Reborn in that autumn

"It seems that when you come back with this idea, I have to talk to my sister and let him advise you. What if you become a bachelor? You have to leave a legacy for your master's family. ." Uncle Wang Jidong said to Ye Ran.

"Let's talk! I have no idea of ​​marrying a wife for the time being. As for keeping a wife? I am not missing in the family. I have two younger brothers? They can also keep a wife for the family. Besides, what age is it now? There is no need to give up. The idea of ​​​​keeping someone behind is that they really can’t find a wife, and there are many people who don’t want to leave behind,” Ye Ran replied nonchalantly.

Ye Ran looked at his uncle Wang Jidong and said, "Just say it! I'm not afraid, no one can change my mind for the time being."

"Forget it, let's stop talking about this topic. I'm going to start cooking. We'll discuss your issues later when we get back."

Here, Wang Jidong and Ye Ran are cooking.

Over there, Ye Qiu gave the camera to Li Zichen's father, and Li Zichen took Ye Qiu for a stroll to the beach.

The two of them were walking and chatting.

Li Zichen faced Ye Qiu, there was no one else around him this time, it was time for us to continue the topic we just talked about.

Li Zichen said: "There will be countless people passing by in everyone's life. Some people come into your life and bring you infinite splendor. They accompany you when you need them and can turn your countless dark nights into happy ones." It has to be bright and warm.”

"But life is not a movie, and the halo of the protagonist does not exist. Not everyone appears to make your story more exciting. Moreover, if you are not careful and deal with some uninvited guests, you may harm yourself at least, or you will be in jeopardy at worst. "

"Although you must not have the intention to harm others, you must also have the intention to guard against others. In life, you must pay attention to some hypocritical people."

"They seem to be obedient and honest, but they are harboring bad intentions in their hearts. They will do anything for their own interests, but they still pretend to be everyone for one and everyone for everyone."

"The hateful thing about this kind of person is that he doesn't make his thoughts known to everyone, hides his desires very deeply, and ignores the safety of others for his own selfish desires. Don't deal with such people casually most of the time. People have to be at peace with each other, and know how to be at peace."

"If you keep in contact with such a person for a long time, you may lose some money at least, or you may lose your reputation or even change your destiny."

"It is not difficult to identify hypocritical people. Most of them have three characteristics. You must stay away from them when you encounter them:

[-]: Good at disguising

"Generally hypocritical people know how to disguise themselves and use different attitudes towards different people. Moreover, they are good at calculation and never neglect."

"They usually do one thing in front of others and another behind their backs. Although everyone is bound to have some conflicts in life, when a hypocritical person encounters a conflict, he will find ways to stay out of it. If you are involved, he can even push you into a trap. "

"My cousin has a classmate, Su Yu. Through her own efforts, she was admitted to one of the top universities in Kyoto. However, coming from a rural area, she could never keep up with her classmates and felt very inferior. At this time, she had a roommate who was also my cousin. My sister’s roommate, Zhou, always teaches her patiently.”

"I am very grateful to her. I told her about my family situation. She also expressed her understanding. Su Yu thought that she had made a good friend and always told her her thoughts. The whispers between girls were naturally not a problem. Occasionally I also complain about my classmates.”

"But not long after, she discovered that Zhou told his classmates everything about him and exaggerated."

"Later, during the evaluation of outstanding students, in order to apply for a quota for herself during the weekend, she slandered Su Yu everywhere, which made her completely unable to hold her head up in front of others. She did not say that she was not approved, and even made herself isolated from others, and finally suffered from depression. , had to drop out of school.”

"This incident tells us that people should not be judged by their appearance. Those hypocritical people are often good at disguising themselves. Don't let others reveal your true identity easily just because others care about you."

"You may make true friends in college, but not everyone will become a friend. You must learn to tell the difference yourself. Some people just want to use you as a connection after graduating from college. Maybe it will help her."

"Two: Good at calculating

Hypocritical people are usually good at calculations and good at understanding people's hearts. They usually appear to be approachable, but in fact they are good at using means. "

"If there is someone around you who likes to scheme against others, you must not think that it has nothing to do with you. No matter how close he is to you, you must learn to keep a distance from him and try not to have any contact with him."

"Even if interaction is unavoidable, you must learn to protect your privacy and don't offend him easily. This kind of person can do anything to achieve his own goals, completely disregarding the safety of others, and will not hesitate to scheme against his friends."

"At the moment, you are watching him scheming others, as if you are watching a show, but little do you know, will you be the one being plotted by him soon?"

"So, be careful in everything. Being friends with a gentleman can benefit you throughout your life, but being with a villain, you may lose more than just your future."

"No one is a saint, and everyone is selfish. Although we cannot change other people's views, we can choose for ourselves

"So, be careful in everything. Being friends with a gentleman can benefit you throughout your life, but being with a villain, you may lose more than just your future."

"No one is a saint, and everyone is selfish. Although we cannot change other people's views, we can choose our own attitude."

"So, no matter what, try to stay away from hypocritical people. The world is big and there are many outstanding people. You can talk about the future with like-minded people, you can also learn from each other's strengths and complement each other's weaknesses, and become each other's helpers on the road of life."

"We may not succeed or become talented, but we must abide by the principles of being a human being. Learning to be a human being is the most basic course in life. Only when everyone is filled with love can this society and even the world coexist peacefully."

"Although the world is in trouble and people's hearts are unpredictable, you must always believe that as long as you treat the people around you with a sincere heart, your every day will be filled with joy."

Interpersonal communication skills are essentially about disguising some "unpalatable" things into something nice and acceptable.This technique gives a person a seeming "goodness."If you don't judge carefully, you can easily be fooled by superficial hypocrisy.

From a psychological point of view, there is such a kind of "fake kindness" in life. On the surface, it seems to be a friendly expression towards you, but in fact, it reflects contempt and disrespect for you.