[The Big Bang Theory] Cohabitation strategy

The day Baker was born was sunny.The second time I entered the delivery room, I was not as nervous and anxious as the first time.My heart is full of expectations for this little life.

Ai Fan said seriously: "Mom, don't worry, I will take good care of Dad outside." He also patted my arm.

Ah, lovely Evan.I couldn't help but leaned forward and kissed his pink cheek.

Sheldon...==Indeed, he still seemed nervous and might faint at any moment.

I stared at Ai Fan, his clear eyes, firm expression, and a little uneasiness concealed.

I won't make Evan feel "loved", they are all my children.

I have seen many families with several children, and the adults always say, "Look, your parents won't love you anymore if they have children."Although it was a joking expression, in my opinion, it was the most boring person who would ask, and it would hurt the child.

Children are very sensitive, but Evan is even more so.He would run to help an unattractive boy when he was being bullied, even though he too was frightened and his cheeks were tense.Evan said to me, "Mom, people shouldn't judge a person because of his looks. I see Tom is very nervous every time he is outside, he will shake."

Ai Fan will sensitively take care of other people's emotions.

After Baker was born, little Evan poked his small, tender cheek and said to Sheldon, "Dad, my brother is kind of ugly." Then added, "But I will definitely treat him well."

Sheldon said confidently and proudly: "Oh, Ivan, you will be a good brother and lead Baker to the palace of physics."

Me: "... Shelly, you are too confident."

Baker cried a lot when he was a few months old, and when he cried, his voice was loud and bright!

Although the conscientious father and the patient good brother constantly use various physics knowledge to coax little Beck, hoping that he will stop crying under the influence of physics, but Beck always loves to cry, but most of the time he doesn't really cry, just when... …express dissatisfaction.

He was very energetic, and his voice was full of vitality when he cried.This is different from Ai Fan's childhood. Ai Fan is quiet and steady, while Baker is full of rampant strength.I hugged Baker, who was holding a colorful lion and couldn't stop laughing, thinking, Baker might be like me.

I am so excited!

I was also very energetic when I was a child, and I was full of energy in everything I did.Even though there are times when the blues can surface, most of the time I am optimistic! (Um!)

What worries me is whether Baker will become a wild impulsive child, an emotional child.Because he loves to cry and laugh, he is full of curiosity and enthusiasm for the world, he always wants to climb out of bed and wants me to take him out more often.

But after entering one year old, Baker seldom cried.When he learned to walk, he could literally walk during his waking hours!Children of this age should want to be in their mother's arms, but Baker wanted to explore on his own.

smart.

However, because of Ai Fan's excellence in physics, the lovely Comrade Xie Li also placed high hopes on this little life, thinking that their father and son would become a combination similar to the "three Sus" of China's Su Xun, Su Shi, and Su Zhe...so he has been Unremittingly instilling physical ideas in Baker, but after Baker happily tore up three "A Brief History of Time", two "A Brief History of the Universe", and one "A Brief History of the Universe Junior Edition" (Sheldon is gradually reducing the difficulty ==) Afterwards, Papa Shelly buried his head in my chest sadly and cried for a while...

"Cardo...I don't think Baker has what it takes to be a physicist...I can't believe my 'three Cooper physicists are father and son again' dreams are about to die!..."

I hugged Sheldon helplessly and pitifully, half to comfort and half to correct, "Shelley, there are so many paths in life, and our Baker is not a person on this path. But he will be a very good, very good person." You have to believe that. And if you don't love Baker because he can't make achievements in physics, then I absolutely can't accept it." I threatened seriously.

Sheldon was surprised and aggrieved! "How could you think that! Oh, Cardo, Cardo, Cardo! How could I not love Baker? How could I not love such a masterpiece??"

I immediately kissed and coaxed Sheldon, "I know, hee hee, I'm just motivating you~"

Sheldon broke away from my arms and angrily pushed me down on the bed, "Kado!! I find that you like to mock me more and more!"

I fell down on the soft and elastic bed, my heartbeat was gradually accelerating, the feeling of being suddenly pushed down...it was so good.

"How can that be mocking, dear Shelly?" I hugged his neck obediently, "I dare not mock the best and most powerful Dr. Cooper~" I licked my lips and winked at him.Sheldon pressed my arm stiffly, and his breathing became short of breath.

He has recently become obsessed with expressing love in some sort of "violent" way, such as pushing me on the bed in a slightly rude way, such as gently biting me...but his nature (fawn) is destined to decide that he is not a carnivore , so even the bite is light.

... The "violence" thing seems to have been learned from Evelyn Blake.They've suddenly become close friends recently (it's not easy to be friends, okay!!), and occasionally go for a run together (== basically Sheldon goes to run with him, but there are a few times Fu Li came back with the limping Shelley...the poor motor cells are poor)...

Leonard was not surprised when he heard this. He told me deeply that Sheldon is a person with a very, very good memory, and the impact he had on someone in his life is hard to forget.Therefore, he suddenly became friends with Evelyn, either because Evelyn gave him an out-of-print Spock figure to let him change his hatred for Evelee to love (the probability is about 0.1%), or Because Shelly hated him deeply! !Leonard told me to pay attention to Evelyn's safety, because Sheldon is likely to push him into a speeding car at an intersection... ==

But then he immediately overturned his point of view, "well, unless Sheldon really finds Popeye's spinach, it's impossible for him to push Evely away, and he will only die under the wheel because of the empty space."

