Do not give up ice and snow for the king

better.Yun Bian recognized this number as the one used to issue blessings on New Year's Eve, and was very comforted and moved.He picked up his phone and replied: Thank you, please rest assured.Closing the phone, I took a deep look at my father's photo, and decided to say, Dad, I will definitely take good care of my mother.Will live a good life, please believe me.

After walking out of the room, washing her face, and walking into her mother's room, Wang Yi was still sitting on the ground wilted, without moving.Yunbian approached quietly and called softly, but sure enough, there was no response.He wanted to stretch out his hands and hug Wang Yi, but as soon as he touched her, Wang Yi screamed and quickly hid aside, looking at the edge of the cloud vigilantly, and was heavily guarded.At this point, Yun Bian was finally sure that his mother must have a mental problem. He had this feeling as early as that night when he was awakened by his mother. Because he didn't want to believe it and it was quiet at night, he could only keep it in his mind temporarily.Now it seems that the mother was indeed mentally confused because she couldn't bear the blow of her father's suicide and death.

He had also heard about this kind of situation, but now that it suddenly happened to his relatives, Yunbian knew the seriousness of the situation.And what he is most worried about now is whether his mother's situation is temporary or permanent?If it was temporary, Yun Bian would definitely be relieved, but if it was permanent, how would he accept the fact that he had a mental problem with such an arrogant mother?And how do you deal with other strangers' fear and loathing of people with mental problems?His father had just passed away, and his mother suffered from mental problems unfortunately. The confidence and courage that Yun Bian had built up to take good care of his mother and take care of his family plummeted.

The passing of his father made Yun Bian extremely sad and unbearable, but his mother's illness was worse than his father's passing away, and made him even more depressed and at a loss, not only because of his father's death, but also The idea of ​​taking good care of his mother supported him, and he had to revive himself, because mental illness was more like chronic suicide than death, bit by bit, watching himself suffer so much, suffer They ridiculed them with blind eyes, and finally, in endless torture and pain, they died in disgrace, losing their image and dignity.For the first time in his life, Yun Bian hated his youth and insensitivity.As a result, when the storm of reality rushed towards him mercilessly, he had no power to save himself and resist, except to look around in a daze and passively bear it.You can't blame yourself, feel sorry for yourself, and hurt yourself. As long as people are still there, there may be hope.The situation has been sluggish to the end, how can it be more terrible? ?

Yun Bian tried to calm himself down and wanted to find a countermeasure.At present, the first priority is to get the mother to see a doctor for a diagnosis, but in the current situation, it is almost impossible for Yunbian to send her to the hospital safely and stably by himself.Then you can only invite the doctor to your home.But it is inappropriate for the mother to stay at home alone, who knows what accidents will happen?I searched my phone, but there was no one who could.

Yun Bian collected his mind, as if he had made a huge determination, came to the next door, raised his hand and knocked on the door.If it weren't for an emergency, with Yun Bian's personality, he would never knock on the door of a complete stranger for help. Every time he knocked, his face would blush and his heart would sink.Finally, after eight times, a kind and kind aunt opened the door and looked at the cloud side with a puzzled expression.After Yun Bian explained the purpose of coming, the aunt followed Yun Bian into the room without saying a word.With the help of his aunt, Yunbian finally took his mother to the hospital.Thrilling and flustered all the way.

After arriving at the hospital, Wang Yi was still making noise and screaming, so the doctor had to give her a sedative first.After Yun Bian informed the doctor of the cause and symptoms of his mother's illness, the doctor finally gave the answer: Obviously, it was because the patient was stimulated by the external environment and couldn't bear the blow brought by the real world, so he suddenly appeared mentally ill. question.Mental illness, also called insanity, is different from neurosis, madman, etc. It is the result of abnormal brain function.Destructive changes in brain structure cannot be detected with existing instruments.According to the available data, psychosis is due to the disorder of the biochemical process in the brain of the patient. Some patients have more central nervous mediators, while others lack certain central nervous mediators, or some metabolic products in the body are in the brain. Caused by too much internal accumulation.Due to the abnormal brain function of mentally ill patients, these patients have obviously abnormal mental activities, such as talking to themselves inexplicably, crying and laughing erratically, sometimes facing the wall or cursing at the air, sometimes disheveled and so on.According to your mother's condition, she should be an intermittent mental disorder. In the future, you should chat with her more, talk heart-to-heart, listen to her, and always pay attention to her emotional changes. If there is a severe situation, please send it to the hospital immediately.

