The Weight of the Red Mansion Walks the Road of Life

Chapter 91

Although Baochai has some disadvantages because he has no brothers to support him, he may not be able to be perfect in marriage in the future, and there will always be some difficulties.But anyway, now that Lin Ruhai's official career is prosperous, if Baochai really wants to get married at a high level, it may be difficult to get married, but there are still options for looking at a low level or a low level, and there is no need to worry about marriage. In any case, it is not the turn of Baoyu, the second son of a fifth-rank official.

I think Zheng Chong can be regarded as a son of an official family. Although his father only raised people to become an official, he is now an official of the sixth rank. If you calculate carefully, he is only one rank lower than Jia Zheng. This background may not be considered bad.Moreover, Zheng Chong, as his father's eldest son and only son, was born as a serious scholar, and even passed the examination of scholar. Take care.On Baoyu's side, although Jia's mother kept saying that she was talented and talented, she was not even born as a child. If Jia Baoyu hadn't taken up the status of a relative, why would he dare to ask someone to marry the only one in the Lin family? Delicate girl.

Even when Jia Min and her natal family were still as close as one person, she still couldn't deal with this matter casually. She had to ask Baoyu carefully about his talents and abilities.After all, although Jia Zheng came from a good family background, his prospects are far inferior to Lin Ruhai's. Baoyu's background is not very high, and Mrs. Wang, a mother-in-law, is not easy to mess with. If Baoyu really has a talent for writing and singing She was willing to hesitate for a while because of the fate of the number one scholar, and she even said that she had completely torn face with her natal second sister-in-law now. She only saw that Baoyu was the second sister-in-law's child, and she absolutely couldn't allow it, and everything else was up to her. There is no need to ask, and the only word to say is rejection.

Even Jia Min, who is Jia's mother and daughter, is unwilling to deal with this matter, let alone Lin Ruhai, who has no relationship with the Jia family. In the case of his son, if it weren't for the fear of being impeached for being unfilial at such a sensitive time, he wouldn't even want to enter the Jia family, let alone send the last bit of flesh and blood of the Lin family to someone who harmed his family. .

It was also Jia Min who showed mercy. Although he and Jia's mother broke up unhappy, he felt that since he refused this matter without a trace of change, he reckoned that Jia's mother, who knew that she and her second sister-in-law were not on good terms, should also accept her. With this in mind, he never told Lin Ruhai that Jia's mother wanted to hire her daughter to the second sister-in-law's son. Otherwise, Lin Ruhai, who had been a censor for many years before, could immediately hand over a copy of the book to the imperial court to send Jia's daughter to the second sister-in-law's son. It's not a secret that the left and right families are not getting along because of the death of Lin's elder brother. Just find an excuse at will, and you won't be afraid that the Holy One will think that he is wrong.

But because Jia Mu said that she wanted to talk to her daughter about herself, there were really some things here that should not be heard by Baochai, an unmarried daughter, but she sent Baochai first, saying that she and her sisters Say a few more words for fun, but Baochai didn't know that she and Jia Min mentioned her marriage, so nothing happened.

Leaving aside the concubine and concubine's parents, these girls in the Jia family are really good. Baochai usually does not ignore the concubine and concubine when making friends in Yangzhou, but the left and right are now in Jia's family. You can do as you please, and she is also the oldest one, so she might as well play with the Jia family's sisters for a while.

During the period... Baoyu specially came to see her because she heard that a sister had come to her family. Not only did she come to Jia Min in a delicate dress, but because Baochai had already gone to the back at that time, she even ran to her. I disturbed the sisters for a while, and only said "I heard that a new sister has come to the family".

Fortunately, Shenying's waiter naturally loves a girl like Jiangzhu Fairy who looks graceful and soft. Although Baochai's appearance is quite good, but her natural frame is bigger, she is the dignified one that the mistress loves most. It can't be said that she is not a beauty, but she really doesn't like the mind of Shen Ying's waiter.As a result, Baoyu didn't show any idiots, at most he just praised her in his heart, this sister is really good, her speech and behavior have never been too unreasonable, she still looks like a normal person.

