if this is also love

Li You stood at the door of the consulting room, suddenly lacking the courage to go in, one second he was in the mood to see something, but the next second he started to make excuses to leave.She didn't know what kind of mentality she should use to face Miao Ge, let alone what she should say to her after the two met.

"Youyou, what's the matter with you?" The head nurse suddenly appeared, "Since I have something to ask Dr. Jiang, why don't you go in?" She said while knocking on the door.

"Sister Zeng..." Li You wanted to stop it but it was too late, he only heard "Come in" from inside, and then saw Sister Zeng smiling at her in a panic, beckoning her to go in quickly.She tried to smile back, but couldn't.

"Thank you, Sister Zeng, I'll go first."

Miao Ge was surprised by Li You's visit, stared at her straight, and asked after she closed the door and sat on a soft sofa, "Why are you here?"

Li You was a little restless, so he walked around, pretending to look at the layout of the consultation room.For a while, she went to the window sill to play with small potted plants, for a while, she went to the ink painting to dig around, and for a while, she went to the wall clock to fiddle with the hem; she was like an ADHD patient, unable to stop for a moment.

Miao Ge was very upset, and wanted to rush over and grab Li You, asking her why she was dangling around like a ghost?Why do you always look heartless?However, no matter how upset she felt in her heart, she just vented her anger in her heart; since she agreed not to disturb each other, she should calmly treat each other as passers-by.Thinking of this, she calmed down a lot, and said calmly: "What do you think of my place? If there is nothing else, please go out!"

Li You had already thought of a countermeasure, so he walked quickly to the desk, sat calmly opposite Miao Ge, and said calmly: "I have a friend who has some mental problems, I'm sorry to come here Face-to-face consultation, so please ask me to help you with consultation, is that okay?"

Miao Ge rolled her eyes naturally, with a look of helplessness on her face, "If you think about it, it's about it, can I not accompany you?" Then she thought that the relationship between the two parties was not as good as before, so she remained lukewarm. Said: "Sorry, logically speaking, you need to make an appointment in advance..."

Li You snatched the white: "Is there no exception for friends? Do you have to be so heartless?"

Miao Ge couldn't help but ask back: "Did I say that there are no exceptions?"

Li You whispered: "Although you didn't say it, you think so in your heart!"

Miao Ge asked seriously: "Are you the roundworm in my stomach?"

"No."

"Then please shut up!"

Li You was always making trouble for no reason, but in the final analysis, he was just relying on his previous affection. He suddenly lost his confidence when Miao Ge yelled at him so harshly, so he laughed a few times and changed the topic in an instant: " Well, without further ado, I'll start consulting."

Miao Ge didn't speak, but there was a playful smile on the corner of her mouth, as if she was saying: "Xiao Mian! Let's see what tricks you play!"

Li You "coughed" loudly a few times, cleared his throat on purpose, then took out a pen and notebook from his bag, and began to ask the first question: "Excuse me, how can I be sure that a person's sexual orientation is homosexual? "

Miao Ge was stunned for a moment, and was about to get angry, but found that the other party was lowering his head, listing the questions stroke by stroke in his notebook, as if he had no distracting thoughts, so he suppressed the anger in his heart, and used a professional psychiatrist to Spirit replied: "To determine whether a person's sexual orientation is directed towards the same sex, there are two important specific reference indicators. One is that when he meets the same sex he likes, he will have a bodily reaction of sexual excitement; the other is his inner feelings." Have the inner desire and enthusiasm to use the □□organs and the same sex to □□. Physical sexual response produces pleasure; psychological desire produces happiness.”

Li You blushed suddenly, and murmured: "That... between the same sex... how to distinguish... which... is the attack... the attack... and... which... is the shou... accepted... …Woolen cloth?"

Miao Ge took a look at Li You, and continued to endorse without emotion: "The sexual identity of homosexuals has not changed. For example, if they are male physically, they think they are also male psychologically; if they are female physically, they think they are also female psychologically. .If you are physically male but mentally think you are female, that’s not gay, it’s transsexual, which is what people often say is going to undergo sex change surgery.”

Li You said "Oh", but he didn't expect that he tried his best to speak words, asked some random things, and Miao Ge got what she wanted to express, so he couldn't help being a little happy.This can at least prove that there is still some tacit understanding between them.

"Well, that... What is the reason for the formation of homosexuality?"

"So far, science is not clear about how homosexuality and heterosexuality are formed. Homosexuals often think that they are vaguely aware of their homosexuality when they are ignorant, based on their own feelings and experiences, so , they will guess, or prefer to believe that they are caused by genetics. Even if they are all homosexuals, they are unique and different, and cannot be explained by the same universal and unified scientific principle. But one thing is It is very clear that the sexual orientation is not intentional by the person involved, and cannot be determined and changed by his own will. Therefore, the direct behavior problems caused by homosexual sexual orientation have nothing to do with morality; homosexuals themselves have no regard for their sexual orientation. No legal and moral responsibility."

"Oh. So, is it necessary to cure homosexuality?"

Suddenly, Miao Ge jumped up against the table and said angrily, "My patience is limited! You'd better stop it!"

Li You looked innocent: "What are you doing? Did I ask the wrong question?"

The two looked at each other, neither of them willing to admit defeat.Li You's eyes were big and round, and in those watery pupils, there was a kind of temptation that made people dizzy and infatuated.Miao Ge saw her own shadow in her eyes, and couldn't help but lose.

"The answer is no. Because science is a means, and man is an end. Scientific means should be subordinated to man's end. If a homosexual thinks that living in that way is personally happy for him, then who has the right to use it? How about scientific methods to prevent homosexuals from pursuing happiness?!"

