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Ziwei obviously felt that Xing Fan didn't care as much about her as when she first got married.

When they first got married, although Xing Fan always had a poker face, when he looked at Ziwei, his expression was a little softer, as if he was afraid of scaring the young daughter-in-law who had just started.

But after returning from the suburbs of Beijing this time, although Xing Fan often went to her room to care about her and the situation of the baby in her womb, Ziwei would give her whatever she wanted, but Ziwei still felt that his own warmth and gentleness, All subsided.

Although there was no sadness, disappointment, melancholy, or worry, Ziwei told Fanghua about her feelings.

Fanghua rubbed her chin, her first reaction was, is this another manifestation of pregnancy syndrome?

Immediately, she sensitively noticed that Ziwei's expression was a little too calm.A thought came to her suddenly, she looked at Ziwei suspiciously, and said, "Madam, let me ask you a question."

"Well, say it."

"Do you not love the general?"

"Why love?" Ziwei asked curiously, "He is the general, and I am the general's wife. He takes care of the outside and I take care of the inside. Isn't it enough for me to have children and take care of the housework?"

Fanghua is absolutely lost, fortunately, Ziwei always said that she has strange ideas, does not know the so-called ignorance, so how good is she herself?

"My wife, you are a fool for being a man! Do you love him or not, whether you treat him as a husband or a partner, you can't tell when you treat him!"

Ziwei frowned: "So what, if you don't love him, you don't love him. Do I want to force myself to fall in love with him?"

Fanghua sighed deeply, marriage first and then love is obviously not suitable for Ziwei and Xing Fan now.

"That's not what I meant. You should try anyway, even if you don't treat him as your lover, but as the head of your family?"

"Family..." Ziwei was stunned for a while before saying, "I'm afraid of him. It's been more than half a year, and I'm still afraid of him. I've never seen a man like him in my life. It is as strong as a thousand-year-old city, and people will be shocked when they see it."

Fanghua scratched her head: "Well, why didn't you say this earlier?"

"There is nothing to say. I am the general's wife, not Mrs. Xing. I just do what I have to do. I have the final say on who I want to let go or not."

"You don't think about it. After giving birth to a son, even if it is a daughter, he will be the first in your heart in the future. Generals and others should stand aside. Anyway, a man is not as reliable as your own child."

Ziwei nodded honestly, Fanghua couldn't stand for a while, and sat down while holding the table.

It took a long time for Fanghua to organize her words: "Madam, men also have a sixth sense. General Xing's intuition is especially accurate. He may not understand women's twists and turns, but you With him or without him in his heart, he can still understand where he is placed.

General Xing's wife died in his early 20s, and he left behind a daughter, who was finally brought up to such an age.It can be said that he tasted the sweetness of married life and then lost it.When you marry, even though your family looks like that, but you are so much younger than him, you are soft-looking, good-natured, soft-spoken, sensible, and well-mannered, which man doesn't love you?General Xing's heart is as firm as iron, can he not be soft-hearted, can he not be tempted when facing your little wife?He is also longing for a married life with the same eyebrows. Who doesn't want to go home every day and see someone who has been waiting for you to come back?

Yes, General Xing is a big man, unlike Baoyu or Mr. Li, he doesn't spend too much time on women, he doesn't know how to write love letters to make girls happy, he doesn't know how to give you thrushes, or choose exquisite jewelry for you.But that doesn't mean he won't love you.It is true that at the beginning, like Xu You, he was just in love with the woman who became his wife.What we have to do is to let them turn this love for their wives into a sincere and dedicated love for themselves.Even if we have something in the future and are gone, they will not think about changing wives and continuing to love.Because in their hearts, we are unique. "

Ziwei stayed for a long time before saying: "You mean, at the beginning, the general loved me?"

"The method may be stupid and cryptic, but it should be correct. Generals are human beings, and they want to live a sweet life when they get married. Even men yearn for romance. A family does not only have a male master. , There needs to be a hostess, a home is a home, and it makes people feel warm. I also took Xu You as an example, I can’t do anything, even Xu You cooks a meal, why is he so happy and willing. It's because he is living too hard alone, not because of the difficult conditions, but because of the bitterness in his heart. Even if I beat him and scold him every day, and leave all the housework to him, he is willing. Because finally there is someone who can always wait for him at home When he comes back, no matter how far he has gone or how long he has been out, his heart is with me. No matter how bad I am, I will be with him for the rest of my life. We share the same bed when we live, and we bury them in the same grave when we die. Of course, I'm not that bad, I think I'm pretty good, I marry Xu You, that's Xu You's blessing for a few lifetimes!"