It's just that, such actions are enough to annoy Baochai.

"The sisters were chatting, and he ran in blatantly. Before that, he didn't even make a notification. He came back and forth without any shyness, but he was very rude. He is not young. Now, people who seem to be in their teens now only think of themselves as dolls. Even when I saw other sisters seeing him, I didn’t look surprised. Obviously, this is something he often does, and it’s not the only one. After Baoyu came in, she greeted her sister as if she had nothing to do with her. Although she was originally from the next room and a concubine, she shouldn't say anything, but now the family is considered a big Uncle’s, she’s only one year younger than me, she’s not a child anymore, she’s older than Baoyu, even though I won’t extend my hand to a guest’s house in our house, but if anyone comes to our house to be rude, I won’t We have to smooth things over. Although sister Ruxi is also the sister in the next room, she doesn't want to meddle in things, but she can see that she doesn't look good, and obviously understands that something is wrong inside. This is what should be done. What's sad is that Tan Sister, she said that Baoyu should look like this, as if my unhappy expression is a big bad thing, although people often say that guests can do whatever they want, but the rules of the world are always the same, and his family doesn't keep it. It’s all about the rules, I’m not allowed to worry about obeying the etiquette, there’s no such thing as unreasonable in this world.” Baochai felt a little unhappy, but she didn’t get angry at Jia’s house on the spot, she only talked to her parents in private after returning home. Just complaining.

Baochai is not really such a moralist who pays attention to rules, but it is because Baoyu is too rude to annoy her. Besides, he knows that the Jia family is far less powerful than his own and is not a family that cannot be offended. Mother complained once.

That's all for Jia Min, anyway, the nurturing grace of the previous ten years is still there, even if he is a little unfamiliar, at least he will not look at people with prejudice.Lin Ruhai did not really have the slightest affection for the Jia family. Although he was not filled with disgust, he still had no good impression. After hearing Baochai's words, he frowned on the spot, and his impression of the Yue family was always worse. some.Besides, Baoyu's matter is really a bit rude, even though Jia Min can't say that her mother's education is not good, she also feels that this nephew's rules are too loose.

As for Baochai's complaints about the girls of Jia's family, Jia Min always knows more about Jia's affairs than Baochai.Moreover, although she didn't get along with her nieces much, but the so-called friendship is born from the heart, and it doesn't seem bad to just look at the girls in the family.Although she turned against her natal family because of Mrs. Wang, except for Yuan Chun who is married, the other girls have nothing to do with Mrs. Wang or even the Wang family. Although Jia Min may not be willing to reach out, she will never deliberately go Prejudice kills.

What's more, it's only for Jia Min herself. Anyway, she is also the daughter of the Jia family. If the reputation of the Jia family's daughter is completely ruined, it will actually be of no benefit to her.Moreover, she is Jia Mu's only biological daughter, and these girls are also raised by Jia Mu in name, I'm afraid that if something goes wrong, outsiders will inevitably doubt Jia Min's upbringing.

If Jia Min is perfect in everything, that's all. After all, now that he has not given birth to a son and is a little weaker, he is very concerned about his reputation and will not be damaged again.

