between men and women

No.80 nine posts

Luo Feng is broken in love.

He didn't say the reason for the breakup, but it was nothing more than dislike of his family's poor conditions.Luo Feng's parents were laid off early, and with a meager salary, they had to support his grandmother. The family of four lived in a two-bedroom apartment.His job is not a golden job or a silver job. If the little girl doesn't say it, it doesn't mean that Luo Feng can't understand it.He was very frustrated, and came to us to complain, saying why girls are so realistic nowadays, and the boys in Peng Zhiran's system must be very popular.

It is very popular.

Entering [-], we don't know when, our wages have been quietly rising, just like the silent price increase.

In [-], Peng Zhiran and I had more than [-] wages, bonuses and subsidies in total, and the mortgage pressure eased accordingly, and the hard times were finally over.

Looking back now, the millennium is like a dividing line. At the end of the 90s, the development of this city was still visible. A building was built here today, and a commercial building was opened there tomorrow. But once the millennium passed, It seems that the city has been on the high-speed rail overnight, like a wild horse that has run loose, and you can't catch up with it.

The whole city is changing with each passing day, there are new things and new things every day, wages are rising rapidly, and prices are also soaring. More and more people around me are starting to discuss various issues about stocks, houses, and cars.

Our system is becoming more and more difficult to enter. Most of the young people who come in are princelings. They have good food and clothing. Once they come in, they attract the attention of countless women. They are not targeted by young girls to prepare themselves. It was because the aunt and mother took a fancy to it and planned to introduce it to her daughter.It's a pity that most of the princelings already have targets.So many women turned their attention to the hidden version of high-quality stocks, that is, the dark horse.For a time, as long as unmarried young men in the system were extremely popular, they were besieged under the pretext of introducing friends.Naturally, Peng Zhiran and I could not escape the eyes of the hunters.

My situation is okay.Because you are in another place, you can use the excuse that you don’t want to talk here, and you can think about it after you transfer back to keep all kinds of people with ulterior motives out of the door.But it was not so easy for Peng Zhiran.

After working for nearly four years, Peng Zhiran ushered in his first job transfer.He was transferred from the marketing department to the engineering department as the deputy director of the engineering department.

This transfer position was not promoted much, but it was significant.

There is almost an unwritten rule in the system, whether your future is promising or not depends on your qualifications.

This kind of qualifications is not simply how many years you have been in the company, but how many departments you have stayed in for how many years you have been in the company, and how many of them are the core departments of the company.

Our current big boss is a good example. His work history can be very long. He changes departments almost every two years, and then he starts to be continuously promoted until he reaches the ultimate boss.

Of course, such a situation as a big boss is extremely rare, and generally requires a very charismatic communication skills and related background.

It is absolutely impossible for Peng Zhiran to be in that situation, but at least his efforts have been seen, and he has entered the leadership's sight, so he can see hope.He is very happy, and I am also very happy, but in the same way, happiness is always accompanied by unhappiness.

When marketing such basic departments, Peng Zhiran was already quite conspicuous, mostly because of his good taste in dressing and good looks.Peng Zhiran has always been good at taking care of himself. He can leave his clothes in a mess at home, throw an orange peel on the ground without picking it up and throw it into the trash can for a week, and don't wash a used bowl for a week even if it grows hair. When you go out, you must make yourself clean and tidy.However, just a good appearance in our system will not become a fragrant momo, but if a young man with a good appearance and may have a future is different.

Ever since he was transferred to the engineering department, enthusiastic elder sisters began to introduce him to girlfriends.

Friends who have been in contact with enthusiastic middle-aged women should understand that a little girl who pesters you is not scary. Little girls are thin-skinned or want to save face. If you reject her a few times, she will usually retreat in spite of difficulties.But the persistence and stickiness of middle-aged women is really amazing.She will keep joking with you, "Xiao Peng, XXX from the finance department is very nice, let me introduce you." "Xiao Peng, do you have a girlfriend? If not, can I introduce you to one?" Xiao X, who is new to the company, is pretty, do you know him?" "Xiao Peng, isn't he young, have you started talking about friends yet? Director X likes you very much. Her daughter is 22 this year and is about your age. Would you like Do you want to be friends first?"...and so on.

Peng Zhiran had no choice but to keep saying sorry to others dumbfoundingly.I'm sorry, I'm not in a hurry, I'm immature, I'm very playful, Master Liu, Sister Ma, you see, I still only know how to play, and I haven't given up my heart, I'll talk about it later...

However, blindly evading is not enough, people will think that you have high vision and look down on others, and you are forced to offend others in various ways.The other party is a colleague of the company, seniority is older than him, and they are kind enough to introduce you to a girlfriend. If you don't have a girlfriend, but you don't even give a little face to recommend a few, how can you do that!In desperation, Peng Zhiran had no choice but to refuse the ten times he promised to meet the girl he was introduced to once.

I understand Peng Zhiran's helplessness.I am 24, and recently I have also started to be asked by my mother if I have talked about my girlfriend.Parents are so strange. They told you not to fall in love early when you were in school, but once you get older, they will tell you to fall in love soon.Don't you think it's that easy to find someone you love and who loves you in this world?

Since I have this situation myself, I understand Peng Zhiran, and I thought I wouldn't mind.But the fact is that when he got very close to a girl introduced to him by others, I found that it was impossible for me to turn a blind eye.

That girl is from the Propaganda Department of the head office. She didn't know Peng Zhiran at first, because she has a good relationship with an older sister in Peng Zhiran's company office. acknoledged.Originally, the two didn't contact each other after that time. Later, the head office wanted to organize some activities and asked the engineering departments of each branch company to get the data. The two of them got in touch with each other at work, so they got in touch again.During the period, the girl asked Peng Zhiran for help twice when she encountered difficult matters, and Peng Zhiran also helped.

I didn't take it to heart.That promotional activity is very important, and our system attaches great importance to it. Many young people from various branches were mobilized to do it together, both men and women.Since they were all about the same age, we quickly became friends.Peng Zhiran is a person who knows how to eat, drink and have fun. He can come up with many ideas when there are many people playing together.It’s like playing American pool. Most people start playing with ball 1 in a regular manner. He will come up with a new way to play, sort out a total of fifteen cards from A to K plus big and small monsters, and then deal three cards to each person. Each poker card corresponds to a ball, A corresponds to No. 13 ball, K corresponds to No. 14 ball, the mob corresponds to No. 15, and the big monster corresponds to No. [-]. Then the ball corresponding to the card in the hand will be picked up by other players first. If they all go into the holes, whoever loses.It’s also like when it’s the weekend’s turn for everyone to come out to work overtime, he will organize everyone to go out for morning tea together after half of the overtime work, and continue to discuss plans while drinking tea.In short, with him, he will make people feel very creative anytime and anywhere, and make people feel that he is a person who knows how to live and works hard.

That's his B-type blood Gemini's innate nature. It's a very charming personality, and many people would like to have such a work partner.

So when their case was finished, I didn't think there was any problem when a group of people said they would organize to sing K.

If Peng Zhiran hadn't asked me to go with him.