Who is the golden hairpin of Dream of Red Mansions buried for?

In the Red Chamber, my favorite woman is Tanchun, and I have always wanted to write a story about her.But when I picked up the pen, I accidentally wrote Xue Baochai!Probably because I have read too many articles by Xue Xue, I sometimes feel grievances for Xue Baochai in my heart. When I think about it, she is just a poor woman who cannot control her own destiny, why bother to belittle her!Wanting to change her fate once, I wrote it down from my heart!There may be many deficiencies, but I will slowly correct it! —————— Fang Qing, a modern person, unintentionally, his soul came to the world of the Red Mansion, and became Xue Baochai among the twelve gold hairpins.What will be her fate?Do you follow your destiny, or do you take control of your own happiness regardless of everything?