One big and one small are practicing love

After seeing everyone off, Liu Xiaochen returned to the classroom to clean the classroom, arrange tables and chairs, clean tea sets, etc.

When she was almost done, Du Niang came to the classroom and said, "Xiaoxiao, you're done, come to the tearoom to find me and drink tea with me."

After everything in the classroom was arranged, Liu Xiaochen closed the door and came out. Looking up, the sky is already dark blue in the evening, the cool breeze is blowing, and the chirping of insects and birds is endless.

Walking along the path full of hydrangeas, we came to the teahouse. After knocking on the door and hearing the answer, Liu Xiaochen took off his shoes and went in.

As soon as they entered, they saw Du Niang, dressed in gauze white clothes, sitting on the tatami, pouring water and making tea, with a calm and comfortable expression, slightly tired.

"That businessman student gave me a jar of Laobanzhang before he left. Come over and let's have tea together." As she said that, Du Niang made a cup of steaming tea and placed it opposite her.

Liu Xiaochen walked closer and sat down cross-legged.

"Sister, are you tired?" Liu Xiaochen asked suddenly.

Du Niang smiled happily and said, "You are finally willing to take the initiative to ask me questions."

After saying that, Du Niang raised a cup of tea, took a deep breath, smelled it a few times, and said: "It is indeed a good tea, with good energy nourishment. After I drink this tea, if you want to ask me anything, just ask .You should also finish this cup of tea first.”

Liu Xiaochen raised the teacup and drank it all in one gulp, regardless of the tea-tasting method Du Niang had taught her, or the slightly scalding temperature of her mouth. Said: "Sister, can you help me look at my horoscope?"

In the past, Liu Xiaochen didn't believe this, but today he saw and listened to Du Niang's explanation and saw the students' reactions. Liu Xiaochen, who was confident and confused, wanted to see if he could find some answers.

"Okay, tell me your birth time and place." After saying that, Du Niang picked up the phone.

"I know what day it is, but I don't know the specific time. My mother said that I was born at home. There was no clock at home at that time. I only know that I was born in the morning when people were preparing to go to work in the fields. It was probably around seven o'clock. "

"It doesn't matter. It won't make much difference within half an hour. Just tell me."

Liu Xiaochen frowned and thought for a moment, then told his birth date.

After checking the horoscope, Du Niang looked up at Liu Xiaochen, smiled slightly, and said.

"Some aspects of your horoscope are very similar to mine. You instinctively care about all the relationships around you, please others, see the disadvantaged, pay attention to equality, and try your best to make the relationships around you harmonious. You are very popular."

Liu Xiaochen listened, nodded thoughtfully, and asked, "Is this good?"

Du Niang said: "Don't hold a binary view of good and bad. Each energy has its advantages and obstacles."

“So what’s my obstacle?”

"Your self-energy is consumed too much. You don't know how to say no, you care too much about others, and suppress your own needs. In this way, your dark side will be activated when you get along with others."

"What dark side?"

"Inner inferiority, insecurity, disillusionment, frustration in life, sense of unworthiness, disappointment in expectations, sadness, loneliness, helplessness and other worries." As she said this, Du Niang saw Liu Xiaochen burst into tears and took the initiative to sit over. , put his arms around her shoulders and hugged her gently.

As if the softest part of his heart was truly understood and accepted, Liu Xiaochen cried like a child. In front of Du Niang, there is no need to pretend or show off, because you know she has seen through everything.

Du Niang is really like a vast river and lake, with the capacity to accommodate and the ability to present accurately, making people feel at peace. When Liu Xiaochen was here with her, he instinctively relaxed and was defenseless.

After crying for a while, Liu Xiaochen calmed down. After crying, I feel a sense of lightness in my body and mind.

"Sister, what should I do?"

Du Niang poured another cup of tea for each of them, motioned for Liu Xiaochen to drink tea, and spoke unhurriedly.

"First of all, you have to know that you are a complete small universe in this vast universe, and you are also the center of yourself. You must face your dark side honestly and bravely. You know, you seem to be passively accepting, You are a victim, but in fact all this is your passive choice."

Liu Xiaochen was drinking tea. When he heard the last sentence, he frowned and asked, "Active or passive? I don't understand."

"You are afraid that communication will cause conflicts and that others will leave you, so you do not take the initiative to communicate when encountering problems, do not express any ideas, and tolerate it for a long time. This makes you actively become a passive person, which is also 'silent violence' towards others. . Over time, when you truly express your needs, you will become unbalanced, out of control, and emotionally charged. Such a state will make the people around you unbearable, and it will also be another kind of harm to them. The fundamental reason is You focus too much on relationship harmony.”

After drinking the tea, there was a sweet orchid honey fragrance in your mouth. At this moment, Liu Xiaochen had a strong bitterness oozing from his throat, filling his mouth. Liu Xiaochen was choked and unable to speak, but looked at Du Niang with tears in his eyes.

Du Niang continued.

"Judging from your horoscope, you are suffering from emotional setbacks. A sign like yours will be particularly obsessed with people who are completely different from you. The person you fall in love with is self-centered and does not care about the opinions of others. He is special He is powerful, able to quickly and accurately grasp the key points of things, and suddenly enter the core strength. He is like a general and a soldier, and has the ability to lead others."

"Sister, shouldn't I fall in love with such a person?"

"There is no right or wrong. You all have what you have and what you lack, and you all have weaknesses and shortcomings. You must have something that you appreciate and attract to each other before you fall in love. Now, you are suffering from emotional setbacks just because you are not together. At the mature stage, there is no way to save oneself, and there is no way to help the other person transform."

"Sister, I want to save myself, is that okay?"

"Okay!" Du Niang said firmly, looking at Liu Xiaochen intently, and said: "This is a huge homework that requires long-term study, thinking, awareness, training, and correction. It's getting dark, let's go eat first After dinner, I will teach you slowly in the future."