Reborn in that autumn

"In previous families, the father's role was usually serious and harsh. If the children were disobedient, the father would often be the one to take action. He was always the role that frightened the children."

In the past, the view held by people was: "If a child is not beaten, he will not become talented; if he is not scolded, he will not be obedient."

"But in fact, this method is not only bad, but will also make children more rebellious."

"For children, fathers should encourage them more and teach them through words and deeds, instead of oppressing them with beatings and scoldings."

“Never underestimate the impact your words can have on a child’s life.”

"Children should be encouraged more, because every child longs for recognition and affirmation from their parents, even when they reach adulthood."

"For parents, if you want your children to be who they want them to be, then encourage them to become that kind of people, because the power of encouragement is enough to change a person's life."

"Praise from parents is always the best gift to a child."

"If a child is often put down and has low self-esteem and is introverted, it usually means that the father has not fulfilled his responsibility."

"Finally, be extremely pampering to your partner."

"Many men believe that as long as they send money home to their wives on time every month, they have fulfilled their obligations, but in fact, men's responsibilities are far from that."

"For a man, when he marries his wife, his biggest responsibility is to make his wife's life happier, not to make her life more miserable."

"In reality, many men have no respect for their wives at all. They believe that it is their wife's duty to take care of the family. So when they come home from get off work, they not only do not help their wives to share the burden, but they also find trouble everywhere to vent their negative emotions at work. .”

"Why do we all leave our good tempers to outsiders, but our bad tempers to the people we love the most?"

"Some people say that getting angry with the person you love most is a sign of caring."

"But in fact, this is not love, this is hurt. Our temper will hurt the people who love us, and then wear away the relationship between both parties again and again."

"A man's biggest responsibility to his partner is not to take money home, but to make his wife not regret her marriage and make her live a better life."

"Men should understand that it's not easy for a wife. When she married you, she risked everything. If you don't treat her well, then no one will treat her well."

"To be a good man is to listen to your girlfriend in everything. In fact, this is a wrong idea."

"Being a good man should not only be good to women, but also give women a sense of security. He should also do well in other aspects. So, how do you be a good man?"

"The ultimate man is not to be a prince, but to be a knight or a general. Men should not exist in fairy tales, but on the battlefield."

"A successful man needs a relatively excellent woman by his side. And this excellence has nothing to do with her appearance, but is connected with her connotation."

"If you waste most of your next four years of college in Internet cafes and dating, then these four years will be too wasted. As a man, you have failed. You must study hard and make progress every day."

"You have many responsibilities in your life, but the most important ones are four: you are responsible for your parents, you are responsible for your future, you are responsible for your woman and feelings, and you are responsible for the world."

"Don't always think about playing with your feelings, be careful that they will play with you one day. Find a stable relationship in college, because after college your energy should be spent on your career, especially you Ye Ran, you can't even There’s no one I like.”

"Birds of a feather flock together, and people flock together. This saying is very apt for men. Make friends with progressive people and make friends with people who have a taste for life, and you will benefit a lot."

"Learning to be patient is often more valuable than strength. When you have full wings, you will repay the person who hurt your dignity tenfold."

"In college, it's best to resolve any grievances in time. Outside of school, connections are wealth."

"If you are not born into a wealthy family, then when looking for a girlfriend, don't just focus on her looks, but learn to appreciate her inner qualities. When you are looking for a partner, you are not looking for a lover, but a wife. Especially you Ye Ran "

Ye Ran replied with a helpless expression: "It's me again, Grandpa Wang, I just worry you like this."

"In the first semester of my sophomore year, I began to plan my career for the next ten years. In this career, I can include my own girl. The so-called sense of security for a woman is not how strong you are, but that you can design a beautiful and appropriate one for her. s future."

"If a man does not have a dream, it is more terrible than if a woman does not have a dream. Therefore, find your own position in life, characterize your dream, and then quantify it. Work for the future secretly!"

"Men, you should be tough on yourself. Be a knight and always maintain a charging attitude. But your goal should be to become a general in the future.

"A man who doesn't want to be a general is not a good man. For example, if you are a soldier and you don't want to be an excellent soldier, you are not a good soldier."

"In college, there are many girls and few women. The difference between a girl and a woman is not how sexy or charming she is, but whether she has the right thoughts and principles."

"In this world, the most worthy of your love is not only your parents, but also your own woman and buddies, and then yourself."

"Ten criteria for a good man"

"Sincerity: Without sincerity, it is impossible to become a good man in the eyes of women. You can deceive a woman in one day or two days. As time goes by, the flaws will inevitably be exposed. No matter whether it is a man or a woman, they do not want to be deceived by their friends."

"Moving forward: When a woman is looking for a man, looking at the present is an important aspect, and there is another aspect that cannot be ignored, which is looking at the future. No woman does not want this man to be better in the future. Rather than saying that women look at a man's present, they value more future."

"Confidence: A man's indecisiveness and inability to pick up and put down has always been a shortcoming. Don't think that women nowadays don't value men's self-confidence because they like gentle men. At any time, men's self-confidence has always been a quality that women like. A man Lack of self-confidence and submissive behavior in life will leave a woman with the impression of being spineless.”

"Care: It seems that this is more suitable for women, but it is not. Both parties need the other's sincere care. After a hard day at home, no one can just say that they are tired, regardless of the other's feelings. A man who can take the initiative to take on housework must be More popular than men who wait for women to wait on them.”

"You three men should learn from this."