The evil life of Jia Erhu

Han Jing was startled for a moment, then asked with a smile: "Son, did you decide to get married because it made your mother happy?"

Jia Erhu shook his head and said, "Of course not. Wen Ruyu and I really love each other, and we were planning to get married in the near future."

Han Jing said with a smile: "Today's young people are not like us in the past. They are usually introduced through matchmakers and then gradually get to know each other. At least they wait until they get engaged before they can sneak together secretly. After they get married, they will move to the house openly." live together.

It's different now. It's possible to live together after knowing each other for three days, and it's called a trial marriage.

I see that there are no traces of your life in this house. I guess you haven’t known each other for a long time, right? "

Jia Erhu smiled and said, "Didn't you just say that today's young people pay attention to a fast pace? It's true that I haven't known her for a long time, but it's been almost a month."

If Jia Erhu had grown up with her, as a mother, Han Jing would definitely be extremely concerned about her son's marriage and even interfere in it, like all genius parents.

But Jia Erhu is different.

He was stolen from him when he was a child, and she didn't know what the environment he lived in, let alone his personality. She couldn't even control her eldest son and youngest son who grew up with Han Jing. She didn't dare to ask too much, at least. I will not interfere with Jia Erhu's decision.

So she smiled reluctantly and said nothing.

"Mom," Jia Erhu saw her worries and worries, held her hands and said, "After I was stolen back then, I was given to my adoptive father and mother. Now they have passed away. I no longer have any relatives around me.

You are not only my biological mother, but also my only relative in this world. If you have any thoughts and ideas, you can tell me directly and I will respect your opinions and wishes. "

Han Jing sighed: "As the saying goes, a tree has many old roots, and a person has many old words. Your brother never likes to talk to me and never listens to me, so..."

"Mom," Jia Erhu said, "He is blessed in the midst of blessings and thinks that everything he has should be deserved. Unlike me, I have known that I am not the biological child of my adoptive parents since I was a child, and I always long for something in my heart. The love of biological parents.

I know the warmth of maternal love and the greatness of maternal love. As a mother, you should be the only person in the world who sincerely does the best for your children without asking for anything in return. "

Jia Erhu's words made Han Jing burst into tears on the spot.

She leaned on Jia Erhu's shoulder and said, "My child, you are so sensible and capable. I believe in your choice and decision."

Children who are disciplined by their parents have longed to break away from their parents' restraints from childhood to adulthood.

Jia Erhu, who has never lived with his biological parents, longs for this kind of restraint from his parents.

In his view, parents' restraint on their children is a direct expression of love.

Once upon a time, watching other people's biological parents chasing their own children with brooms, Jia Erhu's heart was filled with disappointment.

How he wished that his biological parents could be like other parents, even if they chased him with sticks, that would be a kind of happiness.

"Mom," Jia Erhu said, "It seems that we have been apart for too long. I am afraid that in your heart, the other two sons are your biological sons. I am still a guest and someone else's child.

If it were the other two children who made something or a choice that dissatisfied you, you would definitely scold them, but for me, you have some scruples.

I know that you are not very satisfied with Wen Ruyu, right? "

Han Jing smiled bitterly: "There is nothing dissatisfying, but she seems to be older than you, right?

As the saying goes, only men are allowed to be one year older, and women are not allowed to be one year older. I just think she is a bit older. "

Jia Erhu smiled and said: "Isn't dad from the north? Don't the people in the north pay attention to female juniors holding gold bricks?"

Han Jing asked, "She should be more than three years older than you, right?"

Jia Erhu chuckled: "Mom's eyes are poisonous, she is 4 years older than me."

Han Jing said with a smile: "Actually, the main reason is that the relationship is good. It doesn't matter if the man is older or the woman is older. But my mother is a medical student and knows that women are older than men. When they are young, I am afraid they are better to men, because older women know how to love men, but Not until you are older.

I think you should find someone younger than yourself, preferably someone who is still in high school, or who has just entered college. "

Jia Erhu asked: "Besides age, is there anything else you are dissatisfied with Wen Ruyu?"

Han Jing hesitated for a moment and stopped talking.

"Mom," Jia Erhu said, "Didn't I tell you? In front of your son, there is no need to have any worries. You can say whatever you think."

Han Jing said: "Xiao Wen is indeed very beautiful, but she seems too mature, she doesn't even look like an older leftover girl.

I'm telling you, don't be angry. I wonder if she lied to you. She must be married, right? "

God, my mother’s eyes are really poisonous!

Jia Erhu said: "She was married, but divorced not long after. The main reason was that the man was useless and she was still a virgin!"

Han Jing sighed: "My child, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know that as long as you like her, her shortcomings are all advantages in your eyes.

If you really make a choice, your mother will never object, but what she wants to tell you is that women are more complicated than you think.

I sincerely hope that you find a girl who is relatively innocent and has never even been in love. Only in that way can you be happy for the rest of your life.

Don't get it wrong. Don't think that my mother is an old feudalist and has a virgin complex.

My mother is someone who has experienced this. She knows that emotional cheating can bring more misfortune to a family and marriage than physical cheating.

It is generally difficult for women to forget their first love. Many women cheat with their first love. This Xiao Wen actually got married.

I don't say that she will definitely cheat, but in the future when you live together, subconsciously, she will compare you with her ex-husband intentionally or unintentionally. You must not think that you are better than her ex-husband.

Women are so weird sometimes. They often use the shortcomings of the men around them to compare the advantages of the men outside.

Let’s talk about Xiao Wen. I believe you when you say that she loves you desperately now, because now she will only compare your advantages with the shortcomings of her ex-husband.

After you get married, she will compare your shortcomings with the advantages of other men.

If you are in love for the first time, the best she can do is compare, but she will eventually cherish your marriage and relationship.

But for her, she and you are just a half-way couple. When she feels that you are no longer as good as you are now, she will regret it.

I'm not sure whether you cheated or not, but your marriage is definitely not as happy as you imagined. "