If you bend me, you have to be responsible for me

Probably only people who have experienced a broken relationship will understand that as a friend, you can give the abandoned party nothing but companionship.The love between Jiang Xue and Dan Dan seemed like a catastrophe to her. How happy she was before, how sad now.I stayed with her from the car home that night to the next day, and most of the time she was quiet, sitting or lying alone, crying quietly without speaking.Once she spoke, all she said was about Dan Dan, about the bits and pieces between them, about the illusory promises that had been made.After that, she seemed to be a different person. She didn't wear makeup or tidy up, and complained all day long, until two weeks later, she suddenly said to me: "Yu Siqi, I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, C University."

I said: "OK."

She said: "I want to take the xx major. That's what I agreed with Dan Dan. I must pass the exam and show him."

I said, "Okay, I'll accompany you to the self-study."

So under the stimulation of Jiang Xue's incident, I picked up my great career of postgraduate entrance examination again, and Jiang Xue was also very serious because the school and major registration ratio of the school and major that applied for the examination were less than [-]%.

After insisting on it for a month, we had a summer vacation.At that time, Jiang Xue had gradually come out of the shadow of Dan Dan, but my inertia of fishing for three days and drying the net for 30 days, I simply took advantage of the hottest two days to persuade him to take annual leave, and convinced Jiang Xue and Yu Jia embarked on a "pious" journey.

It takes 47 hours to take the train from Chengdu to Lhasa. During these 47 hours, I went from being excited at the beginning to burnout by the fifth hour. After eating the first boxed lunch on the train, I regretted it so much, and when I woke up halfway through the night and was startled by the beating rhythm of my heart, I really wanted to get out of the car immediately.But when I thought about how I was the one talking to everyone when everyone was discussing the way to travel, telling everyone that this is our pilgrimage, and that it takes some hardships to show our sincerity, I can only swallow my teeth with broken teeth at this moment.Silently, he took out the oxygen tank behind him, and Zizi squirted it out twice and inhaled it for comfort.

I just didn’t expect that Liu Yingshan, who was sleeping across from me, would have noticed these two sounds. He turned his head and got out of bed and came to me, stroked my hair, and asked me in a low voice: “Are you feeling uncomfortable? ?”

Regardless of the fact that my hair hasn't been washed for two days, I rubbed it on his hand, "No, go back to sleep."

Liu Yingshan grabbed my hand and said softly, "I'll go back when you fall asleep."

He just squatted beside my bed. In order for him to go back early, I closed my eyes in cooperation, and within two seconds I lost consciousness.

Three treasures for plateau travel: Jackets, sunscreen and hats, especially hats.

Before going to the plateau, we went for a physical examination. The doctor reminded us not to take a bath when we first went up. First, we are afraid of catching a cold. Ordinary people who catch a cold on the plateau may cause many complications. Second, we are afraid of hypoxia, so it accumulates in a few days , the hat has become the most important thing, because once the hat is taken off, the whole head is covered with oil.

On the day we arrived in Lhasa, we went directly to the Jokhang Temple, and walked along the Balang Street to watch the believers or tourists turn around, or mutter words, or smile affectionately.I dragged Liu Yingshan's hand to turn the prayer wheel, and said to him, "It's not for pilgrimage, just to touch your fingerprints."

Liu Yingshan replied to me: "I have two wings, and I don't want to fly high, I just want to be by your side."

When Yu Jia and Jiang Xue heard it, they immediately expressed goosebumps and begged us not to abuse the dog again.

Starting from Lhasa, heading west and crossing the border, we finally arrived at our destination, Nepal.

When deciding to come to Nepal, Liu Yingshan was firmly against it, because an earthquake just happened here four months ago.But maybe it’s because the pursuit of romance and happiness in our language learners’ hearts always surpasses everything else. Only on this point, when I mentioned it, Yu Jia and Jiang Xue both readily agreed and followed me to convince Liu Yingshan.Everyone is curious about what the world's most happiest country is like.

As a reliable person, I would like to remind everyone that you must make a strategy before traveling.The four of us, Liu Yingshan, are too busy with work and don’t have time, while the other three are lazy, so you push me and I push you for this kind of strategy. We are in a state of wandering.I have been paralyzing myself with the words that this is the country with the highest happiness in the world, trying to get rid of my anxiety that I have nowhere to go, but this kind of self-comfort finally came when I saw the same bottle of mineral water. When I spent 25 rupees (about 5 yuan more), and another customer who had no rupees spent [-] yuan, I realized that the so-called happiness and misfortune are just based on the individual.All places in this world are the same, there are noble souls, but there are also depraved shadows, and the happiness that is touted is just talk.

Fortunately, that situation did not dissuade us from traveling, and the journey from Kadu to Chitwan is still enough for me to remember.Drivers in Nepal drive like they are filming a movie. The speed is really fast. Even if they look at places with high slopes and sharp bends, they can throw you over in one fell swoop.Sitting in such a car, it is naturally impossible to fall asleep at ease. There are steep cliffs on both sides, and your lover is by your side.It always gets dark earlier on the plateau, so when the clouds in front of me are gradually replaced by the starry sky, my heart also settles down.

