1987: Sleepless Tonight

There are no complicated procedures in the wedding, no singing, no dancing, no jokes, and no jokes about the parents-in-law, just a few simple words to express congratulations and welcome, and then start eating.

Su Jiangang and Li Xuan held wine glasses together and started toasting at the table.

Su Jiangang has wine in his hand, and Li Xuan has a drink in his cup.

First, they went to the table of Su Xingmin and other elders to toast, and then went to the table of Lu Hao with Li Xuan.

On the side, Zhang Yongqiang also followed.

Su Jiangang said directly to Zhang Yongqiang, "Brother-in-law, you don't have to drink this glass of wine for me, I have to drink it myself."

He looked at Lu Hao, "Thank you second brother-in-law, thank you all, thank you for helping me pick up my bride today, without your help, there would be no such a grand pick-up team today."

He raised his glass and drank all the wine in the glass.

On the side, Li Xuan also finished the drink in the cup, and then looked at Su Jiangang, "I also have a glass of wine, toast to the second brother-in-law, and the big guys, okay?"

She also wants to say thank you, and skip the drink, just drink.

"No need, aren't you two still planning to have a child? If you want a child, don't drink." Lu Hao said, "It's just as long as you want it. Drinking is the same."

He understood why Li Xuan had to drink. The girl just wanted to thank him, but there was no need to thank him in this way.

"It's not that urgent yet." Li Xuan blushed.

I still filled my glass with wine, "Brother-in-law, I have to drink this wine with you, and I have wanted to drink it with you a long time ago, thank you, if it weren't for you, I would never have had the chance to meet Jiangang, Thank you for thinking about me and Jiangang, thank you for thinking about me, I will finish this glass of wine."

She directly drank all the wine in her hand.

The drink lingered in my mouth for a while.

For those who have never drank alcohol, the taste is a bit harsh, a bit unpleasant, and difficult to swallow, but she still closed her eyes and drank it all at once, and showed Lu Hao the glass.

Su Jiangang and Li Xuan went to other tables to toast.

After more than two hours, the banquet ended and everyone went back to their respective houses.

Su Jiangang and Li Xuan went back to their den, while Lu Hao drove Su Min and Nini back home in a Santana, and Su Jin followed.

In the car, Su Jin was a little sad, "I will be the only one left at home from now on, you all left."

Su Jian just got married and bought a new house, which means he separated from Su Xingmin and Wang Guizhi, so he definitely puts the emphasis on the small family, and will spend more time in the small family in the future.

Three of the four brothers and sisters in the family are married and left home outside. Now she is the only one left in the family, along with Su Xingmin and Wang Guizhi.

The originally lively big family suddenly became a little deserted.

"This is a stage that life must go through." Lu Hao said, "There is a saying that there is no banquet in the world that lasts forever? It is also practical to put it in the family. Some pains must be learned to enjoy and mature. Taste it, you can't keep your thoughts on these pessimistic and negative emotions, you have to look forward, you have to look in the direction of opening, and you can't dig into the corner."

"Brother-in-law, what you said is really profound, I don't quite understand it." Su Jin said.

"Simply put, when faced with something that cannot be changed, you have to look at it with a different attitude and greet it with a mood of enjoyment. It is a day to be happy, and it is also a day to be unhappy. In this case, why not let yourself How about being happier? Anyway, there's nothing you can do to change it, you can't let the big guys not get married, including yourself, also want to get married." Lu Hao drove the car towards home.

He didn't drink much today, Zhang Yongqiang helped his brother-in-law to block the wine, but his second brother-in-law could have a good meal and chat for a while.

At the moment the mind is also very clear.

He has also experienced these mental states that Su Jin experienced, even more violent than what Su Jin experienced.

For things that cannot be changed, some people simply accept, do not change, and compromise, some people fill their time and thoughts with other things, so that they don't think about it, and some people completely ignore it. I fell into it all the time, thinking about these things in a daze every day, like a walking dead.

If this hurdle can be overcome, people's thinking will mature a lot.

"If you can't meet a suitable marriage partner, then maybe it's okay not to get married, or marry later." Su Jin said.

"You child, talk nonsense, how can you not get married?" Su Min said.

She was taken aback. It was incredible to hear such an idea for the first time.

People have the mentality of following the crowd, including having children. When most people think that they should have children, other people will follow this idea, but when a person or a group of people do not want to have children Sometimes, it will also drive some people to think and do this.

"I'm just talking about an extreme situation. When two people get together, they must love each other, so that marriage is interesting. You can't marry just to have children, or just to get married." Su Jin said.

She looked at Lu Hao, then at Su Min, "Like brother-in-law and sister, you two, brother and sister-in-law, including elder sister and elder brother-in-law, your marriage is good, but some people's marriage is not good. Happy, always quarreling, even fighting, what's the point of that?"

After studying in university, my mind is broadened, and the things I come into contact with are different, and some different ideas will emerge.

This is all normal.

Simply put, when you are full and have nothing to do, you will think about the meaning of your own existence, the meaning of life, and the meaning of the future.

Marriage is festive, but after the celebration, some people will think of different things. Su Jin obviously thought of different things, so she is a little sad and disappointed.

"Whether to get married or not is actually a personal choice. Being married does not necessarily mean happiness, and not getting married does not necessarily mean unhappiness, but this is only a possibility. Others can't give you a reference for the specific situation, and even I don't know. Whether the choice is right or not is good, you have to go on to know." Lu Hao said, "If you don't even dare to go, but just keep thinking about it, what's the use?"

"But then again, no matter what kind of choice you choose, you must be the one who bears most of the karma in the end. You have to remember that no matter what kind of choice you choose, you must consider the worst situation and be mentally prepared. If you make a choice, even if you regret it later, and you will suffer and suffer in the future, you have to swallow it yourself, and don't blame other people."

"Of course, my suggestion is to try to make a choice with room for it, don't go all the way to death, and don't even have a chance to regret it."