What's on Jasmine's mind- My leader, my regiment follow-up

(One)

Since Heihu brought the dog meat over that day, every afternoon, the dog meat would come to Jasmine's house to report. He had a great time with Bao'er, and he didn't go back until it was almost dark.

Sometimes I play with them for a while, and sometimes I just watch from the sidelines.I found that Bao'er was quite busy. He had to read and write every morning, and he had to help his mother with things after lunch, mainly doing some work to finish the clothes, and according to his mother's instructions, he didn't finish these tasks , you can't go out to play.When it got dark, he couldn't even go out.Sometimes Gou Rou came to look for Bao'er, and when he was too busy, he could only let Gou Rou sit obediently and wait for him.

I looked at Bao'er, who almost stayed at home every day, and gradually felt a little problem, thinking that it was time to have a good talk with Jasmine.While thinking about these household chores, two police comrades, a man and a woman in new-style police uniforms, walked into the gate of the courtyard.

Jasmine greeted them quickly and politely. It turned out that it was for the household registration. She let the two of them into the room, sat down at the table, and made two cups of tea.I quietly came to the back room, sat down at the desk, and listened quietly.

Jasmine's father used to run a silk shop in a small town in the south of the Yangtze River, but when she graduated from elementary school, his father died of illness, and the family fortune fell into ruin.Later, in order to avoid the pace of the Japanese occupation of China, she and her mother fled to Zenda and opened this small sewing shop to make a living.Therefore, Jasmine's family background was determined as a "small business owner" after discussing with comrades in the police; her personal status was determined as an "individual handicraft worker".

The policeman looked at Silong who was doing needlework in the yard, and after registering his name, date of birth, age and other information, he asked about his father.Hearing this, I concentrated all my attention.

"His father died of illness in 44. At that time, Silong was not born, and this child was a posthumous child." Jasmine said softly.

"Then what is his father's occupation? This is related to his family background!" The female policeman said seriously.

"He, like me, relies on some crafts, cutting, sewing, and mending to earn some hard-earned money to live." Jasmine said lightly.

Originally, the female policeman wanted to keep asking for my name, but Jasmine couldn’t help but she was so sad that she couldn’t say a word except to wipe her tears. In the end, she filled in the column of Silong’s father as “deceased”. Character.As for Silong's family background, "individual handicrafts" was written, because he has not yet gone to school, so he did not fill in the column of his own status.

Before leaving, the two police officers deliberately stopped in front of Silong for a moment.Seeing that beautiful, well-behaved and capable little man, the female policeman was very interested.She purposely squatted down, looked at the buttonholes of Silong's lock, and the buttons nailed, and praised several times.When she stood up, she said to Jasmine sincerely: "Is this child about to go to school age? Just on the street in front of your house, a new elementary school will be opened soon, and it has already started in two days." Enrollment is accepted, it's called Zenda Town Hongqi Primary School. You can go and enroll him for a try, such a smart child will be more promising after studying in the future."

Jasmine thanked them repeatedly, and sent them to the gate of the courtyard.

(two)

That night, I came to Jasmine's dreamland and wanted to have a good talk with her about Silong.I think she is now intentionally or unintentionally restricting Silong from going out to socialize with other children, but how to talk to her about this issue is really difficult.Once she can't grasp the measure, it will break her heart.

"Jasmine, are you busy these two days? Is there anything going on at home?" I asked relaxedly.

"It's still the same! Bao'er and I are fine. By the way, the police came to register this afternoon." Jasmine said.

"Oh, really?" I smiled, waiting for her to go on.

"My family status is defined as a small proprietor, because our family has opened a silk shop before, but it doesn't matter anymore. Anyway, I work with my own hands now and rely on my own efforts. Fortunately, Bao'er's family was born in random I wrote about a handicraft worker. They also asked Bao’er’s father what he did, and I said that he was the same as me, a tailor!” She couldn’t help laughing, and it fell into my arms inside.

"Jasmine, good tailor! I really wish I could help you cut and do some work!" I helped her up and said to her with a smile.

"But, you are obviously a hero, a hero of the Anti-Japanese War. To say that you are a tailor is really wronging you!" She buried her head on my chest and said in a low voice.

"Jasmine, in the history of our nation, there are many heroes who are unknown and unknown. To be a hero, you must endure loneliness and endure grievances. Do you remember Yuan Chonghuan in the late Ming Dynasty? As a countermeasure, he was executed by his own people. When he died, he was spurned and hated by his compatriots, and everyone fought for it. He silently endured this humiliation and pain without saying a word. .How many years later did history repay him his innocence." I looked into her painful eyes and couldn't bear to say any more.