Although Miao Ge lost in his eyes, he refused to admit defeat in his mouth, expressing his views word by word and loudly.

Suddenly, the two fell silent at the same time, as if they had realized that they were not on the same channel, so they misunderstood each other.

Li You sighed softly and explained: "You don't have to be so angry. I am not asking these questions against you. I really want to understand their world. My friend, she really needs these help."

Miao Ge sat upright, pretended to clear her throat, and said slowly: "If you are an adult homosexual, I usually give six suggestions when consulting, one is self-acceptance, the other is to adapt to society, and the third is to adapt to society. Be prepared to inform your parents, the fourth is to understand and accept the issue of same-sex marriage, the fifth is to properly handle the issue of child adoption, and the sixth is... Both parties must take relevant safety measures. In fact, no matter what "love" is, Essentially, they are all the same, but...we fell in love with the same sex! Please tell your friends so!"

The two sat and chatted calmly to resolve the misunderstanding, and the tense atmosphere just now eased a lot.At this time, Li You couldn't help probing again, pretending to be relaxed and asked: "Miao Ge, this process is very difficult, isn't it? Can you tell me how you got here?"

"Sorry, this is my personal privacy issue, I have no comment! If you have no other questions, please get up, turn left when you go out, and don't send it off!"

"Listen to me..."

"Your reason for coming, I already know very well. I still say that, I have no comment!"

"Miaoge," Li You called softly, then lowered his head and rubbed his forehead vigorously. When he raised his head, his complexion changed drastically, and his attitude turned 180°, and he said in a sharp voice, " I was trying to be calm...but you are such an annoying person! So I was right to say no to you! It was wise! Do you know how much I regret talking to you now? I think I should Immediately slam the door and leave!"

"Tsk, why are you like this? You change your face faster than the weather, and you yell loudly when you disagree with each other. Why can't you speak well?"

Li You stood up, put his hands on the table, looked down at Miao Ge, with a domineering look, and said in a strong tone: "Why can't I talk properly? Okay, okay, I'll talk to you now! Miao Song, you said you liked me, and even unilaterally declared that you liked me to outsiders, have you ever considered my feelings?"

"I……"

"You forcibly took away my first kiss without my consent. Have you considered what kind of psychological shadow this incident will bring to me?"

"I……"

"Before you confessed to me, I always thought I was heterosexual. When you suddenly told me that you liked me, I was completely confused. The first reaction was that you were nervous and talking nonsense. But you , only caring about your own feelings, it’s such a joy to say! After being rejected by me, you simply cut through the mess with a sharp knife, and leave as soon as you say, so chic!"

Miao Ge was powerless to refute, as if she had just understood something, so she could only say weakly: "I thought you were serious... I thought you really hated me... really wanted to break up with me..."

"Miao Ge, I admit that I am self-willed, and sometimes I speak without thinking. However, you are used to it. You know my character and my thoughts best. Why did you misunderstand me so much at that time? Deep? Also, you were the one who proposed to break up with me first!"

"How is it possible? You definitely proposed it!"

Li You was extremely angry, with glaring eyebrows, and shouted: "I am sure and absolutely sure, it was you who brought it up first!"

At this time, Liu Dawei knocked on the door and came in. Seeing that one of them was aggressive and the other had a low eyebrow, he thought that the two of them were "tormenting each other", so he immediately stepped forward to stop them: "You two aunts, what kind of trouble is this?"

"Dawei, this matter has nothing to do with you..."

"Youyou, I want to ask, what is related to me?" This time, Liu Dawei raised his voice and interrupted forcefully, "You are my girlfriend, I want to know what happened to you! I care about your Is it wrong? Miao Ge likes women as much as I do, what will I think when you go out in private and get entangled like this? Have you considered my feelings?"

Li You was not ready to communicate with Liu Dawei, and the other party was indeed reasonable and powerful, so he was at a loss like a fool, so he got up to pack his things and prepared to escape.

"Youyou, wait." Miao Ge stopped Li You, but said to Liu Dawei: "David, you once called me and asked me if she has any psychological problems? Let me tell you now, she just came to consult me... "

Li You interrupted immediately: "Don't talk nonsense!"

After listening to Miao Ge's words, Liu Dawei was worried that Li You would be angry and would blame him, but his heart suddenly raised his throat, but he didn't expect that Li You was completely different from his own concerns, which made his heart fall to the bottom all of a sudden.It stands to reason that he should be thankful that he suspected that his girlfriend had psychological problems, but his girlfriend was not angry.However, he couldn't be more fortunate. Anyone watching knows that the former is definitely more shocking than the latter when he is suspected of having a psychological problem by his boyfriend, but what Li You cares about is not his boyfriend's. Doubt, but the "secret" between her and Miao Ge.In other words, in Li You's mind, boyfriends are not important at all!Liu Dawei was very disappointed, and said sadly: "Youyou, do you not care no matter what I do? Does it mean that no matter how I treat you, you don't care about me?"

Li You was so angry that he had no time to pay attention to Liu Dawei's grief and indignation, so he just said hastily and perfunctorily: "Don't make trouble!"

Unexpectedly, this sentence touched the limit of Liu Dawei's patience. He finally broke out and savagely snatched the notebook in Li You's hand, saying plausibly: "Okay! I want to see if you have any psychological problems? As for sneaking Did you come here to consult?"

Li You clutched the notebook tightly, but didn't let go.When she saw Liu Dawei's almost crazy appearance, and even Miao Ge couldn't dissuade her, she suddenly looked away and let him grab the notebook as soon as she let go.

"Here you are! Here you are! I'll give you everything!" Li You said coldly, and then ran out of the consulting room.