Cosmos

To use a popular saying to describe smooth production is unloading. Although it is much easier, the physical discomfort has not been completely eliminated.

It is not possible to recover immediately after giving birth, and later recovery is especially important for women.

Bian Boxian didn't just focus on looking after his son just because the child was born, but instead focused more on Lin Youshi.

I heard that many postpartum depressions are caused by the neglect of family members and the pressure of parenting.

Before Lin Youshi's due date, the elders on both sides reminded Bian Boxian that as a husband, he should always pay attention to his wife's emotional changes. If the pressure is too high, let them move back to live with their parents.

Bian Boxian's knowledge of postpartum care was not for nothing. In addition to dealing with newborns, he also learned all kinds of care for postpartum mothers.

In the afternoon, Lin Youshi was able to get out of bed and walk around after finishing the drip. After two days of recuperation in bed, his physical strength also recovered.

Bian Boxian sat by the window with his back to the sun outside, holding little Si'an in his arms, feeding him with a bottle in one hand, watching Lin You get out of bed, and subconsciously told him.

"Slower."

Lin Youshi walked over to Bian Boxian's side, and saw that little Si'an in his arms was eating deliciously. She was born two days ago, and her wrinkled appearance that was soaked in amniotic fluid before had faded a lot, and her skin was also a little whiter.

He stretched out his hand and gently tapped Xiao Si'an's fleshy cheek. He seemed to sense that someone was interrupting his meal, and he snorted twice to express his protest. Lin Youshi quickly withdrew his hand. The child is too fragile, like a piece of porcelain that cannot be touched. baby.

These two days when the parents came over, they would hug little Si'an, but Bian Boxian took care of him more often, and Lin Youshi was actually the one who hugged him the least.

Bian Boxian slightly hooked his lips, with a smile in the corner of his eyes, he looked up at Lin Youshi.

"Would you like to try feeding him?"

"it is good."

Lin Youshi took little Si'an from Bian Boxian's arms carefully, and after holding the baby, he freed his hand to take the milk bottle in Bian Boxian's hand.

Suddenly changed arms, Xiao Si'an was a little unhappy, humming and kicking his fleshy legs, Lin Youshi was a little embarrassed, Bian Boxian patted Xiao Si'an's arm skillfully.

The rhythmic stroking made the child calm down, Bian Boxian told Lin Youshi to try it, and told her the precautions.

"After drinking the milk, let him lie on his shoulders first, don't shake him, just gently touch his back in a rhythmic way, and let him lie down when he is almost digested."

Under the guidance of Bian Boxian, Lin Youshi, the mother of Xiao Si'an, also successfully learned to breastfeed and hold her in the correct posture. She is no longer as stiff as a porcelain doll and dare not move, which can be regarded as a big improvement. .

Bian Boxian has such professional and skilled parenting knowledge that Lin Youshi has to sigh that the cram school is really not in vain. The most important thing is that Bian Boxian is caring enough to take the initiative to study so carefully, completely replacing the mother's Role.

Bian Boxian did such a good job, Lin Youshi had the illusion that she herself had become one of those irresponsible fathers, holding the child in her arms and yelling at her mother to come quickly.

And she just looked at Bian Boxian helplessly.

After coaxing Xiao Si'an to sleep, Lin Youshi carefully put him on the small crib. It was a relief to see that he slept soundly and did not wake up. Taking care of a child is really not easy. Lin Youshi felt that he There is still a lot to learn.

"Baekhyun, if that's the case, we, Si'an, must have learned to be called Dad first."

Bian Boxian chuckled when he heard Lin Youshi's words, then reached out and hugged her into his arms, and the two of them sat by the window basking in the sun outside.

"What? Are you jealous?"

"I won't be jealous. If the child learns to be called Dad first, it means that you have done a lot and are a very responsible and caring father."

Lin Youshi leaned against Bian Boxian's arms and narrowed his eyes slightly, feeling a little lazy under the warm sun outside. Being hugged by Bian Boxian, he could hear his heartbeat, and his physical discomfort was much less.

As for whether Xiao Si'an will call her father or mother first in the future, Lin Youshi will not compete with Bian Boxian.

On the issue of taking care of little Si'an, Bian Boxian is indeed a perfect father, and of course on the issue of taking care of her, Bian Boxian is also a perfect husband.

After spending 5 days in the hospital, the doctor told her that she could go through the discharge procedures after the examination. Because she was born in a hospital in Beijing, the two families also directly transferred Xiao Si’an’s nationality and household registration to Lin You’s at the same time as Lin You. to Beijing.

One or two months after giving birth is a good time for pregnant women to recover, and it is also often called confinement. At this time, it is very important to take care of pregnant women.

Considering that the children and adults who had just been discharged from the hospital needed help, Zhang's parents took the novice couple home, planning to return to Seoul after confinement.

Lin You breathed a sigh of relief when he returned home. No matter what, the atmosphere in the hospital is different from that at home, and he always feels that the most relaxing time is when he is home.

The baby room has been arranged at home, and professionals who are good at taking care of the daily diet of newborns and pregnant women have been hired.

The two elders in the family were very happy to see their great-grandson, especially the grandpa was going to invite some of his old buddies to have a good drink, but grandma persuaded her, and when she turned around, grandma went to call her old sisters to show off went.

