healer love letter

By definition, a psychological counselor is a professional who uses psychology and related knowledge, follows the principles of psychology, and helps clients solve psychological problems through psychological counseling techniques and methods.The counseling relationship is a relationship of helping and asking for help, so the relationship between the visitor and the counselor is that of a help-seeker and a counselor, not a patient and a doctor.

Although Li Ying repeatedly told Gao Le this definition several times, Gao Le still ignored him and called Dr. Li when he saw him.

In the first few days, Gao Le went to his doctor Li for psychological consultation on time and on time, saying that he had insomnia.Li Ying tried hypnosis for him several times, and the effect was good.Gao Le was hypnotized and lay down in the consulting room to sleep. When he woke up refreshed, he said goodbye to Li Ying and left.

That's it for the first week.

Gao Le still went to the restaurant, but he didn't go so frequently. Usually, Chen Er often stayed in the restaurant, and when there were many customers, he also served as a waiter and dishwasher.

When Gao Le went that day, a customer was scolding the waiter of the restaurant. This waiter was recruited by Gao Le himself, and his name was Tong Tong.When Gao Le entered the door, he heard the customer yelling, "I've been waiting for half an hour fucking, did you serve this meal abroad?"

Tongtong's eyelashes drooped from the yelling, her cheeks were flushed, and she just kept apologizing. "I'm sorry, I'm going to get you some food right away."

"Damn it, I don't want it anymore." The angry guest was a man in a suit with a rumpled shirt collar.A long-haired woman sat next to him. When he was angry, the woman tilted her head and pulled at the corner of his clothes, trying to calm his anger, but was interrupted impatiently by the man.

"Then I'll pay you now." Tongtong hurriedly took out the bill, ready to hand it to the furious man.

"Check out, I've been sitting here for half an hour fucking with a plate of students, who will accompany me in my time? Let me tell you, I won't pay you a dime today." The man said and started Pack your things.

"But, but you've already eaten this dish." Tongtong was frightened and spoke with a crying tone.

Gao Le has met such angry guests before, and he became annoyed after waiting for a while, wishing to overturn the table.Opening a restaurant or restaurant can never avoid this point. The back kitchen is so big, and only one or two dishes can be served at a time.In order to keep the dishes fresh, fresh ingredients must be prepared and sold, so the speed of serving dishes will inevitably decrease.

Now there is a way to quickly produce vegetables on the market. Import semi-finished frozen ingredients in batches. When using them, they only need to be reheated in the pot, and the food production speed is greatly improved.But Gao Le didn't want to do this. He opened the restaurant to share his mood at the moment of tasting the food with the guests. He wanted to convey this wonderful mood meticulously.

In the past, when Gao Le was still in the back kitchen, he often came out to apologize. The back kitchen was as busy as a pot of porridge. Everyone wanted to give birth to Nezha's third prince.But it is never possible to persuade the guests to learn to empathize. The guests said proudly that I came to your place to eat to enjoy, why should I empathize?

Gao Le also had nothing to say.

He walked over and stopped in front of Tongtong.

"Brother Le." Tongtong saw Gao Le coming over as if seeing a savior, and looked at him with tears in his eyes.

"Mister, I'm very sorry. The slow delivery of the food is indeed our problem. This plate of cold spell is a gift from our restaurant." Gao Le spoke with a sincere tone.

"who are you?"

Gao Le smiled, "I am the owner of this restaurant."

"Hmph, a restaurant like yours will close down sooner or later." The man was still cursing.He stood up and looked at the woman beside him.His female partner obviously couldn't stand his arrogant attitude, and two red clouds appeared on her face, as if she was ashamed.

"What you said is, I'm sorry we have caused you trouble." Gao Le's smile was impeccable. "Our restaurant made a mistake first, and I will give you this plate of cold spell as an apology."

The man sneered, blowing air out of his nose, as if saying that it was more or less the same.

"But, you just yelled at our waiter, I hope you can apologize to her."

