healer love letter

Gao Le went early the next day. After lunch in the store, he simply packed up and went out. He also packed two honey cakes from the dessert counter, put a ball of ice cream on it, and recorded it in Chen Er On his head, he carried the cake and went out happily.

When we arrived at the Kangle Heart Counseling Center, the girl at the front desk stood up reflexively as soon as the door was opened, showing a professional and polite smile, and the smile on her face widened when she saw Gao Le.

"It's you."

Gao Le gently closed the door, walked straight to Li Mengyue with two boxes of cakes, and put the cake boxes in his hand on the reception desk.

"I brought two pieces of the honey toast made by our own restaurant. One of them has matcha ice cream balls on it, and the other has rum balls on it. I don't know which one you like. You two can choose whatever you want." After speaking, he turned his head and looked around. The front hall was empty, and the consultation rooms behind were all closed, and there was no one in sight.

"What about Jiajia, ask her to come and eat with me."

Li Mengyue carefully opened the cake box. In fact, this cake has its own name, it is called thick toast, and it is a Hong Kong-style dessert.The method is to hollow out the middle of the honey toast in the shape of a square brick, cut the dug out toast into squares, wrap it with melted butter and honey, put it in the oven to bake the aroma, and the outside is browned. After cooling, put ice cream balls on the top , the cool ice cream with crispy bread is very popular with little girls.

"She was just called away by Doctor Li." Li Mengyue opened the box and saw that the ice cream ball had melted by half, and the green juice of the matcha tea was spreading down. "Oops, this ice cream ball is starting to melt."

"Then you eat first, leave one for Jiajia, and eat it when he comes out." Gao Lebai was bored, fingering the business card case on the information desk.

Li Mengyue took out the knife and fork that came with her and licked her lips. She forked a piece of honey toast cube dipped in matcha juice. After entering her mouth, the coolness of the ice cream and the sweetness of the toast blended together, and Li Mengyue shrank her neck.

"It's delicious, it's delicious." She inserted another piece into her mouth, looked at Gao Le and asked. "This is made by your restaurant. Do you run the restaurant?"

Gao Le was looking around, wondering what Dr. Li was up to right now, when he heard Li Mengyue's words, he turned his head and concentrated a little. "Well, yes, I run a restaurant."

"Western restaurant?"

"Ah."

"Big boss."

Gao Le touched his nose and smiled. "Are you kidding me?" He said again, "If you have nothing to eat, I will give you coupons."

"That's a good feeling."

At noon, there was no one in the counseling center. The entire front hall was occupied by Li Mengyue, who was in charge of the reception, and Gao Le, who was leaning on the information desk and talking to her. Li Mengyue was eating toast while chatting with Gao Le, her eyes smiling like crescents.

She looked up and saw Jia Jia's eyes lit up, and she waved to him quickly. "Jia Jia, come here quickly."

Jia Jia walked this way and smiled when she saw Gao Le. "You are really here."

"I made an appointment yesterday, can I not come?" Gao Le liked this little girl with a round face, she just graduated from university, and she was pure and kind-hearted. "Is Dr. Li busy?"

Jiajia nodded, "There is a helper who has an appointment at two o'clock, and he is in the consultation room right now." Jiajia saw that the cake box was also lit up, and little girls like desserts, and they couldn't walk when they saw beautifully packaged sweets. . "what is this?"

Li Mengyue pointed at Gao Le. "Boss Gao brought a condolence item, honey toast, and there was an ice cream ball on it. I was afraid that it would be melted, so I quickly ate one. Yours probably melted too, so hurry up and eat it."

Jia Jia ground her teeth with her tongue, picked up a fork and forked a piece of toast into her mouth, chewed twice, looked up at Gao Le, and gave him a thumbs up. "tasty."

Gale smiled politely.

Watching Jiajia eat half of a honey toast, Gao Le moved his lips and opened his mouth to speak. "As the saying goes, eating people is the shortest talker, and being soft on others, you two have finished eating the cake today, so you should give me some information."

Jiajia swallowed the unfinished toast in her mouth, and the sweetness of rum ice cream was still in her mouth. There was a little ice cream stain on the corner of her mouth, and she blinked. "What information?"

Gao Le looked around, lowered his head, and lowered his voice.He sprayed on a little perfume when he went out today, and when Jiajia got closer, he smelled the nice woody perfume on his body, it was very faint, like a wisp of fragrance floating in the air.

"Do you, Dr. Li, have a date?" Gao Le didn't directly ask if your Dr. Li had a boyfriend, because he wasn't sure if Li Ying was gay.He thinks it's probably because it's because it's not gay, whoever goes gay at night, but Li Ying's temperament really doesn't look like someone who hangs out in bars.Wanting to know if he was single, and also wondering if he was talking about a boyfriend or a girlfriend, Gao Le used the vague pronoun "object" to give Jiajia the choice of answer.

Jia Jia bit the tip of the fork. The fork was made of stainless steel and held a lot of weight in her hand.She frowned and turned to look at Li Mengyue. "Have you ever seen Dr. Li talking about a girlfriend?"

