far and near

When communicating with children, it is important to say that [-]% of them will save two points. The so-called "children are older, you have to save two points of face".When Yu Xiaomin went to pick up her daughter at the school gate on the weekend, she reminded herself again, "Hold it first, she has to endure everything she says."

Yu Ren walked out of the school with a bag of dirty clothes listlessly. When she saw Yu Xiaomin, she didn't quicken her pace, and only called "Mom" when she came to her side.

Yu Xiaomin tested her, "We won't be at home for lunch today, don't you like 'Fu Lin Jiang' dishes? How about we go there?"

"Okay." Yu Ren said indifferently.

"Hmm...don't like it? KFC? You're allowed to have ice cream today." Seeing Yu Ren's slightly irritable expression, Yu Xiaomin felt a little nervous and changed the proposal.

"Whatever." This answer made Yu Xiaomin angry.She held back and waited for the bus with Yu Ren, but there are too many students going out in No. [-] Middle School, Yu Xiaomin and the others missed two overcrowded buses in a row, and they couldn't see the taxi, and they wanted to close the relationship between mother and daughter. "It's not far to KFC, why don't we walk there?"

"Okay." Yu Ren cherished his words like gold.She knew that Yu Xiaomin's anger was already in her throat, and that the moment when the mother and daughter were fighting each other could come at any time, she didn't look at her mother, like a top swordsman waiting for his opponent to make a move by listening to his voice.

Yu Xiaomin didn't make a move, she held her daughter's arm affectionately, "After dinner, you have to take a look at the floor with mom, the floor tiles in our house are cracked in some places, I want to replace them all with wooden ones."

"Oh." Yu Ren turned into a scumbag who was perfunctory to his wife again. She felt that Yu Xiaomin's anger was already on his face at this moment, and the sword was about to be unsheathed.

"I don't owe you anything, Yu Ren?"

coming.Yu Xiaomin couldn't hold back anymore, she tore off the gentle, inclusive and pampering outer packaging and started to pull out the list, "You can't blame me for the college entrance examination in advance? What is your attitude when I see you once a week? Do you know how important I have postponed today's dinner?" Specially pick you up?"

"You can go to eat, I'm not hungry to death." Yu Ren stopped, "Mom, it's hard work for you to escort me once a week, and there is no shipping fee."

She knew Yu Xiaomin's intention in picking her up, wasn't it to prevent fire, theft, and birth prevention?Now that Maosheng is gone, Yu Xiaomin is still doing his duty.The suffocation he received at school this week is not over yet. As soon as he left the school gate, he saw Yu Xiaomin standing there on time like a door god. Yu Ren didn't know when he saw his mother in a bad mood.

"Escort? Are you going to jail when you go home? Ha—" Yu Xiaomin laughed back, "Yu Ren, your wings are hardened, you have your own self, and you understand the sense of distance. Okay, okay, I won't invite you to go home and go to jail. You Go back to school by yourself, wash your clothes, socks, and sneakers by yourself, I can’t afford to mess with you. Come on, I’ll give you this month’s living expenses.” She took out 600 yuan and patted Yu Ren’s palm, “Take Alright Auntie. I fucking owe you, don't I?"

Yu Xiaomin's temper overturned all the plans in her brain. What kind of mother-daughter talk, what material incentives to comfort the spirit, what kind of love and deferment of college freedom can't match her powerful subconscious mind, "I tell you, as long as your mid-term exam ranks this time If you drop one, just wait and see."

The phrase "wait and see" is empty talk that sounds intimidating but has no coping strategies.Why wait and see?The child was cut out of her belly, so she should worry about food, clothing and reading for her.

"How do you wait and see?" Yu Ren has lost a lot of weight this semester because of messy eating, "Is it not going to give me living expenses? Or let me drop out of school if I don't do well in the exam?"

As expected, Yu Xiaomin's sharp teeth and mouth were passed on to her daughter, she was shaking with anger, and pointed at Yu Ren, "You learned it for me?"

Yu Ren didn't speak, she and her mother confronted each other for a while, neither of them accepted the other, and finally she turned and walked towards No.[-] Middle School.Yu Xiaomin yelled angrily from behind, "No Promise!"

