After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

"Is this true? It can't be that serious, right?" Meijuan still didn't believe it.

"Of course it's true. Cooking a meal occasionally is different from being forced to cook all day long. Doing it occasionally may be a hobby or a joy in life. But doing it every day is boring and uninteresting work. The mentality of doing this thing has changed. It's like selling goods during the day and at night, but the key is that you sell goods at night without making any income. Just tell me, do you want to do this and are you willing to do it?

When you are alone, you will definitely have water to drink, but when you are with someone, you may not have water to drink. Why? It is because when you are alone, you know that you cannot rely on anyone, so you do whatever you can. But once another person joins, most people will immediately rely on the other person and hope that the other person will do something. You rely on him, but he may still be thinking about waiting for you to do it. Put yourself in his shoes and think about it from his perspective, and you will understand. "Xia Ran said by analogy.

"What you said does make sense. It is indeed the case. If that is the case, then I can only work hard to make money?"

Xia Ran said seriously: "Yes. You must never lose the ability to make money. You can lose your feelings and your loved ones, but you can never lose the ability to make money. Money is more reliable than men, and the ability to make money is more reliable than money. You figure it out yourself."

Meijuan immediately replied: "Sister Xia, I don't quite agree with your point of view. Shouldn't love be the most important thing? How can you put love behind money?"

Xia Ran gave her own explanation: "Lover, the word is fluid. Someone may be your lover today, but not necessarily tomorrow. Moreover, this fluidity and uncontrollability are mostly not in our hands, but in the hands of the other person.

However, the ability to make money is relatively controllable. As long as we don't get carried away and do stupid things, this ability is relatively stable and controllable. We must grasp what we can grasp and what is tangible, rather than those ethereal and illusory things. "

This statement may not be correct or make sense, but people who understand this will not have a bad or miserable life.

"According to your line of thought, there is nothing wrong with what you said, but how can feelings be compared with other things? Shouldn't they be pure? Shouldn't they be pure and flawless without any dust?"

Meijuan feels that feelings are feelings and should not be contaminated by the world, and should not be measured by money or other things, otherwise they are not true feelings.

"Dating can be pure and innocent, with lots of romantic love and romance, but once you get married, you have to deal with the daily necessities of life, that's reality. You need to consider who will do the housework, who will cook, who will earn money to support the family. Each problem is realistic and acute, and you can't avoid or escape it.

This inevitably involves a game, which is not a game between two people, but a game between two families. If you are very capable or rich, then you have absolute say and autonomy, and the other party and his family will not dare to bully you, and housework can be solved with money, which can reduce friction and reduce disputes.

If you have no ability and no money, then it is likely that you will have to bear all the housework alone. If you are lucky, you may meet a kind man who may occasionally help you hold the oil bottle, and then he is considered a good man. If you are unlucky, it is hard to say.

The current reality is that women are particularly harsh. If you look at those dual-income families, where both husband and wife work outside to earn money, how many men buy groceries, cook and do housework when they return home? And how many women do they do? You will understand that this is the reality of our country.

Feelings are too ethereal and unreliable. Only ability and money can give us confidence and a sense of security. Let's go, we should go our separate ways. We'll set up a stall later. When you're done, think about it yourself and see if this is the case."

"Yes, yes, yes, let's go, it's getting late," said several men as if they had just woken up from a dream.

It is said that women in New China hold up half the sky. The actual situation is that women not only hold up half the sky, but hold up most of the sky, spoiling some men and making them useless.

They raised batch after batch of sons and grandchildren who wanted more and more, which resulted in no one in later generations being willing to get married because they felt it was not cost-effective.

Many sons rely on their "mother" all their lives. When they are young, they rely on their biological mothers. When they grow up, they rely on "sisters" and other "pseudo-mothers". When they get married, they rely on the "bride" they bring home. When they are old, they may still be able to rely on their "daughter", the "blood bag mother".

Some men's lives are arranged clearly and distinctly, and the connections between them are so flawless and smooth that there is not even a "knot".

Of course, all this is caused by the women and "mothers-in-law" who have become money-oriented since the reform and opening up, especially those high-end gold diggers and extreme egoists, who have contributed a lot.

The slogan "raise sons poorly and daughters well" has fooled some women who are not destined to be princesses but have princess syndrome.

This is originally an advertising slogan used by capitalists to sell their products, but some people believe it and take it seriously. They raise their own girls who can do nothing, and they don't give anything back. They are selfish and only know how to enjoy themselves. They say that it is natural for a man to support the family and that they are born to enjoy life.

He is not good at anything, he eats everything without leaving any residue, he can't create but only squanders. Moreover, he wants to eat, drink and dress well, and never considers whether his own conditions allow it.

There is nothing wrong with eating well, drinking well and dressing well. What is wrong is not thinking about working hard to have enough food and clothing, but wanting to get something for nothing, and wanting to suck blood from others to satisfy your own selfish desires. How can this be allowed?

There is no real fool in this world. In the short term, in the name of love, the other party may accommodate you for a while, but they will never accommodate you for a lifetime.

Unequal efforts will eventually be dispersed!

Besides, shouldn’t the word “rich upbringing” be reflected in improving the daughter’s survival skills, making her more competitive in society, and more capable and competent in survival?

Let her have the ability to not be eliminated by society and always have food to eat, this is the real "richly raised" girl.

Parents who love their children will plan for the future. They should not keep teaching their daughters to be lazy, teach them how to enjoy without giving anything in return, or even exploit others.

Do enjoyment and laziness need to be taught and cultivated specifically?

No matter what kind of emotion or relationship it is, it all emphasizes win-win cooperation and balance. It requires you to give a little and I to give a little. Only when everyone thinks and works in the same direction can we live a good life.

Instead of standing aside and watching calmly, like a bystander who has nothing to do with you, even though your partner is clearly exhausted and about to die.