Stubborn illness

I still remember that when the doctor in the anorectal department of the Guangzhou Red Cross told me that I had a tumor and that I would probably need to carry a feces bag for the rest of my life, I felt like I was already in a bottomless dry well, falling, endlessly, falling down , there was nothing everywhere, astonishment, fear, and isolation, and there were two ideas in my mind: either to die quietly, or to step over bravely.

[-]. What are STDs?

STDs refer to a group of infectious diseases mainly transmitted through sexual behavior, including AIDS, syphilis, gonorrhea, genital chlamydia infection, genital warts, genital herpes, etc.

How are sexually transmitted diseases transmitted?

1 Mainly through unprotected vaginal intercourse,,, and other sexual acts.

2. Infection through transfusion of contaminated blood, blood products, or sharing of syringes or needles.

3 Pregnant women who have been infected may transmit it to the fetus or newborn during pregnancy and delivery.

If the three sexually transmitted diseases are not treated in time, what damage will it cause to health?

If sexually transmitted diseases are not treated in time, the disease will be delayed, causing serious complications and sequelae.For example, if syphilis is not treated in time, it will cause damage to the cardiovascular and central nervous systems. Pregnant women with syphilis can infect the fetus, causing fetal dysplasia, miscarriage, stillbirth, and premature birth.

[-]. What symptoms will appear after infection with STDs?

After the human body is infected with STDs, different symptoms will appear in the genitals, urethra or vagina and surrounding areas.For example, male patients may experience increased urethral secretions, frequent urination, urgency, dysuria, rash, blisters, ulcers, vegetations, etc. Female patients may experience increased leucorrhea, color changes, odor, painful urination, lower abdominal pain, genital itching, Rashes, blisters, sores, growths, etc. (The main thing to note is that some patients, especially female patients, may not have obvious symptoms even though they are infected with STDs.

Can STDs be cured?

Gonorrhea, genital chlamydial infection, primary and secondary syphilis can be cured with standard clinical treatment.Genital warts and genital herpes are viral infections, which can be cured clinically, but they are prone to recurrence.

[-] Can AIDS be cured?

AIDS cannot be completely cured at present, but after antiviral treatment, the onset and death can be greatly delayed and the quality of life can be improved.

Seven What is the window period and incubation period of AIDS?

Window period: It refers to the period from the beginning of HIV infection to the time when antibodies are produced in the body and can be detected by existing routine detection methods, usually two weeks to three months, and a few people may be longer.People with HIV who are out of the window period are also contagious.

Incubation period: It is the time from HIV infection to onset.People with HIV who are in the incubation period have no symptoms but are contagious.There are individual differences in the length of the incubation period, with an average of 7-10 years (technology is developing and the period is extending)

[-]. How do I know whether my sexual partner is infected with AIDS?

Only by blood test can we know whether a person is infected with AIDS. If you want to know the infection status, you can go to the consultation and testing clinic of the local Center for Disease Control and Prevention, general hospitals and other institutions for testing.

What precautions should be taken during the treatment of nine sexually transmitted diseases?

1 Complete the treatment in accordance with the will, otherwise it may lead to disease recurrence and drug resistance.

2 Condyloma acuminatum and genital herpes may recur after being cured. If they recur, they should be actively treated to avoid irregular life, fatigue, cold, alcoholism, etc.

3 In case of drug reaction, poor curative effect or recurrence during treatment, you should go to the hospital for treatment in time.

4 STD patients need regular reexamination according to doctor's orders after treatment, and they are not allowed to stop, change, increase or decrease drugs at will.

5. The spouse or sexual partner should be informed of their own infection status in a timely manner, and the other party should be encouraged to go to the hospital for corresponding examination and treatment as soon as possible.

6 STD patients should refrain from having sex during treatment and avoid drinking alcohol.

Ten How to prevent sexually transmitted diseases / AIDS?

1 Humans can still be re-infected after being cured after being infected with STDs. Only by changing high-risk behaviors and maintaining a healthy lifestyle can we avoid re-infection in the future.

2 Proper use of condoms is the most effective way to prevent STDs and AIDS. You should insist on using condoms throughout every sexual act.

3. If there are STD patients in the family, they should do a good job of cleaning and sanitation inside the family to protect family members, especially girls, from infection. For example, wash bedding frequently, do not wash the patient's underwear with children's, and adults and children sleep in separate beds and separate Use the bidet and toilet seat to scrub and disinfect every day.

Prevention methods below eleven are wrong!

It has been scientifically proven that vaginal douching, external ejaculation, prophylactic use of antibiotics, and local application of drugs after unprotected sex cannot prevent STDs and AIDS.

Twelve medical tips

1. If unprotected sex or suspicious STD symptoms occur, you should go to a regular hospital for examination in time to achieve early detection, early diagnosis, and early treatment.

2 Go to the dermatology department of a standardized medical institution for STD diagnosis and treatment.

3. Do not buy medicines or take medicines indiscriminately without a doctor's diagnosis.

4 If you suspect that you are infected with an STD, it is best to check with your spouse or sexual partner for medical treatment.

It is the annual World AIDS Day. I still remember that on December 2011, 12, World AIDS Day was during the treatment period. In Foshan Baihua Square, Southern Metropolis Daily, the front page headlines, if I remember correctly, then It was written in big Song typeface: "Seven out of ten homosexuals get venereal diseases." The eye-catching title pierced my eyes and my heart. "Seven out of ten homosexuals get STDs".I want to ask the editor who wrote this headline a few questions:

What is the actual exact number of first homosexuals?Two percent of the population?four percent?x percent?

Strictly speaking, how is the second homosexual identified?Does having sex with men count?

Third, where does their data come from?Why this conclusion?It was also published on the headlines of a well-read provincial newspaper!

Forget it, forget it, what to ask, still a little aggrieved, why bother!Why bother!When I fell down when I was a child, adults would always say that it was all because of the uneven floor. When I grew up, I fell down, so I can’t blame this or that.

All the experiences, whether it was punishment or demotion, to be honest, at that moment, I was actually happy, yes, in my heart, I was very, very happy, there was a kind of relaxation and relief of breaking free from the shackles and breaking the rocky mountain in one go.

Didn't the CDC say they wanted to write a book?What to write? "Stubborn Illness", "Jean Love", "Broken Flowers Bloom".

"Jean Eyre" is the main pole, "Stubborn Illness" and "Broken Blossom" are two branches, and the punctuation inside is all leaves, which are connected by origin, cause and effect, and life cycle, like a solid triangle, more Like a tree breaking through the soil and facing the sun.

Misty, clear, wandering, firm, everyone has a Brokeback Mountain in their hearts.

In the more than three years of this exploration, no matter who he is, I don't remember how many men I have had sex with, let alone how many men I have flirted with.

During the more than 30 years of growing up, I clearly know that I have loved three men. The first love is so ignorant, the second love is so fearless, and the third love is so helpless.

If you meet, if you fall in love, I am willing, I am willing.

No regrets, deep, deep.