if this is also love

"Youyou, which floor do you live on?"

"Fourth floor, 401."

"Open the door quickly, I can't hold back!"

This David Liu always doesn't follow the rules!Li You had no choice but to open the door, turn on the light, and invite him in.She changed her shoes at the entrance, and said to him, "I didn't prepare extra shoes, you don't need to change your shoes, just go to the toilet!" She went in and opened the floor-to-ceiling curtains.

The night outside the window was getting thick, and the night wind blew in with a coolness, which quickly dissipated the heat in the room.From the moment he met Li You, David Liu was full of curiosity about her, eager to get close to her and understand her. Now that he has the opportunity to enter her boudoir, he naturally does not miss any corner.

Li You's home is very simple, a single room of more than 30 square meters, with a typical black, white and gray decoration style. There is a shoe rack at the entrance, on which various shoes are neatly placed; on the left is a small bathroom. It looked spotless. David Liu couldn't help thinking in his heart: Youyou, like me, not only has cleanliness, but also obsessive-compulsive disorder!Such two people should live harmoniously together in the future!

David Liu was not in a hurry to go to the toilet. He walked in and looked around. There was a small refrigerator with double doors on the right. Next to the refrigerator was a light gray fabric sofa for two or three people. There was a small glass coffee table in front of the sofa; It is a single bed, and the sheets and duvet covers are all light gray. There is a desk with a bookshelf beside the bed. There is a computer and a pen holder on the desk. Various books and small items are neatly placed on the bookshelf, among which There is a mailbox labeled "Song", which is particularly eye-catching.

"Wow, what song will it be in?" David Liu was very curious, and was about to open the mailbox, but was stopped by Li You.

"Don't move!" She hurried over in a panic, and pushed him away, "Didn't your parents teach you not to mess with other people's things? Do you know how to respect other people's privacy?"

David Liu was taken aback. He didn't understand why Li You was so excited. It was just a mailbox. As for such a big reaction?Is there any ulterior secret in it?However, the mailbox is placed so conspicuously, it doesn't look like there is any secret!Maybe this is her favorite thing, maybe it has some special meaning to her.No matter what, David Liu still felt that he was wrong, and immediately said apologetically: "I'm sorry, I'm just, just a little curious, I didn't expect to make you angry."

Li You calmed down quickly, feeling that he was making a fuss over a molehill, and he felt a little guilty, but he still looked a little angry on his face, and his tone of voice was also cold: "It's late, you hurry up and go home after going to the bathroom." Bar!"

David Liu obediently went to the toilet, bid farewell to Li You obediently, and then returned to his home obediently.As soon as he got home, he couldn't hold back his emotions any longer, and immediately dialed the phone number of his friend, and finished his experience just now in one breath.

"Queenie, what did my girlfriend's reaction at the time explain? Also, I found that there are "Learn a little psychology every day", "Psychological adjustment", "Personality psychology", "Being your own psychology" on her bookshelf. "Doctor", "Children's World: From Infancy to Adolescence", "Sociality and Personality Development" and other psychology books, what does this explain? She doesn't have any mental illness, does she?"

A clean and clear female voice came from the other side of the phone, and the other party said calmly: "Nowadays, people are more or less mentally ill. Learning a little psychology every day will not only help us adjust our psychology, but also help us improve our mental health. We understand the hearts of others, so as to optimize the role we play in life. Having said that, you have a good memory. The list of book titles just mentioned seems to be correct. It’s amazing! I suggest you, you can Buy it back and see."

"Stop making trouble, I'm dying of anxiety!"

"Judging from your description just now, there is nothing wrong with your girlfriend, she just cares about that mailbox. As for those books, they can't explain anything."

"But, I always feel that she has something on her mind. Queenie, you are a psychiatrist anyway, can't you help me make a diagnosis?"

"Brother, please figure it out. I don't even know your girlfriend, and I've never heard you mention her. How can I make a diagnosis?"

David Liu hesitated for a while, then said seriously: "I hope you make an oath that you will never take love away, otherwise you are doomed to die alone!"

The other party directly swears, and then said angrily: "I was bitten by a snake once, and I was afraid of ropes for ten years. Look at you, you are so promising! Let me tell you, not all girls are called Sophie! Let me emphasize again , I don't like Sophie, so there is no such thing as taking love with a knife!"

"I'll just talk casually, as for making such a big fuss?"

"Don't worry! I don't have the same taste as you, we will never fall in love with the same person!"

"I'm not afraid of falling in love with the same person as you, I'm only afraid that the person I love will fall in love with you!"

"Forget it, don't tell me about your girlfriend, and I don't want to get involved, so as not to hurt our harmony! If you still need a psychiatrist, I can help you contact..."

"Don't, don't, it's just you! I'm just getting a vaccination. How can I trust this kind of thing to others!"

"Stop talking nonsense! What's going on with your girlfriend?"

"Her name is YOYO, she is a girl who doesn't like to laugh, likes to be alone, looks like an iceberg..."

"Hey, your taste has changed, it's a bit heavy?"