Li Mengyue shook her head, "I haven't seen it before. Dr. Li is a loner and doesn't usually chat with us. No one knows if he has a girlfriend. Aren't you his assistant? It's because you spend a lot of time with him, don't you do you know?"

The fork in the mouth turned around, and finally was bitten on the tip of the tooth by the master. "That is no."

The tone that was uncertain and flamboyant before became firm now, as if stating the facts, and looked at Gao Le firmly.

"No, Dr. Li is single."

Gao Le's fox-like eyes flickered, "Got it."

If you don't have a girlfriend, do you need a boyfriend?

Psychological counseling generally requires a psychological counselor to conduct an intake interview first, observe the clinical response of the visitor through the inductive conversation, and integrate the clinical data of the visitor.Determine the key points of the psychological and behavioral problems of the visitor through the preliminary diagnosis, determine that the other party's problems belong to the scope of psychological counseling work, and then make a diagnosis of their psychological problems, form a psychological evaluation report, and then formulate a psychological counseling plan and gradually implement psychological counseling.

Gao Le obviously felt that none of this was necessary. He didn't need to use the intake meeting to learn about Li Ying's professional abilities. He just wanted his mobile phone number and wanted to ask him out for dinner.

The visitor at two o'clock was a girl in her early twenties, still in her junior year of college.She has an eating disorder and often suffers from nervous vomiting.

At first, she thought it was something wrong with her body or her stomach. She checked several times and found nothing abnormal, but the vomiting couldn't stop no matter what.

Later, the school teacher recommended her to do psychological counseling. After several sessions in the school health service center, she was afraid of being seen by her classmates, so she came here secretly.

The girl's eating disorder is due to psychological reasons. Before she went to college, she was overweight. Since she was a child, she was ridiculed and looked down upon a lot because of her size.After entering university, I made up my mind to lose weight. I only ate one vegan lunch every day, and ran ten laps on the playground in the evening. After six months of persistence, my weight began to change significantly, and the girl began to lose control.Her initial weight was [-], a [-], and [-] was indeed a bit overweight.By the second semester of her sophomore year, her weight had been fluctuating around [-], but the girl was still not reconciled, and wanted to lose weight to a hundred catties.After the weight loss enters the plateau period, the weight loss is very slow, and the necessary things are needed to maintain the body when going to school on weekdays.If you don't eat, you will be hungry, and if you eat, you will get fat. The girl falls into a kind of ambivalence.

From the beginning of her junior year, she finished her meal at noon every day, and would vomit it all after two o'clock in the afternoon.She herself didn't know what was going on, but she would spit out her lunch in the afternoon.

The psychology teacher at the school told her that it was a psychophysiological disorder and hoped that she could come for regular consultations.However, the girl once came out of the mental health service center and ran into a classmate. She lied to the other party's suspicious eyes and said that she had been a little anxious recently, so she came to talk to the psychology teacher.Unable to continue consulting at the school, she found the place herself.

Today is her fourth week here.

When the girl came out, she was wearing a Korean-style sweater, a pair of tight black jeans underneath, and a pair of white sneakers with no pattern on her feet.She looks youthful and beautifully dressed, but her complexion is not very good.She became skinny too quickly, her cheeks were sunken, her poor sleep caused serious dark circles, her face was dull and yellow, Gao Le took a double look when the girl passed by.The girl has a pretty good personality. When she saw Gao Le looking at her, she smiled back at him, and Gao Le also smiled.

Li Ying frowned when she saw Gao Le after sending the little girl out.Jia Jia gave him the documents he needed, and he walked in, leaving the door of the consulting room open.Gao Le pointed to the open door, meaning can I go in?Jiajia nodded and pushed him from behind.

"Close the door." Li Ying's voice was cold.

After Gao Le came in, he closed the door and walked up to Li Ying.The consulting room was simply decorated. Li Ying stood in front of a desk and read documents. Behind the desk was a cabinet with various materials in it.There are two sofa chairs in the middle of the room, and a small round table next to it. On it is a woven bamboo basket with several different types of sugar.

"Sit down." Li Ying was wearing ivory white overalls, and when she lowered her head, the broken hair on her forehead covered half of her eyes, and Gao Le was fascinated by it.

It stands to reason that psychological counselors do not have fixed clothing requirements. They are different from doctors and do not need to wear white coats uniformly.Director Kang of the psychological counseling center thinks that uniform clothing can make visitors recognize their professionalism, thus creating dependence. Dependence can make visitors less defensive. The problem.

Gao Le turned his head and looked around, and finally sat down on a chair.

Li Ying sat down with the consultation notebook, "I need to record some information about you and the questions I want to consult, but don't worry, anything you say here will be kept strictly confidential."

Li Ying spread the notebook on her legs and looked at Gao Le.

"is it okay?"

Gao Le nodded.

Li Ying recorded Gao Le's basic information in a stylized manner, and looked up at him when she heard his age, as if she didn't believe it.Gao Le touched his chin shamelessly and said, handsome guys usually look small.

