This situation

Before Xuan Ming said shyly, difficultly and naturally that she liked him, Song Jiayan was mentally prepared.As a psychological counselor, I have seen and heard too many stories of clients liking counselors. In the words of the industry, it is sex transfer, empathy.But when I met for the first time and the other party was a girl, the feeling was completely different from listening to other people's stories.She was really taken aback, and then used the consultant's three tricks, let's discuss this issue.

When Xuan Ming mentioned liking her several times in a row, Song Jiayan said, I like the opposite sex, like a proud statement.Xuan Ming seemed to be stunned for a while, and everything was as usual, she sensed that something was wrong, but Xuan Ming's tone of speech didn't change much from usual, so she let go of her doubts.

When she first heard the phrase "like the opposite sex", Xuan Ming didn't react much, her brain was in a dormant state that she only had when facing Song Jiayan in the consulting room.

As soon as he walked out of the consulting room, Xuan Ming's brain became active, and the waves turned over and over again, like a tsunami.

What does it mean to like the opposite sex?Can it be a man?

What does liking someone have to do with gender?Xuan Ming has read many books and researches on sexual orientation, and she doesn’t think that liking someone has a precondition of gender matching—except for blind dates for the purpose of domestic marriage.Gender is at most one of the many conditions for liking a person, not all of them.

Homosexuality and heterosexuality are not 0 or 1, not + or -, not bipolar, but percentages.Xuan Ming believes that there are some people in the world who are 100% the same and 100% different, but just as sexual orientation is a spectrum, where are there so many absolute straight and crooked?

Straight as steel, it has to bend when it reaches high temperature, and it has to be brittle when it encounters low temperature.Haven't you heard the famous line in The Lword, women are like spaghetti, they bend when they get wet.

Xuan Ming has always felt that the so-called sexual orientation is like the three forms of water, which meet certain conditions, whether it is liquid, solid, or gas, there is no standard that should be absolute.

Even though Song Jiayan later told Xuan Ming that she liked her, it was different from her kind of liking.

Instead of comforting people, these words added fire to a powder keg.Xuan Ming was about to meow, she didn't even know, but Song Jiayan already knew what kind of love she was talking about?

She would rather Song Jiayan say in vain that you are not my type, or that I don't like you, than her saying that she likes the opposite sex.

The phrase liking the opposite sex has too much connotation and broadness, and it projects too much social injustice.

Proud to have a son, sigh to have a daughter.The whole family celebrates the birth of a son, while the daughter is quietly suffocated to death.The daughter's money is the family's money, and the family's money is the son's money.

Men who are recruiting and recruiting are given priority.Men who are promoted are given priority.

Which sentence is not a derivative of "like the opposite sex"?

Not to mention those parents who force their daughters to marry, no matter what the daughter's wishes, as long as the other party gives birth to a diao, it is good, good, good.

Well, talented people have given such a disease a name called cancer.

Xuan Ming didn't think that Song Jiayan's expression of disliking her was cancer, but that this sentence would involve too many other emotions.More importantly, she was dissatisfied with Song Jiayan's lack of keeping up with the times on the issue of sexual orientation.

"Ning Ning, you should develop in the direction of psychological counseling in the future. The current counselors are too sloppy, with such a narrow sexual consciousness!" Xuan Ming threw a doll on the sofa, with an unhappy expression on his face. "I worked as an undercover agent in several consultant groups. I heard that homosexuals are either excited like seeing monkeys or feel sick. Such people are good consultants. Damn, Song Jiayan is actually not bad. Not just a little bit better."

It's rare that Guan Ning has no class in the afternoon, and she doesn't want to study by herself, and she doesn't want to stay in a place where there are other people - she is afraid that she will not be able to help telling others about her little-known girl's thoughts. Chatting in Mingmingtang. Miss A liked Guan Ning, so when she came, she washed the fragrant pears she had just bought, and broke open the almonds for her to eat.

Guan Ning could feel Xuanming's anger, not because of Song Jiayan's refusal—Xuanming knew better than anyone what ethics and boundaries were. The anger was based on the injustice of reality, and the lack of professionalism of those who should be professional.

