Accumulate feathers sink the boat

Gong Yu now knows what success is not enough and failure is more than failure. After so many days of preparation, he was not coaxed well, and the old hatred added new worries. Now that Lu Xiangzhou doesn't even want the book, it is really hard to see him again.After pondering for a long time, he could only use the only backup plan, and went to ask Chen Min.

This is really the last resort.Chen Min's school has a lot of things to do, and he usually has to make an appointment a long time in advance to have a meal with them. Gong Yu himself knows that the busier he is at work, the more he hopes that his family can save snacks, so no matter how much conflict he had with Lu Xiangzhou in the past, he Never poked at Chen Min.This time, I originally wanted to cut through the mess quickly, and tried my best to solve the problem before Chen Min knew it, but now...-

The "beep" of the doorbell sounded like an alarm bell, and Gong Yu, the criminal suspect who came to guard himself, was so nervous that his legs trembled a little, as if he had returned to the time when Chen Min was answering questions while studying.

"Come in quickly, it's not like you don't have a key, can't you open the door by yourself?"

But isn't Chen Min a little too calm?Not only was he not surprised by his sudden visit, but he also cooked a table full of meals?It's too...

"Are you still cooking? I...what about me... I wanted to leave without wasting your time." Gong Yu scratched her head in panic, thinking that it would be too uncomfortable to talk about divorce while eating. Does it fit?

"Leave as soon as you finish talking. Can you finish this matter in a few sentences?"

"what?!"

"Ah what?" Chen Min frowned, "Didn't you come to talk to me about Xiang Zhou?"

"Yes... yes, yes," Gong Yu felt his tongue twitch, "just... just... Cocoa..."

"Oh, what, hesitating, let's talk first, what are you talking about standing at the door?" Chen Min became a little impatient, and pulled Gong Yu into the door, and the 1 meter tall man was caught by her. He staggered a bit.

"No... no, how do you know?"

"How else would you know?" Chen Min gave Gong Yu a white look, "Of course it was the child who said it, you both called me on the day of the divorce and told me."

"What?!!" This is drawing from the bottom of the pot, or adding fuel to the fire. Gong Yu is really afraid of Lu Xiangzhou, the Buddha, so why doesn't he play his cards according to the way at all.

"Oh, so you don't know that I know? Then you come to me now? How long are you planning to keep it from me?"

"No, it's really not what you think. I originally wanted to solve this matter as soon as possible and not bother you."

"But what happened?"

"The result?" Gong Yu was dejected, and threw himself on the sofa, "The result is that I am asking you to blame me. I really have no choice. Lu Xiangzhou lost his temper too much this time. Only you can do it." Save me!"

"You don't want a divorce?"

"Of course I don't want to!" Gong Yu's eyes widened, "What? Did he tell you that I wanted a divorce?!"

"That's not true..." Chen Min shook his head, "Forget it, let's talk while eating, the food will be cold in a while."

"Hey, how could such a thing be said during dinner..." Gong Yu leaned on the sofa, not wanting to move a step.

"Why not? It's such a big deal that you don't want to think about food or tea? You are a young man in your early 20s, and the sky will collapse if you break up, right?"

"Oh no, Mr. Chen is really different this time, Lu Xiangzhou is really angry, I can't coax him well!"

"Oh, you don't even call your mother anymore, I think you accept it quite well."

Gong Yu was speechless, and suddenly felt that it might not be a good idea to come to Chen Min.

"Quick, go to the dining table, and I'll tell you slowly."

The anti-hypocritical master Chen Min had just dragged Gong Yu into the room from the door, and now he pushed him onto the dining table, like training a dog.

"Come on, let's talk about what's going on, let's talk about the details, let me see whose problem it is."

"Didn't Lu Xiangzhou tell you the details?"

"No, he just knew how to yell at me."

