1987: Sleepless Tonight

There were quite a few guests, but they were mainly relatives from the man's side, that is, from Su Jiangang's side, including Su Jiangang's friends, and relatives from Su Xingmin and Wang Guizhi.

Su Jiangang's cousins, cousins, elders and juniors, and Su Yumei, Zhang Yongqiang, Lu Hao, Su Min, Su Jin, etc., who are closer.

In addition, Su Xingmin's friends, colleagues, business partners, including Wang Guizhi's, and neighbors from the neighborhood also came.

If this is put in the future, it is simply unimaginable. Unless it is a wedding or wedding event in the village, it is possible to invite neighbors who are familiar with each other to come over for a meal.

In the city, it is impossible to invite the left and right neighbors to participate in one's wedding and wedding events. It is likely that you have lived for more than ten or twenty years, and you don't even know the names of the people in the left and right neighbors' homes.

But at the moment it is commonplace.

If you don't invite him, you will offend the neighbors in the neighborhood, think they look down on him, and don't call him over for a drink or a favor when the family is doing important things.

"Father, I saw my mother, she is there." Nini pointed to a location.

Su Min, Su Yumei, Wang Guizhi, and several other women were together.

"Okay, let's go to mother's." Lu Hao led Nini to Su Min's table.

Su Jin also followed.

The female relatives who are acquainted will basically sit together, because the male relatives have to drink, and it is inconvenient to join a table, and those who are a little further away will sit together in the circle they are familiar with.

Take Su Jiangang’s friends for example, they sit together, regardless of gender, and they all sit at the same table, or neighbors in the neighborhood, if there are several people from a family, they will also use the family as a unit, one table will be two or three , or what the four families look like.

The banquets and weddings in Jiangcheng are somewhat particular, but they are not so complicated.

"Mom, I went to pick up the bride today, and I had a bridal chamber. I rolled around on the bride's bed, and there were peanuts on it, which made my flesh hurt." Nini gave up Lu Hao, and held Su Min's hand , talking happily.

This girl was very happy to meet the bride and make trouble in the bridal chamber. She always remembers that childhood memories are beautiful, but many children of this age will lose their childhood memories when they grow up. Only those who are deeply impressed will remember. .

And today's experience will definitely be a very impressive memory for Nini, and it will not be so easy to forget.

She took out a red envelope from her pocket, "This is a red envelope from grandpa and grandma."

This red envelope was given by Li Xuan's parents. Lu Hao didn't want it at first, but when he was driving away, Li Xuan's mother threw it in from the car window and gave it to Nini.

The money in the bread is quite large, 5 pieces of 10 yuan, a total of 50 yuan.

No one said to give such a big red envelope to a child, even his own relatives rarely gave such a large amount of money, it was for his face, so he gave it.

"Did it come from Xiaoxuan's parents?" Su Min looked at Lu Hao.

She figured it out.

Lu Hao nodded, "Yes, I didn't want it in the first place, but I dragged it for a long time, and when I was walking behind, I stuffed it through the car window, and I let Nini hold it."

"Mom, can I not take this money? Return it to my aunt later?" Nini asked.

The little girl is not very old, but she understands a lot of truths. It's not that she can't take her own things, and the money is a lot, and it was given by someone she doesn't know well. She wants to return it.

"Since grandpa and grandma gave it to you, then you can take it and keep it for yourself." Su Min said, "But you have to know who gave the red envelope."

I have already given it all, and it is definitely impossible to run over on purpose to pay back the money, or return the money to Li Xuan, that would be too embarrassing.

Pull two or three times, and be polite for two or three times, you should not continue to push, let alone take the red envelope and then return it. This will make people think that you look down on the other party, and it will also make people think that you want to deliberately alienate him.

"I know, it was given to me by my aunt's father and mother." Nini said, "My father told me about it when we were in the car."

"It's fine if you know it. Okay, sit next to Mom and eat here later. Don't pester Dad anymore, Dad still has to go to work." Su Min said.

"Won't Dad sit with us?" Nini asked.

She wants to have dinner with her father.

"Dad won't sit with us, Dad has to drink and accompany the guests." Su Min said.

She looked at Lu Hao, "Look at Jiangang later, tell him to drink less alcohol, he got married today, he drank too much, he must not be drunk, you should help him stop drinking properly, don't let him get drunk Just be unconscious."

"Do you think I still need to help Jiangang hold the wine today? The eldest brother-in-law is not there? He must be willing to help hold the wine." Lu Hao said, "Let's leave this opportunity to the eldest brother-in-law."

Zhang Yongqiang is busy at the moment, taking care of the guests. Although Zhang Yongqiang is also Su Jiangang's relative, there are also differences between relatives. Among so many guests, Zhang Yongqiang and Lu Hao are Su Jiangang's brother-in-law, and they are closer relatives Relationship, have to help take care of other guests.

When some people come over, they don’t know where to sit, so they have to help arrange the seats. Some people need something, such as bringing a child. The child is very noisy. They may need sugar to calm them down, so they need to help find some Sugar, to help coax the children, and if there are less bowls and chopsticks on the table, help call the waiter, add more bowls and chopsticks, add a chair, and so on.

very busy.

Zhang Yongqiang is doing these things at the moment, walking around the table, but he is enjoying himself.

Some people like to do these things to reflect their own value.

"Is there no one from Xiaoxuan's parents?" Su Yumei asked.

"No one came. They also invited guests today, but they were at home and had to take care of their relatives, so they didn't come." Lu Hao nodded.

marry.

Both the man and the woman have to hold wine, but usually, the scale of the man’s wine is slightly larger. The banquet is mainly for the man, and the woman can arrange some relatives to come, mainly parents, or brothers and sisters, or It's a very close relationship like an uncle or something.

The relationship is close, there are not many people, most of the time there is a table, and there is no need to send someone to follow. Li Xuan's family wants to treat, so the parents did not come.

After chatting for a few more words, the banquet was about to start, and Lu Hao just left. He sat with Li Guangcai, Lin Jiacai and others, and only Li Guangcai and Lin Jiacai needed him to sit at a table with him. It must also be accompanied by him, so that it appears respectful.

People came to help and support the noodles, but in the end there was not even a decent person to sit with, so it must not work.