Reborn in that autumn

Many sufferings in life are actually caused by people themselves. A person's thoughts and words will plant a cause. Whether the result will be a bitter fruit or a good fruit in the future is self-inflicted.

Grievances come as soon as you open your mouth.

The heart thinks something, the mouth speaks something, and things go their way.People who often complain about grievances will have more and more grievances, and negative energies attract each other.How can people who often talk about grievances get better and better luck? Everyone will have some unevenness in their life, and everything will not be smooth sailing. Life needs to seek good fortune and avoid misfortune, which is the pursuit of smooth sailing.

Gossips are spoken with open mouth.

As the saying goes, those who are right and wrong are right and wrong. People who are right and wrong are inspired by right and wrong. This is a natural law.If you see a person who often talks about the rights and wrongs of others and gossips a lot, you will know that this person has a miserable life.A miserable life does not necessarily mean poverty. There is no joy in the heart and a person is unhappy, but that does not mean a miserable life.If you want to be a blessed person, don't listen to gossip.

If you are provocative, speak with your mouth.

When the sky is crazy, it rains, and when people are crazy, disaster happens.If you are arrogant, provocative and arrogant, you will be humiliated in the end. You should be humble and kind to accumulate blessings for yourself.Compared with everything in the universe, human beings are just a tiny speck of dust. No matter how capable a person is, no matter how high his status is, he will have more powerful opponents.

He uses bad words and curses when he opens his mouth.

Bad words are the root of harm in life.

I saw one in a book.A story about cause and effect. There is a girl. Her grandmother was very good at cursing. In her old age, she suddenly developed a sore on her tongue. She tried many medicines but could not cure it. Finally, it rotted into her throat. She tossed and turned in pain and could not eat or drink. She died like this. .

You must know that our language has two aspects, one is about merits, and the other is about faults. Whether it is merit or demerit depends entirely on one's own words and deeds.

Sometimes, the speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentional. The consequences of gossip are immeasurable. Gossip is like a random bomb placed on one's body, which may explode at any time.

Whether in the workplace or in life, don’t talk about yourself, let alone others.Take care of your mouth. No matter you are a "talkative woman" or a "talkative man", you will not be liked.Stay away from the circle of right and wrong.Just know your own affairs and don't gossip with the people around you.There is no airtight wall in the world. Sooner or later, gossip will be added to the ears of the person concerned.

If someone speaks ill of others in front of you, just keep smiling.

Back then, I encountered a tragedy caused by gossip.

The criminal is a man in his 30s and his family comes from rural areas.

It was hard to find a date.

Unexpectedly, being gossiped about by others led to his fiancée breaking up with him.

The reason for the crime was that his fiancée proposed to break up with him.The person who caused Lao Yan to separate was a middle-aged woman.

The middle-aged woman secretly spoke ill of the prisoner to his fiancée.After the prisoner found out, he was so filled with hatred that he could not face the reality.

On a dark and windy night, he couldn't control his impulse. He picked up a sharp kitchen knife and went to the middle-aged woman's house.

The middle-aged woman’s husband is a teacher at a nearby primary school, and he doesn’t come home because he has something to do at school at night.Middle-aged women are the kind of people who like to gossip and drop by whenever they have nothing to do, and they are not at home either.There are only four poor children in the family.The two older children are girls, twelve or thirteen years old, and the younger ones are two boys, seven or eight years old.

Every injustice has its owner, and every debt has its owner.The murderer came for the middle-aged woman.Since the woman was not around, he became so mad that he brutally attacked the four children.

The four children didn't see what was going on. In panic, they held each other's hands and ran out crying.

Finally, the eldest daughter ran out. Although the second daughter ran out, she was slashed in the face, her nose and mouth were cut open, and her flesh was bloody. Unfortunately, the two little boys were hacked to death.

The prisoner did not look for the middle-aged woman again and surrendered directly.

When the murderer was executed, his parents did not come, but his sister and brother-in-law collected the body on a Kang mat.

Sometimes gossip can kill people