The man's face suddenly changed when he heard this, and he stared at Gao Le with a fleshy face. "Why should I apologize?"

"Just rely on the gentlemanly demeanor of an adult male." Gao Le smiled politely.

"What if I don't apologize?"

Gao Le was not annoyed either, and still kept his smiling face. Tongtong on one side lowered his head, and kept picking the little lace on his apron with his fingers. The tears in his eyes had not completely subsided.

"I can't help you if you don't apologize. After all, not everyone has such a thing as demeanor, just." Gao Le turned to look at his female companion.As soon as Gao Le came in, he saw a small bunch of roses tied together by the woman's hand. It seems that today is the day of this gentleman's courtship.Since the courtship, the meditation design process does not allow the slightest deviation, that's why he was furious when the food was served.

Gao Le looked at his female companion with a warm smile.Boss Gao has never been short of female popularity. After all, the restaurant's first signature is the dishes, and the other is the human-shaped stand chef and manager Boss Gao himself.Every day, crowds of little sisters hold hands to show their dignity. Gao Le smiled like this, and no little girl has ever been so heartbroken that I stand still.

"Our Tongtong hasn't graduated from university this year, and he is still a child who hasn't left school. This gentleman can speak so nonsense and curse at girls who haven't graduated yet. I really don't know that after he got married, he will lose his freshness day by day. Will Sen's wife have the same attitude?"

Gale continued to smile.

"What do you think, lady?"

The long-haired woman's Adam's apple was rolling. She seemed to be bewitched by Gao Le, and it took a while to react. She picked up a small bouquet of roses on the table and threw it on the man, picked up her handbag and left.

The man wanted to scold something at first, but seeing his girlfriend leave suddenly, he had no choice but to chase her instead.

Tongtong was slightly relieved.

"Thank you, Brother Le."

Gao Le raised his hand and rubbed her head. "Don't thank me, hurry up and clean up this table, and you can turn over the table when guests come later."

Tongtong nodded.

In the evening, Gao Le stayed until the restaurant locked the door, and chatted with Chen Er for a while leaning against the car door.

"Did you really go to psychological counseling recently?" Chen Er went to his pocket for cigarettes, took out one and put it in his mouth.Gao Le saw Gogou's finger, and Chen Er took out another one and handed it to him.Putting the cigarette case in his pocket, he started looking for the lighter again. When he got the lighter, he leaned over to help Gao Le light it, and then lit his own cigarette.

Gao Le exhaled a cloud of misty smoke.

"Hmm."

"Is it the counseling center on the business card that the guy gave you at the bar last time?" Two fireworks flickered in the night.

"Well, he's the counselor there."

"Psychiatrist." Chen Er smiled, and the cigarette butt between his fingers rolled down a little ash with sparks, and the ash rolled in mid-air and turned gray. "Do you see that you are mentally ill?"

"You're only sick in your fucking brain, and I'm healthy." He breathed out another puff of smoke, squinting his eyes, looking through the smoke at the vast night sky.The sky was dark and terrible, and there was not a single star that could be seen clearly.

"Are you chasing him?"

"Yeah." Gao Le beamed, biting his cigarette butt, shaking his head at Chen Er, looking very serious.

Chen Er is too familiar with his casual attitude, half-hearted, he has been like this for the past few years, and every day is correct.He didn't say much, maybe he would let go after a few days of freshness.

"That's all right, take it easy on your way home later." Chen Er threw the cigarette butt on the ground, stamped it out with his feet, wrapped his coat tightly, and sat in his car.

The few of them who played well used to love off-roading together. The cars they bought were either off-road or Jeeps. Gao Le’s car was a Wrangler. He modified it. The body was raised by four inches, and 35-inch tires were replaced. It is glossy black.Chen Er is the most stable, honestly bought a BMW to drive, and when a few people go out to play with him, he will always be the one to sit in the car.

