Ode to Joy - Healers don't heal themselves

Ever since Tan Zongming quarreled with Su Yaqing, he felt depressed and invited his close friend Lao Yan to drink in the clubhouse alone

"Old Tan, you asked me to drink. I haven't had a few glasses yet, and you drank a bottle of whiskey yourself." Lao Yan cut off the wine in Tan Zongming's hand, smiled and looked at him speechlessly and said, "Isn't it just a quarrel?" Break up, it's not like you haven't broken up before, aren't you still a drunken fan who is calm and blissful, is it because she dumped you, and you were hit by a drink to relieve your worries?

"Old Yan, where do you think the problem is? She lives in that house, am I short of the money, but I took her rent into consideration for her self-esteem. I used to have a crush on Andy, but after we got together, I didn't like it. Keep a reasonable distance from Andy, Xiaoyan and I are normal contacts, I have explained to her over and over again, she said she understands but remembers it in her heart, and now she actually said to break up" Tan Zongming was drunk and hazy Pulling Lao Yan to complain, "She also said that she has always been cautious in front of me, and has always pretended to be magnanimous. We are boyfriend and girlfriend, there is nothing we can't be ourselves, I have always spoiled her, there is nothing you can't tell me"

"Since Xiao Su is such a hypocritical person, it's good to break up as soon as possible," Lao Yan said in a pretentious manner.

"Who are you talking about hypocrisy? Xiaoya is not that kind of person. You are not allowed to say that about her." Tan Zongming patted Lao Yan on the shoulder and warned

"Hehehe, I can't bear to part with it, and you still criticize her so much." Lao Yan looked at Tan Zongming, who was protecting the calf, with a funny face

He knew that Tan Zongming was really in love with Su Yaqing, otherwise he wouldn't get drunk because of her. He has been friends for so many years, and he has seen Yingying, Yanyan, and Yanyan around Tan Zongming, but he never let him really let go. In the heart, there is a leaf in the thousands of flowers that does not touch the body

"I can't complain because I feel uncomfortable. Besides, I came to you just to ask if you can do anything." Tan Zongming fell back on the sofa and looked at Lao Yan depressedly.

"Hahaha, I didn't expect you Tan Zongming to be trapped by love this day." Old Yan laughed and pointed at Tan Zongming, then put away his laughter, "Do you know what your biggest problem is?"

"What is it?" Tan Zongming stood up shaking and looked at Lao Yan.

"Two reasons, one is that you care too much about each other's feelings." Lao Yan placed Tan Zongming's shoulders and analyzed, "You all think you care about each other's feelings, but you ignore the most basic equality between lovers. This relationship is very important. You consider her self-esteem and mood swings but forget her sensitivity. She considers your identity and understands your involuntary but keeps all emotions in your heart. It’s like we drive, If you want the car to run smoothly, the tires must be fully inflated, but if you keep inflating without leaving room to flow, the tires will burst.”

"Well~~ what about the second one?" Tan Zongming nodded in agreement and continued to ask

"The second one is yourself. You are a financial crocodile who trembles as soon as you step on the beach. Everyone around you respects you. You are also used to protecting the people you care about under your wings. You also treat Xiao Su as well." It belongs to the position that needs to be protected, but you forgot that she, Su Yaqing, is also a strong person in her field, she is not the canary you used to be, she is Haidongqing who can fly freely, "

Lao Yan knew that Tan Zongming was resolute and proud of everything in the business field, and there was never a shortage of women around him, but they were always acting on the occasion, and there were no two people who really gave their hearts. It can be said that he has seen countless people, but his emotions are fledgling. It doesn't work to deal with feelings in the way of doing business and dealing with people

"Then...then what should I do..." Tan Zongming was already very drunk, but he still managed to stay sober and asked

"Let's put down your dignity and be sincere." Old Yan said bitterly, then got up, "Think about it, I'll go to the bathroom first."