In any case, overall I am satisfied with this journey. With Liu Yingshan to accompany me and my friends to accompany me, whether it is eating or hanging out, it is very interesting. It was only after I came back that I realized that I had the opportunity to talk to wild people in Nepal. It's a pity that Big Bear came into close contact with him.

The highlight of this journey is that Liu Yingshan lost her mobile phone on the penultimate day, and after searching for it to no avail, she could only return to Chengdu with regret.

I walked in front and pressed the combination lock, Liu Yingshan followed behind, opened the door close to me, put his arm around my shoulder, kissed me, and said, "I'm finally home, I've been suffocating for a while."

But at the moment of actually entering the door, all that was left was dumbfounded, Liu Yingshan's mother was sitting on the sofa at this time, and on the coffee table were the photo albums, ky and covers that Liu Yingshan and I made for me.

Liu Yingshan pushed me and said, "Siqi, you wait for me in the bedroom."

I looked at him and then at my aunt, but I didn't have any idea at this time, so I had to say hello to his mother and went into the bedroom.

Before I could close the door of the room, I heard a loud applause, and my heart trembled.

The next moment I heard Liu Yingshan's voice, he said: "Mom, let's go upstairs and talk."

The two didn't stand still any longer, but went upstairs directly.

I was terrified in my heart, just because of my aunt's expression when I greeted her just now, I could know what we might face next.Carefully pushed open the door, stood at the stairs, and quietly listened to everything that happened upstairs.

I heard my aunt crying, and I was very sad. While crying, I asked Liu Yingshan why she became like this.That voice was hysterical, just like when my mother first found out that she was gay.Looking back I'm so grateful that even though my mom couldn't accept it at the time, she didn't make it hard for me, she just kept it a secret between me and her.

This process lasted about an hour, and I sat at the bottom of the stairs for an hour, eager to hear something, but afraid to hear it.

An hour later, I heard the sound of the door opening, and I quickly got up and ran back to the bedroom. Liu Yingshan pushed the door open and walked in, closed the door and immediately hugged me.My heart skipped a beat, tears gushed out, I thought he probably didn't want me.

Feeling my tears, Liu Yingshan didn't say anything, but hugged me even tighter, which made me feel even more sad, because not saying anything is the scariest thing.

Finally Liu's mother urged me outside, Liu Yingshan let go of me, wiped away the tears on my face, held my face and said to me seriously: "Si Qi, I have to go back to Shanghai with my mother."

At this time, my tear glands completely collapsed, and I didn't care whether Mama Liu was outside, crying: "You don't want me? Are you going to break up with me?"

Liu Yingshan hugged me and stroked my back one after another, but this time he couldn't calm me down because I was afraid.I was afraid that as soon as I stopped crying, he would pack up his things and leave with his mother. I was afraid that this was the last time he would comfort me like this, and I was afraid that I would never be able to vent my anger on him like this again.

"Don't cry, be good, don't cry." Liu Yingshan kissed me, and said softly: "You believe in me, I will definitely come back, okay? My job is here, and I won't quit. You are here too, My home is here. I just have to send my mother back. She is not in a good condition. She threatened me with her illness. I can't let her go back alone. But don't worry, okay, "

"I'll go with you, anyway, I can't live alone if you leave." I grabbed Liu Yingshan's hand, as if he would slip away from my grasp the next moment.

"Don't be stupid, how can my mother let you go with me now, you just stay here, okay? When I come back, call Jiang Xue and ask her to come and stay with you. During this time, you two will stay together How about reading? Believe in me, I will really come back." Liu Yingshan held my hand instead, trying to give me some confidence.

"But I want to face it with you."

"No, I think my mother can accept it now. We'd better not be together. By the way, before we went on a trip, I asked a friend to help me register the real estate notice, so don't be afraid, live here with peace of mind, this house is in, When you are here, so is my home."

The author has something to say:

A few notes about this chapter:

1. The dialogue in the middle of turning the prayer wheel comes from the love song of Tsangyang Gyatso, not the song "that month, that year", but another Tibetan song, which was introduced by our class teacher in college The song given to us later became the class song of our class, but I can’t find the version that the teacher gave us to listen to that song on the music software, which is a pity.

2. If you go to Nepal, I sincerely recommend you to go from Lhasa. If you have enough time, you can also take the train from Chengdu. It is a wonderful experience. After the whole trip, you will definitely have a sense of happiness.

3. Regarding the registration of real estate notices, here is a little law knowledge for everyone: it means that under special circumstances, if the registration cannot be completed, you can apply for a notice to the Real Estate Registration Bureau to fight against a bona fide third party, that is, as long as the notice registration is made during this period, If someone wants to sell the house, the original owner can request to return the property right.Here, Liu Yingshan originally only wanted to put Yu Siqi's name on the board. Because he didn't have time, he asked a lawyer to make an announcement, but it happened to protect Yu Siqi from the other side, because during his return to Shanghai, Liu Yingshan's parents were against him. There is no right to dispose of this house.

Hahaha, does this paragraph seem a bit convoluted, and I want to write an article dedicated to law in the future, and then I will educate you about the law at that time.

Also, after this article is finished, I should start a new article directly, yes, it is the article: How to Raid the Queen's Pet, so I hope everyone is interested, you can poke in and take a look.