Abandoning my husband and son, I raised my six daughters to live happily

"No, character is more important."

Meng Suisui's eyes lit up and she asked, "The reason."

"If he had a good character, he wouldn't beat me or scold me. He cheated on me and beat his wife because of his bad character. It's impossible for a person with a good character to do such a thing."

Meng Suisui nodded with satisfaction.

"On this issue, the second brother and I have the same views."

"A person with bad character who treats you well may treat you well when he is in love and likes you, but once he doesn't like you one day, you will face unpredictable disasters. You don't know what he can do. What an immoral thing."

"But as a person of character, no matter how you end up, he is first of all a good person. He has his own principles and bottom line, and he will not change his principles and bottom line easily just because your love has come to an end."

"So whether you are making friends or choosing the other half of your life, your character must be ranked first, followed by whether your three views are consistent, whether you have common topics, etc."

Her daughters may not understand what she is talking about, but at least she wants them to have a concept and try to avoid contact with people of poor character.

She asked again, "Do you know why I want to talk to you about love today?"

The daughters shook their heads.

"Because no matter what stage of life you are in, it is normal to have feelings of love and liking for people, so if you find that you particularly like someone one day, don't feel panic, let alone be embarrassed. This is a normal phenomenon. We You have to face your feelings calmly, but this does not mean that I support your puppy love."

"You can explore love, but the most you can do is hold hands and kiss. More than that is not allowed. Girls should keep themselves clean and protect themselves first. If your partner makes excessive demands when you are not yet an adult, Then he doesn’t respect you enough, and he doesn’t love you that much. It’s okay not to want a man who doesn’t love you, do you understand?”

The daughters nodded in confusion. No one had ever told them this when they were growing up.

They have been indoctrinated with certain concepts since they were young. To have admiration for the opposite sex is to be shameless, immodest, and not a good girl.

But her mother told her that it was normal to like someone, and there was no need to suppress this kind of love.

In their impression, falling in love means blind date, getting married if the bride price is suitable, and whether the marriage partner is good or not all depends on luck.

Marriage is completely a transaction, and they are just commodities being traded. As long as the buyer and seller agree on a price, they have no right to refuse.

But their mother told them that they can choose their love partner by themselves, and they should choose someone with good character, suitable in all aspects, and whom they like.

At this moment, Meng Suisui asked again.

"Do you know why girls need to learn to protect themselves in love?"

Lao Liu shook his head and asked confusedly, "Why? Only girls need protection, don't boys need protection?"

"Because the physiological structure of boys and girls is different, this position of our girls."

As she spoke, Meng Suisui put her hand on her lower abdomen and said, "This is the uterus. The uterus is the only way to conceive the fetus, produce menstruation, and deliver the fetus. It is only about the size of a fist. How can such a small uterus be able to Isn’t it amazing to give birth to a fetus weighing several kilograms?”

The daughters looked at their fists with surprised expressions.

When this was said, the boss and the third child, who had previously been completely uninterested in this topic, were also attracted and listened attentively.

Meng Suisui said, "A girl's uterus is very delicate. Every miscarriage and abortion causes irreversible damage to our uterus. During abortion, curettage is required. Every time the uterus is cured, the uterine wall will be damaged and become more and more fragile." The thinner it is, when it reaches a certain level, it will be difficult to get pregnant again, so we must protect our bodies and cherish our bodies. Only if you learn to love yourself first, will others learn to love you."

......

That night, Meng Suisui told her daughters a lot.

She focuses on interaction and occasionally incorporates a few short stories to make the knowledge interesting.

When she talks about love, she mixes sex education with it. When she talks about it, she is very serious, serious and serious, so the children will naturally not feel shy.

She helped her daughters understand their own bodies. The daughters were very interested in hearing these topics that were closely related to them, and in the end they felt they still had more to learn.

In the dead of night, the steady breathing of her daughters could be heard in her ears. Meng Suisui lay on the kang and thought about the tires.

Who could have done it?

The original person had offended so many people that she didn't know who to suspect.

It is estimated that even calling the police will be useless, as no witnesses can be found, and fingerprint testing is unrealistic in this situation.

If no one is caught then, the car will have to be repaired at your own expense.

Now it depends on whether the person who did the bad thing can be frightened by the content on the radio. If it is a good idea, it is really hard to say.

There was a soft sound next to her. Meng Suisui opened her eyes and looked over, and saw the third child sitting by the kang, about to put on his shoes.

"Why go?"

The third child was so frightened that he turned around and said, "Mom, did I wake you up? I have a stomachache and I have to go to the toilet."

Usually at night, a urine jar is placed in the house, so that peeing in the middle of the night can be done directly in the house, but today a young man came to the house, so he did not bring the urine jar into the house for fear of inconvenience.

"It's too dark, I'll go with you."

Meng Suisui tried to stand up, but was held down by Liu Laidi.

"Mom, no need. I'm holding the flashlight. I feel sick in my stomach and I'll probably have to squat for a while. You should rest early."

At this time, the second child said in a daze.

"Mom, I'll go with the third child. You can rest."

The third child put on his shoes and ran out immediately, clutching his stomach, and the second child quickly followed.

Meng Suisui raised her lips unconsciously as she listened to her daughters' footsteps.

The daughters are so sensible, and they are so kind to her as a mother.

Liu Laidi turned off the flashlight when she entered the toilet. Liu Pandi was waiting for her not far from the toilet. She was not yet over her sleepiness, so she squatted on the ground and almost fell asleep.

There are no stars and moon tonight, and I can't see my fingers.

The rustling of leaves in the wind and the chirping of cicadas are natural lullabies.

Liu Pandi was sleeping in a daze when she suddenly heard someone whispering.

"Slow down, lift your feet, quietly."

She woke up suddenly, raised her head, and found that the sound seemed to come from outside the backyard wall.

"You go first, hurry up and stop the ink stains."

She heard a man urging in a lowered voice, and then heard the man's feet slipping and falling off the wall, the sound of his flesh hitting the ground, and a suppressed grunt.

"Fuck, why are you so fucking stupid? You can't even climb up such a short wall. What else can you do?"

Perhaps because of anger, the man's voice was louder than before, and Liu Pandi heard it more clearly.

Then came a woman's voice.

"Can you please keep your voice down? It would be terrible if you wake me up."