[Comprehensive] Mother's Responsibility

For the education and growth of children, Han Jinghui has been discussing and discussing with the people around her. Americans think that education in China and South Korea is too stifling of children's nature, but in Han Jinghui's view, American education is too loose, but she also admits that this kind of education can produce At least Ya Liying has completely let go of the dark side caused by the divorce of her parents when she was young. She even started to encourage Han Jinghui to fall in love and not to put all her energy on work or with her. On Shiying.

When Han Jinghui looked at her daughter who was already approaching her shoulder and seriously discussed her boyfriend's issue with her, she was a little embarrassed. In her memory, she would never discuss these issues with her family when she was a girl. I am happy to get rid of the shadow of the past, but on the other hand, I feel that the current situation is beyond my understanding. The implicitness of the Orientals mentioned by Nick refers to this. Han Jinghui cannot fully invest in a relationship like others, nor can he She got away quickly, and the previous education and habits had formed an inherent pattern in her mind, which could not be changed easily.

Because of the integration of the two cultures, although Han Jinghui understands Ya Liying's current state, she still can't rest assured. Fortunately, Ya Liying is sensible and obedient. After comprehensive school education, Han Jinghui strengthened her daughter's literature and mathematics. Ever since her fantasies were drawn by her mother, Ya Liying has developed the habit of writing down the pictures and feelings in her mind. In terms of mathematics, Han Jinghui only strengthens her daughter when telling stories. After a moment of logical thinking.Although I don't know if it will work, Han Jinghui has no other way. At the same time, Han Jinghui asked Ya Liying to practice her handwriting. Even the simplest English spelling must be written beautifully. Some Korean characters, because after all, Ya Liying was born in Korea and has a good foundation in Chinese. When Han Jinghui talks to Ya Liying, as long as they are at home, they still speak Korean most of the time.

Watching Han Jinghui carefully plan the education of his daughter, and try his best to find the balance between his cognition and the status quo, Nick suddenly felt a little envious. It seemed that his brother did the education when he was a child, and he was just playing football at that time. Leaving himself aside when playing, Old John and Sarah not only have each other's work, but also have emotional literature and art to solve, and they don't care about themselves at all. He believes that they love him deeply, but he still envies him. Ya Liying, whom Han Jinghui loves wholeheartedly.

Nick knew that one of the reasons why Han Jinghui didn't accept him was because he was young. Although he seemed not stable enough compared to that Korean man who didn't talk much, he still tried his best to let Han Jinghui understand that he liked her with a man's mentality. Looking at her, even though his feet were injured, he still tried his best to show himself, whether it was repairing water pipes or screwing screws, or talking to the children, he tried to show his best side.

"Nick, I know you are a good man." Han Jinghui looked at the big boy trying to show himself with some amusement, trying to express his omnipotent state. Day, Shiying was completely mixed with him, and understood his painstaking efforts.Even Ya Liying secretly told herself that it would be much more convenient to have a man at home.

Han Jinghui looked at her daughter amusedly. After chatting with her, Han Jinghui understood that Ya Liying didn't want to be her revenge. These bad thoughts are hidden in my heart.

To be honest, it’s hard not to be moved when a person is completely selfless to another person. Nick has the kind of cheerfulness and vivacity that Han Jinghui doesn’t have. , His figure is very good, but he doesn't know what to hide at all, showing off his muscles in front of Han Jinghui from time to time, it makes Han Jinghui blush and heartbeat.

Are you a pervert?Han Jinghui thought silently and shyly.

When Nick lived in Han Jinghui's house for a week, his parents came back from a trip and learned that their son was injured, so they asked his assistant Han Jinghui's home phone number and came to see their son with a gift.

Han Jinghui has seen many traditional American families and old couples who still love each other, but seeing the parents John and Sarah that Nick often mentions, there is a sense of intimacy spontaneously.Han Jinghui attributed this to the fact that Old John greeted him in Chinese when he first saw him, although later Han Jinghui told Old John that he was not Chinese, but Korean.

"Your Chinese language is very good, and the Chinese food is also very good!" Old John is a very cheerful old man. Although he is over 60 years old, he always has a faint smile on his face. Although his eyes are a little cloudy, But it gives people a very peaceful feeling.