"Hey... Actually, there are no details..." Gong Yu tapped the bowl with chopsticks impatiently, "To be honest, I didn't realize it, it was very sudden, really! I was still at work, so he He sent me a divorce agreement, and after a week or two, he rushed over and forced me to sign it. At that time, I thought he was using the aggressive method, and followed his train of thought to divorce the marriage—”

"What?!" Chen Min's spoon fell into the soup pot, and he looked up at Gong Yu in disbelief, as if he had heard something from the Arabian Nights, "You followed his train of thought to divorce? Why did you follow him? If you die, don't you have to go along with it?"

"No," Gong Yu was frightened, "Mom, don't get excited, I was really confused at the time, I didn't think about it so much, I thought it would be fine after he let out the fire!"

"What fire needs to be spread through divorce? He is ignorant and you are ignorant? Are you so nonsense?!"

"I was wrong..." Gong Yu put down his chopsticks, and thought to himself, I just said that this meal is not good, "Mom, help me, I really don't want to divorce, now people ignore me, I can't coax me back ..."

"Then why did he send you the divorce agreement? Have you thought about this clearly?"

"I figured it out, but..." But this was the most difficult part, Gong Yu licked his lips subconsciously, "But... hey, it's really my fault."

"Speak well! Don't dawdle!" Chen Min really had enough of these young couples, one was crazy and the other was twitchy, they didn't seem capable of doing good things.

"Oh, it's just that I didn't take good care of him! So what... I didn't take care of him when he was sick..."

"What disease?"

"Gastroenteritis... Hey, I came back late that day and was about to go to bed. He suddenly jumped up and vomited all over the floor. I guess he ate badly. I wanted to send him to the hospital, but I got an emergency call. , his attitude was not very good when he was in a hurry, and he refused to go with me... Later, when I was busy, I forgot about it." Gong Yu scratched his head while talking, afraid that Chen Min would scold him, and hoped that Chen Min would scold him. Min scolded him, her mind was in a mess.

"Throwing up all over the floor? Then how did he get better in the end?" Chen Min's face drooped when he heard about this for the first time.

"Ms. Chen... no, mom... I..." Gong Yu knew that this was a bit outrageous, and he thought it was wrong after thinking about it many times, so it was very difficult to say, "Just... hey, I don't know... I didn't go home for a few days... and after that..."

"So you don't care about him, you don't know how good he is?"

"Um..."

"No wonder." Chen Min leaned back on the dining chair and shook his head, "No wonder he said so hard that he couldn't live with you, that you didn't like him..."

"Mom!" Gong Yu was anxious when he heard that, "He really said that?!"

"Really, why did I lie to you? I scolded him at the time, saying that he made a fuss out of a molehill. I should have known—"

"No, Mom, listen to me, I was really wrong about this, but...but it was really urgent in my hospital at that time... Oh, I really, I really can't explain it. Just You’ve seen my patient before, just that child, I’ve been resuscitating many times over the past few days, and I’m so busy that I’m dizzy..." Before Chen Min could finish speaking, Gong Yu rushed to apologize and explain, but the more The paler the explanation, the more the four big words of trying to cover up are floating all over the room.

Chen Min looked at Gong Yu without speaking or moving. Just when Gong Yu was about to have a cardiac arrest, she finally spoke: "Xiao Yu, do you know that I have always felt that you are very similar to me. Concentrate on Work, work with no distractions, and do what you set out to do. But..." But what?Chen Min felt that it was too difficult to speak, "But with our personality, it is easy to make people around us unhappy. You know, it will make them feel neglected."

"Well...I feel it...Sometimes..." Gong Yu struggled to speak, he really didn't want to talk about it with his university teacher.

"But you can't change it, can you?"

"what?"

"I asked if you could change it? Or do you want to just fool it this time? Then do it the same way next time?"

Chen Min said this bluntly, but Gong Yu knew that this was the core of the problem: "No, I will change it, I... I planned to admit my mistakes to him, but...but He was so angry, I...I—"

"You couldn't control it, so you just broke up?"

"Well..." Gong Yu sighed through his internal organs, "But I really don't... I really don't like him like he said, how can this be, I've been married for so many years, no I like to live on..."

"But have you ever thought that maybe your liking is different from Xiang Zhou's liking?"

