1987: Sleepless Tonight

"That's for sure. If two people can't even talk to each other, you say this, he says that, you say one thing and he says another, how can they live together?" Su Jin nodded, "It's too boring, but it's not You have to go to the township to talk about the partner, you can talk about it in school first."

"Indeed, you can talk about it in school first, but being in a different place can also cause relationship problems. After you get married, you will definitely have a baby. You can't take care of it alone. Most of the time, your parents will help take care of it. It's likely that you will be in a place by yourself. In one place, the child is with the grandparents in another place. A short break is better than a wedding, but if it is always a short break, then the family will be broken up." Lu Hao said.

Many things need to be experienced before one can understand them, or it may take a certain amount of time to understand them. Although it is not the words of parents or people who have experienced them, they must be right, but many times, what these people say is not Can provide very valuable experience as a reference.

Think in advance whether you should do this, and whether there is a better way. If you must do this, you must at least have a warning in your mind. What should you do if something bad happens in the future? response.

It's like marrying far away. It doesn't necessarily mean that marrying far away is wrong. There are many people who marry far away and live very happily. However, marrying far away also encounters some practical problems, such as how your own taste will differ from the local taste after you marry. No, the local people like to eat pasta, but I like to eat rice, the local people like to eat random stews, but I only like to eat stir-fried vegetables, the local people like to eat spicy food, and I don’t like it if it’s spicy, but I can’t stand any spicy food.

When you get along occasionally in the early stage, the other party may treat you as a guest out of politeness and respect. A family of seven or eight people will cook rice and stir-fry according to your taste, without adding spicy food. But when you get married, you will be married. Finally, it is impossible for all other members of the family to still cook and stir-fry according to your taste, without adding any spiciness.

At this time, you have to take the initiative to give up your own eating habits and cater to other people's eating habits.

Another issue is the climate, whether you can get used to it, and being far away from your original family. You may only see them once or twice a year, or even once every few years. This kind of emotional alienation from your original family can Can't stand it, etc.

These are all things to consider.

Lu Hao is now telling his sister-in-law Su Jin in advance about the problems she may encounter. In fact, these problems can be avoided. That is to use the resources and connections at hand to arrange a good job in advance when she is assigned a job after graduation. workplace, and a good job position.

"What your brother-in-law said is really possible. When you assign work, you must tell your brother-in-law in advance and ask your brother-in-law to find someone to arrange a good unit for you. You don't have to be a Officer, as a leader, at least don't be assigned to remote places. The conditions in remote places are indeed very difficult. You, a girl, can't stand it. It's inconvenient and it will affect your future marriage and children." Su Min said.

She was really worried.

There are four brothers and sisters in the family, three girls and one son. The one she has the best relationship with is Su Jin, and the one who cares about her the most is Su Jin. Su Jin is admitted to college. She is really happy for Su Jin and hopes that Su Jin will succeed. Life can be better in the future.

"It won't be so unlucky. Just assign them to remote towns, right?" Su Jin said, "It's also possible to assign them to the city."

"You also said that it is possible. Since there is a way to avoid it, let's make this possibility a certainty. We will definitely be assigned to the city, and we will be assigned to Jiangcheng. I can be closer to my parents and family. Isn't this better? No. Go gamble." Lu Hao said, "But it's still early for you to get assigned for graduation. We'll wait until your senior year."

In her previous life, the unit assigned to Su Jin was pretty good, and her official career was relatively smooth. She was not assigned to a township. However, her arrival made the wings of butterflies flutter. Will it have an impact on my sister-in-law's future life? not sure.

Therefore, it is better to rely on connections before assigning work, find someone to arrange it, and go through the back door, which will be safer.

"Xie Sha, Duan Fang and the others also said that working with you will earn you a lot of money. They want to work with you in the future, and even wait until graduation to work for you." Su Jin said.

The wages Lu Hao gave them have been settled, and each of them has 50 yuan.

This is a day's wages.

This income is higher than the monthly income of many workers. It is no wonder that even though Xie Sha and Duan Fang's family conditions are good, they still miss this kind of work and even think about the next time.

"Generally speaking, you won't get 50 yuan for a day's work. This is for your sake, so I give you a part-time salary of 50 yuan a day." Lu Hao said, "Of course, if you want to work with me after graduation, I'll do it, and I'm very welcome to do it. If there are other students in your school who have such an idea, you can come to me in advance and say hello to me. You don't necessarily have to wait for graduation assignments before choosing to follow me. .”

"Before the school assigns jobs, you can use your free time to work part-time with me while you are still in school. While earning some living expenses, you can also better understand the work under my hands, or in other words, understand yourself. If you are interested in a job, see if it is a job that you want to do for a long time. After the job is assigned, make a comparison, so that when making a choice, you will not be too hasty or lack of understanding. Making bad choices.”

Lu Hao would very much welcome college students to work under him. Even if their majors were not suitable, as long as they came in, they would be able to show a different working atmosphere to the company.

College students are very rare. This rareness is not only reflected in the admission rate. In college, the knowledge learned is on the one hand, and on the other hand, in college, because the information exposed is different, it leads to thinking. The methods are different. This part is actually more important for college students.

Many people who have gone to college, graduate school, or Ph.D. will find that when they go back to meet and get along with their elementary school classmates, junior high school classmates, and high school classmates, they will find that the friends they used to have fun with in elementary school, junior high school, and high school are now very good friends. We are very happy friends, but we have no way to chat. We have very different views on some issues, and can even be said to be polar opposites.

People are still the same people, but the things in their brains are different, their experiences are different, their experiences are different, and their cognitions are different, so they have different views on the same thing.