Her little lady mentioned that in the early years, some parents took their children to consult about sexual orientation. Under the dual pressure of the consultant and the parents, the children committed suicide by jumping off the building, and the number was not small.There are also doctors who use electric shocks to treat homosexuality, not to mention sexual orientation, even sexual interest.

"Don't say that those people don't know how to read documents and foreign translated textbooks. Even our textbooks say that homosexuality is still a disease. I found a book on forensic science two days ago. The viewpoint is backward to prehistoric. I admire it That girl who dared to sue the Ministry of Education for administrative inaction because her teaching materials discriminated against homosexuals." Guan Ning leaned on the sofa, gnawing on a fragrant pear, looking listless and angry. "I don't want to do consulting. If I can...I want to study criminal psychology abroad."

"Your parents let you go?" Xuan Ming hit her casually. "Studying this major abroad requires a foundation in biology, and requires both cognition and neuroscience."

Biology, cognition, and neuromedicine Guan Ning is not worried. With the introduction of MOOCs into China, many foreign courses can be learned online, and some of them will be counted as credits. The only obstacle is parents.Guan Ning sighed, "Hey, Xuan Ming, how do you know?"

"I've thought about it too. Behavioral analysis, catching serial killers, great praise." The blows came and went, but in the end it was me who was hit, and it was my mother who disagreed. She is still a charlatan and a fortune teller.The last time someone called to ask her to find someone, she had to simply refuse.curiosity?have.But Xuan Ming will not indulge his curiosity, so as not to put his mother, himself, and "Hai" in danger.Hey, I work hard, and the people I like don't like me. "Ningning, I think I'm cursed."

"Eh?"

"Maybe it's a curse from my ancestors. If you like men, you're gay, and if you like women, you're a straight little Bai Yang."

puff.Although Guan Ning was full of thoughts, she also laughed at Xuan Ming's resentful words. She stuffed two almonds into her mouth, "Aside from saying that you are interested in consultants, you didn't mention who you like..."

"In our business, although we have met many people, we can't have anything to do with clients. There are consulting ethics, and we also have ethics for astrologers. Everything is to protect the interests of clients. Moreover, although there are many people in this world, they can be seen. But there are not so many, what do you think is cutting?" Xuan Ming chewed the almonds.

"Well... We have known each other for many years, and occasionally heard you mention someone, but it was not long. There is only one person, and you mentioned her the most times, the longest time, and the most intense emotion." Guan Ning followed Xuan Ming's train of thought, as her Based on my own reasoning, who did Xuan Ming like and who didn't like her?

"Who? My mother? Are you trying to say that the daughter is my mother's previous lover? Guan Floyd Ning."

"What, isn't it Auntie Banxian?"

"Then who else can have this honor?" Xuan Ming didn't believe there was such a person at all.She also has intense emotions and a long lifespan. Apart from not paying back the money she owes, she doesn't bother to have emotions. "Wait a minute, are you talking about RMB?"

"It's all about human beings." Guan Ning stood in front of her and looked her up and down deliberately. "Hey, you and my little lady are classmates. Some people say that the current classmates are like the cousins ​​of the past."

"Her?! Bah!!!" Xuan Ming was so frightened that he rolled down from the sofa, "Ah, please forgive me. Like her? I saw a ghost!"

"You see you're getting emotional again."

"I'm still biting you." Xuan Ming got up from the ground, and made a face at Miss A who was listening to them making a big fuss, "Ning Ning, tell me something sad to make me happy, just like last night. The thing about us pretending to go out together on Saturday?"

On the phone, I heard that Guan Ning was unhappy, and it was true when we met. After contacting the person Guan Ning said was good-looking, the big peach blossom, and lied to go to Hangzhou, it is really not difficult to guess the little girl's mind.It's just that this little girl never told you if you didn't ask her since she was a child. Of course, sometimes you may not tell her if you ask her.

"So obvious?"

"Don't worry, not everyone is as sharp-eyed as I am, and you never hide anything from me."

