He was betrayed at the beginning, from a cake seller to a wealthy person

After learning that the issue that had made Lu Sheng so worried in recent days was how humans mate, Lu Yan laughed at him for half an hour.

Lu Sheng became angry: "Okay, stop laughing! I didn't want to ask you."

Lu Yan: "You can choose not to ask me now."

Lu Sheng: "You already know it!"

Lu Yan had laughed enough and finally began to think seriously about how to educate him.

If this were modern times, Lu Yan would just open a certain temperament panel and throw her phone to him, or find some diagrams of the human body and throw her phone to him, and the task would be completed.

But now in ancient times, Lu Yan couldn't draw pictures and could only talk about it. This is really outrageous. How can I make it lively, interesting, serious and lively?

Returning to Lu Yan's room again, Lu Sheng sat obediently at the table. Lu Yan looked serious: "Since you want to listen, I will tell you about it. Let's treat it with a serious attitude, okay? "

Lu Sheng nodded.

"Before talking about sexual intercourse, I want to tell you a concept first, which is sexual consent." Lu Yan said: "Intercourse is usually performed by two people, so it requires the consent of both parties before it can proceed. If one party is not willing, Then this sexual intercourse is a sexual crime. It is not allowed for you to force the other party regardless of their wishes, or for the other party to force you regardless of your wishes! You must have a bottom line in your heart, do not hurt others, and at the same time learn to protect yourself."

Lu Sheng was very surprised: "How could someone force me?"

"How is it impossible? Do you think that all the people you can have sex with are girls?" Lu Yan said expressionlessly: "If you meet a Nanfeng ruffian who kidnaps you and rapes you, it's not like there is no such thing. possible......"

Lu Sheng's face turned pale instantly.

Lu Yan added: "And it's not just men who force others. Let's take another example. Suppose you are in high school and a family takes a fancy to you and wants you to be their son-in-law, so they drug you into your wine and make you drunk. Then he let his daughter have sex with you while you were asleep, do you think it was forced?"

Lu Sheng's face turned even paler.

Lu Yan continued to scare him: "You said you won't marry. He is unkind and you are unjust. But you can't run away even if you want. Their family has found a group of people to testify that you are drunk and a slut. If you don't marry, go to the Yamen." I sue you and let your reputation be completely ruined, and all your ten years of hard work will go to waste. Do you think it is a small matter?"

Lu Sheng was so frightened that his lips trembled: "Okay, okay! I know, I know!"

Lu Yan was now satisfied. Because life is full of dangers, women are always very cautious, like a frightened bird. Many men not only have no sense of crisis, but also feel that women are making a fuss out of a molehill. They must be placed in a vulnerable position and experience first-hand the threats women face all the time before they can empathize.

Lu Yan then continued: "Let's get to the point."

"As we all know, everything in this world must mate if they want to continue. But people are not the same. Other species mate mainly for reproduction, but human mating generally has two purposes, one is to reproduce, and the other is to obtain Happiness." Lu Yan said: "In general, people can get happiness from this kind of communication between the sexes."

Lu Sheng nodded. It must be happy. If you were not happy, there would be no such thing as a brothel.

"Let's start with reproduction first." Lu Yan said, "I told you about the process of reproduction before. The man's sperm meets the woman's egg and combine to form an embryo."

"You know where that came from, right?"

Lu Sheng's face turned slightly red. He might not have known it clearly before, but he really did know it recently.

"I told you before when I talked about Guishui that there is a channel in a woman's body. This channel connects the outside world and the uterus. The embryo grows in the uterus and is born through this channel." Lu Yan said.

"You find a treasure in a cave, what do you do?"

Lu Sheng was stunned for a moment, then hesitantly said: "Go in and get it?"

Lu Yan clapped her hands: "Isn't it done?"

Lu Sheng was confused at first, then suddenly realized after thinking, and then hesitantly asked: "Is this it?"

"If the purpose is to reproduce, this is it." Lu Yan said: "If the purpose is to obtain happiness, there are still many things to pay attention to."

Lu Sheng sat up straight: "What's so important?"

Lu Yan smiled cruelly: "This is an issue that you and your future wife will discuss in the future, so I won't do it for you."

These words almost gave Lu Sheng a heavy blow. The reason why I can let you talk to me about such an intimate issue is because I regard you as my future wife!

Lu Yan looked at Lu Sheng's anxious look and explained: "The human body structure is extremely complex, and everyone's constitution is different. If you want to get happiness from this kind of thing, it will definitely be useless for me to just tell you with my words. , you have to explore the details yourself. What you see on paper will eventually become shallow, but you will definitely know that this matter needs to be carried out. "

Lu Sheng was reluctantly convinced. In fact, it was a huge surprise to be able to solve the puzzle today. Lu Yan didn't want to tell more details, so that was okay. Anyway, Lu Sheng had already decided in his heart that when he did this, he would still talk to Lu Yan. Wouldn't she have to talk to him then? Sooner or later.

Seeing that Lu Sheng seemed to have calmed down, Lu Yan returned to the topic: "I've told you so much today, but the most important thing is to let you know the concept of sexual consent. It's okay only if the other party says yes, and it's not okay if the other party says no. Not only at the beginning The same is true before and during the process. When the other party says no, you should stop."

"In the past, many men believed that women had no chance to say no. Even if a woman really said no, she was trying to refuse but was duplicitous." Lu Yan said, "But couples have to get along for many years. , if you want this relationship to make both of you happy, you must respect the other person’s wishes.”

Lu Sheng remembered every word firmly in his heart and retorted: "You mean, if the other party says no, it's not allowed, and there is no intention to refuse in return. But how do you know that what she said must be the truth? Woolen cloth?"

Lu Yan was also stunned for a moment: "Just observe, are you telling a little lie for fun or are you really not telling it?"

"I can't tell." Lu Sheng said, "Are you sure you can tell whether what others are telling is the truth?"

Lu Yan was very determined: "I'm sure."

Lu Sheng chuckled: "How about we give it a try? You can judge whether I am telling the truth."

Lu Yan: "No problem, you come!"

"I like you." Lu Sheng said, "Do you think this sentence is true or false?"

Lu Yan's pupils were trembling and she looked over in astonishment.