[Comprehensive] Mother's Responsibility

After consulting the doctor, Han Jinghui brought Nick back to his home after buying some things with his two children. Although he hadn't accepted Nick's feelings, he really helped him a lot, and Han Jinghui couldn't bear to take Nick away. Throw him in the hospital, or let him jump on one leg alone.

Nick is a patient who is well taken care of, no... almost no need to take care of him, he can take good care of himself, Han Jinghui arranged him in Shiying's room, and started kindergarten, at Shiying's request, Han Jinghui put him in a Lou cleaned up a room. Although the mother and son still often sleep together, everyone has their own room. Shiying's room is not big, but the bed is not too small, because he occasionally needs Han Jinghui or Ya Liying to sleep with him , but watching Nick, who is nearly 1.7 meters nine and claims to be 1.8 meters, sleeps on Shiying's bed, I always feel that the bed is much smaller.

"Can I sleep with Nick?" Shiying asked immediately when she saw Nick lying on her bed, feeling very novel.

Ya Liying looked at Nick slightly vigilantly, then heard the voice from the kitchen, thought for a while and said to Shiying: "Uncle Nick is injured, you can't sleep with him, you can sleep with your sister and mother .”

Shiying tilted her head and thought for a while, then said cutely: "Okay! Come with my sister, and my sister will tell me stories."

Because Nick has always played well with the two children, Han Jinghui cooks in the kitchen with peace of mind. Chinese medicine pays attention to complementing the shape with the shape, and Ya Liying has been worrying about her size, so Han Jinghui stewed carrot stick bone soup.

"Don't eat this, it's not good for the injury." Han Jinghui stopped Nick's chopsticks just after they were placed on the cucumber kimchi.Because of Ya Liying's eating habits, Han Jinghui often prepares some Korean side dishes at home. Kimchi is a must-have item in Korean families. Although she has lived in the United States for so many years, Ya Liying speaks fluent English, but occasionally she still propose Han Jinghui has always prepared these things at home for cold noodles and kimchi soup. Nick has eaten at Han’s house many times, and almost every time he can see kimchi on the table, he thinks Han Jinghui likes it, so he I started to learn to eat, and now I am very used to eating.Although Han Jinghui doesn't like it very much, she doesn't dislike it either. Occasionally, she would accompany her daughter to have a bite or two, and even friends around her would occasionally taste it. Everyone has different tastes, and it's not bad to taste it once in a while.

As soon as Nick was stopped by Han Jinghui, he stopped touching those things and happily drank the "soup specially stewed for himself". He always felt that there was a taste of love in this soup, and it was very sweet. The carrots that he didn't like before were also very sweet. tasty.

Han Jinghui ignored the rippling expression on his face, and dug out the bone marrow with a spoon to feed Shiying. The Han family's diet was basically a combination of Chinese and Korean religions. Because of the memory of her original body, she was very proficient in Korean food, although she was more I like Chinese food, but occasionally I cook Korean food. Although I live in the United States, I seldom cook Western food. I just take my children out to eat once when they want to eat.Nick is not picky about food, and Han Jinghui's cooking skills are really good, so he ate very happily.

"Mom, how long will Uncle Nick stay at our house?" After dinner, Shiying and Nick went to show off his little train, and Ya Liying followed Han Jinghui to the kitchen to help her mother finish washing, asking while washing.

Han Jinghui handed the cleaned bowl to her daughter, asked her to dry it, and said while washing, "I won't be here for a few days, isn't he injured? I'll leave when he gets better. Why? Don't you like him? "

"No, I'm just asking. Mom, if you want to fall in love, I think you should first meet the other person's family, understand what kind of person they are, and then decide whether to fall in love or not." Ya Liying Seeing her mother suggest, she already understood that because of her relationship with Shi Ying, her mother's relationship may be hindered.

Han Jinghui paused, nodded with a smile, and said, "Okay, mom knows, our Ya Liying is really smart."

"Mom, this is a matter of common sense. Anyway, the love that mother wants is definitely not just for a few days. According to my mother's personality, if she falls in love, the result is very likely to be marriage. That's why I reminded my mother like this. "Ya Liying analyzed, this is really common sense!It doesn’t matter to anyone if it’s just a relationship, but if my mother wants to get married, she must agree with Shiying, and then the other party’s family has no objection, so the relationship will last. Matthew’s grandma has always disliked him Mom, who quarreled all day long and only got divorced last year.Although Matthew's mother is indeed a little too much, she shouldn't often abandon her husband and son to dance.His father was also at fault for not mediating the relationship between his wife and mother.These are what Briana said, and her boyfriend's dad doesn't like Briana's dark skin.In fact, the relationship is really complicated, Ya Liying thought with some doubts.

