The Weight of the Red Mansion Walks the Road of Life
Chapter 94 Daiyu Baochai
Chapter 94
Jia Min's play is not unsightly.
Now that everyone in Jia's and Wang's families is panicking, no one thinks of her.
After all, even the news of the Jia family was heard from the Wang family. The people the Lin family got along with were basically civil servants. The original source of the news turned out to be delusional.
Especially when Jia Min didn't stir up the fire at all, there was no way to investigate.
After all, it was just a rumor, and most of the time in this dynasty, the emphasis was on people not raising officials and not investigating. This kind of rumor would not cause much real harm other than making people laugh at the Jia family.She never thought that Mother Jia would faint from the news.Anyway, she is also a biological mother. Although the affection has been worn down a bit now, at least she will not expect any accidents for Jiamu because of this incident.
Don't look at Jia Min's frequent visits to her mother's house before, but it was all based on Jia's mother's initiative.According to the sayings of this era, the married daughter is a guest when she returns to her natal family. Unless someone is thinking about asking for a treat, there is really no one who will take the initiative to be a guest when the host's family is sick.
Not to mention that the Jia family was criticized because of Jia Min's frequent visits before, but now that the person in charge of the house has no relationship with Jia Min, I know that no one will think of my aunt at this moment.
If Jia Min really wanted to visit, it would be fine, but she still felt a little alienated from her natal family, so in the end Jia Min didn't go out in person, but tried to find a way to show it to her natal mother Jia by asking for a pulse. The imperial physician came from home and asked about Jia Mu's situation.
Jia's mother's physical condition is really good, at most it's because of a moment of panic that her eyes turned black. Although the imperial doctor still prescribed some recuperation in Jia's mansion, but from the Lin's side, looking at Jia Min seemed like I was extremely worried, and when I thought about the news from Beijing, I couldn't help but tell the truth.
For example, regarding the actual situation of Jia Mu's health, especially Jia Min's body is not very healthy these years because of his inner troubles, even according to the imperial physician, it is not as healthy as Jia Mu's health.
A mother who is extremely strong except that she is a little older asks her daughter who has been married for more than 20 years and is not in good health to work hard every morning and evening. This...
If it is a son and daughter-in-law who are asking for it instead, Wo Bing begs the carp to kill the son and serve the mother. This is the filial piety that is respected nowadays, but the daughter has long been a member of another family. If you want to be filial, you should also be filial to the elders of your husband's family.
That is to say, the elders of the Lin family are gone. Otherwise, seeing the daughter-in-law so filial to her natal mother, can I still feel comfortable?
To some extent, imperial physicians see these things more clearly than others.No matter how prominent the Jia family was in the past, it is always in decline now, but the Lin family is in full swing. It is naturally more obvious which family cannot be offended. .
The Jia family is now on the cusp of the storm, and Jia Min and the Lin family are far from the only ones who care about the Jia family. Although other families don't care so much as to ask people for inquiries all the time, if it happens that someone in the family also calls the imperial physician, if It is not difficult to ask a question casually.
People who can ask such questions are mostly people who are very interested in all kinds of gossip, and most of them are not the kind who can bury other people's private affairs in their stomachs, so they have to find someone to talk to.Although doctors should also avoid taboos for patients, the pulse records of the imperial physician's visits must be recorded. At least in the imperial hospital, it is never a secret. As long as someone accidentally says that the Duke's wife is healthy, the news will spread immediately go.
Under such circumstances, if Jia's mother doesn't want to completely ruin Jia Zheng's future, she can't let Jia Min come to Rongguo Mansion so frequently—this other's daughter doesn't go home until a year or so after she gets married. Why, it's not when my daughter just got married and she's still not used to it, how can she still point at her daughter's morning and evening Ding Xing Cheng Huan's knees every day.
Although the Jia family is in a state of desperation, the Lin family is rare to be at ease.
----split line----
As soon as Lin Ruhai joined the job, he was inevitably a little hectic at the beginning, and it was precisely because of this that he missed the Jia family's initial ups and downs.
Even though Jia's mother has the upper hand in this matter, after all, Jia's current official status is far inferior to that of the Lin family, and Jia's mother is not the well-known elder of the Lin family. Even though Jia Min was upset, in fact Didn't take it too seriously.
After all, to be honest, Jia Min is soft-hearted. If the Lin family is really anxious, let them not tear up their faces. Although the reputation of the Lin family will be lost, it is not such a hurtful thing. It is still a big loss for the Jia family. Some.
Seeing that her husband was still busy, Jia Min was not in a hurry to bother her husband. She only caused some trouble for the Jia family so that they had no time to take care of themselves.
Of course, Jia Min also knew that her husband hated her natal family, so she simply omitted Jia's mother's part, and only mentioned that someone was thinking about Baochai's marriage.
