An Alternative Perspective on University Military Training

No.18, Ten Abilities

No one owns knowledge, what you learn is your own.

Training by myself and training with others are two different things.

At the same time, do you grow by yourself, or by others, or grow together?

This is something to consider.

If you only think that training others is just passing on what you have learned, it is too narrow.

When teaching others, I will also grow, but the growth is obvious and not obvious.

Teaching others will inevitably take your own time and energy.

I am also thinking about how to teach them more effortlessly.

After all, as long as you have learned everything, why not take it easy.

It's still the same idea, let me train them and supervise them, it is better to let them train themselves and supervise themselves.

"Look, the three rows on the opposite side are crooked and don't look like one at all."

"If you don't work hard, after the training is over, you will be the same as them. Everything you gain will be halved, and you will reach different heights in the same time. Hey, we won't learn from them."

Contrast it with other classes and remind some people not to relax.

"Hey, someone is relaxing. The four rows of leaders are so far away. Are you even worse than girls?"

Third platoon leader Zhou Junfan was talking to the students in his class.

In fact, in a team, there are bound to be people who relax, perhaps because they are distracted, or because they are really tired.

But I won't say it directly unless it is necessary.

Just a reminder from the side, everyone is smart and knows how to do it.

Seeing everyone working so hard, I am quite bored.

Find something to say.

"Ten abilities that excellent people possess, the first is honesty."

"Everyone has their own understanding of this honesty. I want to talk about some different understandings. Let's see if you agree."

"You don't have to stare at me like that, look past me and look into the distance."

"The honesty I used to understand is to be honest with others. For example, the story of the wolf is coming means to be honest with others, but this is not what I want to express. I am talking about being honest with myself."

"Know yourself and accept yourself. Nowadays, many girls don't like who they are now. They all love makeup. There is nothing wrong with makeup. It's just that many people are outrageous. Two points for appearance, two points for figure, two points for makeup, and beauty Two points for filter, two points for personality, I think I have □□ points. I feel good. In fact, we men can’t see it for three seconds. Occasionally teasing, I also feel that we men have a good impression of these girls, no , That's really teasing. Many girls think too much."

Seeing that everyone is still so serious, it seems that it is not a good thing to be very involved in training.

It’s a one-person stage, and you need to interact with everyone non-stop.

"Honesty means accepting yourself, knowing yourself, and constantly improving yourself according to the actual situation. In fact, every girl is God's darling."

"You can think about it. The Hong Kong actresses of the last era have their own looks. They will never bump into each other when they come together. It is easy to tell them apart. And they all have their own characteristics."

"Most of the modern actresses have the same look, and some even have a plastic smell. To be honest, I always feel that I lack a lot of connotations. Changing one's appearance means that one is not satisfied with one's appearance and is not confident in one's self."

"In many cases, the charm of a woman lies in her inner self-confidence, inner self-cultivation, and aura that emanates from the inside out. Consciously or unconsciously, people feel that this woman is very attractive."

"To do this, you must first get to know yourself seriously. Accept yourself and constantly improve yourself. Everyone here is very beautiful, and it can be even more beautiful in the future."

"Swallows are thin and round and fat, the posture of sinking fish and wild goose, the face of closed flowers and shameful moon, the shape of beautiful appearance and wisdom, they should not look the same."

Blindly preaching is really long-winded, and others may not necessarily listen to it.

But the constant rhetorical questions will make them start to think for themselves.

In fact, these are off topic for training, but for them to start to know themselves, it is a good starting topic.

After all, everyone loves beauty.

Be it outer beauty or inner beauty.

Outer beauty is form, inner beauty is God.

Forms perish, but God is eternal.

"The second is passion."

In fact, if we soldiers keep talking.

We can talk about the truth for a day, and it will not be repeated.

Even if we ask others to speak first, finish speaking, and speak ourselves, we can still speak for a whole day!

