far and near

Since Yu Xiaomin became a mother, she has never been summoned by a teacher with the reason of "please take time to come to school and talk about your child's situation".At every parent meeting, she is always the most beautiful one in her heart. Whenever her colleagues and friends get together, Yu Xiaomin is also secretly pleased with the compliments on her goddaughter.But ever since becoming the vice president, Yu Xiaomin has been getting more and more busy with her work. Except for the principle issue of Bai Maosheng, she is very close to her daughter. At other times, she is too reassuring about Yu Ren.

"Did Yu Ren's grades drop?" Yu Xiaomin asked the teacher anxiously.

"It's not that the grades have dropped, it's that the child is not in a good condition now, and he is far less motivated than in the first year of high school." The teacher still insisted on inviting her to school.

The eighth middle school teacher's office is like a cubicle. There are about ten people in one office. Yu Xiaomin feels uncomfortable after stepping in.The teacher was very polite, and after pouring her a glass of water, he began to ask if Yu Ren's house was okay?After learning that everything was normal at home, the Chinese teacher nodded knowingly, "That's the nihilism disease common to children of this age."

The teacher started from Taoism and Confucianism, and compared Yu Ren's state of mind of "contemptuous of mundane affairs", "I have no interest in participating in class and grade activities at all, and the recent 'Chaoyang Cup' is such a good game. I also refused." Generally speaking To put it bluntly, most of the students don’t ask about activities because they have to concentrate on their studies, and Yu Ren’s study is also a fairy style, "Look, she handed out blank test papers for homework during the holidays, and handed in blank test papers."

Of course, the most important thing is her temper. The incident of Yu Renpo confronting Zhu Chaoyang was discussed by other students, and it soon reached the head teacher's ears.Zhu Chaoyang is a face-saving boy, and he didn't even admit it.It was also because of his good face that he pursued Yu Ren relentlessly.The homeroom teacher asked Yu Ren to ask, and the little girl admitted, "I was splashing, and it's not right to splash someone. Teacher, teach me how to deal with it?"

The homeroom teacher is most afraid of reasoning with students like Yu Ren. She has read more than ordinary students. The classmate understands that what he does has nothing to do with my choice. I don't mean that to him at all, so he doesn't have to repeatedly test me by giving gifts in private, in public, and giving expensive gifts. Teacher, do you agree with this temptation? Is it a problem for me?"

The homeroom teacher has nothing to say about this, and she has also approached Zhu Chaoyang to warn her about this, but there are sixty people in a class, and she can't keep an eye on a related account 24 hours a day.

"Then you can't splash other people's noodles? The soup is hot and spicy, what if you burn someone?" The teacher firmly grasped Yu Ren's fault.

"Yes, I admit that this method is impulsive. So I want to ask the teacher, is there any way to replace it?" Yu Ren pulled back again.

The teacher in charge smacked his mouth and boiled water, "You can reason with him and explain clearly."

"We are all classmates in this class, the same age, why do I need to explain the truth to him? Shouldn't the truth be taught him by social schools and families? 'Don't force others to do things they don't like' is not something children should Do you understand?" Yu Ren was not convinced, "I'm so angry and he called me a pervert."

"Why did you call you a pervert?" The teacher felt that the logic was at a disadvantage when he said this, because there was a hidden layer of questioning "what perverted things have you done?"

But Yu Ren blushed, "I..." She just likes a girl, she can talk endlessly with the teacher to explain the truth, but she can't tell such a simple fact, "I... I didn't do anything perverted I'm aboveboard, I have a clear conscience. And the teacher, why do you contact 'Is the girl doing badly' when the boy pesters the girl? Why should I take the responsibility to reason with him? I am him Mom?" The girl's face suddenly raised, and she was ready to fight to the end.

The teacher in charge covered his forehead, "Don't... don't talk too far. The teacher didn't mean that, you can apologize to Zhu Chaoyang in private, everyone in the same class can't look up and look down." Any odd changes this semester to contact parents.

Yu Xiaomin understood that Yu Ren's three things at school were lack of interest in studying, lack of activity, and splashing instant noodles.Speaking of this, she also felt that her daughter was right.How could Zhu Chaoyang be worthy of his own daughter if he had a tortoise?The old toast table is notorious for its bad manners. His wife was a cashier in the hospital 800 years ago and was expelled for embezzling public funds. Their son has been misbehaving since he was a child. The family deals.

But she was vaguely sure that Yu Ren's changes were inseparable from Bai Maosheng, and of course she couldn't say in front of the teacher that her daughter "almost" fell in love with another girl, but she extinguished the flames by means of forced isolation and remote online threats .Yu Xiaomin only admitted that her daughter's vague relationship was just "almost", not the real truth.

The teacher's problems are also her own. The grades haven't slipped, it's reasonable to be aggressive, and she doesn't like sports and hasn't committed any crimes. How can she break through her daughter's current confusion?

Yu Xiaomin knew very well that this meeting with the class teacher was mostly a responsiblity for the teacher. If something happened, the teacher would say, "I discussed the countermeasures with the parents." The countermeasure was that the class teacher dumped the blame on Yu Xiaomin, Regarding the incident in Chaoyang, Yu Ren got along well with other students in the class and had no interpersonal disputes. Would you like to have a deeper understanding of the child's adolescent psychology and find out the reason?"

