the statement of "Three Don't Go", Jia Zhengsheng raised three more children, and it was not easy for the Jia family to deal with them directly for a while.

After all, they are close relatives, even if Jia Min still hates Mrs. Wang, if Jia's mother is really embarrassed because of this, Jia Min will not really turn against her mother because of this.

But if he insisted on hiring his only delicate girl to Mrs. Wang as his wife despite his refusal, that would be a different matter.

It's not that Jia Min can't see that Jia's mother is particularly partial to Baoyu, and her ten fingers are also divided into lengths. How can anyone not have a long and partial heart.Just like Jia's mother valued the second son Jia Zheng the most among the three children, but doted on her the youngest daughter the most.

But if Jia's mother wants to sacrifice her daughter for Baoyu, Jia Min should not.

If it was Jia Amnesty, even if he was unwilling in every way in his heart, if Jia Mu really threatened him, he would have to obey everything—just like when Jia Mu asked him to give up the main house and handed over all the family affairs to the second room. Similarly, even if he may not be dissatisfied, he can only obey.But as Jia Min's daughter who has been married for many years, filial piety is a matter of affection rather than duty, and she has nothing to ask for from her natal family. If she is doing something that can't be retreated, it doesn't matter if she contradicts Jia's mother.

Mother Jia often called her daughter to visit at home, if it was only once or twice, it was just a story about the love between mother and daughter. Jia Min was not in Beijing before, so there are no past examples to compare with. When she was not married, she was the treasure in the palm of her parents.After a lot of time, Jia Min can also feel that there must be something in it. There are only two things, one is that Jia's mother often mentions that her second brother Jia Zheng's career is not going well, and the other is that Jia's mother often asks that she doesn't like him. The situation of Baochai who came with her.

The former was originally a common occurrence among in-laws and old relatives, and Jiamu's purpose is also obvious and there is no need to hide anything.Jia Min used to be close to Jia Zheng before the accident, but later he felt uncomfortable about Mrs. Wang's affairs, and only thought about Mrs. Wang's evil deeds, but she refused to let go no matter what. Just pretend to be stupid.

And the latter... Don't say that Jia Mu's method is not very clever, but it's just a matter of bringing the two together, even Baochai, who was plotted by her, is not a fuel-efficient lamp.

As soon as I returned to Jia's house, I made Baochai very unhappy. Even though Baoyu's behavior was very rude, the Jia family didn't care. You have to be controlled by others, and there are indeed endless troubles.Baochai has always been very strong, knowing the importance of the reputation of her daughter's family, how could she be willing to be easily affected by the Jia family's work? Seeing the family style of the Jia family, she felt very uncomfortable in her heart, but she didn't show anything on the surface. , Only later when Jia's mother asked someone to hide, she would hide as soon as she could, and she didn't want to go to Jia's house again.If there was a time when Jia Min couldn't save face and took her there, she would just stay by her mother's side and keep saying, "Grandma said she missed me, so I naturally have to let my grandma see more." In this way, no matter what happens, , As long as you are around your parents and elders, you won't lose your reputation.And if Jia's mother said that the sisters missed her inviting her to play, she could immediately post a post and only invite the Jia's sisters to come over to play.

There is no need for Baochai to sue again, just toss around a few times, not to mention that Jia Min is already keen on matters related to her daughter, no matter how dull a person is, it is not difficult to detect something wrong.

Because Baochai was not clear about some of the things inside, Baochai actually just felt intimidated, but Jia Min knew more than her daughter. When she figured out what Jia Mu meant, Jia Min's face immediately turned green. up.