Reborn in that autumn

"In today's society, the pursuit of vanity and magnificence, singing and dancing, and living in debauchery are just passing smoke and ethereal things, and you lose your mind by playing with things. Give your woman the best return and give her a relatively relaxed material, spiritual and psychological living environment. "

"A man is synonymous with responsibility and responsibility, and is the backbone of a family."

“A man must first be filial.

No one can escape the scope of filial piety for our body, hair and skin. As long as we come to this world, we must be filial, because without our parents, there would be no us. We not only have to be filial to our parents, but also to our grandparents and grandparents. Grandma is also the object of our filial piety.It is everyone's obligation to fulfill their filial piety, so men must fulfill their filial piety. This is an unshirkable responsibility.Therefore, if a man is not filial, he will be despised by everyone and will be looked down upon by everyone.As long as there is unfilial behavior, you will definitely be looked down upon by others, let alone whether you will have a family in the future. It is difficult for such a person to form a family, and it is also difficult for other women to have confidence in him. "

“Be caring and loving towards your wife.

A man marries a wife to give her warmth, and a wife is there to care for. She is willing to spend her whole life accompanying you, so you have to spend your whole life caring for her. When others walk out of your own home and enter your door, Then you are responsible for her.No matter what faults our wives have, we must expand our minds. Unless she destroys your bottom line as a man, we must have a forgiving heart.As the saying goes: "Men take care of the outside world, women take care of the inside." Behind every successful man there is a woman who works silently. This is all justified, because men work hard outside and do not have much time to take care of their families. All domestic affairs must be borne by his wife. Only when the family affairs are taken care of can a man feel at ease when working outside.Therefore, a man must be responsible for his wife and love and care for her. "

", devoted to his children.

Children are the crystallization of parents' love and a symbol of their affection. Since men are responsible for their wives, then men need to be responsible for their children.Children need the love of both parents from an early age. They cannot do without the other parent. Without one parent, the child's life will be incomplete.In fact, mothers teach their children verbally, and fathers set an example for their children. They must give their children a good childhood. Therefore, fathers must be responsible enough for their children. "

"Men have a lot of responsibilities. Don't complain. This is what we should do. We have no reason to complain. Since you have chosen a certain path, you must be responsible, be filial to your parents, and be responsible to your family. This is what a man should do." What a man really is.”

Some people say: "A man's biggest responsibility is to make money, because money is the foundation of family happiness."

Someone said: "A man's responsibility is to make his family better."

Some people also say: "A man's responsibility and responsibility is to live his life well."

"Different men have different definitions of responsibility. Because everyone has a different growth environment and different views, the judgment and boundaries of responsibility are different."

"Actually, a man's responsibility is nothing more than to do three things:

First of all, we must fulfill our obligation to support our parents.

It is said: "Filial piety comes first among all good deeds."Whether a man has fulfilled his responsibilities can be understood by looking at his attitude towards his parents.

In this life, we only owe our parents, and we will never be able to repay our parents' kindness to us, because our parents will always give to us without asking for anything in return, and they will always be our strongest support.

People often say: "When I get rich, I will definitely honor my parents."

These people are always waiting for themselves to be rich, but little do they know that their parents simply cannot afford to wait. Every day they wait, their parents' life is reduced by one day.

The tragedy of a child wanting to be raised but not being treated by his parents is happening all the time.

Being filial to parents must be one of the greatest responsibilities of a man, because this can reveal the meaning of our lives.

As the saying goes: "When parents are alive, there is still a place to come in life; when parents are gone, there is only a way back in life."

“I used to hear my colleagues lament that when their parents were still alive, they didn’t honor their parents well and didn’t spend more time with them. At that time, they just thought they were annoying. But after their parents passed away, I realized that it was the love my parents had for me and the love I felt for my parents. I owe you a lot, so I always regret it in my heart.

Colleagues often remind us: "Have a better attitude towards your parents and spend more time with your parents when you have time, because every day that goes by means that your parents have one less day."

In reality, many men's filial piety towards their parents is actually at the most basic stage. They always think that by providing their parents with adequate food and clothing and providing them with material satisfaction, they have fulfilled their filial piety.

"But in fact, this is far from enough for parents."

"It's easy for children to buy cars and houses for their parents when they have money, but the hardest thing to do is not to look down upon their parents."

"To truly care for your parents, you should treat them kindly, give them more spiritual satisfaction, and accompany them more so that they will not leave alone."

"You are about to go to college now. You probably haven't noticed that your parents are getting older."

"Right now, their changes are a little less. Wait another year or two. After you graduate from college, their changes will become more and more obvious."

"So no matter how busy you are or how far away you are, remember to go home and spend time with your family."

Li Zichen and others nodded in agreement.

"As the saying goes: "If the upper beam is not straight, the lower beam is crooked." Parents are always their children's first teachers. Parents' attitudes towards their parents will naturally be learned by their children. Therefore, if you want your family to get better and better, inheritance cannot be passed down naturally. No, parents must set a good example for their children.

Secondly, we must fulfill our obligation to educate and accompany ourselves.

In reality, many men believe that as long as they fulfill their child-rearing obligations and send their children to school, they will have fulfilled their father's responsibilities.

But in fact, for a man, only when he fulfills his obligation to educate and accompany his children can he truly fulfill his responsibility.

For children, companionship is indispensable, and father's love is also indispensable, which will affect the child's healthy mental growth.

As the saying goes: "It's the father's fault if he raises someone but doesn't teach him."

A father’s top priority is his children’s education.

Because a father can teach his children how to be a man and how to learn to take on their own responsibilities, which are things that mothers cannot teach through words and deeds.

Parents are their children's first teachers, especially the more powerful father figure, which will affect their children's life. "