"Huh?" What's the problem?Gong Yu was stunned when he heard that.

"That's right," Chen Min thought for a while, and put it another way, "It's fine if you think you like Xiang Zhou, but Xiang Zhou doesn't think your liking is called liking. He has his own standards for liking."

"I...I don't quite understand what you mean..." Isn't it enough for two people to like each other together?Gong Yu thought to himself that Lu Xiangzhou's liking for him was not the kind of liking he wanted, but thinking about it, he would never dare to say it.

"Xiang Zhou just wants you to care more about him, to give him more patience with your patients," Chen Min said, and sighed, "But it's hard for you, isn't it?" ? Is it difficult for you to put family in the same position as work? "

Difficult?Gong Yu's first reaction was that he didn't know. He had never put his family and work in order. Compared with planning, he preferred to make random choices. At this time, he felt that family was important, so he would accommodate family first. At that time, he felt that work was important. Then work hard first, but——

"Work hard when you're working, and spend time with your family when you're not working, eating, watching movies, traveling, whatever you want to do together, don't you want to do that?"

"No," Chen Min finally asked a question that Gong Yu could answer, "I'd like to be with him when I'm free, as long as he doesn't quarrel with me."

"Really? What do you do when you're free? I'm asking what do you both do?"

"Just—" Just what, Gong Yu tried hard to recall the things he and Lu Xiangzhou did together, either too trivial or too far away, the last time the two traveled together was four years ago? !Chen Min couldn't remember without asking him, "Just... watch TV, eat something..."

"No." Chen Min saw Gong Yu's embarrassment, "What TV did you watch, how many times did you eat? Can you remember?"

"I..." Gong Yu raised his head and glanced at Chen Min, then quickly lowered his head again, "I... really didn't do well..."

"It's not just that I didn't do it well, Xiaoyu? You are so wrong..."

"mom..."

The two cold-hearted eating hot food felt like they were camping in winter. If they didn't move their chopsticks, the food would turn into frozen balls.

"You wait first." In the end, Chen Min threw away his chopsticks and let the food on the table get cold. "Don't rush to find Xiang Zhou, I won't help you to reconcile it for the time being. That child is very emotional now, yours When I say a word, he can yell back ten sentences. It seems that he is really angry and sad... Don't think he is making a fuss. The gastroenteritis issue may be just a fuse. He treats you Your dissatisfaction probably accumulates over time. If you can’t think of a good solution, even if you barely reconcile now, you will still have problems in the future.”

"But...but..."

"But what?"

"It's...it's nothing, I just... miss him a little... no, I miss him a lot." Gong Yu kept breaking his hands, and his ten knuckles were all red from rubbing, and he didn't care. Know if it hurts or not.

"Thinking about him and arguing with him? How much do you want?"

"I..." Yes, Gong Yu suddenly felt ridiculous, why did he quarrel with Lu Xiangzhou?Obviously, I have typed so many times the belly script, and I also read it silently [-] times a day. I have to be patient, gentle, and forbearing, but why...

"Forget it, let it be like this, listen to me, calm down for a while, let the child calm down, you should also take this time to think about it, see how to change some habits, how to reconcile some conflicts, wait for you to think clearly Now, the fire on Xiang Zhou's side is also gone, I'll help you mediate."

These were the last words Chen Min said that day, they were well-founded, and people had to accept them.But Gong Yu still felt uncomfortable. Quick battles turned into protracted battles, and they couldn't directly fight in the line of fire. They could only fight by meditation. Winning or losing was uncertain, and the duration of the battle was unpredictable.It sounds like there will be a head sooner or later, but it looks more like it is far away...

So he thought that when Lu Xiangzhou was on vacation, he would have to grind Chen Min again no matter what.But who knew that the news came from Chen Min first. One morning in June, when he returned to the office after checking the room, he saw a bright text message from Chen Min lying on the screen of his phone that was about to run out of battery: Xiang Zhou is going to Hong Kong for a year. Let's talk about your affairs when he comes back.