After Yu Xiaomin came out of No. [-] Middle School, she didn't take a car. She walked along the sidewalk for almost an hour, in order to think about Yu Ren's "adolescent psychology".She can also ask her peers about this matter, but it is tantamount to exposing that "Yu Xiaomin's daughter is very rebellious now", and it is more likely to be associated with "the child's academic performance has plummeted", and it will be diverged as "[-]% of them will fall in love at this age." Her mother didn't want to."

Raising a daughter is said to be worry-free, but Yu Xiaomin gradually understands that society's eyes and public opinion will mostly be directed at girls.It is inevitable for men to make mistakes, but it is unacceptable for girls to make mistakes.

So when will this silly daughter truly understand her painstaking efforts?If society is a container, the pressure that women bear is harsh examination and persuasion and severe moral judgment, as well as various risks that cannot go wrong and expensive trial and error costs.Far and near, high and low are all staring at the woman's eyes, Yu Ren can't make mistakes at all.

The silly daughter was annoyed by Zhu Chaoyang's pursuit, and all she could do was splash a bowl of noodles.Yu Xiaomin couldn't help shaking her head, feeling that the restricted area called "Bai Maosheng" between the mother and daughter had to be crossed at a suitable time.

Unlike Yu Xiaomin, Yuan Huifang was called to the office when his child was in the first grade.After listening to the teacher's words, she went from apprehensive to dumbfounded—it wasn't that Yuan Liu made any mistakes at school, but that she was too different.

Because she has never been to kindergarten and does not know some basic classroom norms, Yuan Liu is the most careful one among the first grade students.She is very well behaved in class and extremely polite after class.Keeping in mind Yuan Huifang's technical guidance of "do not know how to ask more", she went directly to the teacher's office during the break and asked the teacher, "Why don't we learn the multiplication nine-nine table?" Because Yu Ren had already taught her addition and subtraction.

I even took the initiative to come to the office with a small rag to wipe the tables and pour water for all the teachers. For the first time or two, the teachers thought it was fresh and cute.The number of times went too many, and the principal called out and criticized the class teacher for not allowing child labor.Within a month, all the teachers in the school knew about Yuan Liu, who was in the first grade, "That freshman is so cute."

Yuan Liu also felt that he didn't do enough work. The first thing he did when he went to school was to clean every corner of the class. As a result, the children in this class had nothing to do during the day, and it also caused them to develop the habit of being lazy. Just Qi Qi looked at Yuan Liu, waiting for this little bee to work hard.

When it comes to giving out small red flowers, Yuan Liu can definitely get the most.Class No. 2 is worth five and a half rows, and Yuan Liu's little red flowers are pasted all the way to the third row.Her precocity and hard work are not like children of this age at all, not to mention that she is one year younger than many classmates in the class.

The teacher said how did your child teach so well?I haven't been to kindergarten yet.I didn't see it right!She is so independent and self-reliant, and her learning progress exceeds most children.You are amazing parents.In fact, the teacher didn't believe that Yuan Huifang was so good at nurturing when she saw Yuan Huifang.

Yuan Huifang was caught by the child's face, so she waited at the school gate after school that day, straightened her back among a group of bright or well-educated parents, and when she saw Yuan Liu and Su Hai going out hand in hand, she shouted, "Xiao Liu! "

Next to it is Mao Xinxia's delicate voice, "Baby..."

One is like □□, and the other is love.

Yuan Huifang's loud voice shocked the people around her, she didn't care, she happily took Yuan Liu's hand, and said with unrelenting momentum, "Come on, Mom will get you a schoolbag!" She was carrying Yuan Liu's uncoordinated second hand Bao, and Mao Xinxia nodded goodbye.

"Mom, are we not going home?" Yuan Liu looked back at Su Hai, then asked Yuan Huifang.

"Mom took you to that McDonald's." The plastic slippers under Yuan Huifang's feet were replaced by plush slippers. "Don't you like hamburgers the most? There is also a children's playground inside. Mom will take you to play." Her plan It is temporary, comfortable, and refreshing.The teacher's praise made her regain her confidence and happiness as a mother.

She ordered a children's set meal for Yuan Liu, and she didn't care about the 36 yuan at all.He also looked at the child with a smile, "Eat, go to the children's playground next to you to play after eating."

This is something Yuan Liu dared not even dream of: her mother was all smiles and brought her to McDonald's to play.Su Hai's daily life is her ideal, but she didn't give her any notice when the ideal became reality.Yuan Liu grabbed the hamburger and ate it, tears rolled down his eyelashes.

"Eh, what? It's not delicious?" Yuan Huifang changed his face, and immediately tore off Yuan Liu's hamburger to check the quality. "It's just a few pieces." She muttered.

With half a mouthful of hamburger in her mouth, Yuan Liu said, "No—it's delicious..." Will she not be able to eat it in the future?Yuan Liu's nose turned red from crying, Yuan Huifang frowned, and wiped her tears with rough fingers, "Where are you crying for your mother? Why are you crying because it's delicious? I'm not dead yet."