Emerald Grapefruit

Xiong Youqin, who had successfully negotiated, was in high spirits and called Bao Qingtian to share the results.As for why Bao Qingtian was looking for, of course it was because both of them were women.On the topic of women's rights, why don't you go to tell Yu Wenyou to wink at the blind?It's a pity that it's a luxury to meet friends and want to drink tea with each other these days. Fortunately, the communication is advanced, so it's so good.What's even more lucky is to catch Bao Qingtian's free time.Although I don't know when I will cut off the phone, at least I can chat now.

Bao Qingtian listened to the whole process of Xiong Youqin's chattering, and made a judgment: "Tu Ze likes you very much."

"Okay?" Xiong Youqin didn't feel any special affection. The two of them were mostly rational and rarely quarreled.80% of disputes are resolved through negotiation.High-end is high-end, but she always feels that there is a lack of fireworks, so that she sometimes asks herself, has she really been in love?

Bao Qingtian smiled: "It's not easy to make concessions for this sake. It is God's gift to find a like-minded person in a lifetime. I don't cherish being struck by lightning!"

Xiong Youqin trembled: "Did I call Brother?"

"Let's talk nonsense, the little girl seldom gets embarrassed in front of the old lady. I see too many bullshit idiots complaining about the old lady." Bao Qingtian chuckled, "People never die, if you can play a good game of chess until you surrender, then don't Say you know me, shame on you."

"what?"

Bao Qingtian despises: "Women...well, men...sometimes coaxing him will make him want to stop, and occasionally being gentle is a killer!"

Xiong Youqin was struck by lightning!Bao, Bao, Captain Bao told her to be soft! ! !

"Why don't you speak?"

"Speechless!" Xiong Youqin took a long time to recover, "Sister Bao, do you really have tender moments? Don't you feel awkward?"

"Damn it, did I twist when I was on the bed!"

"I'll go! That's letting go, does it have a dime relationship with Ruanrou?" Xiong Youqin almost growled, "That's called temptation. Thank you!"

Bao Qingtian picked her nose: "I am very gentle to your little elder brother. Girls should show tenderness where it should be displayed, and I will be gentle to Mu Jingming. Gentleness is like a carrot in front of a donkey. You can eat it when you see it." Only then will we work hard.”

"..." I feel sympathetic to Uncle Mu again?

Bao Qingtian added: "Actually, your request is very normal in an ideal society. Unfortunately, our country is a patriarchal society. What's more unfortunate is that life is not a math problem. How can there be so many established conditions and formulas that can solve problems? So a person with an advantage is willing to weaken his own advantage to play equality, which is a big concession. The issue of property can be notarized, and since everyone is willing to draw lots with their surnames, there is no harm in getting married."

"Oh, you don't know, Sister Bao. The tradition is that once married, he belongs to him, and his parents have to be desperate. Otherwise, Tu Ze will not compromise no matter what the Holy Father does, but because his parents are too aggressive, he will not compromise. I don't really want to get married. Not getting married can minimize conflicts, and getting divorced after getting married will make life difficult." Xiong Youqin and Tu Ze have been facing each other day and night, and their understanding is not low.

"You are still too young." Bao Qingtian said sternly, "Do you think he is only aware of current affairs? Have you never heard a saying called 'He who understands current affairs is a hero'? A sensible person who can accurately judge the situation and find out the corresponding countermeasures is A one-in-a-million rare breed, understand?" Bao Qingtian raised the corners of his mouth, "You compare me in terms of career? Don't even think about achievements. Even at my age, it's hard to catch up. I'm not boasting, am I?"

Xiong Youqin kneels, thank you for always being a rocket!

"There's only one man in the crowd, and there's only one who can make me strike." Bao Qingtian said, "Understand the word, it's easy to say, but it's as good as cutting flesh. Those who can decisively discard sunk costs are all men. He You are a man, you don’t follow the man? If you take advantage of it, you have to pay it back. No, you are still a rogue. Xue Baochai manages the Grand View Garden and read it again. You are too full of ambition today. It is a good thing to be able to rush. If you can rush, you can’t accept it. The parents of the Tu family are a lesson from the past. Speaking of which, your little brother is more mature than you, and he has a bright future as a man How many men would be decadent or even get into a dead end if they died at home. But he tried his best to take care of Zhuo Daonan in life while developing his other careers, which perfectly demonstrated what is called complementarity and what is called advantage. How much it hurts a man's self-esteem! That's why he is really powerful." Uh, it seems that he hasn't done any housework yet, why do you think Yu Wenyou has sacrificed more? Mo chin.