"It's almost the age of my sister and son, and it's time to think about marriage. The master's official career is prosperous, and my sister is well-rounded. Many people want to get married with our family. I usually take my sister and son to the When meeting guests at a banquet, many wives of other families have asked me about this matter, and there are quite a few good ones among them. It’s just that our family’s situation is different, and we have to point to the fact that my sister raises a child and inherits the family. I don't dare to be good at it, so I have to ask the master what he means." The only sister of the Lin family, seeing that her upbringing is also generous, apart from having no brothers, she really can't find any other shortcomings. Naturally, There are many people who are interested in it, and there are also many people in it who can really get it.
Jia Min ignored the matter of her natal family's meddling, and only mentioned a few examples from the more reliable family.
Some are in the same family as their own or even slightly higher. It's just that if Baochai really married into these families, the family would have more children. If the population is not so prosperous, the other party may not be able to adopt a child. Back to the Lin family.There are also families that are slightly worse than the Lin family. Although they are reckoned to be able to accept their adoptive children to return to the Lin family, Baochai is easily wronged because of their poorer family status.
And as for getting one's own family back... After all, it's not a decent thing, but such a family may not be able to talk to Jia Min in a big scene.
"Even if you don't make an order so soon, you have to be prepared. After all, Baochai is not young, so no matter how you plan, you have to look good." If Lin Ruhai really wants to find a wife for her daughter, then Naturally, Jia Min had to release the news, so as not to let too many people inquire.
Although it is a grand occasion for a family to have a family of women seeking truth, but if it is made into a posture that a family of women can not ask for it, this will hinder the reputation a bit.
Lin Ruhai still hesitated.
Just like the situation where the Lin family only has a female son left, it is naturally safer to recruit a son-in-law. As long as Baochai can still bear children, no matter whether it is a male heir or a female heir, they must be surnamed Lin after all, which is more secure for inheritance.But after all, it is not easy for female households to stand up, and they are slightly inferior in the choice of son-in-law, after all, they are wronged.
But if Baochai is asked to find a good son-in-law to marry and wait for his adopted grandson to come back in the future, Lin Ruhai really can't believe the fate of the Lin family's heirs.
The Lin family was passed down from one generation to the next. For the elders before Lin Ruhai, it took nearly seven or eight generations to find the second one who gave birth to two children.And I also want to know that if Baochai is married and goes out, at least she has to give birth to a male heir for her husband's family before adopting the second son to go home. If she fails to get more than two boys, don't think about adopting. up.
And even if Baochai was really blessed to give birth to a child who inherited the Lin family, Lin Ruhai couldn't guarantee that he would live for another ten years until the child grew up—unless Baochai had no parents-in-law and sister-in-law to head the family by himself It's up to you, otherwise let alone whether the child can be adopted, but if you want to keep the child in your own home and raise it, after all, this child has a foreign surname, and some people will inevitably make irresponsible remarks.
Lin Ruhai didn't want to wrong her daughter for nothing, but also worried that the Lin family would really die. Naturally, such entanglements cannot be made in a day or two.
Compared with Lin Ruhai's entanglement, Baochai's intentions are more determined.
As the eldest daughter and only daughter of the family, Baochai was born stronger than ordinary girls, especially when Jia Min gave birth to her second child, Baochai was already sensible, and she had seen with her own eyes how her parents lost and lost her younger brother. During the emotional changes, it is always inevitable to have a stronger sense of responsibility.
When she was in Yangzhou, because of Lin Ruhai's high status, she usually got along with people who were similar or slightly worse than her family, and it was rare for her to gossip in front of her.But after coming to the capital, firstly, because many officials in Beijing think highly of themselves, they may not be able to see foreigners like Lin Ruhai, and secondly, because Lin Ruhai is not the top family after all, many people whispered in her ears. Although she didn't like to hear words like "extinct family is inauspicious", it's just that the Lin family did have no male heirs, but she couldn't refute it.This back and forth made her more responsible than the sisters and children raised by ordinary people, and she only wanted to win for the Lin family.
"Although most people don't say it, there are always gossipers who say in my daughter's ears that our family is an extinct family. If I get married, firstly, my parents-in-law and my sister-in-law will have to suffer like this, and secondly Yes, it may not be possible for our family to adopt a child back. At that time, our family will really die. If this is the case, it is better to simply let the daughter stay at home. Even if there will be rumors outside, it is better than asking whether it can be adopted from the husband's family in the future. It is safe to adopt one of the heirs." If Baochai is established as a female householder, although Baochai's life will be more difficult in the future, at least it will save the rumors and strife in the family. Baochai has never been afraid of being the head of the family. It's annoying, but he has really been cultivated to look like a boy.
It is bound to be difficult for a family with only an only daughter around. Instead of letting her parents exhaust their efforts on how to give herself a slightly comfortable life, she would rather work hard for a bright future for herself.