Gao Le's psychological consultation time on the second day was in the morning. He got up from the bed at seven o'clock in the morning and stood in front of the closet, picking and choosing, thinking about what to wear to make Dr. Li's eyes shine.After choosing for a long time, I didn't find the feeling, so I casually took out a work jacket and put it on, and put a watch on my wrist before going out.

Going to bed too late last night, and waking up too early this morning, Gao Le went into the counseling center and kept yawning.

"Boss Gao didn't sleep well last night?" Seeing him dozing off, Li Mengyue asked with a smile.

"Stayed up all night." He sighed again. "It's really old. After staying up late, I'm so sleepy the next day that I can't even open my eyes."

Li Mengyue smiled while holding her chin.

Li Ying is used to getting up early for running. After running, she sweats all over, takes a shower and goes out, feeling refreshed. When she comes to the counseling center, she can start working quickly.

He was drinking coffee when Goller came in, flipping through the latest issue of Popular Psychology to see if there were any novel papers on it.Nowadays, many papers in magazines are written blindly, and the opinions of the predecessors are mixed together to form a nondescript paper. After reading it, there is no gain.

"Morning, Doctor Li." Gao Le entered with a smile on his face.

Li Ying raised her head when she heard the voice, put the coffee in her hand on the table, closed the magazines and put them aside, got up and walked out from behind the desk. "Didn't sleep well?" He saw Gao Le's eyes were slightly tired.

"Well, I stayed up all night yesterday, maybe I didn't get enough sleep." Gao Le's eyelids were sleepy, but he still forced himself to smile at Li Ying.

"Is it still hypnotized today? Let you sleep for a while?" Li Ying walked to the chair and pointed to the reclining chair leaning against the wall.

Hypnosis requires the help-seeker to be in a comfortable and relaxed position, so the consultation room should be equipped with a comfortable reclining chair, so that the help-seeker can lie on it and relax as much as possible.The theory of hypnosis can be traced back to the time of Freud. His psychoanalysis believes that dreams are the release of people's subconscious mind. Many things in dreams are actually wishes that people want but have not achieved in real life. These wishes are suppressed during the day. , completely released at night.Through hypnosis, the repressed desires of the help-seekers can be found, so as to help them get out of the predicament.It is said that the reclining chair he used in Freud's former residence is still there for future generations to visit.

"Let's have a chat." Gao Le changed to a comfortable sitting position, and he moved his chair to a different position so that he and Li Ying faced each other.Gao Le nestled into the chair, wrapped his clothes tightly, and rolled his eyes.

"I'm sleepy right now, but I still want to talk to you."

Gao Le's previous experience was not in vain, Xiao Sao's words jumped out like automatic replies.After he finished speaking, he looked at Li Ying's unnatural reaction, thinking that he seemed to have something to do.Li Ying was really surprised by Gao Le, she blinked her eyes very fast, and licked her lips to relieve her tension, which didn't help.

"What do you want to talk about?" Li Ying asked.

"You decide." Gao Le huddled in the chair, with one arm resting on the armrest of the chair, his eyes were as warm as jade, and his eyes were full of Li Ying. "I want to talk too much. I want to talk about Dr. Li's past, Dr. Li's family, Dr. Li's middle school days, Dr. Li's hobbies and taboos..." He gently touched his lips with the index finger of his left hand . "I want to talk too much, and I'm afraid that if you accidentally touch Dr. Li's restricted area, it will make you uncomfortable. So you can decide the topic, and you can talk about anything you want."

This was the first time that Li Ying encountered such a casual counseling conversation.The various conversation skills and precautions in my mind were all messed up, the smile of this person in front of me seemed to have magic power, and I wanted to fall into it unconsciously.

Afterwards, they still talked about irrelevant gossip and trivial matters, and Gao Le still didn't ask what he wanted to ask the most.

At the end of the consultation time, Gao Le was not in a hurry to leave, and dawdled while watching Li Ying tidy up the interview records on the desktop.