"Baoyu's rules are indeed a bit looser, but he is only a relative's family, we can't control others, and we don't need to talk too much. I also saw people today, just judging by their speech and behavior, I guess they are often so loose. It's not just like this in front of our family. He is ten years old now, and I'm afraid many people have seen him like this. You don't want to talk to him too much, so as not to be burdened with reputation. As for the few cousins It's not the same as our family. Although your grandfather is gone, your grandmother is still alive. The two families still have no separation and live together. Although this title belongs to your uncle, his original spouse is long gone. , the stepmother’s family background is lower than that of the family, so your grandmother decided to let your second aunt take charge of the family. After your second aunt took charge of the family, and your grandmother favored your second uncle, this big house is inevitably weak compared to Yingchun. It was born of a concubine, and Baoyu is your second aunt's only child, so she naturally dare not say anything. And Tanchun, she herself is the concubine of the second room, so she naturally has to speak to Baoyu, no matter how messy Baoyu's rules are, she just looks at her. Your second aunt is here, so she only has the reason to be courteous. Although what the two of them have done is not perfect, it is not unforgivable, and it cannot be harsh. Although Xichun was raised in Rongguo Mansion, she is the daughter of the long house Ningguo Mansion , but her mother is gone, so she was raised by your grandmother's side, and she is also a serious descendant, and her status is not low, so she is naturally more confident, although it is hard to say whether the main family is not because she is also a guest, But don't be too cautious, if she is like this, it can be compared with the example of you going to another guest's house." Lin Ruhai is also considered the number one person in Yangzhou, and it has always been the only reason for others to see Baochai's face, especially for him. The family members are very withered, and there are no relatives or elders. Although Baochai is quite transparent in the world, but in the end, some experiences are less. It is inevitable that Jia Min needs to say a few more words about this kind of thing. .

Baochai is not an unreasonable person, although his own family business is simple, he has seen other people's family affairs on weekdays.However, in recent years, Jia Min seldom mentioned her natal family's affairs in her own family, and there happened to be some really unique things in Jia's family, which made Baochai have some opinions on the behavior of the Jia family's girls.

She doesn't have any concubines in her family, and Jia Min was not jealous when she was young, but now that she can't bear children, and the Lin family didn't have a son, she is also generous, wishing that the concubines around Lin Ruhai could give The Lin family has a son, but there is no news yet, and no one is in a good mood, let alone for the time being.

Nowadays, the population of the Lin family is very simple, not to mention Baochai himself, even the elder brother who disappeared before was also born of Jia Min. He grew up in this environment. It's not sensitive, if no one said it, they wouldn't have thought of these things, now that Jia Min has said these things in detail, I pondered over the relationship inside.

Then he thought about it for a long while, but his brows still haven't loosened.

"Speaking of it this way, Yingmei is worthy of forgiveness. She is a stepwife and a concubine. She must be weak in confidence. It's fine to be soft-tempered. But in the future, it's just a pity. It has nothing to do with me, but it's not far away. It's just a relative who is not close. I only know that although she has no intention of harming others when we get along, she can't help me. She's not the older sister, and she's not the highest in status, but she seems to be the one who decides when she talks. Looking at her high spirits today, I really can't tell that she is a concubine. Just listen to her voice. Now, she's not an impolite person, why doesn't she know that men and women have different rules of seven years old and different seats, but it's just to flatter the aunt's mother and brother. Although this is common for concubine daughters, but I think it's a deer like a horse. Don't dare to make friends, today she can let Baoyu come to the women's family here and say nothing, don't allow people to have any opinions, don't let her sell me out for her own future someday." Unless the mistress has no sons and concubine sons, it is extremely difficult to change the future of their birth. No matter what kind of family they are, it is easier to have a good future than those born by concubines.

The parenting styles of each family are different, but it is said that when going out to dinner as guests, the descendants of the concubine never play with the concubines, otherwise it is a matter of losing their status and willing to degenerate, unless very close relatives come to visit, It would be extremely rude for a concubine to receive a concubine's daughter during a banquet, and I would rather let the concubine's daughter-in-law come out to entertain other people's sisters-of course, if the concubine gets married when she goes out, people will When dating, it doesn't look at her parentage when she was married, but only at her husband's parentage or her own official position.

Baochai got in the way of the two relatives, and when she came to Jia's mansion, she couldn't find fault with the family backgrounds of the relatives' children. When they met for the first time, they had to go out to play together.

After all, it is Jia Min's natal family, and Jia Min's mother is still there, even if there is a gap between the two families, there will always be time to get along in the future.But even when getting along, Baochai still has a steelyard in her heart. Needless to say, the one from Xichun's concubine, normal communication is fine. A heart, not too intimate.