"Let's put down your posture and wait with sincerity..." Tan Zongming fell asleep on the sofa while talking

After Lao Yan came back, he saw a petite waiter coming out of the private room. He was worried about what happened to Tan Zongming and hurried in. He saw Tan Zongming fell asleep soundly on the sofa. He always felt that something was wrong, but before he could think about it, he saw Tan Zongming get up Surrounded by Su Yaqing's name, I had no choice but to settle him down first.

And Su Yaqing continued to be busy in the hospital as usual, but she was more deserted than before and didn't like to laugh.

Su Yaqing met Yan Qing on the way to the meeting room just after checking the bed

"Doctor Su, you must help me. Lawyer Zhang told the hospital office about this matter. You must help me stop her in a while. During this period of time, I felt that there was something wrong with him and Aunt Chen, but now my father still I haven't woken up, I really can't stop them." Yan Qing pulled Su Yaqing to the corner and said nervously

"She has been with your dad for more than ten years, haven't you treated her very well?" Su Yaqing looked at Yan Qing thoughtfully.

"Recently, she often persuades me to give up medication, and my dad's assistant also said that the company's funds are in trouble. I can't take care of both sides now. I have to sit in the company, but my dad is in the hospital. I'm afraid that there will be another heartbeat two days ago. A sudden stop occurred." Yan Qing leaned against the wall tiredly and looked at Su Yaqing helplessly.

Two days ago, Yan's father suddenly suffered a cardiac arrest. Although he was rescued, the examination found that the oxygen machine was removed, but the people who came to visit him that day were all people around him, so it was impossible to find out who did it.

"You can also find the company... Tan Zongming will help you calm down those ghosts and monsters. Don't worry about the hospital. I have arranged for nurses. No one can enter the ICU at will except you and me." After thinking for a while, Su Yaqing calmed down the flustered Yan Qing , just because she saw from Yan Qing's body that she was once helpless but had to be strong

"Brother Zongming... He is also very busy recently, and I heard that he is not in a good condition." Yan Qing doesn't want to trouble Tan Zongming, and she can't even handle these things, so why talk about taking over Yan Shi in the future? "Are you arguing?" Is it because of me?" Yan Qing asked Su Yaqing worriedly

"Don't think too much, it's none of your business." Su Yaqing froze when she heard Tan Zongming, and smiled lightly, "Let's go to the meeting room first."

In the meeting room, lawyer Zhang, Chen Xueru, Su Yaqing, Jiang Zuo and Yan Qing, director of surgery Xu and hospital ethics committee

"Today, Director Xu and I are here on behalf of our hospital's ethics committee to learn about Yan Zhendong's treatment and the diagnosis and treatment. Of course, we also invited family members, attending doctors, and designated representatives to participate in this event today. Yes, then please designate a representative to talk about it first." Director Zhao of the school office went straight to the topic to break the tense atmosphere

"Director Zhao's opening remarks are not very accurate. As far as today's meeting is concerned, it is not a meeting of the hospital ethics committee. The real reason is that I proposed to the hospital ethics committee earlier as the executor of Mr. Yan Zhendong's will. According to his own wishes, Mr. Yan voluntarily gave up the hospital for the end-of-life treatment." Lawyer Zhang ignored Director Zhao's ugly face, and turned to look at Su Yaqing and Jiang Zuo who were opposite him. It has been submitted to two of his doctors, Director of Cardiothoracic Surgery Su Yaqing and Emergency Doctor Jiang Zuo"

"The so-called living will is an opinion put forward by the person concerned on his serious medical problems when he is very conscious and fully responsible, in order to let us doctors and family members Follow it, I'm right." Su Yaqing has seen many patients' wills in foreign countries for several years, and living wills abroad are very common, and she has somewhat understood the content of this aspect

"You are very correct. These contents have been listed in detail in the living will. Please open the fifth page of the copy in front of us." Attorney Zhang looked at everyone confidently and explained, "Mr. Yan's wishes are clearly stated at the end of life. Or irreversible coma or persistent vegetative state, no longer continue to use the life support system”