There's no point in cursing, the weekend get-together has been ruined.Yu Xiaomin sat on the curb and cried with her face propped up. She couldn't figure it out, she just wanted the child to stop studying and not engage in heresy, what did she do wrong?She couldn't talk about her depression with others. Ren Songhong's wife and son were hot on the bed, and the two of them couldn't contact each other twice a year.Always using Yu Ren as an excuse to find your ex-husband will be looked down upon.My parents don't even understand how difficult and fragile children are now.

A few days ago, she called an old classmate from the medical school and put down her face to ask about "puberty".She was terrified by one sentence, "Just Lao Lin, yes, the anesthesiologist in our previous class, his son is gone. It is said that the pressure from the family is too tight, and the pressure of the senior high school entrance examination is too great."

The child's current aggressive personality must have something to do with that Bai Maosheng.Yu Xiaomin calmed down a bit, and suddenly her eyes lit up, she figured it out: we must have broken up.So Yu Ren's mood was greatly affected.It must also be because Bai Maosheng sold what she went to find in private, which made Yu Ren resent him.

Yu Xiaomin patted the ashes and rushed home, turned on the computer to log in to the software, and sure enough, she saw Bai Maosheng's profile photo lit up, as soon as she opened the dialog box, Bai Maosheng's head immediately turned gray.Look, this is a guilty conscience.

Bai Maosheng accompanied his mother back to the new house in the provincial capital. The only things from his hometown were some emotional clothes, photos, certificates, and her desktop computer.On a rare Sunday, after lunch, she stared at Yu Ren's profile picture on the computer and dallyed whether to leave a message, while her mother Zhao Lan sat in the living room of her new home looking at old photo albums.

The sudden appearance of Yu Ren's mother was going to frighten Mao Sheng's courage, and she immediately disappeared, unlike herself who rationally persuaded her mother by the Baijiang River that day.

Do you want to quit directly?

Uno left her seat and went back to the kitchen to pour a glass of water. She was so worried about this small decision that she ran around in the small kitchen.Zhao Lan noticed, and asked her, "What are you doing, Uo?"

Uosheng held the cup and "gulu gulu" drank it all, "Mom, it's okay."

After all, it is a child, Uosheng sat in front of Zhao Lan, "Mom, please talk to me."

"What are you talking about?" Zhao Lan was still looking at her photos in the troupe. She was wearing a black dress, and her senior sister was wearing a white dress. They both pinched a bouquet of flowers and left traces of their youth in the photo studio. That was their first performance. Memories of success.

"Tell me about you and the master. Anyway, my father is gone, and I can earn more mothers." Uosheng didn't notice that his face was covered with sweat in October.

Zhao Lan closed the album and wiped her sweat, "What's wrong with you? You don't have much clothes on."

"It's all right." Uosheng kicked off his slippers and crawled to lie down next to Zhao Lan, gently stroking his mother's empty trousers with one hand, "Mom—" Uosheng called out aggrievedly, Zhao Lan held her head and looked into her daughter's eyes , "What happened? What did your master say?"

"It's nothing. Master's tour is over, and the troupe has a new show. She doesn't plan to act this time, but she has to be in charge of the script and director, and she said she wants to train newcomers." Wang Li took a little time off, but still didn't mention to see Zhao Lan .The portraits of the two have become more vigorous, and the state has returned to the first few years of Zhao Lan's marriage.

"Oh, that's more tiring than acting, and it's complicated." Zhao Lan said.

"Well, Aunt Chen is still the leading role, saying that she scolds her every day for the boy who plays in the show." Lao Feng, the nominal second-in-command and actual first-in-command leader, is tossing about some reforms these days, "The revival plan of Yue opera boys." The 27-year-old boy who has never sung the leading role made Chen Fengxiang take care of him.It's fine if he has good aptitude, but this young man has a rough voice and can't hold his words.If Wang Li's singing is as warm as water, Chen Fengxiang directly scolded this young man's singing as footwashing water, "Old skin and dirt are floating on the surface, and the smell is still strong! Because you have athlete's foot!" This is the exact words.

