The evil life of Jia Erhu

It seems that mother not only has opinions about Wen Ruyu, but also completely disagrees with her.

Jia Erhu did not show any displeasure because of this, but said with a smile: "Mom, your opinion is very important to me, I will seriously consider it.

However, I have different ideas from you. Can I talk to you calmly? "

On the contrary, almost all children in the world are unwilling to chat with their parents. What parents in the world want most is to chat with their children.

Han Jingming knew that Jia Erhu liked Wen Ruyu, so he would definitely not listen to her opinion. If it were her youngest son, he would definitely slap her against the wall if he didn't show his face.

Jia Erhu was actually not impatient and even smiled, and was willing to talk to her about the matter. While she wanted it, she also knew that this son had suffered a lot and experienced a lot of hardships before he could have a good attitude towards her. Such patience.

"Son," Han Jing said, "I'm just expressing my opinion. If you insist, I will never object."

Jia Erhu smiled and said: "Mom, look at every couple in the world who not only understand each other clearly before getting married, but also swear to each other.

But in recent years, more and more couples are getting divorced. What does this mean?

It can only show that the vast majority of people continue to change with changes in life and environment, and the same is true for couples.

I’m not saying that it’s okay to just look at what’s in front of you. The problem is that we don’t have hindsight and can’t judge what will happen in the future, so we can only focus on the present.

As for Wen Ruyu, she is indeed older than me and has been married, but apart from these two shortcomings, if everything else is an advantage, would it be a pity if I gave up on her? "

Han Jing nodded and said, "What you said makes sense. Compared with her two obvious shortcomings, maybe other girls have many more hidden shortcomings than her.

But you are still young after all. Not only have you never been married, you haven't even been in love, right?

There is no harm without comparison.

You and she may have fallen in love at first sight, but that doesn't mean she is the woman you are destined to be. If you meet a woman who is better, more perfect, and more suitable for you than her, can your marriage still be maintained?

I am not considering you unilaterally just because you are my son. What I said to you today, I can say in front of her. I believe she knows that I am also responsible for her.

One of you has been married before, and the other has never been in love. Your life and emotional experiences are very different. Although they seem to be complementary, most of them must be incompatible.

I'm really not pouring cold water on you. There is a high probability that your marriage will not have good results.

But again, if you make the final decision, your mother will support you. "

Jia Erhu said: "Mom, I don't want you to compromise on my marriage. After all, you are my only relative. I will never marry a daughter-in-law you cannot accept.

Do you think this is good? You live here for a while and have more contact with her. If you feel that she has many shortcomings, not only me but also you, can't live with her, break up with her immediately. "

Han Jing was moved by Jia Erhu's words. She never imagined that Jia Erhu was so reasonable and repeatedly emphasized that he respects her feelings.

"Child," Han Jing touched his head and said, "It is said that the children of poor people will become rich early. It seems that your adoptive father and mother's family must be very difficult. I believe that any woman in the world will be the happiest if she can marry you. of.

By the way, what does Xiao Wen do? "

"She is a lecturer at Haicheng University."

Han Jing was startled: "That's a high-level intellectual! How could she like you? Oh, kid, I'm not looking down on you. Seeing that you have so many friends in society, I guess you are just like your father.

You and Xiao Wen are probably not the same person, right? "

Seeing that her son's friends were all social people, Han Jing knew that her son must have never read any books, and he must be like his father, a social gangster who fights and kills all day long.

If Jia Erhu didn't tell her, it would be hard for her to ask. After all, Jia Erhu had earned her a face she couldn't even dream of, so she would also care about her son's feelings.

While she was talking about Wen Ruyu, she tentatively wanted to know how her son came to be and what he had experienced over the years.

Jia Erhu said: "Mom, as you said, Wen Ruyu and I are not from the same world.

I'm afraid you don't know much about the situation back then. When you were pregnant with me, my father had been in Haicheng and had a family of his own.

But that woman is nothing. She is pregnant with another man's child, but she is jealous that you are pregnant with your father's child.

Especially when she found that her father would go out of town every once in a while, so she asked one of her father's brothers to follow her, and she found you pregnant. "

When Han Jing heard this, she nodded: "No wonder your father never showed up again. It turned out that his wife found out. I only heard from your eldest brother's father a few years ago that your father has been sentenced to death. , died for more than 20 years.

When I informed my work unit, only a few people knew about it, and your eldest brother's father never told me. "

The eldest brother in her mouth is Zhao Hongwei, her and Zhao Mengsheng's son.

Jia Erhu explained: "The reason why dad never visited you was because he had been arrested and had no chance to see you again until he was sentenced to death."

Han Jing sighed: "So, you have never met your father?"

Jia Erhu shook his head and said: "When I was stolen by them, my father had already passed away. That woman mainly wanted to use me to create other men who were related to him.

Who knew that by some strange combination, when they brought me back, I had a high fever, and they had a conflict in the hospital, so they gave me to my adoptive parents.

At that time, they just asked my adoptive mother to take care of me. Who knew that when my adoptive mother saw that I was a white and fat boy, she immediately took me away. "

Han Jing grabbed Jia Erhu's hand and asked, "How did you find this place, and how do you know these things?"

Jia Erhu told Han Jing everything about his experiences from childhood to adulthood, how he came to Haicheng after he was released from prison, how he found clues to his identity, and how he got close to Wen Ruyu.

Han Jing burst into tears when she heard about the grievances her son had suffered since childhood. When she heard that he had stabbed someone and was imprisoned, Han Jing trembled all over and was so nervous that her heart almost jumped out of her chest.

After hearing how he found out about his whereabouts, he even cried with Jia Erhu.