Lin Youshi roughly listened to the words of the two old men and his old partner showing off the children, and he almost described little Si'an as a little fairy boy who is the only one in the sky and the only one in the earth.

Let’s not talk about looks and physique that can be shown off. As a mother, Lin Youshi patted her conscience and said that the newborn children all look about the same. How is it like her?

But when the grandparents showed off to their old friends, they could feel that the child grew up to be absolutely stunning in the world just by describing it in words.

Okay, the old people are happy and they are happy too, so why do grandparents cry loudly and eat a lot and urinate a lot when they show off?

Also, other grandparents, how did you find out that this kid will definitely have a bright future when you are so happy to agree with him?

Lin Youshi as a mother and Bian Boxian as a father are still very rational. Whether they will be successful in the future is something that needs to be paid attention to and cultivated after they can walk. What needs to be cared about now is to pay attention to how many times the child will wake up at night. How many meals do you add?

Coax Xiao Si'an to sleep after dinner and wash, Bian Boxian and Lin Youshi have to prepare extra meals for Xiao Si'an in the middle of the night. Children have small appetites, so they eat multiple meals, especially when they wake up in the middle of the night and feed them with milk. sleep the fastest.

Since Xiao Si'an hurt Lin Youshi because of her poor eating performance for the first time since she was born, Bian Boxian decided to bottle-feed her directly. Now that she is home, of course she doesn't need Lin Youshi to wake up at night.

The baby warmer equipped in the high-end ward of the hospital is not bad. Before Lin Youshi was discharged from the hospital, Baekhyun arranged for the family and bought back a series of equipment that needs to be used, and these equipments are fully equipped in Xiao Si’an’s baby room. Yes, as long as Xiao Si'an cries in the middle of the night, Bian Boxian can get up and go directly to his room to feed.

Except that Lin Youshi needs to deal with it quickly when he is feeling uncomfortable. Considering the freshness, the food for Xiao Si’an will basically not be kept in the fresh-keeping box for too long. Si'an's ration, as for this process, was omitted.

After Lin Youshi finished the task of storing rations, Bian Boxian carefully put it in the bottle warmer in Xiao Si'an's room, and before leaving, he took a look at the sleeping position of the child to make sure that the door was not closed and returned to Lin Youshi's room next door .

In the old house, Bian Boxian and Lin Youshi slept in her childhood room. After growing up, those outdated princess styles were dismantled and redecorated by Lin Youshi, and the door of the next room was next to this room. , So it was used to transform into a baby room.

It is said that the baby room is not small at all. In addition to a super-large 3-meter bed for Xiao Si’an to lie down with peace of mind, there are also various furniture and electrical appliances prepared by Baekhyun before. As for the children’s toys and daily necessities These things also take up a lot of space, and they are all prepared before production.

At that time, when shopping, everyone discussed whether to buy blue for boys or pink for girls. Lin Youshi said that you should buy white, which can be used by both boys and girls, so the small clothes and quilts used by Xiao Si’an are all the same. is white.

The room is large and has a lot of space to play, and it will gradually be filled as the children grow up.

Bian Baekhyun went back to Lin Youshi's room, saw that she was still up, and that it was still early, the husband and wife found out a recently hit movie to watch together, the development of the plot or the acting skills of the protagonist would occasionally attract attention. The two complained together, and then couldn't help laughing together.

"The feeling of this two-person world is like going back to the past. In the past few days, I have been disturbed by that new kid, and I feel that it has been a long time."

As soon as Bian Boxian finished sighing, Xiao Si'an's crying sounded from the baby room next door. Both of them were silent for a moment and returned to reality. Lin Youshi got up from Bian Boxian's arms and couldn't help laughing. .

"The long-lost time is a bit short."

"This kid..."

Bian Boxian couldn't help but smiled helplessly, put down the snacks in his hand, got off the bed and decided to see if the kid next door was hungry or what happened.

"Hey Yigu~ Si'an, why are you crying so pitifully, let dad see what's wrong?"

Bian Boxian came to Xiao Si'an's baby room, picked up his crying son, first patted and comforted him, and then reached out to touch the diaper.

"Is it uncomfortable when we are wet? That's why Si'an cried, isn't it?"

Bian Boxian put Xiao Si'an down, and while coaxing and talking to him, he quickly changed him into a new diaper.

"We, Si'an, are so smart, you know how to call Dad when you're wet, don't you?"

After changing a new diaper for Xiao Si'an, the kid really stopped crying. Bian Boxian thinks that this character should be inherited from Lin Youshi, and he can't be wronged or uncomfortable.

He continued to hold Xiao Si'an and prepared to put him to sleep, thinking that his neighbor and his wife hadn't seen half of the movie yet, Bian Baekhyun muttered to discuss with his son who was just born a few days ago and couldn't understand at all.

"Son, the next time father and mother live together, can you just go to bed obediently? Let's try to finish eating before going to bed, shall we?"

Little Si'an, who was being hugged by Bian Baekhyun, didn't know if he was about to fall asleep or if he was comfortable after changing the diaper. The world is gone.

The author has something to say:

Seeing that some cuties asked them to participate in couple variety shows, I want to say that it is against the law to abuse dogs! kkk