Jiajia opened the door and came in, and was stunned when she saw Gao Le still sitting in the chair. "Isn't it over yet?"

Gao Le just stood up, smiled and said, "It's over."

"Oh." Jiajia opened the door and stepped in, standing behind Li Ying. "Dr. Li, Dr. He said that she suddenly has something to do, and she has no time to see you off, so she asked you to take a taxi."

Li Ying nodded and said yes.

Gao Le snuggled next to Jiajia and grabbed his sleeve. "Where are you taking Dr. Li?"

Jiajia had no choice but to answer truthfully. "Dr. Li's car was sent for maintenance yesterday. Originally, Dr. He said that he would take Dr. Li to the 4S shop to pick up the car on the way home today. But just now, Dr. He received a call and wanted to go out. He didn't have time to send Dr. Li, so he asked me to come and follow him." Doctor Li said."

Gao Le's eyes lit up, and he turned to look at Li Ying. "If Dr. Li doesn't mind, I can take you there."

The corner of Li Ying's mouth moved. "It's not appropriate."

"There's nothing inappropriate, unless you dislike me."

"No." Li Ying wanted to argue, because under normal circumstances, counselors and help-seekers should avoid private contact, so as not to have some non-objective feelings and thoughts, which will affect the effect of psychological counseling.

But thinking about Boss Gao's performance, it seems that he doesn't care much about the consulting effect.

"Then let me send you off."

Gao Lesheng dragged Li Ying into his car.

Li Ying was uncomfortable sitting in the car, this was his first time being in a small car, and he was inexplicably nervous.Gao Le wanted to tease him, so he deliberately bent over and leaned towards him, and pulled off the buckle on the seat belt to help Li Ying fasten the seat belt.

"I'll do it myself." Li Ying stretched out her hand to stop them, and the two of them briefly touched each other, and he quickly pulled it away.When he was nervous, he fixed his eyes on Gao Le's hand to help him buckle his seat belt.

Gao Le raised his head after inserting the lock, and met Li Ying's gaze. "What are you looking at?"

Li Ying was speechless and froze for a few seconds before answering, "It's nothing."

The two didn't speak any more along the way.

When they arrived at the 4s electric store, Gao Le planned to take the opportunity to have lunch with Li Ying, but Yu Lei made a series of fatal calls, saying that there was a chef who wanted to recommend them to them.Gao Le had to give up the idea of ​​having lunch with Dr. Li.

After Li Ying got out of the car, she stood in front of the window of the cab to thank Gao Le. He stood in front of the window, with bright sunlight falling on his forehead, and his eyelashes fluttering up and down.

"Thank you Mr. Gao."

Gao Le's head sticks out from the car window, and his arms grab the window frame. The car glass has been lowered to the bottom, but Gao Le still feels that the space is too small.

"Doctor Li, you can see that I am not looking for you for psychological counseling, right?"

Unlike a handsome man like Gao Le, Li Ying's facial features are all soft, with a cold and pale complexion, single eyelids, and slender eye tails.When he is not talking, he looks like a Korean star on the screen of a little girl's mobile phone. It can be salty but sweet, and it looks a little cute.

"I see."

Gao Le and Li Ying's noses were facing each other, and the white autumn sunlight covered the boundless land.The withered leaves on the sycamore tree were blown by the wind and swayed on the branches, like a bleak song.

"I'm gay, I'm interested in you, do you see it?"

Gao Le has never been able to materialize eyelashes that are like crow feathers.Now looking at Li Ying's drooping eyelids and eyelashes fluttering up and down, he suddenly understood the specific meaning of that adjective.

He was not in a hurry, folded his arms on the lower frame of the car window, rested his chin lightly on his arms, and raised his eyes to look at Li Ying.

Li Ying nodded.

It seemed that the sun broke through the clouds and poured down, illuminating Gao Le's mood brightly.

"Okay, then I'll go first, see you, Dr. Li."

The author has something to say:

Li Ying: I can see it.