"Listen to me!" David Liu was a little angry, he really wanted to know Li You so much, he wished Queenie could help him instead of continuing to tease him jokingly.Fortunately, Queenie is also a good friend, and when he choked on a word, instead of getting angry, she became obedient.He adjusted his mood and began to tell the story of how he and Li You have known each other since they got to know each other. At the end of the story, he realized that he knew very little about her, and he was not a qualified boyfriend.

"That's the story between you two? It's about how you met and how you got together? Her family, her past, what she likes, what she doesn't like, what kind of person she is, you have all these things. Do not you know?"

"She doesn't want to talk about her affairs, and she doesn't like me to ask about her affairs." David Liu's voice became smaller and smaller, and his tone was a little unconfident, which was quite different from his past.

"Well, there is indeed a problem!"

"What's the problem? Seriously?"

"Stupid! I said you are the one who has the problem! Love is a matter between two people. If you want to stay with her and she doesn't want to, then you are not the right person for each other; the relationship needs to be paid and maintained by both parties. , only one person is giving and maintaining, that is called secret love or unrequited love!"

"Queenie, is there a possibility that she has been hurt before, so there is a shadow in her heart?"

"This possibility cannot be ruled out. After all, in today's society, many people have such a problem: psychological shadow. The main reason for this is that the patient has received a certain degree of mental stimulation during a certain period of time, which has caused an insurmountable psychological problem in the heart. psychological barriers. The psychological shadow left by childhood is more deeply rooted.”

"Should I investigate her past, such as her childhood?"

"Hey! Who doesn't have a secret in their hearts?" The other party muttered, and suddenly changed the subject, bitterness and hatred deepened, "However, I really hate people talking about 'childhood shadows', especially women! Hearing too much Many women mentioned childhood shadows to me: Because my family was poor when I was young, I pursued material things when I grew up. Only material things can bring me a sense of security, so I look for a boyfriend who is rich; because when I was young, I often saw my parents quarreling Or my parents are divorced, so I have no expectations for marriage, I don’t believe in love and marriage, and I feel that marriage can’t give me a sense of security, so even if I get married, the other party must be the kind of person who is obedient to me and I can control; because I was abandoned by my parents since childhood. However, when I grew up, I was afraid of the family, and I couldn’t handle the emotional relationship well. Later, I was betrayed and hurt when I fell in love. From then on, I never believed in true love, and never dared to let go of love. But any individual, as long as he is not drinking After drinking the potion in "Alice in Wonderland", he grew up in an instant, but a little bit. As long as he is alive, pain is inevitable. There is no childhood without shadows, and there is no past without injuries. Childhood Shadows and pain in the past are normal, the point is how you look at the past of pain..."

David Liu hurriedly stopped her: "If the 'shadow of childhood' is really causing trouble, then what can I do to help her get out?"

"Freud, the master of psychoanalysis, put forward the theory of 'childhood shadow' in his works. He believed that people's traumatic experiences, especially childhood traumatic experiences, have an important impact on people's life, and childhood shadows will affect adulthood. Worldview. For example, even if you have let go of some things at that time, when you dream back at midnight, it will visit quietly, making people feel miserable, and even lose control of emotions and behavior; it will make us afraid of facing the same or similar situations , Seriously, even the corresponding mental illness will break out..."

David Liu was terrified when he heard that, and kept urging: "Queenie, please tell me the key points!"

"First of all, she has to face the problem of psychological shadow. What kind of thing is this? She has to understand clearly that she has to face this matter. Second, she has to accept this matter. It is impossible to change it once it happens. , what she can do is to accept the fact that it happened. Then, in the face of such a thing, she must learn to deal with it, using her self-confidence or her beliefs, in short, she will overcome this matter if she perseveres to the end. Then, we know that the psychological shadow is often caused by some things, and she needs to let go of these things in order to get out of the psychological shadow. Finally, after letting go of these things that caused the psychological shadow, what she has to do is to put Forget, don’t remember again. In this way, she has formed a process psychologically, a process of eliminating psychological shadows, that is, the process of facing, accepting, processing, letting go, and forgetting.”

David Liu Liansheng shouted: "Queenie, speak slowly, speak slowly! This is too difficult, I can't remember, can you send me an email and tell me how to do it?"

The other party said angrily: "Brother, do you think you are taking an exam?"

David Liu here immediately said embarrassedly: "Sorry, I'm a little anxious, I don't know what's wrong with me, maybe I really love her, I wish I could use what I have in half an hour Useful knowledge helped her out of the shadows. Queenie, how are you doing with the procedures? I'll wait for you to come back, and we will make an appointment to meet together, and you can help me enlighten her."

The other party was very helpless: "Hearing what you said, I don't want to go back! In my impression, the few times we quarreled were all because of women. I don't want to quarrel with you anymore!"

"Bah, bah! My Youyou is a straight girl, and she only likes men like me! You said it yourself, not all girls are called Sophie! So, we will never quarrel again!"

"Okay, it's almost twelve o'clock over there, hurry up and go to bed! I also pack up and get ready to get off work!"

"Goodbye!" David Liu hung up the phone, still a little uneasy in his heart. Thinking of what he saw and heard tonight, and Li You's actions at that time, he was stunned, with an unprecedented sense of loss and frustration.