After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

"Sister Xia, the last method you mentioned is a bit difficult for me. I have tried it, more than once, and it really doesn't work. I used the same ingredients and the order was correct, but the taste of the food I made was weird and unpalatable. I really tried my best, but it just didn't work. Maybe I am a natural killer in the kitchen."

"Oh, you are a natural born dark cooking saint. There is really no way to change that. It is innate and cannot be changed. I have seen people cook random dishes and the resulting food tastes particularly delicious. I have also seen famous chefs instructing step by step, but the food they cook is still inedible. These are all normal phenomena, just like some people thrive when they are fed, while others die when they are fed. It is innate and there is no way to change it."

Those who are good at growing flowers are not necessarily the ones who grow them most carefully and attentively, nor are they the ones who have sufficient fertilizers and water.

But those who don't pay much attention to them at all and just raise them casually, maybe even too lazy to apply fertilizer, yet they grow very well.

Whatever they grow, they will grow lush and produce abundant fruits wherever they are planted on the curb.

Some people are just the opposite. Wherever they go, no grass grows. Even if they look at it ten times a day and fertilize and water the plants on time, the plants will still die when they should, without any hesitation.

Meijuan nodded repeatedly. What she said was so right: "Yes, yes, yes, my mother said that to me too. She said I was a kitchen killer and never let me go into the kitchen. She said I was wasting things at home."

Xia Ran said: "Then you should make good money. In the future, you can either hire a skilled nanny to take care of you, or spend money to eat out every day."

Many people in later generations order takeout every day, but Xia Ran seldom orders takeout. One reason is that she thinks the prices are too high and not worth the money. A more important reason is that she thinks the takeout ingredients are not fresh and clean, and she can't bring herself to eat them.

She cooks by herself, washing the leaves one by one, while many restaurants don't even wash the vegetables and just throw them directly into the pan to stir-fry.

Not to mention the sources of the ingredients selected for greater profits, which cannot withstand further scrutiny, so it is better not to know.

So, the more you know about some things, the harder it is to face them. Sometimes you shouldn't know too much about some things. It's better to be confused and not know anything.

Peng Bo interrupted and said, "No, there is another way. That is to marry a skilled cook."

Meijuan was a little tempted when she heard this. It was indeed a good idea. It was easier to achieve than making a lot of money. Although she had made a lot of money recently, she knew that this was not a long-term and stable job. She might stop making money one day.

Some people in the market have already followed suit.

Xia Ran saw Meijuan's expression and thought, "Oh no, this girl might be tempted." He immediately said, "Wrong, wrong, wrong, this is a huge misunderstanding. Don't believe it. Anyone who believes it is stupid." A person who makes money by cooking every day to support his family has been busy and tired outside all day. When he returns home, he doesn't want to move at all in most cases, let alone go home to cook. Maybe he has had enough of cooking.

Although this statement is not absolute, it is supported by big data. It is better to find a lover who loves to eat, cook and eat, rather than marry a cook. It is not that cooks are bad, you can find a lover who is a cook, but you cannot deliberately find a cook as your lover, these are two different things. "

Xia Ran had a lot to say about this matter. She had heard many women who had married cooks complain and regret, saying that they had married them because they thought they were good cooks, and that they wished that in this life, they and their children would finally have a stable supply of three meals a day.

As a result, whoever gets married knows. This is a fallacy and a misunderstanding. Few cooks like to cook when they get home. Some of them don’t even enter the kitchen, or even take a detour.

Xia Ran really understood this kind of behavior. Who wouldn't feel disgusted or annoyed if they smelled cooking fumes every day?

And her Xia Ran ability is a very good example.

Xia Ran loved to cook in this life because she loved to eat and she cooked to satisfy her stomach. In later life, she sold snacks purely out of necessity and to make money.

Only a fool would like to spend all day and night in the kitchen washing and scrubbing. It was something she had to do, not something she loved to do.

The same applies to preparing three meals a day for my daughter and son-in-law's family. I have to do it because I have no choice.

In fact, she wanted to escape from this endless and repetitive life, but there was no other way. She was her own daughter, her own child, and she had to help.

Otherwise, she would stay away from the kitchen as far away as possible.

How could she not know that dancing in the square with others would make her happier and more joyful? How could she not know that traveling around with a few friends, seeing the world and enjoying the mountains and rivers would make her happier?

She knows it all.

But at that time, she was not clear-headed enough and was kidnapped by her daughter, by public opinion, and by her own original ideas. She had to make unconditional and selfless contributions, so that she forgot her own thoughts and joys and sorrows.

Xia Ran felt sorry for herself now when she thought about it. She wanted to slap herself in the face to wake up the stubborn self.

But she knew that if she had to do it all over again, without those memories, she would still be the same person, and she would still do the same thing.

Even if someone told her at that time that what she did was wrong and that she should change her mind and learn to love herself, she was sure that she would not have listened to these words at that time, even though these words were absolutely right and were all valuable advice.

If you don't understand it yourself, no matter how much others say it, it's useless. Only when you truly understand it yourself will it be useful and valuable.

In other words, if you don't have enough time, experience, or understanding, you will not be able to understand some truths.

Only when people hit the wall and get hurt badly, will they turn back. Otherwise, most people are used to moving forward without hesitation, regardless of whether it is worth it or not.

Just like some people say that they are particularly soft-hearted, there is no such thing as a soft-hearted person. It's just that the hurt is not severe enough or deep enough, and the losses they have suffered are not enough.

When you really feel the pain, no matter what kind of relationship it is, you will choose to let go!

As long as you observe carefully, you will find that those who climb out of hell on their own are more ruthless and indifferent than each other. It's not that they are heartless or unkind, but that they have thoroughly seen through the relationships between people and think that they are just that.

From then on, I would no longer pretend or act, and I would no longer cooperate with others in acting. I felt that the other party was not worthy of my efforts and dedication!

Learn to stop trying to please others and try to please yourself. To put it bluntly, it means to truly live transparently and look inward.