Jia Min's play is not unsightly.
Now that everyone in Jia's and Wang's families is panicking, no one thinks of her.
After all, even the news of the Jia family was heard from the Wang family. The people the Lin family got along with were basically civil servants. The original source of the news turned out to be delusional.
Especially when Jia Min didn't stir up the fire at all, there was no way to investigate.
After all, it was just a rumor, and most of the time in this dynasty, the emphasis was on people not raising officials and not investigating. This kind of rumor would not cause much real harm other than making people laugh at the Jia family.She never thought that Mother Jia would faint from the news.Anyway, she is also a biological mother. Although the affection has been worn down a bit now, at least she will not expect any accidents for Jiamu because of this incident.
Don't look at Jia Min's frequent visits to her mother's house before, but it was all based on Jia's mother's initiative.According to the sayings of this era, the married daughter is a guest when she returns to her natal family. Unless someone is thinking about asking for a treat, there is really no one who will take the initiative to be a guest when the host's family is sick.
Not to mention that the Jia family was criticized because of Jia Min's frequent visits before, but now that the person in charge of the house has no relationship with Jia Min, I know that no one will think of my aunt at this moment.
If Jia Min really wanted to visit, it would be fine, but she still felt a little alienated from her natal family, so in the end Jia Min didn't go out in person, but tried to find a way to show it to her natal mother Jia by asking for a pulse. The imperial physician came from home and asked about Jia Mu's situation.
Jia's mother's physical condition is really good, at most it's because of a moment of panic that her eyes turned black. Although the imperial doctor still prescribed some recuperation in Jia's mansion, but from the Lin's side, looking at Jia Min seemed like I was extremely worried, and when I thought about the news from Beijing, I couldn't help but tell the truth.
For example, regarding the actual situation of Jia Mu's health, especially Jia Min's body is not very healthy these years because of his inner troubles, even according to the imperial physician, it is not as healthy as Jia Mu's health.
A mother who is extremely strong except that she is a little older asks her daughter who has been married for more than 20 years and is not in good health to work hard every morning and evening. This...
If it is a son and daughter-in-law who are asking for it instead, Wo Bing begs the carp to kill the son and serve the mother. This is the filial piety that is respected nowadays, but the daughter has long been a member of another family. If you want to be filial, you should also be filial to the elders of your husband's family.
That is to say, the elders of the Lin family are gone. Otherwise, seeing the daughter-in-law so filial to her natal mother, can I still feel comfortable?
To some extent, imperial physicians see these things more clearly than others.No matter how prominent the Jia family was in the past, it is always in decline now, but the Lin family is in full swing. It is naturally more obvious which family cannot be offended. .
The Jia family is now on the cusp of the storm, and Jia Min and the Lin family are far from the only ones who care about the Jia family. Although other families don't care so much as to ask people for inquiries all the time, if it happens that someone in the family also calls the imperial physician, if It is not difficult to ask a question casually.
People who can ask such questions are mostly people who are very interested in all kinds of gossip, and most of them are not the kind who can bury other people's private affairs in their stomachs, so they have to find someone to talk to.Although doctors should also avoid taboos for patients, the pulse records of the imperial physician's visits must be recorded. At least in the imperial hospital, it is never a secret. As long as someone accidentally says that the Duke's wife is healthy, the news will spread immediately go.
Under such circumstances, if Jia's mother doesn't want to completely ruin Jia Zheng's future, she can't let Jia Min come to Rongguo Mansion so frequently—this other's daughter doesn't go home until a year or so after she gets married. Why, it's not when my daughter just got married and she's still not used to it, how can she still point at her daughter's morning and evening Ding Xing Cheng Huan's knees every day.
Although the Jia family is in a state of desperation, the Lin family is rare to be at ease.
----split line----
As soon as Lin Ruhai joined the job, he was inevitably a little hectic at the beginning, and it was precisely because of this that he missed the Jia family's initial ups and downs.
Even though Jia's mother has the upper hand in this matter, after all, Jia's current official status is far inferior to that of the Lin family, and Jia's mother is not the well-known elder of the Lin family. Even though Jia Min was upset, in fact Didn't take it too seriously.
After all, to be honest, Jia Min is soft-hearted. If the Lin family is really anxious, let them not tear up their faces. Although the reputation of the Lin family will be lost, it is not such a hurtful thing. It is still a big loss for the Jia family. Some.
Seeing that her husband was still busy, Jia Min was not in a hurry to bother her husband. She only caused some trouble for the Jia family so that they had no time to take care of themselves.
Of course, Jia Min also knew that her husband hated her natal family, so she simply omitted Jia's mother's part, and only mentioned that someone was thinking about Baochai's marriage.