Han Jinghui was very surprised by her daughter's thoughts. For the first black girl who extended her hand to welcome Ya Liying, Han Jinghui has always liked it and is still familiar with it. Surprised, but agrees with the idea of ​​her daughter's maturity.

"Does Ya Liying have a favorite boy?" Branna started her first relationship at the age of nine, and Ya Liying is ten years old this year. Han Jinghui is a little worried. Han Jinghui, who has received traditional Chinese education in his bones, does not approve of puppy love, so some Worry.

Ya Liying looked at her mother in surprise, and said with some embarrassment: "Mom, I don't think you need to worry about this in the short term. I don't have anyone I like for the time being."

"Okay! If you have someone you like, you must tell mom. Mom will help you check it out. If mom has someone you like, she will tell you. How about it?" Han Jinghui suggested.

Ya Liying thought it was fair when she heard the words, so she immediately agreed.

It takes a lot of money to raise a girl?Han Jinghui thought with some worry, no matter what country it was, girls were always more vulnerable than boys at that time. How to protect their daughter should be a question that every family with a daughter would think about, even if her age is not not big.

The daughter of Han Jinghui, who was raised in a traditional model, worries not only about her body, but also about her mental state and her studies. Now that Han Jinghui is a senior, in addition to completing her graduation thesis, she also needs to continue her own creation and care about her children. While they are physically and mentally healthy, they are a bit laissez-faire about their studies. American elementary school students are quite relaxed. They don’t have so much homework, and they don’t have too many training classes. Because Ya Liying is interested, Han Jinghui hugged her a piano before. But after learning for a month, Ya Liying said that she doesn't like playing the piano very much, because she has been learning painting from Han Jinghui, and she has not given up on this.Ya Liying has a wide range of interests. She used to skateboard with Branna and learn hip-hop with Nathan, but she didn't know what she liked. Han Jinghui always let her live according to her own wishes.

Han Jinghui always thought that Ya Liying used to be in a small grade, so her homework was not complicated, and since Ya Liying never asked her about her homework, she didn't care much, but when Han Jinghui saw that her daughter was already in fifth grade, she didn't care about it. The second-semester holiday homework of the daughter of the first grade was still shocked.According to Ya Liying, the teacher left homework with only five words 'Have fun! Han Jinghui watched her daughter play happily every day, and she couldn't help but think of her sad student life. She remembered that when she was in middle school, she had to do her homework late every day. Although it was relatively easy in elementary school , but there are many English classes, painting classes, and calligraphy classes...

"It's a kind of torture, and children should grow up happily and carefree." Nick said bluntly after listening to Han Jinghui's description of his tragic childhood.

Han Jinghui retorted: "If I didn't have these experiences when I was a child, how could I draw from my current level of painting? How could I live in the United States so quickly without language barriers?"

Nick frowned and thought for a while, then said: "Anya, I admit that you are excellent, but if you think about it now, can you find any good memories of your childhood other than studying? Aaliyah is very smart and excellent, she is very good. Imagination, many of the plots of your comics are her imagination, right? She can also restrain herself. Few people like her have such self-control. She insists on writing a diary every day, and she is only ten years old. Back to two languages, don't you think she should play more happily at her current grade?"

Reason told Han Jinghui that Nick was right, but she was still very worried about the future of Ya Liying. The memory hidden in her heart, she always regarded the excellent and almost perfect girl in the TV series as her own daughter. This is not right, how much hardship did it take to grow into such an excellent child in such a difficult life?While she hoped that her daughter would be able to become an excellent person after avoiding some disasters and better adapt to this society, she also felt that it was very necessary for her to grow up happily.

"Anya, I think you push yourself too hard. You have to believe that you have done a good job. The two children are also very good. You are a very good mother, so you should be happier." Because Because of his father, Nick has some superficial understanding of China. For example, the people there are very hospitable, the food there is delicious, and the country is beautiful... But he doesn’t know much about Han Jinghui’s country South Korea. There are many negative things in South Korea, which makes Nick feel sorry for Han Jinghui's past experience, but also very proud that the woman he likes can grow like this.But Nick thinks that Asian women should have something in common. After all, he thinks that Han Jinghui, who is Korean, has many similarities with the many Chinese women his father said. At least Han Jinghui’s Chinese food is very good. At one time, he thought it was Korean. As a result, Han Jinghui bluntly said that what she cooks is Chinese food.

How to be a good mother, a responsible good mother, a mother who can make children feel happy both now and in the future, has always been Han Jinghui's wish. She likes children and the feeling of being connected by blood. After thinking for a long time, Han Jinghui thought that maybe Nick was right. If she lived in China or South Korea, maybe she wouldn’t be so embarrassed, but if she lives in the United States, people around her are very comfortable with this kind of life, so it is inevitable. She believes that her daughter will grow into an excellent girl. Even if she is not as versatile as in the play, she is definitely a girl who can bring happiness to others.