between men and women

One hundred and nineteenth post

As for my job, after reconciling with Peng Zhiran, I found a financial job in a private company.In a small company, there are only eight people including the boss himself. Except for me, an administrative manager and a secretary, they are basically salesmen, and even the boss himself runs business all day long.Originally, this company was a husband and wife shop, and the proprietress was the finance manager. But later, because the boss’s son wanted to study abroad, he had to immigrate, and the proprietress accompanied his son to go abroad first.

Big companies have the benefits of big companies, and small companies also have the benefits of small companies.The accounts of this small company are very simple, and they are only busy for two days at the end of the month. The boss is also nice. I don't have to work every day, and sometimes I can go out and do my own things after reporting.

Sagittarius is a sign that loves freedom. This kind of free and flexible work is very suitable for me.At the beginning, I worked part-time for two other small companies. In [-], a classmate who was a senior economist with me told me that the stock market was rising and asked me to speculate in stocks.

I have never done research on this, saying that I don’t know how to do it, but he said that there is no need to do it by myself, and someone else will do it for you.Those two years are estimated to be the best two years for making money in the Chinese stock market. Individuals can make money, it's just a matter of earning more and earning less.And unlike today’s financial management companies are all companies, there were many individual traders at that time, and most of them manipulated more than a dozen accounts with information, and the commission ranged from 20.00% to [-]%.

Looking back, I thought back then that I was too courageous. I just thought that the trader would not make money or take commissions, but I didn't consider that if I lost money, they would not help me bear the loss, so I jumped in like this.

At that time, I had saved some money, and my dad sent money to my account from time to time, so I said hello to Peng Zhiran and took 40 to [-] to speculate.In other words, Peng Zhiran didn't stop me at the beginning, probably because he saw that the stock market was really good.

The stock market is a very strange place. China has lost a lot of trust. In the stock market, it is either infinitely enlarged or infinitely reduced.In the stock market, sometimes you dare to believe the news given by strangers, but sometimes you can't believe the news given by your own people.Just like me, after that classmate gave me the MSN of the trader, I only chatted with him, and then gave him my account number and password with confidence, and let him trade.Fortunately, I made money, otherwise I would probably have to say like Gillian that I was just too stupid and naive back then.

In the end, after more than a year, after excluding the 30.00% commission paid to traders, the funds almost doubled.I'm already very happy, but it is said that this was definitely at an average level at the time, and there were quadrupling the good ones.When the stock price was more than 5000 points, I suddenly remembered that the commission charged by my securities firm was too high, and I should discuss with them to adjust it. As a result, the securities firm I used at the time was rich and powerful, and they looked down on my little capital, and the commission fee refused. They gave me too many discounts. I searched around the stock website and found that some securities companies promised to give a commission of [-]/[-] or [-]/[-] as long as the account was transferred. I opened an account.

I also used QQ to contact new securities firms, but I made an appointment to meet at a certain coffee shop on the day I got the account.The other party is a girl in her 20s with a round face. Because the stock market is so good, she is full of joy. When chatting with me over coffee, she excitedly said that it is now [-] points.

I went back and excitedly told Peng Zhiran about this. He thought for a long time and said, classmate Chen Xiaojia, let’s take out the money and buy a house for investment. You see, even the aunt who buys vegetables has news stocks. I don’t think this stock market will last long. .

To be honest, I was a little worried when I saw the stock market was so hot. Since Peng Zhiran said so, I took out the money and bought a small house and rented it out as an investment.It's just that Peng Zhiran told me to take it all out, and I didn't give up. I kept [-] in it, and I thought it would be fine to manage it myself.Facts have proved that China is still a real estate insurance point, and the capital game is not a game that ordinary people like us can play. Besides, I don’t seem to have that talent, so the last [-] left in the stock market fell to [-] points. In the process of below two thousand points.

But I'm already very satisfied, after all, keeping the big head, at least compared to the funds in Peng Zhiran's mother's account, riding a roller coaster back to the original point, that's much better.

Besides, people can't expect that they will only make money forever and not lose money. As long as the general ledger is making money, they should be satisfied.So later on, I didn't worry about those stock funds, and worked hard to save money with Peng Zhiran. After repaying part of the loan on that apartment, I refurbished it, and then rented out my mother's apartment, and moved out. I went to the apartment of more than 100 square meters.

