Feminism and donkeys

When Xiaozhimai continued to replace her second tooth, her father stopped taking her to the town hospital.

Why do you have to charge three yuan for pulling out a child's tooth?He can pull it out like a vise.

The vise is actually a needle-nose pliers. Over the years, the red plastic covering the handle has faded, and the metal jaws are covered with dirt.

My father washed it carefully with detergent, but the jaws had no metallic luster, and were still mottled black. It seemed that the smell of wheels and gasoline could still be smelled. There is water slipping on the ground.

Needle-nose pliers represent the filth and sin of poverty.

Poverty is the original sin.

Father repeatedly emphasized several times that it was already clean, so Xiao Zhimai reluctantly opened his mouth.

The iron tongs stretched into the mouth, but they couldn't hold it after several times, and it slipped off as soon as it was pulled out forcefully.

Pain, it was so painful, the pain broke through the nerves and went straight to the brain.

Zhimai opened her mouth and shed tears, she dodged aside, cried and shook her head, saying that she would not pull out her teeth.

The man was a little impatient, but he still coaxed his daughter according to his temper, promising to buy ice cream after the tooth was pulled out, and said that the new tooth would stand against the old tooth in the future, and if it was not pulled out now, it would grow out of the chin and nostrils.

Xiao Zhimai hesitated, but still passed.

After repeatedly torturing the tooth, he finally pulled it out, and finally stuffed cotton into his daughter's mouth with quick eyesight and quick hands.

Xiao Zhimai stopped crying. It hurts a lot when pulling it out, but I don’t really feel anything after it.

She looked at her father with eyes like black grapes, tugging at his sleeve expecting a promise.

"Where can I eat ice cream just after pulling my teeth?" He even turned back and forth in a perfunctory manner.

"You lied to me!"

Xiao Zhimai trusts her father wholeheartedly. She doesn't know why his father cheated on her, why he can't do what he promised her.

He waved Xiaozhimai aside, gave her a hard look, turned his back and simply ignored her, turned on the faucet and rinsed the needle-nose pliers.

She felt very wronged.

But she is not crying now, she has been beaten just now.

The father only thinks that his daughter is long-winded and troublesome. The parents are the gods of the children, and they can be treated as they want.

Children are belongings, private property, and works to show off to the outside world. Every penny on them is earned by their parents. What qualifications do they have to have a sense of autonomy?

Raising a child is like raising a dog. If you are willing to spend time coaxing, then you can coax it. If you don’t want to, what can you do? If you are happy, just go and tease it. What does it matter to me.

Xiao Zhimai said, if I don’t eat ice cream, can I go to the hospital to extract my teeth next time.

She was really in pain. The nurse's sister only needed to pull out the tooth for a while, but it took a long time for Dad to pull out the tooth.

"Three yuan is so expensive, you can figure out how many ice creams you can buy." The father said angrily, how could he give birth to such a prodigal daughter who doesn't know the sufferings of the world.

The few deciduous teeth at the back were all pulled out by my father with needle-nose pliers. The process was rough and arduous, and Xiao Zhimai resisted every time.

The meaning of three yuan is magnified at this moment, it is poverty, shame, and scars.

Xiao Zhimai knew that even if tooth extraction was an absolute necessity, her father would not take her to the hospital again.

What was even more tormenting was that the father, who had no professional tools or any dental knowledge, asserted that the failure of tooth extraction was only due to the lack of looseness of the child's teeth. He ordered his daughter to pull the teeth by hand for more than half an hour every day.

The conclusion is based on intuition only, self-righteous without investigation, and only looking for reasons from children is very foolish and ridiculous.

Mother began to tie ropes to her teeth, and pulled them vigorously every day before dinner, but the teeth never fell out, and the thin threads often caused the gums to bleed. necessary pain.

She didn't dare to disobey her father's words. They always said that if they couldn't pull out the baby teeth properly, the new teeth would grow in a mess. If they didn't obey next time, they would throw her away. Anyway, they already had a son.

Intimidating children is an innate talent of parents.Maliciously teasing the child "I don't want you anymore"

"You picked it up from the trash"

"I'm not your father" bullies vulnerable and ignorant children with the advantage of adults. Seeing their panicked expressions must make you shudder.

Lucky people use their childhood to heal their lives, and unlucky people use their lives to heal their childhood.

Zhimai is the latter.

My father would still drive a motorcycle to buy two-color balls, with a bet of 2 yuan, starting at 5 bets, and 10 yuan a piece.

There are all kinds of people in the lottery shop, most of them are men, or fill in the numbers with a pensive look, or look at the newspaper with their heads tilted leisurely.

There is no sign of a woman.How could women dream of getting rich overnight? They would only turn their backs to the loess in the field and tie their children to their bodies to plant rice seedlings and farm. They were clumsy and stupid.

Now, my father viciously tore up all the credentials in his hand and smashed them on the ground.

"It's a lie, it's all a lie."

He hammered the front of the car fiercely, and angrily smashed the lottery ticket on the ground with the toe of his leather shoe.

Xiaozhimai shrank her shoulders and looked down at the shredded paper with footprints on the ground, what a pity.

One can extract 3 teeth.

She was also the apple of her eye for her parents.

In Xiao Zhimai's cognition, mothers must love their children unconditionally.

She has had many fairy tutu skirts. Every day, her mother would carefully tie her hair into small braids, tie them up with colorful floral ropes, and embellish them with transparent crystals. She would definitely hold her daughter's face before going out. Praise her, she is as beautiful as a little princess today.All in all, Xiaozhimai is one of the most delicate girls in the class.

But one embryo can make the princess fall into the clouds.

Mother never tied Xiao Zhimai's hair again.

Father took Zhimai into the barbershop, and his long hair was cut very short, just like a little boy.

For a long time, Xiao Zhimai had short hair.Girls don't want to play with her, they call her ugly and tomboy while shoving;

Boys don't want to play with her either, they are masculine men, and it's disgusting to mix in a man and a woman.

Children imitate everything. They may learn it from TV, magazines, and adults' words.

She has no friends.

Just because of the length of his hair, he began to push out another person with confidence. The simplicity of a child is terrifying.

Xiao Zhimai also resisted. She clamored to grow her hair long, but her parents refused. They thought they had no time to help her take care of it.Although Xiao Zhimai said she could take care of herself, no one took her seriously.

Adults insist that when children do things, they are hot-headed and reckless, and their own decisions must be correct.

It is a natural thing for parents to ignore the wishes of children.

She really wants to grow up.