...well, quite right ==

But soon the answer was revealed.

One time, we drank some mellow coffee in the afternoon, and Sheldon got drunk... He said truthfully after being drunk: "well, dear Cardo, I approached Blake—now I call him Evelyn— —The purpose of this is very simple, but you haven't figured it out...I just want to learn from this villain how to make you love me..."

I:! ! ! !

Then there is the thunder from the sky and the fire from the ground...

Sheldon does have an excellent memory, and his relationship is stable and long-lasting.He thought Ivli could attract me, so he kept his hostility towards him for a long time; and because he really loved me (I went to laugh and spit for a while), so he had to learn from him.

What a husband.As expected of the person I love.I am proud and moved.

We had another great night.

Baker's nature is lively and active, he likes to socialize with others, he can easily integrate into the group, but he is also prone to disputes with others, showing signs of a brat.I seldom use punishment to educate him.I asked him to put himself in other people's shoes.

When Baker tried to steal someone else's toy car, I asked him, "How would you feel if you were the one being robbed?"

Baker said with wide-eyed righteous indignation: "I'll argue with him! We'll fight!"

I asked again: "What will the result be?"

Baker thought for a while and said, "If that person is bigger and taller than me, I will lose, and I will come and tell Dad and you; if that person is younger than me, I will win, and I can get my toys back."

I said, "You think well, Baker. You defended your ownership. You thought about both the losing and the winning situations. But if that person doesn't go after your toy in the first place, that's a big deal." Things just don't happen. You don't get hurt and you don't lose your toys, so you're happy, right?"

Baker listened carefully, then nodded, "Yes."

I continued, "So, now Richard is the victim and you are the predator, and if you don't take his toys, he won't get hurt or lose them, and you take care of his emotions and respect His rights, so you are entitled to be respected, right? You all got what you deserved, and this conflict was avoided."

Baker thought hard for a long time, he was digesting my words.My language is indeed difficult and obscure for a seven-year-old child, but I have to say that maybe Sheldon's genes are really strong, and Baker's brain seems to be more developed than his peers...

Baker then said, "Mom, I think you're right and I agree with you!!" Then he asked, "But what if I really want to play with that toy car?"

I told him, "You should politely and generously tell Richard that you want to play with him. Don't get mad if he doesn't agree, because he owns the car and what to do with him is his decision."

Baker said, "I see, Mom. So, if Richard understands how I want to play with cars, he will play with me?"

Baker is really smart.I smiled, and he was getting closer to what I wanted to tell him, "Maybe it's a precious toy, and he doesn't want to share it with others?"

Now I give too many conditions.

Baker was lost in thought.He forgot about the toy car and took my hand to go home.

He had been building blocks that afternoon, but quietly like his older brother, which was nothing like his usual self.He is thinking.I saw it and didn't bother.

At night, Baker ran over excitedly and threw himself into my arms, "Mom! Mom!! Listen to me, I seem to understand the toy car thing!"

He said: "If Richard understands my mood and wants to take care of each other's feelings like me, he will play with me; if he understands my mood, but that toy is a precious gift, he doesn't care about it." If he is willing to lend it to me, I should understand him, and I can’t be angry because I have taken care of him but can’t get a toy. I also think that even if the gift is not precious, he doesn’t want to lend it to me, and I can’t be with him Fight, because that's his thing!"

I am excited and pleasantly surprised! !

I kissed him on the cheek, "That's it, Baker, we have to think about others, we are not alone in our world. At the same time, we should also think about ourselves, we can't live around other people's joys and sorrows, we think about others It is to gain dignity and power, if your own rights are violated, you are right, you should fight him, fight him!"

Baker nodded emphatically, and happily ran to Ivan to tell him about it.Ai Fan has always loved and encouraged his younger brother. If someone bullied Baker, he would even fight that person!This was absolutely impossible before Baker was born!

Ai Fan touched Beck's forehead, and accompanied Beck to build blocks a few times, and played with cars together before going to do homework.Ai Fan is already in grade 12, and he skipped grades very quickly.Ivan will not become the next youngest doctor...I kiss his forehead and leave everything to him.

The author has something to say: It's been a long time, do you miss me?

This is the second little bun~ I wanted to write another one, but I had no inspiration... So...

Kiss everyone one by one, thank you for your support and encouragement~ "The quality is clean and clean", this article is mine and yours, but in the final analysis it is still yours.I would like to present this article to all the angels who love life, literature, and me (hehe, if you love life and literature, you must love me, huh, huh), without everyone's encouragement, I will never be able to persist at the moment when I most want to give up. down.This article stems from Mouyan's love for TBBT, and also from his love for everyone.The purpose of writing this article is to express emotions and to make friends, but an article that has been delayed again and again is full of countless precious memories.

In such an early spring midnight when all the lights are gone, the article that has been updated for four years has finally come to an end.Thank you GMs for your company all the way, and thank you TBBT for the touch and happiness that I have brought to me.Time flies, I hope the old man is well, and the original intention remains the same.

Conclude with Xi Murong's poem:

But I suddenly forgot how it started, in that ancient summer day that never came back.

thank you all.

-3 / 17 / 2017