Even the most vulnerable things are clearly understood, what else does she need to hide from Xuan Ming?After briefly talking about Fang Congwen and Saturday, Guan Ning sighed: "Before, I just thought she was radiant, but seeing her made me happy from the bottom of my heart, and I was also very happy talking with her. You know that many people can't talk to each other at all." Get up. I never thought about what kind of feelings I would have for her. On Saturday, I told Cheng Yaojin that I found that I like her, not just... What about her? She doesn't mind that I am younger than her , I haven't graduated, so my parents won't even approve me to go to another place? I also know that liking can be a matter of one person, but...but..."

"But you don't want it to be just your business."

"Well... I don't want to."

"Of course, this is the first time Ningning has been fascinated by someone."

"Hateful, I will say the same thing many times."

"It's hard to say."

"Then tomorrow, no, after a while, let me change my fan."

Xuan Ming touched Guan Ning's head, and said with a smile, "You can be in love with Sister A, she likes you very much." This is the first time seeing Guan Ning showing such a coquettish side, sighing, she also has a kind of my family Feels like a grown up girl.

"Miss A treats me like a child."

"Isn't that charming lady?"

Guan Ning thought for a while, "Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Sigh, I don't even know if she is married or not."

"That's not important. Your uncle doesn't care whether someone is married or not, and he still sends flowers all the time. It's still Beastism. Besides, you can leave when you get married. Your aunt is divorced."

"Uh... If my little lady gets married, will you poach a corner and be a mistress?"

"How could I do that kind of thing No, it's none of my business, who would marry her, who would dare? Don't die."

"Is it that exaggerated? My little lady is good-looking, she knows a lot, she is also a psychiatrist, she is kind and kind..."

"Wait, wait, are you talking about your little lady or the Virgin Mary? I can't tell, you are still a concubine."

The two were joking with each other, and their bad mood eased. They wondered if the little lady who was mentioned repeatedly was sneezing.

Guan Ning sighed leisurely: "Xuan Ming, we are bound by fate, if we like people who don't like us, we are doomed not to get what we want." Only then did I understand what liking is, but it will end without a problem, how can people be reconciled?

"What!" Xuan Ming jumped up from the sofa, she couldn't hear Guan Ning's decadent words. "Guan Ning, it's impossible for me and the consultant. But you are different from that charming lady. If you like it, tell her."

Imagine that the other party Congwen said he liked her, and Fang Congwen would definitely say he liked her too, although the two of them never contacted after that Saturday.Every time I picked up the phone and wanted to say something, I didn't know what to say. The appearance of that old classmate on Saturday was really terrible. For Guan Ning, it was a disaster for no reason. "Even if she likes me, it may not be the kind of liking I want."

"Stupid, she said she likes you too. Just say, since we like each other, let's kiss."

"..."

"Then you just kiss, kiss, you won't suffer."

When Ms. A knocked on the door and heard these words, she couldn't bear it any longer. She pushed the door open and said, "Xuan Ming, don't worry about being shameless. Don't teach Guan Ning badly. Ning Ning is a good boy."

Xuan Ming was about to argue when her cell phone rang.At the same time as the phone rang, the ipad and computer screens all displayed the caller: Xu Wei, No. 51 Street, and there was a warning sign next to the name: Warning!

Miss A backed out without making a sound. Guan Ning was startled by the warning, thinking that something happened.

Xuan Ming answered the phone with a serious expression.

It was the same female voice, but this time the voice was a little tired, "Xuan Ming, hello, it's me..."

Xuan Ming said: "Last time I already rejected your request to find someone."

The female voice said: "Not those few, there is no need to search for those few, they are dead."

Xuan Ming said: "Dead? I won't feel guilty, it has nothing to do with me."

Hearing that Xuan Ming was eager to get rid of it, the female voice seemed to smile, and said: "He was dead before that, Xuan Ming, this time I want to ask you to find the body." This time the female voice was more enthusiastic, "I haven't told you yet. Who is it? It was my negligence. Sorry, my name is Xu Wei. I am currently in charge of a case where several women disappeared. The time span is very long, and there may be many victims. Xuan Ming, are you willing to help me?"

Guan Ning watched Xuan Ming struggle for a while, and finally said firmly: "Sorry, Miss Xu, I can't help you."