"That boy was the only student at the Baizhou Opera School back then, and he was Uncle Feng's nephew." Maosheng babbled, "For a man of that size, it is said that Aunt Chen scolded him so much that he couldn't get off the stage, so he just threw up his sleeves and left. You have to ask three times and five times."

"Jiao'er has such a temper before he even becomes a child? It's hard for your master and Feng Xiang." Zhao Lan frowned, "Old Feng's actions are too selfish."

"That's okay, master has resigned from the position of deputy head." Bai Maosheng's mood just improved, and the software prompt in the next room made her body stunned, and she buried her head in Zhao Lan's palm. "Mom—" There was another coquettish sound. If this was a child, Uosheng would cry pitifully.

Zhao Lan looked at her amusedly, "Why, do you want to try out in a troupe? Partner with Chen Fengxiang?" "Old wife and young husband" are not uncommon among Yue opera partners.

"No, no, I'm afraid of her." There were two more prompts in Uosheng's ears, and she got up, "Forget it, I'll deal with it myself."

She sat down in front of the computer again to "deal with" Yu Xiaomin, opened the dialog box, and Yu Xiaomin's message popped up in three paragraphs: Hello, Bai Maosheng, I'm sorry to bother you, I want to ask if you have mentioned our last conversation Tell Yu Ren?She has been in a very bad mood lately, and her temper has turned bad, and I wonder if she is affected by this.

Auntie is not the kind of unreasonable parent, it's okay if you say it, just tell me if there is any?I would like to prescribe the right medicine.

Did you talk?

Uosheng's heart was taken by Yu Ren, and she quickly replied, "No, we haven't been in touch for more than two months."

During that period, Yu Xiaomin was silent, she was still thinking of ways to bypass Bai Maosheng.

"What's the matter?" Zhao Lan came behind Maosheng, "I didn't mean to watch it, you were so abnormal just now, what scared you like this?" She glanced at the note "Yu Ren's mother" and her face sank, " Her mother found you?"

Uno nodded, "Looked for it very early."

"Get out of the way." Zhao Lan pulled Maosheng's shoulders, sat down, put down her crutches, and read Yu Xiaomin's message carefully three times. At this time, Yu Xiaomin sent another message, "Auntie, can you please persuade Yu Ren? Now it’s time to focus on learning.”

Zhao Lan cocked her fingers and typed the sentences that made Usheng open her mouth one by one with two-finger meditation, "I am Usheng's mother. As a parent, I don't think it should be so casually intervening in the child's emotional world. But your words made Usheng I'm very angry, Yu Ren's mother, even if Maosheng and Yu Ren are in a relationship, why do you only put pressure on us Maosheng, and say that our Maosheng affects your child's study? In order to make Maosheng feel at ease, I even transferred her to another school I went to the provincial capital, but I didn't go to Yu Ren to make irresponsible remarks. Is it appropriate for you to reflect on yourself?"

Uosheng swallowed, looked at Zhao Lan's calm face, "Mom—so you already knew."

"Yes, I know it all. I know you two are hugging by the river!" Zhao Lan looked up at her daughter, and was attracted by the voice coming from the computer. The other end had been typing Yu Xiaomin's status, and she hadn't sent a message for a long time. .

Zhao Lan couldn't wait any longer, and tapped on her two-finger Zen, "What's wrong with my family? My daughter has a good appearance and figure, and can sing! You know that you protect your children and bully others. I can't let you bully me like this." My family’s Uno. Oh, you can’t get used to it and want us to go away, and you can’t handle the child yourself and ask my daughter to help.”

"How is this bullying?" Yu Xiaomin quickly replied.

"Usagi was born after being stabbed twice by me. I can't bear to talk to her like this. Why do you?" Zhao Lan persisted, "It's meaningless to say that. Where are you? Let's solve this problem face to face."

After sending the message, Zhao Lan looked at Uosheng proudly, "A child is still a child, and I have to find your mother for things that I can't handle even in a relationship."

Uosheng's sweat dripped down again, "Mom—you can't handle your love by yourself?"