"Eh? Why?" Xiong Youqin couldn't understand the comment on Yu Wenyou.

"Hey, self-esteem is nothing!" Bao Qingtian said, "No one will look down on you because you cook, sweep the floor, and ask about your health. These are all appearances, and the inside is the key point. You are very good, and you don't give up an inch of principle. Has he given in on issues of principle? Who has he given in to? But why not be gentle with things outside of principles? Mu Jingming’s mother and I are at odds with each other, and the New Year’s Eve should be accompanied by a smiling face. Anyway, there are a lot of meat If you do more things, do more, this is 'gentleness'. There is a root in your heart, and everything else is just a cloud. Emma, ​​you are still too young! Although it is okay to be young, but some opportunities will be gone if you miss them. Tu is the first prize, you are stupid if you let it go. I started to be busy, and I still don’t know how to wait for the annual vacation to find your elder brother. !” After finishing speaking, he hung up neatly.If Yu Wenyou knew that this evaluation would probably spurt blood, how could he be so upright as to coax others?It's a pity that he probably didn't have the chance to know.

Bao Qingtian has always been cheerful, crackling a bamboo tube like beans pouring down a bunch of truths, Xiong Youqin seems to be both feeling and thinking.In fact, what Bao Qingtian said was straightforward, the difficulty lies in how to strike a balance between principles and concessions.What can be backed down?Will he lose all the game with one mistake?Are the results bearable? I have read "Dream of Red Mansions", but I am not impressed.So I found the corresponding chapter on the Internet and read it carefully a few times, and I got a little flavor out of it, but I still feel that I am looking at flowers in the fog.Why did Xue Baochai propose to give extra bonuses to servants who have no errands?The book is very clear, for them not to make trouble.But the servants already have monthly money, wouldn't it be greedy to make trouble?Why indulge their greed?Isn't a better way to establish a more effective system to put an end to bad habits?If you don't understand, just harass others, there must be my teacher for threesomes!

So Yu Wenyou's phone rang.

Xiong Youqin's memory is still alive, from the negotiation with Tu Ze to Bao Qingtian's reminder to Xue Baochai's management philosophy, and then asked: "Is there no more effective and cost-effective way?"

Yu Wenyou chuckled: "It's all about dealing with the person's body in the same way. The troublemaker is nothing more than greed, and suppressing greed with greed is not enough to be effective? A high salary supports Lianza."

"what?"

"For short-sighted people, they can only see the immediate benefits. You can't expect them to see one step beyond." Yu Wenyou slowly analyzed, "So you need to convince them first, and you must show them what they can see. What is there. When they get a benefit, and this benefit is unstable, they need to work hard to maintain it. Then what will be the result?"

Xiong Youqin seems to have realized something: "I am afraid of losing, so I am afraid. Fear is easy to manage."

"Not only that, but it can also occupy a lot of their energy, and they will not cause trouble when they are tired. Rigid administrative methods can be used, but for a family that is declining like Jia's family, it will make things more complicated. Can't stop. Baochai is realism, use whatever can be used. There is no ideal family, let alone an ideal world, and reality needs to be compromised." Yu Wenyou paused, "If the Jia family's managers continue to be at the level of Xue Baochai , and it will not fall.”

=mouth=!Xiong Youqin said that it was painful not being familiar with the plot: "You have so many eyes!"

Yu Wenyou didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "Who has too many eyes? I'm only at the theoretical level. Is "Dream of Red Mansions" compulsory? If you can't analyze it, you'll just fail the course. Don't ask me about specific things. Isn't Sister Baozi very good? Listen to her." That's the experience gained from fighting high-IQ criminals for a long time, and dealing with your trivial matters is like shooting mosquitoes with anti-aircraft guns."

"But she is very busy, I seem to understand, but I feel aggrieved." Xiong Youqin relaxed in front of Yu Wenyou, and said directly, "Why should I give in? We were strangers before we got together. The conditions I proposed It's fair, let's take a step back."

