After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

If a man has hand claw marks on his face, it must have been scratched by his wife.

Someone's elder brother coaxed his younger brother to eat his candy, which made his younger brother cry. As a result, his younger brother complained to his parents, and the elder brother was forced to eat a meal of bamboo shoots fried with meat.

She also said that her mother favored her younger brother and she suspected that she was not her mother's biological daughter. Xia Ran almost died of laughter after hearing this, hahahahaha.

Suspecting that she is not her biological child? This child is so funny. Why didn't she realize before that this child is so funny and can be so fun.

The second son’s wife is biased for sure, but not to the point of making you, a little kid, doubt whether the child is her biological child, right?

"Why do you feel like they're not your biological children?"

"My brother doesn't want to eat, so my mom coaxes him to eat with money, giving him ten cents at a time, sometimes more. My brother doesn't want to eat this or that, and my mom does whatever he asks for. He even makes a fuss if there are a few extra green leaves in his bowl. My mom always picks them out patiently, and then rewards him with money to coax him to eat. But if I get home late, not only will there be no food, but only washing water in the pot, and I'll have to go hungry."

Who doesn't favor sons these days? Who doesn't favor younger ones? Xia Ran could only say, "Then you can go home on time for dinner."

If you can't change the environment, you can only change yourself and find ways to adapt to the environment.

"Didn't you forget about it while you were playing around?"

"That's because you didn't go home on time."

"Right."

"But my mother often secretly cooked eggs for my brother and said that there was no food, but I could clearly smell the smell. I asked my brother and he also said that he had eaten it and that it smelled delicious, but my mother just didn't admit it.

I have eggs at home. It's not like I don't have any. I have five old hens that lay eggs. Each of them lays one egg every day. I keep an eye on them. But my mother doesn't give them to me. She only gives them to my brother, who eats them secretly. So, I thought, I must not be my mother's biological child."

Xia Ran still understood the yellow-haired girl's implication: "What's worrying is not the lack of wealth, but the inequality!"

Who says that children can be easily fooled just because they are young? They know it clearly in their hearts. What she cares about is not just the egg, but that she is treated differently as a child of the same parents!

The second son's wife, oh, no, in this era and even in later generations, many parents can't treat their children equally. Xia Ran didn't know how to answer this question.

How could she tell this 4-year-old child that men and women were born unequal and would be treated differently? Perhaps, these things were just the beginning of her long life.

To be exact, it hasn't started yet. The older she gets, the more she'll find that she's different from boys. There will be many more things like this in her future life.

This is just a trivial matter. The difference now may be just an egg. The difference in the future may be a house, a car, or even all the favors of parents and all the property.

Whether girls admit it or not, many parents do not love their daughters as much as they say.

The reality is that men and women are born unequal and can never be equal. The social resources they own and enjoy are not at the same level at all.

Many families in later generations particularly like to have daughters, all to show that they are free from vulgar tastes and "value daughters over sons". They "value daughters over sons" not because they really like daughters - this kind of creature.

It is because having a daughter does not require preparing a dowry, a house or a car. There is less pressure and less expenses, and as parents, they can be more relaxed financially.

But for families with sons, the situation is completely different, and the pressure increases dramatically. Where there is love, there is money.

Xia Ran could only say: "I haven't figured out how to answer your question yet. I'll tell you when I've figured it out, okay?"

"Row."

The parents of the flower-growing family handled the issue of treating their daughters differently very delicately and with great "wisdom". The "love" they gave was neither too much nor too little, and was at that critical point.

The food given to my daughters would not cause them to "starve to death", but they would definitely not be full and would always be hungry. It is precisely because they were "not full" for a long time that my daughters were particularly obedient.

In order to "eat enough", to get more approving looks from parents, to get more satisfied affirmation from parents, I try my best to be nice to my parents and siblings.

I just hope my parents' eyes can stay on me for a little while longer. Just a little bit is enough to make them happy for a long time.

This causes them to become inferior, timid, sensitive, unconfident, self-denying and self-doubting.

So before she reaches adulthood, she may be coaxed away by a few nice words or candies from others. She thinks that all the suffering she has endured before is a test from God.

The reward after the test was to give her a good man to save her from the dire straits. Little did she know that she just crawled from one quagmire into another.

After many years of practicing Buddhism and getting my head bruised and bloodied, I finally realized that my parents had never loved me.

Brothers are not her support. Men are not her safe haven. The only one she can rely on is herself.

In this complicated world, only you can love yourself unconditionally and never give up on yourself.

Therefore, these middle-aged daughters can neither love nor hate their parents. They just ignore them, thinking that they have at least raised them.

My parents are not young anymore, and looking at their gray hair, I feel that it is not easy for them. No matter what, at least I am alive and grew up, and I didn't starve or freeze to death.

No matter what, they left all their favor, property, and resources to their sons, not even leaving a scrap for them.

He dismissed her with one sentence: "You are already married, you belong to another family, like water poured out, it will just be a waste for you."

This is not the worst. The worst thing is that I have been brainwashed by my parents and family since I was a child. I have to be good to my brothers and sisters, and when I get married in the future, I have to rely on my brothers from my mother's family for support, etc.

As a result, there are many "brother-supporting demons" and "brother-supporting demons".

They have to take care of their younger brothers when they go to school; they have to take care of their younger brothers when they get married; they have to take care of their younger brothers when their families have children; they have to take care of their younger brothers when their families buy cars and houses; they have to take care of their younger brothers when their younger brothers have a hard time…

It seems that as "sisters" or "sisters", we are born to owe our brothers, and it seems that we can never repay them in our lifetime.