One big and one small are practicing love

"Xiao Xiao, come on! I'll teach you Zhuan Xiang."

"Xiao Xiao, come over and copy the Heart Sutra with me."

"Xiaoxiao, please read these books."

"Xiaoxiao, sit quietly with me for half an hour."

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This is what Du Niang wants Liu Xiaochen to do every day. This is also a skill that Liu Xiaochen needs to learn as an assistant.

Du Niang personally taught Liu Xiaochen one by one. He taught Liu Xiaochen step by step how to make incense sticks and arrange flowers; he patiently and carefully explained the essentials of copying sutras and meditating; the two of them quietly copied the Heart Sutra or sat cross-legged in meditation together.

Du Niang opens a spiritual healing center in this farm. These are the contents of the healing course. Liu Xiaochen learns these to help Du Niang complete the course.

Because she knew nothing, and there were only seven days until the latest healing course, Liu Xiaochen was very grateful to Du Niang for giving her this job, so she studied very seriously. I paid full attention to the lectures and took careful notes. Whenever I had time, I practiced these skills over and over again and read until late at night.

Being immersed in these things during the day, my brain has no space to think about these injuries. When I'm alone at night, I still often can't control myself. I can't help crying, wash my face, and continue reading and taking notes.

Soon, the latest healing session began.

There were twelve people in total, a pair of good-looking mother and daughter, a couple doing cosmetic surgery (the wife had obvious traces of cosmetic surgery on her face), a businessman wearing beads and big gold rings, and a handsome man with a handsome face. There is a beautiful young girl who is sad, a chubby old lady wearing lots of make-up... everyone is very different.

The course lasts four days and three nights in total.

Liu Xiaochen received them, arranged accommodation, distributed uniform white Chinese-style buttoned clothing, prepared materials for class, tidied up the classroom after class, accompanied the students to copy scriptures, sit quietly, and listened to Du Niang's one-on-one analysis of each student's horoscope. .

"The purpose of giving you astrology is to help you achieve self-understanding and reveal the deepest cause-and-effect relationships. Let you truly understand what your limitations are, what lessons you should make up for, and what direction you should develop. In this way, you will I will act with purpose in this world and handle the important relationships in my life.”

Before the horoscope, Du Niang said these words sincerely.

The mother and daughter expressed their disappointment and dissatisfaction with each other.

Du Niang smiled and said: "You must first humbly admit that you each do not understand yourself, let alone understand each other, even if you are mother and daughter who are closely related by blood."

As soon as she said this, the mother lowered her head, and her daughter said with tears in her eyes: "How do you understand?"

"First give up the dualistic view, and stop criticizing your mother at will. That is not the truth, but a limitation worthy of compassion. Secondly, don't be lazy, carry out professional self-training, and constantly understand yourself deeply, that's when your heart will move. Thoughts, subconsciousness, undercurrents, etc., gradually accumulate wisdom step by step, realize true self-understanding, until self-breakthrough." Du Niang said softly but firmly.

After talking to her daughter, Du Niang took the initiative and said to her mother: "I know that you have not lived up to yourself and are very dissatisfied with yourself. You have projected these dissatisfactions onto your daughter, suppressing your daughter's freedom, happiness, and happiness. Creativity. Now, you have to focus on yourself, do what you really want to do, and live yourself first.”

The fragile and beautiful young girl said: "I love him very much, but he doesn't seem to care about me. Loving someone is really tiring."

"Love itself will not be tiring, only love mixed with needs will be tiring." Du Niang looked at the girl saying this and saw her crying, so she continued.

"Men pursue self-realization, while women are relationship-oriented. This orientation has a physiological reason, that is, insufficient Qi and blood. When your essence, energy, and spirit are not full enough, you will seek energy from the outside and obtain positive energy from men. , the so-called love. The fundamental reason is that you yourself are not living a good enough life."

"What should I do?" the girl asked.

Du Niang smiled softly and said: "Adjust from the three aspects of body, mind and spirit. First, keep in good health and practice breathing, yoga, breath and other body adjustment methods. Second, try and explore, find your own talents and talents, and practice Long-term, professional self-training can maximize your potential and realize the maximum value of your talents. Third, pay attention to and develop your own deep consciousness, that is, the subconscious, shadow level, and high-level consciousness. If you do this well, you will be able to Perform the mutual interplay of yin and yang within oneself, and have enough energy within oneself without having to ask for it from others.”

The chubby old lady talked about how her family had a hard time growing up because her family favored boys over girls. He also said that in today’s family, the husband is inactive and the two children are disobedient. I have to work hard, not only to bear the financial expenses of my original family and my current family, but also to take care of my children's studies and the lives of the elderly. But even so, he is still not recognized by his family.

The old lady spoke in a weak tone, as timid as a child.

Du Niang looked at the old lady steadily and said in a friendly tone like coaxing a child.

"We live in a society where men are superior to women, and the relationship around you is particularly strong. You pay too much and bear everything in your family of origin and nuclear family. You want to prove your ability to your parents, husband, children, etc. and pursue their approval. However, your energy and energy cannot bear so much, and you will always have a sense of low worth, lack, and low self-esteem in your heart. You must learn to affirm yourself and love yourself."

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Du Niang listens carefully to everyone's pain, and based on the horoscope, tells them about the inherent energy and obstacles in their lives, their real deficiencies, what stage of life they are in now, and what stage of life they should move towards. He also spoke sincere and wise words of comfort.

Only the last businessman refused to speak, saying that he just wanted to listen to others.

Du Niang took the initiative and said: "Although you are a male, you have a female part in your body, and this part has been suppressed by you and the surrounding environment. You dare not cry, act coquettishly, or ask for help, even in an intimate relationship You don’t dare to say ‘I need your love’. You always have to hold on to yourself and digest all your emotions by yourself, which is very harmful to your body. You need to develop the female power in your body and achieve the balance of yin and yang.”

At the end, the businessman became jealous.

This was the last class of this healing class. After class, everyone dispersed.