Cosmos

How to feed is still up to the parents. If the parents are willing, it is no problem to feed the child with milk powder all the time.

Regarding Xiao Si'an's feeding problem, Bian Boxian decided to change the baby bottle, but it is not so simple to use the baby bottle.

Children are in a blank stage, and they have to learn everything. At the beginning, they will not cry in a hurry. Lin You, who was crying, was upset.

Lin Youshi blamed herself a little. She felt that she was too fragile to endure hardships. She also thought that everyone had passed this test, so why couldn't she bear it.

Bian Boxian coaxed Xiao Si'an, and when he turned his head, he saw Lin Youshi's disappointed expression.

"what's wrong?"

Lin Youshi looked at Xiao Si'an who had been coaxed by Bian Boxian.

"Shall I try again?"

Bian Boxian understood Lin Youshi's thoughts, but thinking of how she was crying in pain before, she still refused and decided to stick to the previous proposal.

"Let's just feed him with a baby bottle. It's all about learning. He also needs to be taught to use a baby bottle when he first learns to use a baby bottle."

After saying this, Bian Boxian took the bottled breast milk, carefully picked up Xiao Si'an who was not crying, and seriously tried to bottle feed him.

"Si'an... Come on, let's eat... Take a bite..."

Probably because he learned well before, Bian Boxian is very skillful in taking care of children, Lin Youshi is always in a hurry, but Bian Boxian is very calm.

Little Si'an might also feel a sense of security, her little fist was not fully opened, she kicked her calf, lay comfortably in Bian Baekhyun's arms, and then opened her mouth to bite the little one that Bian Baekhyun sent to her mouth. feeding bottle.

"That's right, just suck it like this, Si'an did a good job..."

Bian Boxian coaxed little Si'an, and in order to prevent him from choking on the milk, he carefully adjusted the position of the feeding bottle, which actually made little Si'an learn to eat with a feeding bottle.

"Look, isn't this enough to learn? Children are also very smart, and some things are instinctive, and it is enough to guide them correctly."

Bian Boxian hugged little Si'an, and when he approached Lin You, he showed her how the child was serious about eating.

Bian Boxian is really quick to get started, Lin Youshi has not yet learned how to hold such a small child, he can teach little Si'an to eat with a feeding bottle, and once he coaxes little Si'an, little Si'an stops crying immediately.

Thinking of Lin Youshi's remorse just now, Bian Boxian enlightened her again.

"And we're not talking about feeding only milk powder, it's just changing the container, it's all the same."

Besides, Bian Boxian felt that if he was to blame, he was to be blamed. He was the one who decided to bottle-feed little Si'an.

But Lin Youshi's disappointment at that moment was actually not only that she couldn't feed Xiao Si'an herself normally, but also that she found that she seemed to be unable to do anything well.

"I don't think I'm qualified. Hey, you taught me, and you learned to hold him first. I don't seem to be used to this identity yet..."

The baby didn't eat much when he was born, and every time he ate, he had to record how much he ate. After Bian Boxian fed little Si'an with a bottle, he fell asleep peacefully.

Bian Boxian put him on the crib, came to Lin Youshi's hospital bed, sat down and pulled her hand up, then rubbed Lin Youshi's cheek with the other hand, seeing that her face was still a little sad, so he hugged her Kissed.

"Then what I said is exactly what I want. I went to learn it specially to make you less effort? How hard it is to take care of the child in the middle of the night, and if you feed him like this now, I will take care of him in the future, and you can sleep well at night .”

Bian Boxian didn't mean to make Lin Youshi happy on purpose, since Lin Youshi was pregnant, he decided not to let Lin Youshi bother to take care of the child.

The fact that he could stop all work so simply and neatly at the beginning shows that in his heart no work and enjoyment are more important than Lin Youshi and his children.

And he said at the beginning that he learned nursing knowledge by himself in order to take good care of Lin Youshi and the baby.

Lin Youshi never doubted what Bian Boxian said, just like when she was pregnant, Lin Youshi saw every bit of Bian Boxian's hard work for her.

Now listening to Bian Boxian's earnest comforting words, Lin Youshi put his arms around Bian Boxian's waist, and rubbed into his arms coquettishly.

"Baekhyun, is there a better husband than you in this world?"

Bian Boxian chuckled, gently rubbed Lin Youshi's cheek, and followed her words.

"I don't know if there is a better husband than me, but I can't get away with being your husband."