When I renovated the apartment I live in with Peng Zhiran, it has been nearly ten years since I first renovated my own house.People's aesthetics will change in ten years, but people's pickiness will not change.Peng Zhiran is still nitpicking as always, he refuses to compromise on design and materials. In recent years, domestic decoration materials have been exposed to radiation exceeding the standard and formaldehyde exceeding the standard.

For this matter, I have had countless fights with him, big and small.I remember seeing a post on Tianya saying that the young couple got divorced while decorating their house. At that time, I thought it was a bit too much.But to be honest, when Peng Zhiran hated the most and was the most picky during the second renovation, I also hated him so much that I wished I could pounce on him and bite him, so angry that I didn't want to see him for the rest of my life.Think about it, if you switch to someone with a shallower relationship, it is not impossible to really collapse.

I'm not exaggerating, this guy is really troublesome, and after the first decoration experience, I really have lingering fears, and I resist his fault-finding character from the bottom of my heart.Think about it, it takes a long time to think about the color of a paint, and adjust it again and again. The aunt who adjusts the color in the paint shop has a headache when she sees him, and there are special requirements for the painting process. Can't wait to make a brushed rough feeling, the construction team leader has a headache: "Xiao Peng, I know the effect you want, it's all painted with special paint, and it's only made of coffee shops or the like. , Keep your home clean, and your walls are rough and easy to accumulate dust. Living by yourself is different from a coffee shop.” Fortunately, this person listened to some persuasion, and finally the walls were relatively normal.But in other places he is not relaxed.

Regarding the wallpaper, I followed him to ten stores, and my eyes were almost nearsighted, as were the floor tiles and wall tiles. I couldn't buy the same thing four or five times.Moreover, he also wanted to use old elm wood as the decorative wall of the study to create the effect of a simple wooden house. The carpenter saw that the corners of his mouth were drooping, so he could only complain to me.But it’s no use complaining to me, I’m not being forced by him to look for old elm wood for the fireplace table, and go to the wood market all over the city.Who is not being tossed by him.If you are tossing about it, just toss it. After all, he is also running around, which is very hard, but this guy is tired from running, and occasionally he will scold you when he sees you doing things that are not pleasing to the eye. He dislikes you for being unorganized and not thoughtful enough. , I despise you for being lazy.

So all kinds of unhappiness and contradictions.I remember that when I was forced to separate, I secretly begged Mantian God and Buddha that if God could let me be with him, I would rather have a short life of ten years, but during the renovation, I was so angry that I wanted to tell God Give me back those ten years, but after thinking about it later, I still can't bear it. People who finally got it are not willing to let go for these external affairs.After all, faultfinding is temporary, but feelings are for a lifetime.

Finally, after more than two months of tossing, everything was done, and then the furniture was tossed.

Fortunately, I agree with him on furniture this time.The so-called trend is to recycle it from the beginning every 20 years. Ten years ago we liked the simple style, and ten years later we liked the retro style, and retro is to use the previous trend.The market is also very cooperative. There are a lot of European-style old-style furniture, but the quality is uneven, and the traces of old-fashioned are more obvious. Pick and choose, this store has a sofa, that store has a bookcase, and finally all the rooms It was all stuffed.Unexpectedly, his father said something that made us almost push over. He said: "Son, don't you have enough money to buy furniture? Why do you buy second-hand ones?"

It's just like I said, aesthetics change.After watching the retro style for more than a year, after the freshness has passed, we seem to be out of touch with the European retro style. I don’t know why people’s mood becomes more and more simple as they get older, and they gradually like the old Chinese style. Old decoration.This may be related to my liking for the tea ceremony in the past two years. If I have nothing to do, I can make some lapsang souchong to drink at home. He knows that I like to drink tea, and he often finds some Chinese teahouses with a good taste to take me there. I have seen a lot. Gradually, I felt that the light and pleasant feeling was very relaxing, so I joked to him that if our house has an ancient study, it would be nice to drink tea with you on the soft couch and bask in the sun.As a result, he said: "Why don't we change the house, and the next decoration will be ancient style." It scared me so much that I didn't dare to say the word ancient style for several months.

I really want to tell him, Peng Zhiran, I'm getting old, and I really can't bear to be so critical of you!