"It's almost the age of my sister and son, and it's time to think about marriage. The master's official career is prosperous, and my sister is well-rounded. Many people want to get married with our family. I usually take my sister and son to the When meeting guests at a banquet, many wives of other families have asked me about this matter, and there are quite a few good ones among them. It’s just that our family’s situation is different, and we have to point to the fact that my sister raises a child and inherits the family. I don't dare to be good at it, so I have to ask the master what he means." The only sister of the Lin family, seeing that her upbringing is also generous, apart from having no brothers, she really can't find any other shortcomings. Naturally, There are many people who are interested in it, and there are also many people in it who can really get it.
Jia Min ignored the matter of her natal family's meddling, and only mentioned a few examples from the more reliable family.
Some are in the same family as their own or even slightly higher. It's just that if Baochai really married into these families, the family would have more children. If the population is not so prosperous, the other party may not be able to adopt a child. Back to the Lin family.There are also families that are slightly worse than the Lin family. Although they are reckoned to be able to accept their adoptive children to return to the Lin family, Baochai is easily wronged because of their poorer family status.
And as for getting one's own family back... After all, it's not a decent thing, but such a family may not be able to talk to Jia Min in a big scene.
"Even if you don't make an order so soon, you have to be prepared. After all, Baochai is not young, so no matter how you plan, you have to look good." If Lin Ruhai really wants to find a wife for her daughter, then Naturally, Jia Min had to release the news, so as not to let too many people inquire.
Although it is a grand occasion for a family to have a family of women seeking truth, but if it is made into a posture that a family of women can not ask for it, this will hinder the reputation a bit.
Lin Ruhai still hesitated.
Just like the situation where the Lin family only has a female son left, it is naturally safer to recruit a son-in-law. As long as Baochai can still bear children, no matter whether it is a male heir or a female heir, they must be surnamed Lin after all, which is more secure for inheritance.But after all, it is not easy for female households to stand up, and they are slightly inferior in the choice of son-in-law, after all, they are wronged.
But if Baochai is asked to find a good son-in-law to marry and wait for his adopted grandson to come back in the future, Lin Ruhai really can't believe the fate of the Lin family's heirs.
The Lin family was passed down from one generation to the next. For the elders before Lin Ruhai, it took nearly seven or eight generations to find the second one who gave birth to two children.And I also want to know that if Baochai is married and goes out, at least she has to give birth to a male heir for her husband's family before adopting the second son to go home. If she fails to get more than two boys, don't think about adopting. up.
And even if Baochai was really blessed to give birth to a child who inherited the Lin family, Lin Ruhai couldn't guarantee that he would live for another ten years until the child grew up—unless Baochai had no parents-in-law and sister-in-law to head the family by himself It's up to you, otherwise let alone whether the child can be adopted, but if you want to keep the child in your own home and raise it, after all, this child has a foreign surname, and some people will inevitably make irresponsible remarks.
Lin Ruhai didn't want to wrong her daughter for nothing, but also worried that the Lin family would really die. Naturally, such entanglements cannot be made in a day or two.
Compared with Lin Ruhai's entanglement, Baochai's intentions are more determined.
As the eldest daughter and only daughter of the family, Baochai was born stronger than ordinary girls, especially when Jia Min gave birth to her second child, Baochai was already sensible, and she had seen with her own eyes how her parents lost and lost her younger brother. During the emotional changes, it is always inevitable to have a stronger sense of responsibility.
When she was in Yangzhou, because of Lin Ruhai's high status, she usually got along with people who were similar or slightly worse than her family, and it was rare for her to gossip in front of her.But after coming to the capital, firstly, because many officials in Beijing think highly of themselves, they may not be able to see foreigners like Lin Ruhai, and secondly, because Lin Ruhai is not the top family after all, many people whispered in her ears. Although she didn't like to hear words like "extinct family is inauspicious", it's just that the Lin family did have no male heirs, but she couldn't refute it.This back and forth made her more responsible than the sisters and children raised by ordinary people, and she only wanted to win for the Lin family.
"Although most people don't say it, there are always gossipers who say in my daughter's ears that our family is an extinct family. If I get married, firstly, my parents-in-law and my sister-in-law will have to suffer like this, and secondly Yes, it may not be possible for our family to adopt a child back. At that time, our family will really die. If this is the case, it is better to simply let the daughter stay at home. Even if there will be rumors outside, it is better than asking whether it can be adopted from the husband's family in the future. It is safe to adopt one of the heirs." If Baochai is established as a female householder, although Baochai's life will be more difficult in the future, at least it will save the rumors and strife in the family. Baochai has never been afraid of being the head of the family. It's annoying, but he has really been cultivated to look like a boy.
It is bound to be difficult for a family with only an only daughter around. Instead of letting her parents exhaust their efforts on how to give herself a slightly comfortable life, she would rather work hard for a bright future for herself.
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