After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

It seems that without the burden of these children, she can marry a good man and be financially free. But if you observe carefully, you will find that any woman who says this will not live a good life even without children, mainly because she does not have the ability to make herself happy.

Everything she has now has something to do with the child, but not much. Their biggest mistake was to plunge into marriage without a strong ability to make a living, and to give birth to a child without a certain economic foundation.

Problems that are not solved before marriage will not only not disappear after marriage, but will increase. For example, the ability and means to make money, and the wisdom to manage marriage. It is difficult to have what you don’t have before marriage. Marriage itself cannot improve IQ, but it can show people the evil of human nature for free. "

If you don't get married, there is only one problem, and that is working hard to make money.

After getting married, you not only have to work hard to make money, but also have to take care of the family and children, deal with a tangled mess of relationships, and accept your partner's "filial piety outsourcing" service for free.

"That seems to be the case. Have you ever been to the third store on the left at the street corner? The boss lady of that store is a mistress, and the store is the former boss lady's family's house. The former boss lady passed away due to illness within half a month, and this woman moved in with her two children. Now he is spending his ex-wife's money, living in the house she left behind, and abusing the girl left behind before. Oh, I can't explain it."

Xia Ran asked directly: "Is there no one left at this man's former father-in-law's house?"

"Well, you guessed right. She died in an accident a long time ago. The ex-wife was the only girl in her family. If she had had other brothers and sisters, she wouldn't have ended up like this. Many people suspect that the ex-wife was murdered by these two people. Unfortunately, many people have this suspicion, but there is no definite evidence. Besides, no one is holding anyone accountable, so the matter has been left unsolved."

Xia Ran heard this and realized that eating up the entire family is a common thing in every era. "How old is that girl? How is she doing now?"

"She is only in her 20s. A few years ago, her unscrupulous father and stepmother found someone to marry her. It is said that she is living a very unhappy life. She is beaten every other day. It is said that she is very soft-hearted and anyone can bully her. It is simply a sin. If anyone dares to do this to my girl, I will kill them. Even a tiger does not eat its own cubs. How could her father do such a thing?" Liu Juan sighed repeatedly.

"Even a tiger won't eat its own cubs, but humans can. What's so strange about that? The biggest problem is that the ex-wife wasn't smart enough, and wasn't sober enough. When she found out she was sick, the first thing she should have done was to find a way to divorce her, arrange all the property, and give it all to her children. The second thing she should have done was to teach her children well and take precautions against those who would eat up the whole family, including her father, instead of doing other things."

However, Xia Ran also understood that he couldn't really blame the woman for being stupid. People at that time had limited knowledge, unlike the information explosion in later generations, where people could learn about all kinds of bizarre "cases" without leaving their homes and take precautions.

I haven't had the chance to see the evil of human nature. I didn't expect that this level is very normal, it's just a pity.

This was the first time I witnessed the evil of human nature, and it was at the cost of my own life. I was treated like a pig, slaughtered and sold for money.

He was clearly destined to be rich, but because of his innocence and kindness, he lost his life at a young age.

"It's not the man's fault! This woman is just too kind. Her family is very well-off. Both her parents are old professors. She was brought up in pampering, so she is naturally more innocent. Who would have thought that she would marry a Zhongshan wolf?"

"Kindness without a sharp edge is not kindness, it is stupidity. It is like a child carrying a gold brick and causing trouble, seeking his own death. Obviously, this woman has been spoiled by her family. This man and the mistress really deserve to die. If this woman knew before she died that there was something wrong with the man and that his heart was not with her, she should have taken the man and the mistress away with her, so as not to leave any hidden dangers for the child. She is going to die anyway, so what is there to be afraid of?

If she didn't know that the man had a problem, she should have made arrangements for the property, changed the name if necessary, and notarized it if necessary, so that the man would protect his child and bring him up safely for the sake of the property, instead of putting the power of life and death of the child on the man's conscience. This is like a sheep walking into a tiger's mouth and falling into a trap. Even a mother who gave birth to a child herself may not be able to do this, and she still expects the father who occasionally teases the child to love the child is simply mentally ill."

How many men or women, after their death, can their partner remarry or marry someone else and still treat their previous children well?

Rather than taking a chance like this, you might as well buy a lottery ticket. Maybe the chance of success is higher.

Xia Ran had also heard of many cases where men died unexpectedly, and the women abandoned their children and ran off with other men with all the compensation money and family savings.

So, what is a human being? Often, we are not as kind and lovely as cats and dogs.

What's more, human nature is biased. If one person suffers, it can bring peace to the whole family. This deal is considered a very good deal by many "fathers" and "mothers".

Anyway, it’s enough as long as their own interests are not affected. As for whether their children suffer or not, it doesn’t matter. It will pass if they endure it and retreat. It’s not a big deal.

They can turn a blind eye to these "little things".

After hearing this, Liu Juan stared at Xia Ran for several seconds, "Sister, I just realized that you are the ruthless one. Your idea is very dangerous, don't you know? You are on the verge of committing a crime."

This is so freaking scary. Taking the other person with you, is this something you can just say casually? What a ruthless person!

I couldn't help but think to myself, I didn't offend him. After thinking about it, I realized that I didn't, so I felt relieved.

"What's so dangerous about it? I'm talking about the way to treat your enemies, not the way to treat innocent people. What's so scary about that? Unless you push yourself to the extreme, no one would want to take this dead end. If you can live well, then live well. But if you can't even live well, then what else is there to worry about? Just do it.

If I were the poor girl in their family, I would slowly take revenge through legal means if I had the ability. If I didn't, I would just take some medicine and send their whole family to the ground. Since I can't live well, why should these damn evildoers live well?

If it were you, what would you do? Parents who love their children will plan for them in the long run. If my child is destined to have no family love, then I will do my best to leave her a cold bank account, at least to ensure that she will not be hungry or cold. The rest depends on her fate.

Having enough food, clothes and money to spend is the ceiling of life that ordinary people cannot get even if they pray to the God of Wealth every day. What else do you want? All living beings suffer. You can’t be greedy and want everything. How many people still can’t get enough to eat? "