"How can you withdraw?" Yu Wenyou sweated, "The surname lottery is fair at most, but if you really have a child, you still have it in your hands. Don't be so insecure. Excessive behavior will lead to small losses. I Let me ask you, what would you do if you were unemployed? Human beings form families to raise offspring, which is originally for double insurance. You are good, go against the precipitation of wisdom. I will not say more about you as a local tyrant, but unfortunately you are not .Are you sure you won’t be unemployed, get sick, or have accidents? Have you ever thought about what will happen to your children if something happens to you? There’s nothing wrong with fighting for rights, but it’s stupid not to leave room for it.”

Both of them said that, Xiong Youqin began to reflect on whether he was too complacent.

Yu Wenyou simply said: "Tu Ze's performance is beyond my expectation. You know what the reason for the success of the negotiation today is. If you change someone today, the table will be turned upside down."

Xiong Youqin was silent.

"It's nothing," Yu Wenyou said, "Small things. Chivalry and tenderness are more touching. It's better to be strong or strong. People are cheap, and they never cherish what is easy."

"Okay, I understand the truth, but I just can't get past that threshold."

"It's lazy!" Yu Wenyou said directly, "I want to do it once and for all, and I don't want to be entangled. I feel that trivial matters are too much of a waste of your time. But isn't work trivial? If I were you, I would set a fine. Mother Tu provokes you once, If you want to be slaughtered, you will pay a fine once. In this way, you can face the best with a professional attitude. Party A has abused me thousands of times, and I treat Party A like first love! Tsk! I believe you have full marks for professional ethics."

Xiong Youqin was stunned: "Brother, why didn't I know you are so good?"

Yu Wenyou said with a smile: "What am I good at? I am always bullied, a big bun with thin skin and stuffing, don't learn from me."

"Bah! Pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger, I see through you." Every sentence of Bao Qingtian's words made sense, but every sentence was like scratching the surface.Yu Wenyou's words awakened the dreamer, she was just lazy.Lazily facing things that she thinks are not worth spending time on, she feels that her talent should not be wasted in the shortcomings of her parents.But looking at it from another angle, what is the difference between the short story of parents and the cumbersomeness of serving customers?No.It is nothing more than one rich and one poor. I have to say that the temptation of money is fatal to her grassroots.In the final analysis, it is still a question of cost.That being the case, combined with Bao Qingtian's words, she came up with an excellent solution.

Yes, Tu has to be fined, but not himself, but his family.Once the family members cause trouble, half a month's living expenses will be deducted.Let those gangsters know who is in charge.Secondly, just like Xue Baochai, the benefits are given to prevent you from causing trouble. If you cause trouble, I'm sorry to deduct the benefits.It can even introduce the company's KPI assessment, and if you do poorly, you will be deducted and if you do well, you will be rewarded.The world is made up of people, and there is no difference between a business and a family to some extent.Tu is her ally, and it is very necessary for her allies to know her sternness and kindness.Kindness is naturally reflected in the "year-end bonus".

After hanging up the phone, Xiong Youqin was full of disappointment.As Bao Qingtian said, the one who understands is one in a million.Yu Wenyou understands well, how much peace of mind it is to be by his side.Pity.After thinking about Yu Wenyou, I thought about Tu Ze again.They were originally in a free relationship, but they came to a situation where they were calculating each other. In fact, the relationship at the beginning has almost worn out, and what is left is more like a partner recognized by each other than mutual admiration.When you are no longer the right person, should you get together and break up, or tear yourself apart?But even if two people with feelings go to break up, it is just the same two endings.What is love?What exactly is marriage?

Yu Wenyou was the only unhesitating love, but he returned in vain, and now he can only bless with a smile.As for the relationship with Tu Ze, since she keenly discovered Tu Ze's little thoughts, she immediately erected her defenses like a hedgehog.Calculating, she is more obvious than Tu Ze.On the other hand, Yu Wenyou who almost never calculates, they are indeed not good people.So she deserved to miss it.So two people who are not straightforward are a perfect match, right?Xiong Youqin had a headache. It really is that people like simplicity. She can't change her bad habits, she can only adjust her mentality to adapt.As for the relationship, you can't force it, maybe it can be warmed up after a long time.She is an actionist, and she has always known that the premise of wanting to get is giving.That being the case, let's start now!