1987: Sleepless Tonight

Lu Hao glanced back at Su Jin, "Each age group has its own ideas, and will make some adjustments and changes to the previous ideas according to different situations."

"It's like eating sweets when I was young, but when I get older, I may not like sweets. I feel tired and want to drink some tea."

"Don't think that after a few years, your thinking will be the same as your current thinking. Don't give Stud a choice in your life."

People are sentimental.

There will always be some days when some boring, bitter, and worrying things will appear in my mind.

There is no problem with these thoughts. It means that the body is still free and the head still has time to think about different things. I am afraid that I will work hard for a lifetime. Have free time to think about life and think about problems.

At that time, you may suddenly find that you have been working hard all your life, but you seem to get nothing?

"It seems to make sense." Su Jin said, "It's like when I was young, I liked to play house, but now I feel that play house is childish. When I was in junior high school and high school, I felt that studying was boring. If my parents didn't force me , I don’t study so hard, I just want to go out to play, and the books are left on the table to collect dust, but now that I am in college, I think reading is very interesting, more interesting than going out to play.”

"It's like this. Every stage has its own thoughts. The relationship between people should also be the same. It needs to be adjusted. The distance smells good and the near smells bad. I always think about being together and think that there is a lot of separation. But if you really stay together all the time, you will also feel bored, and you will get closer when you meet again by keeping a proper distance." Lu Hao nodded.

"The idea at this moment, in my opinion, is unwavering and will not change in my life. I will always stick to it, but when I think about it after a few years, I will feel ridiculous, so there are strange things in my mind. When you think about it, don’t rush to do it. You have to calm down and think about it. What are the benefits of doing so, and what are the disadvantages of not doing it? Can you bear it?"

The issues discussed by the two are more inclined to philosophy and thinking about life.

"Brother-in-law, chatting with you is much more comfortable than chatting with other people. When chatting with other people, every time I express an idea that is different from theirs, they will immediately refute me, and the reasons for the refutation are always the same. It means that everyone else is doing this, and you will definitely suffer if you don’t do it. Most people’s thinking is definitely correct, and a few people’s thinking is definitely wrong. I won’t listen to me patiently like you, and Explain to me, and you can analyze the problem from my standpoint." Su Jin chatted with Lu Hao very happily.

After she went to university, she saw many things, not only the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in front of her, but also many things that were farther away.

So, sometimes you get confused.

At this age, people think a lot, but their thinking is not necessarily mature, and they may not be so rational when solving problems, and they may be accompanied by impulsiveness.

If you are impulsive, it is easy to be overly aggressive. If a group of people have such thoughts and are all overly aggressive, then this behavior will have terrible consequences.

Lu Hao is correcting her, so that when she comes up with an idea, she should not rush to implement it, but can think more comprehensively, carefully, and carefully before deciding whether to implement it or not.

To put it simply, it is actually a sentence summed up by our ancestors: think twice before acting.

"When I look for a partner in the future, I must find someone like you, brother-in-law. Otherwise, I may not be able to chat with him on weekdays. It will be too painful." Su Jin was very entangled, "But I feel so difficult Ah, many people don't have the same thoughts as your brother-in-law, and they can't think of this level, including the classmates in my school, even if they have good academic qualifications, can do questions, and can endorse, they don't have the level of thinking like your brother-in-law."

Lu Hao is the ruler for her to find a partner in the future.

"Although they have a lot of ideas, they are too impulsive, they can't think rationally, and their views are often too one-sided." Lu Hao said with a smile, "It's easy for people to go to extremes, either white or black, when you see the past When there is a bad side to what you have always believed in, you will think that you have been deceived and fooled all the time, so you turn around and believe in the other side, and naively think that the other side must be innocent of."

"The actual situation is that the world is as black as crows, or that no one is perfect."

This is why many positions have certain age requirements. If you are too young, although you have enough ability, you may not have enough thinking.

I am older, think more, and have experienced more. When encountering things, I can think and analyze more comprehensively, and I will not go to extremes easily. Even if I make a mistake, there is still room for maneuver.

"Auntie, you should marry my father." Nini suddenly said, "I still want to marry and have a bridal chamber. You marry my father so that I can have another kiss and a bridal chamber. .”

Childish words without restraint!

Lu Hao coughed twice.

Su Min laughed, "You really think about your father."

Su Jin secretly glanced at Lu Hao who was driving, then quickly looked away, no longer looking at Lu Hao, but teasing Nini.

The car drove home.

Lu Hao was not in a hurry to go to the department store or other businesses, he stayed at home and cut a watermelon.

The family eats watermelon.

The watermelon had been frozen in the refrigerator before, and it was not given to Su Min. She was pregnant, and too stimulating food would definitely not work. Lu Hao peeled an apple for her alone.

The TV is on.

"It's good for my brother to live outside. Our house is too old. It will be inconvenient for him after he has a baby. Besides, my mother likes to chatter. If there is something, she will always whisper in her ear. My sister-in-law is very nice." , but always muttering, I'm afraid I can't stand it." Su Jin said while eating watermelon.

She thinks a lot about a wedding, "Now that I think about it, if I get married and live with my in-laws, I feel a little scared. What if I can't get along with my in-laws?"

"It's normal if you can't get along, but it's abnormal if you get along." Lu Hao said, "Everyone's personality, behavior and habits are different. Let alone those who don't live together, they often live together , There will also be quarrels due to differences in living habits.”

He looked at Su Min, "Your sister said a lot about me. After taking off my clothes, I threw them around, and I didn't know how to tidy them up. Also, I always like to go out to eat instead of cooking at home."