At the end, Fanghua boasted that it made Ziwei feel much better.

Ziwei smiled wryly: "I really didn't think of this. I just thought that he probably wanted a general's wife, so I'll be a general's wife. I really didn't expect..."

Ziwei blushed, and squinted at Fanghua: "You, you shouldn't have framed me."

Fanghua shook her head hurriedly, but muttered in her heart: "What about you? You two must take the initiative! And I think my analysis is very reasonable. How can a man in his 30s be a little bit unkind to his newly married wife?" mean!"

"Ma'am, don't think that as long as the general keeps giving you the respect you deserve, and you have a child again, this day will be complete. Just look at me, and the other maids. The two of us, this relationship No need to talk about it! But whatever I have, or what you have, I have to think about giving it to the other party. The chess players, how envious and jealous they are! Look at Mr. Li and Miss Lin again. Xu You and I, are you envious? Are you jealous? Do you want to live such a harmonious and sweet married life with the general?"

Ziwei bit her lip, and took an orange to throw Fanghua: "The more you talk, the less ashamed you are. Are you giving me advice, or are you showing off yourself?"

"Of course I'm giving you advice! But who made my life go so smoothly? First I met you, then I met Xu You. If I don't show off, I feel sorry for God's love for me!" Fanghua said brazenly. .

Before dinner, Fanghua ran home to eat the meal Xu You cooked for her.Xing Fan also came to the main courtyard to have dinner with Ziwei, thinking about Fanghua's words, Ziwei couldn't help but look at Xing Fan.

Did he really like himself?Does he also have the charming thoughts of Mr. Li and Baoyu?Shouldn't he only be thinking about the important affairs of the court, and those fighting and killing in the army?

Xing Fan raised his eyes and saw that Ziwei panicked, then lowered his head and took a sip of the soup in a disguised manner, the blush spread from his face to his neck, not even escaping his ears.

What's going on here?Xing Fan was a little puzzled.

That night, there were especially many things wrong with Ziwei.It's shy to say, it shouldn't be, they've been married for so long.And this shyness is a bit different from Ziwei's shyness a few months before they got married.At that time, Ziwei was extra shy because she only touched men and women.But now, there seems to be some other reason for this.

As if, as if this madam had discovered for the first time that she was not only her general, but also...

Thinking of this, the corners of Xing Fan's mouth twitched slightly, he thought, hehe, it seems that this girl is relatively late in opening up the relationship between men and women.

When it was time to go to bed, Xing Fan lay on the bed first.Then he saw Ziwei, and when he was going to bed, he gave him a very shy look, took off his shoes in a different posture from the previous few days, took off his shoes in a laborious but more graceful way, and lay down beside him.

Xing Fan became more and more determined, and when everyone retreated, he whispered in Ziwei's ear: "Don't worry, although you are pregnant, I will not take a concubine at this time. If someone says you are not virtuous, Don't bother, I'll take care of it."

After hearing this, Ziwei was shocked and said, "Here, I..."

Xing Fan had an expression of "I understand": "I know, women are jealous. Although you didn't say it, I know that you have been worrying about this in your heart. Don't worry."

If you change Fanghua, you must say: "You said you won't take a concubine at this time, what about later, will you still take a concubine in the future?"

But how can Ziwei have the energy to think about this!

First of all, she never thought of taking a concubine for Xing Fan, whether it was forced or voluntary!Because Xing Fan didn't have a single woman around him before this!Not to mention the barracks, there isn't even a servant girl in the mansion!So Ziwei subconsciously felt that Xing Fan didn't need a concubine, even Fanghua, Siqi and others took it for granted.Ziwei has been pregnant for so long, and she never thought of finding someone else to serve him.

Secondly, if not for what Fanghua said before, Ziwei would not understand why Xing Fan said this.But now, Ziwei realized it in an instant.Isn't Xing Fan's sentence "Women are jealous" just to apply what he learned from others, what he saw, and his own experience to his marriage model with Ziwei?He felt that saying this would make Ziwei happy.As for why he wants to make Ziwei happy?Fanghua's words couldn't be more clear, the general is also a human being, and everyone wants a sweet married life!Men also want to talk about love!General, this is to talk about love with myself!sweet!

In the end, her admiration for Fanghua was almost overwhelming in her heart!Fanghua is really a typical example of being confused about small things and shrewd about big things!Although she has few shrewd things in her life, each one is the key, and Ziwei admires her every time!

Xing Fanna's "Don't worry" repeated twice played in Ziwei's mind in a loop, and she was so happy that she almost burst out laughing.

The author has something to say: how!How about it!Isn't it sweet!sweet!Teacher Fanghua, life mentor!