"Well, then she will be in a normal state after waking up, right?" Yun Bian was eager to know.

"It's hard to say. The onset and duration of each patient are different. I can't give you a clear statement. It should be possible."

The heart that Yun Bian had just let go was brought up again, "Then how can we prevent her from getting sick again?"

"Medication is the main treatment, supplemented by psychological treatment, just like what I told you just now, as for how to prevent it, since her condition is because she can't accept your father's departure, then everything related to your father may be Stimulate her, especially something special to her."

"Things related to my father? Doesn't that mean that almost everything in my house may irritate her?" Yun Bian became nervous for a moment.

"It's not that serious. It depends on the patient's own consciousness and will. Later, I will prescribe you some medicines to prevent emergencies, just in case."

Yun Bian still had doubts and worries, but he also knew that even if he kept asking, he couldn't find the precise methods and measures, and the doctor would only be ambiguous and vague.Even so, only watch as you go.

Back in the ward, Yun Bian suddenly realized that the world is impermanent. In the past 15 years, he has never been to the hospital a few times. In the past month, he almost lived in the ward.In the afternoon, Wang Yi woke up. At the beginning, she didn't seem to understand why she was in the hospital. Then she seemed to remember something, grabbed the edge of the cloud, looked up and down, and after a while, she breathed a sigh of relief, hesitated, and said embarrassingly "Am I sick? Didn't hurt you?" Mother, it was that mother again at last.

"No, Mom, don't worry."

"Xiaoyun, your father has left us..." When father was mentioned, mother burst into tears, like a conditioned reflex.

"Mom, Dad wants us to live a good life. We must live a good life." Yun Bian looked at his mother with a firm expression.Mother hugged Yunbian, trembling.Like a butterfly wet by the rain.

six.

After returning home from the hospital, Yun Bian told his mother what he thought.First of all, the current situation of the mother had to resign.Secondly, I have to go to class on weekdays and only stay at home on weekends, so I need to help my mother find a helper to do housework or stay with her.If he could, he would definitely stay by his mother's side in person, but he knew that his mother would never allow him to drop out of school, and speaking out would only make his mother feel guilty.

After Wang Yi heard this, although she regretted resigning, she also understood that it must be done.But for the matter of hiring a helper, he refused to make any concessions.

"This way, I will be regarded as a useless person. I have a mental problem, but I am not crazy. I can live independently. I have nothing to do all day and I am treated like a crazy person. One day, I will really become crazy. "Wang Yi was obviously a little angry.

"Mom, don't get excited!" Yun Bian hurriedly supported her, "I don't have such thoughts at all, it's just that you are weak now and leave you alone at home, do you think I will study at ease? Since I can't study at ease , Then what's the difference between me at school and at home? Since you insist on not using a helper, then don't use it, I will take care of you." Yun Bian spoke slowly, not angry or coercive, but it made people feel stressed.

"Are you threatening me? Knowing that I can't let you drop out of school."Wang Yi fixedly looked at him.

Yun Bian also stared at her deeply, then lowered his head, and said softly, "Mom, you are the only family member I have in this world. I'm really, really afraid..."

Wang Yizheng stopped. Although he lowered his head, she was sure that Yunbian's eyes must be red.How could she not be stunned?After the age of six, she has hardly seen her son cry. Although her child is excellent in every aspect in the eyes of outsiders, she knows that he must have his own suffering, excessive Precociousness makes him lack a lot of innocence, laughter, wantonness and playfulness that should be possessed by teenagers of this age.

She also sometimes wondered, would he be envious when Yun Bian looked out of the window from the heavy textbooks and saw the groups of children running, playing, chasing, and even playing on the green grass? ?Would you like to be with them?Is there ever a moment when a step is taken and then taken back?Will he be envious when he is serious and communicates with his parents in an adult tone, but sees other people of the same age acting coquettishly around their parents, wanting to carry and hug them, crying and begging for candy and toys?Will he want to act like a baby for a moment, play tricks, tell his parents that he is tired, bitter or uncomfortable? ?However, he never did.So she and her husband never thought of correcting him, thinking that perhaps their son's nature was like this.

It wasn't until I heard him say that he was afraid that Wang Yi suddenly remembered that he was just a 16-year-old boy, a minor who should have lived under the wings of his parents.But what has he experienced in the past month or so, his father's sudden car accident, when his father's life is hanging by a thread, no one can discuss with him, he can only bear the consequences that may be as heavy as shackles alone