"I don't agree, I'm his daughter, and I will never agree to give up the rescue." Yan Qing said angrily, leaving the documents on the table

"Xiaoyan, have you ever thought that even if you don't give up, your father won't be able to come back given his current situation?" Chen Xueru sincerely persuaded Yan Qing

"As long as my dad is lying on the bed, even if he can't speak, can't hear or see, as long as I can hold his hand, I think I can live this life." Yan Qing looked at Chen Xueru angrily and said

"But what about your father? Have you ever thought about how your father's life is going? He is unconsciously at the mercy of others. Apart from suffering every day, he has no quality of life at all. Your father is a strong person. Does he agree with him to live like this? ?" Chen Xueru looked at Yan Qing pretending to be sad.

"Miss Yan, I can understand the mood of your family members. Family members make decisions for patients. Although people generally accept this fact today, from a legal point of view, no one can decide the life and death of others, so in fact this behavior It has already been regarded as an act that violates the spirit of the law. For all personal matters, when I express my opinions clearly, I should first respect my opinions.”

"As a doctor, I can tell you that the vast majority of people will choose to live when life and death are at stake," Jiang Zuo looked at Lawyer Zhang and sarcastically said

"Director Zhao and she have made such a request once, and I heard it last time, and now I have mentioned it, and it is exactly the same." Yan Qing was stimulated by Lawyer Zhang's words, stood up and said excitedly to the two directors, Zhao and Xu.

"When?" Director Zhang asked suspiciously

"It's like this. As Yan Zong's attending doctor, I advocated the objection to Mr. Yan's last will." Su Yaqing patted Yan Qing on the shoulder, signaling her to calm down and not to worry.

"I have studied your opinions carefully. The reason you insisted on objecting at that time was valid, so I accepted it, but now you have no reason to object to my request again." Lawyer Zhang looked at Su Yaqing calmly and said

"Why?" Director Xu asked

"As far as I know, Yan always had a cardiac arrest just now. You violated the patient's wishes and not only performed cardiopulmonary resuscitation on her, but also caused serious damage to his body." Lawyer Zhang spoke harshly to Su Yaqing. explain

"Why didn't you report to the higher authorities?" Director Zhao of the hospital looked at Su Yaqing and asked in a low voice

"The rescue of cardiopulmonary resuscitation may hurt the patient's ribs, but we think this is a complication, not a medical malpractice, so there is no need to report it to the hospital." Su Yaqing looked at Director Zhao respectfully and said

"Why?" Attorney Zhang asked funny

"Living wills do not have full legal effect in China, and they have to be up to the family members in the end. Miss Yan's opinion is very clear, right?" Su Yaqing looked at Lawyer Zhang calmly after seeing Yan Qing's firm nod, "Anything No one can execute anything for him. You are a lawyer and you should understand the law. If this living will has legal effect, then if we issue it correctly, you can go to the court to sue us. Why don’t you go? Because you know Knowing that this living will has no legal effect, that's why you interfered with us again and again, just to make Miss Yan give up voluntarily." Su Yaqing glanced at the nervous Chen Xueru

"Okay, our hospital also attaches great importance to your opinion. The meeting will be over after the discussion. Our doctors are very busy." Su Yaqing didn't wait for Lawyer Zhang to think about it, and casually turned the chair and looked at the two. hospital leaders

"Yeah... That's right, why don't you come here today and go back, Director Xu, we are also reporting to the superior and explaining the situation!" Director Zhao also saw the trick, and immediately announced the adjournment of the meeting after obtaining the consent of Director Xu "Okay, the meeting is over"

The author has something to say:

Although Tan Zongming said that he lived among a hundred flowers

I've seen hypocrisy too early

There won't be much sincere affection

So I assumed that he only had two true relationships before.

His career is strong and domineering, but his relationship is still groping