"Besides, you have worked very hard. These are all things within my power."

Speaking of this, Bian Boxian's tone became more serious.

"As I said before, no matter how well I do, it's not as good as one ten-thousandth of your hard work."

"Youshi, I won't let you suffer any more."

Everything he said to Lin Youshi was serious, and he never put a trace of perfunctory in it, and he always practiced what he said, and even did it better.

Lin Youshi's heart softened, the little disappointment before was gone because of Bian Boxian's words.

"The child is what we have in common."

I also secretly made up my mind to work hard to be a mother and a wife.

Bian Baekhyun didn't loosen his arm around her, and rubbed her cheek with the other hand, as if he was thinking about something.

Then, after thinking for a few seconds, Bian Boxian's voice suddenly sounded in the ward.

"I don't want to have any more children, one is enough."

"what?"

Lin Youshi was slightly stunned, and didn't realize why Bian Boxian suddenly mentioned this matter, and then he continued to explain seriously.

"I've been thinking about it for the past few days, and I just want to discuss it with you today."

"Why do you think so suddenly?"

Lin Youshi was a little surprised. Although being a parent for the first time will be a little bit overwhelmed and nervous, but slowly learning and progressing with your children, and being a good parent, isn't this the life trajectory that many people expect?

Bian Boxian sighed slightly, his tone very solemn.

"Pregnancy and childbirth are much more difficult than any TV show in any book. I don't want you to suffer again. One child is enough. I never thought about what kind of child I must have. Even if I want to Ann is a girl, and I will not continue to make you pregnant."

Now just retelling it in words, the images that pop up in Bian Boxian's mind are all Lin Youshi's uncomfortable appearance.

Those pains, those tiredness, in just ten months, Bian Boxian watched Lin Youshi's suffering for this child with his own eyes, and he felt that it would be a scene that he would remember forever.

"Youshi, before these things, the most important thing is you."

When Bian Boxian held Lin You, his hands tightened slightly. He seemed to feel that it was useless to say it verbally, so he directly decided to express it with actions.

"I'm going to have surgery."

"Do, do surgery????"

Lin Youshi's eyelids twitched, the words "surgery" sounded like it was not a simple matter.

Think about it again, what other surgery can prevent people from getting pregnant.

"No...you don't want to do...male surgery, do you?"

There are also many types of male surgery, the simplest one is not permanent, and it can also be lifted if there is a need for subsequent fertility.

But when these words came out of his mouth, it really felt irrelevant. Lin Youshi was a little confused, but Bian Boxian seemed to have made up his mind and nodded seriously.

"Well, I think so now."

"I think I'm a little impulsive..."

Lin Youshi wondered if Bian Boxian had seen her in pain and crying for the past two days, leaving a shadow?

But because Bian Boxian said these words wholeheartedly for her, he couldn't help the corners of his eyes turning sour. This man is really serious about fulfilling his wedding vows.

"It's not impulsive, it's the result of serious consideration. After all, protection is not 100%. If you get pregnant again, whether you give birth or not, it will hurt your body."

Bian Boxian is not an impulsive kid, he made a very rational decision after careful consideration.

"Besides, you married me to live together, not to have children, let alone have Si'an?"

Whenever Lin Youshi said that he didn't want children or was afraid, Bian Boxian could say that he would not have children.

"But will the only child be lonely? Besides, Si'an is still young, so it's too early to talk about it now."

Lin Youshi's reason was actually a bit forced. She was indeed afraid of having a baby, and she thought it would be enough to protect herself, but she didn't expect that Bian Boxian planned to solve it from the root cause.

"Decide early and make preparations early. An only child can have relatives and playmates, and this is in line with prenatal and postnatal care. Raising a child well is a very good achievement. We can also concentrate on taking care of Si'an."

Therefore, when faced with Lin Youshi's reasons, Bian Boxian was able to refute them one by one with ease. No matter how you look at it, having children is not necessary for their marriage.

"I think you should think about it again! Don't be so anxious."

"Anyway..."

Lin Youshi paused, looked at Bian Boxian with reddish cheeks, then moved closer to him and whispered.

"If you can't do it for several months, don't worry now."

The author has something to say:

Xiao Si'an: Is there anyone who cares about me? I just came into this world?

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Last night I dreamed of Zhong Ren, he was so cold and cold, I didn’t dare to talk to him, then he invited me to his house, I was so excited, and in the end he told me to watch One Piece [smile]———— ———

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