When he learned that Han Jinghui also liked China very much, Old John also talked about his experience in China with Han Jinghui, and talked about the memory of aiding China to resist Japan that he still cannot forget: "They are very friendly, although I don't know what they were talking about, but I still remember the gratitude and perseverance in their eyes, warm people, great boys, and beautiful girls."

"You are a good person, I think they must have thought so at the time." Han Jinghui said softly with a little gratitude.

"You are wrong. I am not a good person. I have been a bad boy since I was a child. When I first applied to join the volunteer army, it was not because of how noble I was, nor because of how passionate I was. It was because everyone did that at the time. Yes. When I left the United States, to be honest, I still cried? Because I was about to go to the battlefield, I couldn’t let Sarah wait for me endlessly, so I broke up with Sarah, but later, after arriving in China, I also regretted it, but when I got off the plane and saw the people there, I thought that I was trying to win glory, representing not only myself. After seeing a lot and getting in touch with them, I really understood myself What are you doing, understand your own mission, although we have different skin colors, but I really like the people there." Old John said with a smile.

Han Jinghui looked at Sarah who was having fun with Shiying, and asked with a smile: "Nick said that you chased Aunt Sarah for ten years before continuing to be together. Is that true?"

"I've been chasing her for almost 30 years now, and it's almost 40 years in total, and she hasn't agreed to marry me yet." Old John pouted, saying depressedly.

"But you are no different from getting married now? From the perspective of the Chinese, I think they are very grateful for the sacrifice you made for this, but from the perspective of Aunt Sarah, it was indeed you who abandoned her, no matter what the reason But I think Aunt Sara has fully understood you now, and she just thinks it’s unnecessary not to register!” Han Jinghui really felt that they were no different from registered couples.

Old John gave Sarah a sad look, then blinked at Han Jinghui, and said, "Our family Nick is really nice, handsome, good-looking, and can make money. He can fully take on the responsibility of earning money to support the family, take care of him." Think about it! Children, a failed marriage does not affect your life. I remember an old saying in China that is 'a third-year female college student holds a golden brick', and your age is also very suitable."

Han Jinghui glanced at Nick who was talking to his mother, and said to Old John, "Aren't you afraid that I will hurt your son?"

"There is no hurting or being hurt in emotional matters, only loving and being loved." Old John said a little irresponsibly and even slightly threatening: "You have to know that I am Nick's father, and I am so patient with her mother. My son has my genes, so..."

Han Jinghui was completely speechless... He hadn't been moved by his deep emotion before, but now Han Jinghui thought that he fully understood Sarah's idea of ​​not wanting to marry him, isn't it too rascal?

Speaking of this question, Old John suddenly asked Han Jinghui to help him ask why Sarah was unwilling to hold a wedding with him?

"Anya, you have two lovely angels, they are really, really likable. Especially Alia, I have never seen a better girl than her." When Han Jinghui was chatting with Old John, Sarah has been playing with Ya Liying and Shiying all the time. She gave birth to two sons. The eldest son is married now and only has one son. Therefore, she especially likes Ya Liying, who is well-behaved, sensible and sweet-mouthed.

"I think so too. They are really the best gift God gave me." Han Jinghui is very proud of having these two children, so she doesn't mean to be humble at all.

Sarah smiled when she heard the words, nodded and said: "Ivan and Nick are naughty children. They did all kinds of bad things when they were young. I remember one time when I was out of breath and wanted to beat Ivan, he kept running away. I just chased after, and kept chasing for hours. Since then, I have always wanted a cute girl, but who knew that Nick was still a boy, more worrying than his brother, dangerous from childhood. Drilling there, exactly like his father, I'm not less angry about it."

"But he has grown into a nice young man now, hasn't he?" Han Jinghui asked with a smile.

Sarah thought for a moment before saying, "Yes, my Nick is a good boy now, and so is Ivan, of course. I love them, everyone."

After chatting for a while, Han Jinghui was very moved by seeing the eye contact between John and Sarah from time to time, so he asked why Sarah still didn't agree to John's marriage proposal.

Sarah smiled happily when she heard this. She said: "John has persisted for so many years. Every time I hear his proposal and sweet words, I am very moved. I want to hear it again every time. I have been used to it for so many years. If he didn't talk about it that day, I would feel very wrong. So let him talk about it for a few more years!"