This is teaching the team the skills they have learned, which is of great help to our teaching.

"Passion is to maintain a longing for life every day, and you will feel touched in every detail, because there are not many major events in our life. If you don't understand the small things, then you will panic when encountering major events. , because big things usually don’t let you meet a second time.”

"Passion is to keep you in a very high state of mind every moment. Without passion in life, it will be very dark. Without passion in training, the training effect will be halved, or even exhausted, and there is no effect at all. "

"But it's different when you have passion. Maybe, after training, you have learned more skills, but you don't feel tired at all. Why?"

"Because people's potential is unlimited, take a breath, and you will have a steady stream of strength. And people who maintain passion will not feel tired, but only feel, oops, it's not enough. Come on!"

"Just like the current training, people in other classes are exhausted, but people in our class are still full of energy."

"The third is experience, which is easier to understand. You will have your own insights in everything you do. Even in a small detail, it will make you feel a lot. Experience is accumulated in this way."

"At the same time, what others encounter will also become your own experience, and the mistakes made by others will also become your own lessons. Seeing others make mistakes, I will never feel nothing at all. The next time I am encountered by myself, If you want to make the same mistake, don’t you just do it easily; if you don’t want to make such a mistake, then you can easily avoid it.”

"Let's see, are these words related? Be honest and recognize yourself. Only with passion will you have a direction and work hard. With passion, you will pay more attention to life, and then you will have more and more experience."

"But aren't these points enough?"

"Do not."

"You also need to have a reserve of knowledge. The more knowledgeable a person is, the more profound his vision will be, the more thorough his understanding will be, and the deviation between what he does and what he thinks will become smaller and smaller."

"In the same way, knowledge is not enough. There is also ability, that is, skills. The scope of skills is even wider. Social skills, survival skills, and what to do well. What you can do is called skills. We also need What kind of skills should be trained according to your own goals, but one thing is undeniable, many skills are inseparable from a healthy body."

"So training still has meaning."

"How do skills come from? Some people are born with it, and they are born with it, such as crying, such as laughing. No one teaches them, but some skills need hard work and training the day after tomorrow, such as a gentle and elegant personality. For example, the eloquence of eloquence, the unique vision, the mental arithmetic such as flying, etc., these are not what people are born with, they are all learned in later training."

"Of course, in the limited time, what you want to do, what you want to do, what skills you need to learn, all need to be explored by yourself on the road of growth. This inevitably mentions a thinking, that is your own logic. , how far your eyes can see will basically affect how far you can go, and the places you can't see are really hard to reach,"

beep~

A whistle sounded.

"Rest for 10 minutes" the watchman sounded a whistle, ending this boring training.

It is indeed a good thing.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, I have said so much, the students don't necessarily want to listen to me.

If it weren't for everyone's dedication to training, I wouldn't be so boring.

"If there is still a chance, let me tell you about the summarized vocabulary of people who are generally regarded as excellent. Let's go and learn from them together."

Although plans and changes are carried out together, there will always be deviations.

The topic of the ten abilities can only be said once, because there are still many things to learn, these are just books and words, if you really want to master these, you still have to experience them yourself.

As for the next few leadership skills, vision and so on, they all have to realize it by themselves.

I didn't give a specific explanation, I'm afraid they listened too much, limited to these few words, and forgot to exercise other abilities.

Tolerance, understanding, willingness, etc.

If you talk a lot, listen a lot, and memorize it by rote, it will never be of any use, because the environment is always changing!

Only flexible use is what everyone wants to see.

The teaching is vague, it is just a concept, and they will think about it by themselves.

Only what they perceive by themselves is the quality that exists in the deepest part of their hearts.

Yes, Xinghe is brainwashing everyone, implanting ideas into everyone, and even hypnotizing them.

As long as they encounter some circumstances, they will consciously or unconsciously work hard in this direction.

They don't need to be supervised by others, but they will instinctively train and learn!