After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

"I don't know what I will do. But if I do what you say, what if the child hates you in the future? What if she thinks you are a vicious woman and makes her lose her father's love at such a young age?"

"Hold the grudge if you want. I'll be dead by then anyway, so I don't care. I'm not afraid of going to hell to clear the obstacles for her. If she still can't figure out why she holds a grudge, then that's her fate.

She deserved all the misfortunes she had suffered. Anyway, I have fulfilled my role as a mother. I shouldn't worry about other things. I just need to have a clear conscience. Besides, which is more important, losing your father's love or losing your own life? I think anyone with a little bit of brains would know which choice to make."

"I think your idea is not right." But she couldn't tell what was wrong. The logic seemed to be fine. She wanted to refute it, but she didn't know where to start. After thinking it over again, Liu Juan said, "Men like this are a minority after all. We can't generalize. There are still good fathers who love their children."

Xia Ran smiled and asked: "For example, have you heard of such a good father or mother around you? Not only fathers, but also mothers. Once they have a new family, most of the previous children will become orphans."

"Yes, of course. The Cai family in our alley had a son who was very favored by his family. Even though he got married and had children, no one could surpass him. But the child was not ambitious and was spoiled by his family. He didn't learn well and hung out with a group of hooligans outside every day. Even so, his family still spoiled him. I always feel that the child was spoiled by his family..."

Liu Juan suddenly stopped talking at the end, the three words "spoiled" kept repeating in her mind.

Isn't it true that he was spoiled? People in their neighborhood all say that the wife that Mr. Cai married later is virtuous and generous, and treats his first son better than his own children. She is a rare kind person.

No matter how big a mistake the child made, she would always patiently help cover it up, and even provide protection and clean up the mess.

But she was particularly strict with the children she gave birth to.

"Being overpraised and spoiled?" Xia Ran asked conspiratorially upon seeing this situation.

Liu Juan was surprised, "Sister Xia Ran, how did you guess that?"

"I'm a conspiracy theorist. This is easy to explain and guess, isn't it? There are only so many resources in the family. What's the difference between keeping them all by yourself or sharing them with others? Don't you have any idea in your mind? Do you still need to consider which choice to make?"

"But isn't it immoral to do this on purpose?"

“It’s immoral, but if it succeeds, it’s also really beneficial.”

"Sister Xia Ran, you won't do the same, will you?" Liu Juan asked tentatively. She wanted to know what Xia Ran would do to decide whether to continue dealing with the person in front of her.

You can't play with people who have no bottom line.

Xia Ran shook her head and said, "If I had a choice, I would not marry into someone else's family and become someone's stepmother. This role is not easy to play, and no matter what I do, it's wrong, so I simply don't choose it. I don't like being exploited by others, nor do I want to bully and exploit others, so the best way is to respect each other at a distance. Even my own children cannot be raised well, let alone other people's children. There are even more ungrateful people, who are just asking for trouble. No matter how you calculate the account, it's a loss."

Raising a child for someone else is a business that is most likely to result in a total loss, so she would never do such a stupid thing.

If you have that spare money, you might as well donate it to help with disaster relief. Maybe it can help some people improve their lives and change their destiny. By the way, you can also accumulate some merit for yourself. What a good thing.

There are so many reconstituted families where one party helps the other party raise their children to adulthood, but the other party turns against them. There are too many such cases to count. Why bother breaking the law and testing human nature?

Gambling on your own child's conscience, or the conscience of someone else's child, isn't this just daydreaming and wishful thinking?

How many people in later generations, after their sons, whom the whole family has done their best to raise and educate, get married and have children, just ignore their parents.

He was alive only when he asked his parents for money. At other times, he never appeared, as if he was a dead son.

What’s more, they are other people’s children, so they are even more unreliable and untrustworthy.

How many sons live in the house bought with their parents' hard-earned money, spend their parents' retirement money as it should be, but take their father-in-law and mother-in-law to travel everywhere every few days. They take care of their father-in-law and mother-in-law until the end of their lives, but ignore their own parents.

He also said that it was not easy for others to raise a daughter, and that it was his duty to respect their parents.

At the same time, he complains that his parents don't give him enough and that their nagging disturbs his happy life.

What’s the matter? It’s not easy for the other party to raise a daughter. How come he has grown up so big? Could it be that he was born and raised by nature and grew up just by breathing the air?

The other person’s parents have a hard time, so his parents must have an easy time?

Of course, it is not just the sons who are upset, but some only daughters as well. She is married, not dead. After marriage, her brain is like rusted, as if someone has cast a spell on her.

If you don’t have a house, you ask your parents for money. If there is no one to take care of your children, you ask your parents for help. As a result, you use your parents’ hard-earned money to support and honor other people’s parents, and you become particularly obedient and filial.

It was as if she had received many years of education and had been raised with great difficulty by her parents, just to work like a slave for other families.

Not only do you live a miserable life, but you also make your parents unable to enjoy a peaceful old age.

Even though he died long ago, I still feel powerless as if I'm still living in the past.

Sometimes I think that it would be better not to have such children. It would be better to have a piece of barbecued pork!

"I mean, what if, what if you are someone else's stepmother?"

"If the other party's family is reasonable, the child is good, and the other party treats me sincerely and can bring me other benefits, then I will take good care of his child, but only in daily life. As for love? Don't expect it, I don't have it. I also have to prepare myself mentally and calmly accept the child's future betrayal, and ensure that I will not be hurt or sad.

If the other partner and his family are not good people and are particularly pretentious, then I'm sorry, I have to use my brain. If he still has value to me, then I will maintain this relationship for the time being. If he has no value, why not divorce? I don't have the habit of enduring hardships. If I continue to maintain the marriage, I have to plan for my children. As for how I will do it, it depends on how bad the other party is.

If the other party is too kind, I would be too embarrassed to bully them. If the other party is a little bit evil, that would be the best. That way I can justify my actions and not feel guilty. I am not afraid of evil people or death. I just need to be a little bit more evil and more aggressive than them. I only recognize one thing: I will be good to those who are good to me. If someone is evil to me, I will try to be eviler than him. "