"Jasmine, don't feel sorry for me. I let you hide my identity so that Silong's future will not be affected because of me in the future. Besides, I'm not a hero, just such a nonsense... that What, for our Silong, what is it to be wronged?!" I comforted her softly and let her lean on my shoulder.

"Good Jasmine, recently, I see that you have arranged a lot of work for Silong?" I asked her softly.

"Yeah, but I didn't keep him from studying. Are you not happy that I let him learn how to do these girls' sewing?" she asked worriedly.

"No, I don't think needlework can only be done by girls. I'm so glad that he can be your helper and share your hard work! I just think you should arrange some time for him to go out and talk to him Play with children of the same age." I looked at her face and carefully considered my words.

She bowed her head silently, and I continued to speak slowly: "Only when playing games and playing with other children, can he learn how to get along with others in a collective, a team, and even exercise and develop Leadership ability. So, childhood game experience and cooperation experience with other children are very important for Silong's future growth. What do you say, Jasmine?"

Seeing that she still didn't speak, I could only continue to ask: "Are you afraid that Bao'er will be bullied and suffer when playing with other children? Then you can't stop giving him a chance to go out and play!" However, As soon as I said this sentence, I regretted it.I know that she never mentioned to me that Bao'er was fighting outside, or that she was beaten.She has been carrying it silently in her heart all the time. She didn't tell me that Bao'er was bullied because she was afraid that I would be sad.And what I just said was vaguely an accusation against her.I looked at her worriedly, watching her cry silently, just shed tears and didn't answer me a word.

(three)

Now, I'm getting anxious.I don't know how to express my thoughts to her without breaking her heart.I only know that the heart of a father and the heart of a mother are sometimes different. Although they are both for the good of the child, the emphasis is different, and may even be contradictory.

"Good Jasmine, don't be silent?" I helped her to sit down, and then said: "Actually, I was a child without a father when I was young. My mother brought me up alone. And my mother took me We have been moving all the time, and we have traveled to many places, almost half of China.

When I was young, my mother hardly cared about me. Except for forcing me to study every night, I was always playing outside during the day, and often I couldn’t even eat lunch.Every time I go to a new place, the local children always bully me, because I am from other places!They bully me, so I fight with them, if I can fight well, I have to fight, but if I can't fight, I still have to fight, anyway, I can't show weakness, I can't admit defeat, after fighting, I finally get to know each other and become friends, and I want to fight again gone.Then it is to go to a new place and start another round of experience of not knowing each other.So, when I finally grow up, no one will be able to bully me anymore! "I smiled smugly.

"It turns out that you suffered so much when you were a child!" She gently stroked my face and said pitifully, "If I was by your side at that time, I would never let anyone bully you, at least I wouldn't let you Hungry."

"Silly Jasmine, do you think I'm Bao'er?! When I was young, you weren't born yet!" I looked at her lovingly, and then said, "I'm telling you this to let you know that in adversity In the middle, although we can give children knowledge and skills, but the ability and experience to solve problems are often tempered in adversity. You should understand what I mean?!"

"I understand what you think, but I brought Bao'er up, and now I haven't even had a minor illness or disaster. Do you know how difficult it is? Do you know how much I have worried about him? If Bao'er If something happens to my son outside, I won't live anymore!" She said worriedly.

"I know, you are worried about Baoer's safety and that he is being bullied. Otherwise, Gourou will come to play with Baoer every afternoon. When Gourou comes, you will let them go out together, accompanied by Gourou , you should feel relieved, right?" I helped her out.

(four)

"Dog meat, is it okay to be accompanied by dog ​​meat?" She raised her head and looked at me worriedly.

"Okay! Okay! Not only dog ​​meat, but also me as a father, it's okay?! After you let Bao'er go out to play, I will follow behind, and I promise to send him back safely. Now, You can rest assured? Who told me to be Bao'er's father! I will work harder. Tonight, I have talked to you a lot, and you are tired. Go to bed early, I have to go to see Bao'er Here!" I said to her with a smile.

But Jasmine looked at me, both reluctant and a little puzzled. I patted her hand and said to her: "Dog meat is a very remarkable military dog! It understands many commands and can do better. Tactical moves. I'm going to find Bo'er tonight, teach him those passwords, tell him how to train and walk dogs, don't just play foolishly with dogs. Do you know? I have to teach him all these things!" After speaking, I have stood up.

"You are so kind to Bao'er! You will pamper him!" Jasmine was jealous and coquettish with half-truth.

"Yes, not only to spoil my son, but also to spoil my wife, my dear Jasmine!" I turned around, looked at her with a smile, sat down beside her slowly, and whispered into her ear To: "Wandering around without saying a word, where will the dream soul go tomorrow night? It's like a weeping willow, still flying flowers into the bridal chamber. Tomorrow night, you wait for me!" Afterwards, I kissed her forehead lightly, and left reluctantly.