"What is the main question you want to ask?"

Gao Le sat in a calm posture, not nervous at all, staring at Li Ying, not at all relaxed. "I've been suffering from insomnia recently, and I can't sleep well. Can Dr. Li prescribe me some sleeping pills or Valium?"

Many people tend to confuse a counselor with a psychiatrist, just as people often confuse having a mental problem with a neurosis.The interview objects of the psychological counselor are people who are mentally normal but have certain psychological problems. If they are neuropathy in the popular sense in people's daily life, that is, people who are abnormal or abnormal, they need to go to a mental hospital for treatment by a psychiatrist. .

Li Ying was not impatient with Gao Le's misunderstanding of her profession, but just explained patiently as usual.

"Mr. Gao, psychological counselors are not doctors. We are just counselors. Our job task is to help people solve their psychological problems through counseling and conversation skills. We are not qualified to use drugs, so we cannot prescribe sleeping pills for you."

"It's okay to have a mobile phone number without sleeping pills." Gao Le blinked.

"The theory is that the private contact between the help-seeker and the consultant is not conducive to the normal progress of the consultation. I must maintain an objective attitude towards you and not mix personal emotions."

Gao Le crossed his legs and leaned on the sofa chair, his eyes were shining, warm and bright, and the corners of his mouth curled up, looking at Li Ying. "That can't be done. If I don't mix personal emotions, my problem specification can't be completely solved."

Li Ying ignored him.

"Doctor Li?" Gao Le called him again.

"As I said, I'm just a psychological counselor. I don't have a doctor's license. I'm not a doctor." Li Ying closed the interview records in the book.

"The first meeting is to give both of us a chance to choose. I will evaluate you and your problems. On the contrary, if you are not satisfied with my consulting ability, you can choose other consultants."

"No dissatisfaction, very satisfied."

"Then we can discuss a solution to your problem when you come back next time."

"Aren't you going to consult today?" Gao Le raised an eyebrow. "Hypnosis or something, don't you urge me?"

Li Ying smiled softly. This was the first time he laughed since Gao Le entered the room. His smile was like the clear and bright moonlight peeking out from behind the dark clouds. "Mr. Gao, the progress of the consultation cannot be so fast. We need to establish a good consultation relationship before proceeding to the next step."

Gao Le didn't answer immediately, but stared at Li Ying with a pair of eyes, his body remained in the original posture, his back tilted forward, and he looked a little dazed.

"Mr. Gao?" Li Ying called him.

Only then did Gao Le come out of his own thoughts, his eyes became clearer, and he smiled.

"You look so pretty when you smile."

Five and ten minutes of preliminary diagnosis were wasted by Gao Lela in an idle manner.

Before going out, Gao Le was in a good mood. Today was a fruitful day. The initial contact with Dr. Li also let people know what kind of thoughts I had in contacting him.However, he hasn't asked the question of being single and sexual orientation yet. Gao Le wants to be more stable. Dr. Li doesn't seem like a person who is used to hanging out. He has a calm temper. familiar to this point.

Gao Le came out of the consulting room with the corner of his mouth upturned, and saw Jia Jia smiling at him as soon as he went out.

"Are you satisfied, Boss Gao?"

"Very satisfied." Gao Le raised his eyebrows.

"Then do you still make an appointment next time?"

"Appointment, make an appointment with Dr. Li's free time for half a month."

"All appointments?" Jiajia glanced at Dr. Li's appointment form, and frowned. "But the average visitor comes at most twice a week. If you come too frequently in a week, it will not be conducive to the smooth resolution of your help-seeking problems."

Gao Le put one hand into his pocket, and glanced at the time. The chat in the group was very lively. The group of people hadn’t seen Fang Li for a long time, and the atmosphere of chatting and chatting together was high. One Gao Le was missing, so he became The target of public criticism.Gao Le pouted, a group of old cucumbers.After watching, he held the phone in his hand and smiled at Jiajia. "Does it look like I have a problem to fix?"

Jiajia was stunned for a moment, and suddenly realized what Gao Le meant.I have never met anyone in their line of work, and I have seen a lot of weird people, so I don't think it's weird when I look at Gao Le.

"It's not very similar." Jiajia laughed.

"That's it. Help me make an appointment. It's okay to do it frequently."

"Dr. Li's consultation fee is 6000 per hour..." Jiajia hesitated, she was also thinking of Gao Le, the little girl was kind-hearted, and she was afraid that Gao Le would invest too much money.The consultation fee is [-] per hour, even if Gao Le comes back every two days, at least one hour at a time, he will have to pay less than [-] for the consultation fee in half a month, for a freshman who is still in the internship period For a living, this is a huge sum of money.

"Do you think I look like someone who is short of money?" Gao Le winked, and Jia Jia shrank her neck in fright.

"No, not quite like it."

"Okay, you can make an appointment for me. My mobile phone number is saved with you. Make an appointment to call me in the world."

Gao Le blinked at Jiajia, but only blinked his left eye.

"Strike while the iron is hot."

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Boss Gao: Make an appointment with me!